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Friendship
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Girl thinks I raped her


Posted Saturday August 8 2009, 3:21 pm

This is a big deal. I have known this girl since we were five, and she was really drunk at a party. I helped her around and took her to the bathroom and stuff when she needed to puke, but I never did anything with/to her. My former friends were telling me I should, but she was waaaay too gone. I didn't. The next morning, they told her I took her clothes off and put my junk in her hand(for lack of a better way to say it, sorry). I got drunk the night before, but the most I did was thrust my pelvis near her. I had clothes on though, it wasn't a big deal. It was a joke. Now, she doesn't trust me and won't talk to me. Her friends, who were my really good friends, also won't talk to me. I told her I didn't do anything, but she doesn't really believe me. What do I do? What can I do?

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different around him..


Posted Saturday August 8 2009, 1:16 am

19-female.

why is it that i feel the need to act subtle and shy around my best guy friend who i also have a crush on?

i'm not myself when i'm around him. i know we would have soooo much more fun if i was myself, because usually i'm crazy, i never think before i speak, i'm a craaaazy lady. i talk loud, i dance and sing like a mad woman (: i just love to have fun.

but when i'm around him i barely talk, i always think before i say something to make sure i'm not going to sound stupid. i don't sing or dance, in fear of looking dumb!

but if i do start acting like myself i'm afraid he will think its a little werid and out of the ordinary, yah know? i always feel like i have to impress him...

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Jealous friend?


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 11:05 pm

My friend can get on my last nerves. Anything exciting I tell her s do she has to have something exciting all of a sudden too, she is also a pretty big liar.How do I solve this.

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Posted Friday August 7 2009, 10:24 pm




I am 15 and me and my friend thought it would be funny, to say we were seeing each other to are year, we decided to do it even though I was having second thoughts, but my friend said its just a joke, but I thought of it at a test to see if people are homophobic at are school cause I thought most people are. My other friend told some people with out me realise, so she started the rumour and she told to girls and they come and said to me is it true and was just in shock so I didn't say anything. the rumour was (it has changed since, I’m not sure what is though) that me and my friend, a girl had kissed each other in the high street my shopping with another friend. the rumours spread like wild, by lunch time which was ...

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???


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 10:14 pm

Hi my name is Alexandra. I am 15 years old. And I started my period at the age of 12. When I was in 6th grade. And I've been have them normal but February 2009 I had my period and I didn't had my period until now May 14,2009. I touched myself...BUT NOT inside of my vagina. Will I get pregnant for doing that? I hope not... I don't want to be pregnant at the age of 15! I am too young! My parents would kill me! well just let me know if I am pregnant or not by doing that kind of stuff...by the way... remember, I DIDN'T TOUCH THE INSIDE OF MY VAGINA....ONLY THE OUTSIDE OF MY VAGINA!.

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ITS SoOoO EmbArIsinG!!


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 10:13 pm

ok, i/m turning 14 in like a few weeks.. and my mom wont let me go out w/ this guy i like alot... i liked him 4 like 4 months n now he stared to like ask me to go to the mall n stuff.... n then when i asked my mom she said yes.. and then me and my best friend n i got in a fight... n when me n my bff went to the mall w. a bunch of pple.. shes like.. u'r gunna get raped.. n i didnt get touched!!(only followed) but then shes like.. i would rather you and anthony go together.. i trust her more then maddy (my best friend) soo yesterday he asked me to go bowling w/ him.. n i asked today.. n shes like.."sure you can, but i need to talk to his dad so i know that he's going too..." ITS SO EMBARISING!!! PLeaSe help..

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hurt,


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 10:13 pm

well. this is the thing, theres this guy. he kept looking at me and we i saw him he always looked at me and looked like he was talking to me his friends. not in a bad way, i would never of thought he liked me sooo i went with that anyways. i thought he liked me and all, and i started to like him too. but then i saw that he started going out with his ex-girlfriend and NOW im like soo hurt. i dont even know if he liked me or thought that i liked him and thats why he was like looking at me and talking about me [i think he was]

signed.
hurt and confused

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judgment


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 6:13 pm

i had recently started a new school and i have problems making friends. it's not that it's me, it's just i'm very shy & the gurls won't even give me a chance. I'm frineds with most of the guys, but like i said i get pretty bad vibes from all the girls. they act as though they are too good to hang otu with someone new. what should i do?

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friendship and hating friends


Posted Thursday August 6 2009, 9:38 pm

there is a girl that i use to fight with a lot but now i am sick of fights so i'm pretending to be her friend because i'm real good friends with her best friend. The girl i hate is also ignoring her best friend and hanging out with this other girl . her best friend notices but still likes her and still defends her when i try to tell her how i feel about the girl i hate. im sure if i tell her i dont like her bestfriend she wont like me either. how can i get out of being friends with the girl i hate but still be friends with her best
friend and my other friends?

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My Best Friend


Posted Thursday August 6 2009, 9:38 pm

my best friend and I have known eachother for like 2 years. I've been hanging out with other people and all of a sudden she starts hanging out with other people but I always try to make time for her. I have just been realizing our friendship is dying. I try talking to her but it seems like shes upset with me or not intrested. What should i do?

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i dont know what to do.


