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how do i get help for my mother or some advice??
Posted Monday November 3 2008, 9:23 pm
ok well my mom and the rest of my family been suffering becuase i have sister who is like 15 and wants to get her way and one day she didnt come home frm skool we got worried and we reported her missing so about late evening the police called and told us that they had her there with them so we were at church after church we went there they questioned us and my grandpa and we found out alot what she told them such as that my grandpa molested her wen we know its not true!!! my grandpa is a pastor and he very hard working who is hardly ever home and brianna is hardly ever home also she doesnt come striaght home frm skool well she says she goes to skool wen we get a call that she wasnt in skool wen she rides the skool bus so butt i guees she ...
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OH CRAP!
Posted Sunday November 2 2008, 9:50 pm
15/F
Okay, big problem. For my birthday, that was in mid-October, I got my first diamond necklace. (worth over 200$) And today I realized that I don't know where it is. What the eff should I do first. My mom will freak!!!
HELP A.S.A.P.
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why???
Posted Friday October 31 2008, 11:53 pm
k my mother met this guy some time through a friend but i never met him. while we were in memphis she was going to go out to the club with him and spend the night at his house and she didnt even ask me if i was ok with it ( i was going to stay with my cousins). then the next night she was going to stay over there again but i got sick so she didnt go. and now he is coming into town and staying at our house and im not ok with it at all. i mean she divorced my dad when i was six and i cannot have some strang man sleeping in my house. i'm not ready to meet him yet at all so i volunteered to sleep at my grandmas but my mother said she was going to have him sleep in his truck after i suggested it. my question is if she says they are just friends ...
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mom and sex
Posted Friday October 31 2008, 4:52 pm
I'm going to become sexually active soon. Its inevitable. I'm 17 (turning 18 in March). I'm in college, I'm responsible etc.
My mom and I don't really talk about sex. I never got the birds and the bees talk, but its semi-comfortable to talk about my period and puberty stuff with her.
I want my mom to be supportive and I don't want to hide things from her. I'm not saying I want her to be jumping for joy because I'm going to be sexually active, but I want to come to her for advice or support.
How do I get both of us comfortable to talk about stuff like that?
By the way my friend said that I should say "Mom, I think I might need to go on the pill," but I already am (my mom knows). Its to regulate my period.
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My Parent's wont believe I'm gay
Posted Thursday October 30 2008, 7:42 am
(Female)
my parents have this rule right? and its that no boys are allowed to stay in my room overnight until im 18. they say its cus it would be like, inviting us to have sex and they dont approve of it. - which is weird cus my bf is allowed in my room till like, 1am and we end up having sex then anyway. thing is, when we've discussed it in the past, i asked them what would happen if i was gay - whether they would not allow my best friends who have stayed in my room for the past 10 years or so stay over any more. and what would happpen if i was bi - would they not allow any one to stay over? wel anywho, they ended up saying that it was "like me" to just say i was gay to be allowed guys to stay over and then as soon...
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Younger brother manipulates parents to think he is an angel so I get blamed
Posted Wednesday October 29 2008, 10:37 pm
I am a 17 year old male from PA. I have a younger brother of 15. He completely manipulates my parents to think he does no wrong (actually had my mother say this to me) and I get all the blame. And the kid is a real jerk. I mean class "A" moron. And I just don't know how to get him to stop or to get my parents to see the truth. I have tried telling them and I still get yelled at. Please somebody help me.
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strict-mom
Posted Wednesday October 29 2008, 8:55 am
My mom doesnt trust me at all im 17 years old im in high school last year in high school; i have good grades i went to boces for certified nursing assistant i feel like im doing everything im suppose too .my sister got pregnant when she was 16 years old i was 13 years old at the time my mom was dissapointed and upset .ever since then my life has been a living hell im not allowed to go anywhere but school im not allowed to have friends i cant communicate with no one if shes going out she takes the house phone with her i dont have a cell. and if i do go out for a walk she locks me outside (i live in long island NY and its freezing)she get so mad and says shes done with me that she doesnt care about me a bunch of stuff.im going to college soo...
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moving
Posted Tuesday October 28 2008, 7:01 pm
hi.
um im thinking about moving.
i live with my dad.
i have been since 5th grade.
[15 turning 16 now]
yeah i live in a really small town in mn and like my mom lives in a city 60 miles away in nd.
yeah.
um i cant live with my mom tho because she drives me insane but my sister said i could live with her. my mom, who has full custody over me, said that i would be able to live with my sister.
i dont know if i should move.
i hate it where i live now.
its so small and like everybody knows everything.
i have some friends where my mom lives and yeah..
if i lived with my sister i could get my license because im 15 and thats the age there and mn 16 yeah so that woul...
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My mom thinks I'm his girlfriend..?
Posted Monday October 27 2008, 12:22 am
I've been best friends with this guy for like three years, and there's nothing more than friendship going on, and probably never will be. But, my mom is just convinced that I'm his girlfriend. I used to deny it everytime, but she keeps going on about it, so I stopped saying anything....ugh I'm sick of it. I tried telling her that we're only friends, but she won't believe me...what do I do?
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My Son's Father
Posted Friday October 24 2008, 2:03 pm
sorry this is long.
