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How to talk a mom into buying a car
Posted Monday August 17 2009, 2:01 am
17/f my friend really wants a car any kind of car if it runs it's good. And her mom said msybe how can she talk her into getting one??
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Big problemo with amigos
Posted Sunday August 16 2009, 1:56 am
Well as you read i have a problem with my friends. My friends dont like aeropostale and i well pretty much luv it. My friend John says hollister all the way. Shawndeep says ew aeropostale. On the first day of school i wanna wear an aeropostale shirt but am afraid. I dont wanna be like a follower but if i wear it i dont want to not be stylish if they don't like it. I wouldnt want to change my friends and jerpodize my friendships rite now. So should i wear my shirt or just put on a shirt with no aeropostale on it? Oh and p.s. my bff Karina likes aeropostale and i am a 13/f
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I promised my friend I wouldn't tell anyone what she was doing
Posted Sunday August 16 2009, 12:07 am
my friend just told me that she has cut her wrist twice in the past week and she has tried to make herself throwup. She keeps telling me how she wants to die, and when I confront her about it she says how she would never do that, but how am I supposed to believe her? I care a lot about her, probably more than my own life, but I don't want anything to happen to her and it be my fault that I didn't tell anyone. I'm the only one she trusted to tell this to, and I really don't know if I can keep my promise not to tell anyone. Shouldn't I keep my promise to her though? We are all going to be juniors in high school, and I thought this was going to be a great year for us, but now I just want my friend to stop hurting herself. Please help me out, I don't know what to do to help her.
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Meeting an online friend.
Posted Saturday August 15 2009, 7:24 pm
I am traveling to Chicago this weekend, and I'm meeting a friend from the internet that I met on Advicenators [irony?] three years ago.
I know, you're thinking, "DON'T MEET SOMEONE YOU'VE MET ONLINE!" I know. It's dangerous. I've thought of this for the past three years. But, we've talked on the phone, we've texted back and forth, we're friends on Facebook, Myspace, and Twitter, I've seen videos of her and her friends hanging out, and so has she for me. I'm like 99.9% sure she is not a 45-year old molester that's held a 17 year old girl hostage for three years, just to continue a lie.
So, my question is, is it normal to be nervous? What kinds of things should we talk about? What should we do?
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from 3 to 2
Posted Saturday August 15 2009, 2:37 pm
so i have a friend, she has crushed on every single one of my guy friends. it didnt bother me to much before because the ones she liked before were the ones who already had their own crushes or just didnt want a girlfriend. now she is trying to get with one of my friends whose single and looking. they started texting and not they text eachother even when they are in the same room and they'll both just ignore me. i got so mad i told both of them they can have eachother and i will just walk away because this is way to much drama for me and i cant deal with it. now they both decided they dont want to go out because they're friendship with me is more important. but whose to say this girl wont go after another one of my guy friends. i dont see ...
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Penpals around the world
Posted Friday August 14 2009, 11:07 pm
Where can I sign up to be a penpal? I want a penpal from a different country (English speaking though) so we can talk about how the countries and customs are different. I am in the United States. Is there a website for this sort of thing? I don't have access to a bank account or anything either so it would have to be free...
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Is she in LOVE with a SHE?? CONFUSED!
Posted Friday August 14 2009, 9:00 pm
Help me make sense of this!!!! Two years ago I told my friend I had feelings for her that went deeper than friendship. (We are both females) She said she was SHOCKED when I told her. Although I don't think she was shocked at all. Keep in mind we live 1300 miles apart and she is in an unhappy marriage and has been for about 8 years, she has been married for 37 years and got married to get out of the house and away from her step-dad. (nothing sexual there, he was just mean). She is 55 years old and I am 48. Anyway at that time 2 years ago she denied feeling the same way towards me. We email often and just last week she flew up here to spend the week with me on vacation, left her husband home. During our time together that week she told me she...
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ex cheated, or did he?
Posted Friday August 14 2009, 6:26 pm
my last boyfriend(nicknamed kp)and i broke up in july. my friends comforted me and supported me, but three of my friends had a secret. when one of them(of the 3 friends) left for about 30min, so the other two decided to make the move. they were pretty shy about it. but they finally told me that my ex cheated on me with 10 other girls.
i was hurt, who wouldnt. i told some other friends and soon all my friends knew( well most, and thats alot). over myspace kp told me my friend gina tried to strangle him for it. and he told he never cheated on me, and that my friends said lies. im pretty mad at kp, but should i believe him?