Posted Thursday August 6 2009, 10:35 am

well iv'e been feeling that not many people like me recently.
i don't really see any signs.
but this guy that i would talk to forever online and at school asked me out. i said yes and broke up with him 5 days later because i do not want an online relationship.
he took it hard and hasnt talked to me since.
it makes me feel really bad about myself.
and that ill never ever find a guy.
cuz im too picky :/
ugh. please help in any way.
some advice.
thank you.

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My friend takes drugs


Posted Thursday August 6 2009, 4:57 am


My friend is taking lots of drugs.
I asked her what she's taken and she listed a lot of things including Crack and LSD...
Shrooms, E, pot... Much, much more.

)': It hurts me a lot to know this...
What can I do?

I want to help her...
But when she's not on drugs, she gets really depressed. and Cuts her self...

She use to cut herself, then got on drugs... now doesn't cut herself...


What can I do or say?

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my friend doesn't know how to say no.


Posted Thursday August 6 2009, 12:35 am

17/f, my best friend is kind of a slut. like last year, she was all prude & stuff, and if i ever mentioned what i did, she would be like.. "That's so bad, you're going to burn in hell!" & i'd just kind of laugh, and it was whatever. well anyway, all of a sudden this year, she just turned kind of slutty. like.. her & this boy have been on and off dating since last year. they are really close, and he is the sweetest boy ever. well, anyway, she went and she cheated on him & fooled around with this other random guy, who she didn't really know, & they ended up dating, and she dated the really nice sweet boy too. well, i told her how she really shouldn't do that, and all her friends were pissed too, because they are...

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I suspect my bff is dating my ex boyfriend!!


Posted Wednesday August 5 2009, 11:31 pm

Hey I'm 15 years old... my bff started to be like bff with my ex boyfriend...but that was normal and she talked with me about everything he did with her ex girlfriend (the one after me)... but lately she's been acting really weird... like texting with him (I know it's him cuz I saw once a message), and in her b.day they were acting like bf and gf!! I told her abour that and she said to me that he wasn't her type at all and that she would never date her bff ex boyfriend... but yesterday I found a conversation of them in my computer and they said to each other I love You too much for my likeness... and this week like two days she's been I don't know where because she doesn't want to tell anyone... and the other they she called ME to go to her...

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Is friendship for the best?


Posted Wednesday August 5 2009, 9:41 am

14/f

I have this very close guy friend of mine and for a little while we dated but it didn't work out. So now we're just super good friends. But lately things have gotten pretty serious and we've kissed and started showing affection towards each other even though were just friends. Just a couple of minutes ago we got off the phone from a seven hour talk into the early hours of the morning and honestly, I don't know what it is I want. I feel like we're meant to go out with each other because we share many of the same qualities and feel very strongly for each other. Although, the thing is, whenever I try picturing us together again I can never seem to see it working out or going well. I always see it as being awkward and painfu...

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friend develops erection


Posted Wednesday August 5 2009, 1:59 am

I'm a 14-year-old girl. As I was leaving school the other day, I was walking with a casual male friend. As we were talking, he developed a
very large, very obvious erection. I was so embarrassed for him! I pretended not to notice, and didn't say anything, but he seemed
mortified, and left in a hurry. What should I have done?

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3rd wheel?


Posted Tuesday August 4 2009, 2:07 pm

my best friend is not half as social as i am. i love to spend most of my time with her. but when im not with her i enjoy hanging out with other people. which is completely normal! but the problem is that she doesn't really have any other friends besides me. and i always feel bad when i want to spend the night out or attend a party of another friends without her because she isn't invited. or if she does tag along i fear she feels like a 3rd wheel. but than again i feel its not really my fault she doesn't have anyone besides me. don't get me wrong i love this girl to death. but i cant hangout with her 24/7! what do u think i should do?

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best friend likes me? yes or no?


Posted Tuesday August 4 2009, 3:43 am

16/f

i have a best friend who is now seventeen years old. we were boyfriend & girlfriend a year ago.. but we lasted about three months. but the thing is that i only saw him as a best friend than a boyfriend, including the fact that i rarely got to see him. and apparently he didn't get over me for a couple of months, but later on he did. he didn't like anybody for a while, only a little crush here and there. he's been single for almost a month now, but i've had a couple of boyfriends after him. i am now in a relationship with my current boyfriend for seven months. and me and my best friend still talks alot like usual. once school had ended, and summer started. i went on vacation, out of the country... and didn't have a com...

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She is soooooooo dumb..


Posted Monday August 3 2009, 11:12 pm



My friend, Her name is Kelsey.

She is dating this guy who I can't stand at all. Now, A few months or so ago there was this huge arguement between me and my best friend they broke up and Tim told her that I said she cheated on him..wtf? Anyway, A week later Kelsey and Tim got back together and she kept it a secret from me the entire time and our friendshp started going downhill a little bit when I told her I didn't say nothing. Not only did she avoid the problem and not talk to me but our friendship is STILL not the same. She will go awhile without talking to me then call me wanting to hang out and spend the night at my house...not only that but I live in apartment and I have rules to keep the television down a...

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reparing a friendship?


Posted Monday August 3 2009, 9:26 pm

So ive been friends with this girl tanya basically my whole life and last summer we became bestfriends. than towards the end of the year we started being friends with these group of girls..and within the group tanya was just really bitchy and just overall a bad friend so we all decided not to be friends with her..however, a couple monthes later now, im starting to miss her a lott and i want my bestfriend back. so i texted her and she said it would take time before we ever became friends again..but the problem is i dont know where to go from here..do i text her or do i wait it out for her to text me. im so confused! helppp!

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