For starters I am 17 years old. My son's father is 18. My Son is 1. I moved from Ohio to Missouri this past June.
Reasons Why He Hasn't Seen His Son:
- My son's father's father said he was going to stick his "thing" down my sons throat
- My son's father said the same thing and also
called him a bastard
- My son's father had my jumped by his two sisters and his brothers girlfriend
- He sold drugs and screwed up and one of his "associates" beat me up (a guy)
I let him take him for a weekend because i thought i was being a bad mother by not letting him see him he brought him home (after he refused to bring him home until monday) he had sno...
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Mom, mom, mom.
Posted Wednesday October 22 2008, 9:48 pm
My mom, jeeze where do i start.
Well, she kind of over reacts its like she worries for me. Example: i'll have like a project do tomorrow and she'll be all like "Do it now." and all concerned and I'll be all calm. Btw, I have a bad case of procrostitnation[sp?] It's not like i never get it done i do and she knows that too. i'm a straight A student and she's still concerned that i wont get it done.
Jeeze, dont get me wrong my moms nice and all and i love her to death. she just drives me crazy sometimes.
I don't know what I'm asking here ,but maybe you can figure it out and help me and what not. Maybe like give me some ways to beat procrostitnation[sp?].
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I don't know what to do!
Posted Wednesday October 22 2008, 4:05 pm
So i am an african american who straightens their hair. I did it six years ago and i really regret it. So i told my mom i didn't want to straighen my hair the day we were going to do it and she starts yelling and screaming. She also hits me too. So during this summer I tried to tell her again. She did the same thing. I even wrote a letter and she still didn't listen. I don't know what to do !!!!!!!!!! She doesn't understan That this is my hair not hers and that i hate how i look like. I told her that too. Anytime i try to tell her he hits and yells at me. I need to convince her!!!!!!!!!! I'm really getting upset.
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my friend has been abused
Posted Tuesday October 21 2008, 9:29 pm
Background information: I'm a junior in high school and I have a friend who is a freshman, so she is about 14 I'd say.
My friend's mom used to physically abuse her when she was younger. Slap her and what not. My friend claims she doesn't do this anymore..I'm a little skeptical. But, the mother still verbally abuses my friend...badly. I've seen what happens when they even fight on the phone...horrible.
My friend has been fighting me very had because I don't want her to be in that house under those circumstances because no child deserves to be abused in anyway, ever. I want to call social services or the police or something...but what do I say? Obviously, I've never been placed in this situation and I have no pro...
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I got punched in the Face.
Posted Tuesday October 21 2008, 12:35 am
15/f
sikkkee, my brothers friends are ALWAYS pulling pranks on me, today they got me with this card trick and through the cards right at my face And it hurt really bad, I need something to get them back. Seriously they ALWAYS do this!
anything will help.
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raceism, my mom n my best friend
Posted Saturday October 18 2008, 6:17 pm
im in a white family, and my mom is raceist. my best friend is black, n i showed my mom my group picture of before homecoming, and she was like omg who is that n poined to her n im like ..thats sammy my best friend. now she doesnt trust me at all and keeps askin if shes comin whenever i go somewhere. im staying friends with her wether my mom likes it or not, but what can i do i hate this? i dont see anything wrong with people from different races bein best friends and neither does sammy. only my mom does. im 14/f shes 15/f
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Parent passing away
Posted Wednesday October 15 2008, 10:05 pm
My mom passed away recently and left certain things to each of my many siblings. One sibling mentioned that our mom didn't own much and left behind very little. I don't know how she meant that but it bothered me somehow. I don't want to pass away and my children think "I didn't leave much". I didn't want or expect anything from my mom but feel bad someone had the thought that she left little (material things) behind. My question is, do children really expect to inherit a lot from parents? Or what would a child (on average) expect or want to inherit? I wouldn't want to disappoint my kids (too much).
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parents...
Posted Wednesday October 15 2008, 7:05 pm
My parents wont let me and my boyfriend be home alone together, is there any way I can convince them to? Like by saying things like I have good grades, etc..?
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mom's bday
Posted Wednesday October 15 2008, 12:09 pm
what should i get my mom for her 50th birthday? something meaningful. not like flowers or lotion.
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I wanna be her friend but seems impossible!! plz help
Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 7:03 pm
Sorry a bit long
ok so my Brother has been going out with this girl for over a year now and till this day I havent been able to be friends with her. She acts weird sometimes now Im not saying its all her fault but Ive tried many ways but it just doesnt work out well.
She wont talk to me unless Im the one who talks to her in the first place.. It is sooo hard for me to just start a conversation but I decided to try my hardest in order to talk to her..so I did but it didnt work she only answers what I ask but she doesnt even try to keep the conversation going! When we see each other she wont say Hi unless I say hi. I think she bipolar or something cause like one day she will be all smiles when im around and the next she ...
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Me and My mom having problems....=[
Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 6:24 pm
okayy so im 14 and i am a female! so okayy there is this 18 year old guy dat my mom wants me to be with but i dnt want to because i am in LOVE wit dis other guy but i dnt want to tell her dat i like dis other guy cause all me and her do is fight and it causes alot of stress towards me i think she likes dis guy alot for me cause he is my mom's bestfriends son but O MY GOSH i DO NOT like him what should i do or tell my mom???.....thanx
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