14/f
MiCHii with love <33
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Birthday Party Drama
Posted Friday August 14 2009, 4:21 pm
Sunday is my best friend's daughter's birthday party. I'm her daughter's godmother, so she invited me & my boyfriend. I'd love to go, but the only problem is her boyfriend might be there. We used to be good friends with him, but there was a bunch of drama a while back so now me & my boyfriend really don't get along with him.
Do you think we should go to the party, or should we stay home to avoid any possible drama?
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umm.
Posted Friday August 14 2009, 11:22 am
okay well. i keep making excuses for a guy that wants to come over.
i think he has a girlfriend.
i dont think he should come over if he has a girlfriend.
but im nervous if he doesnt have one.
help!
i cant keep making up excuses.
its makin me feel really bad.
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need advice
Posted Thursday August 13 2009, 2:55 am
I'm really stuck..... so my supposed friend screwed me over big time. I was really into this guy fro two years well I was in the process of trying to move on...... my friend of like 7 years who I confided in about him everyday told me one day that she would never talk to him well we are at the same work and I have the habit of looking at the caller id well I went past him number in the caller id. I asked her about it and she started crying and said she didnt want me to get mad I told her not to lie that makes me more mad but then she had sex with him and lied again but eventually told me with a smirk on her face. Anyways I told her that I dont want to talk about him but everyday she tells me she is sorry and then tells me more stories about...
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Am I just being insecure?
Posted Wednesday August 12 2009, 11:00 pm
17/f. -ok my best friend and I
Were getting mcdonalds and she
Saw her cousin and her cousin was like oh how are we all going to the water park can your friend come and there was a short pause and she was like oh do you want to come? And she
Never mentioned this to me and she does have another best friend and she started making other excuses how she wasn't going to go anyway. I just feel insecure and I know she doesn't have to take me but I don't know what do you think? Oh and she has ditched me in the past..
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Am I Selfish?
Posted Wednesday August 12 2009, 5:21 pm
Okay so basically,I am 19 & I had a misscarriage almost 2 months ago, suffered rape about 3 years ago and suffer with panic attacks and quite severe depression.
The other day I got into a conversation with a friend as I text him saying, are you awake. This was about midnight, he text back with yeah why, I said I feel down and sad, and just wanted to talk to someone.
He asked me what was up and I just said, I was watching a program on tv called ''Underage & Pregnant'', I knew I didn't wanna watch it but at the same time, I had this urge to, so I did. And it left me feeling low.
He basically said, your not the only one whos been through this, my girlfriend had a miscarriage too and we didnt even k...
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confused//
Posted Tuesday August 11 2009, 12:37 pm
is it okay to not want people to go to your house?
cuz i always go to my friends houses.
do they want to come here?
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Not socializing like I want to be.
Posted Tuesday August 11 2009, 7:53 am
18/F just out of highschool. well, I've avoided social situations for the last few years. The only time I embraced them was when I had a "best friend" and felt good about myself. Now, I practically pray no one invites me anywhere. Like, if someone puts me on the guest list for a birthday party...I'll make up an excuse of why I can't go. Also, one reason I'm really insecure about hanging out in public is because I don't dance well. It sounds silly, but the people I would be hanging out with if I got over this anxiety would be getting jiggy with it and I'd just sit there and be uncomfortable! Help!
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I'm in love with this guyy who doesnt seem to want me:/
Posted Monday August 10 2009, 10:53 pm
18/f 18/m
Okayy so i met michael on Myspace and we talked for a while. So about two weeks later we actually met face to face and that same nighht he asked if i got sneak him in so i did. We had sex about three times with a condom but the 4th time we didnt use one and he got scared that i might get pregnant so he bought me the "plan b". And we never spoke to each other again.
So now 5 months later he texted saying he wanted to see me and me being so stupid i said yes and we had sex again and he told me he loved mee but that he didnt wanna be with me because he's leaving to the marines and i said i'd wait for him and all he said was that it wasn't gonna work out that wayy and walked out the door:(
what do ...
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bestfriend and her current boyfriend
Posted Monday August 10 2009, 1:42 pm
So my bestfriend just got a new boyfriend. When they first started going out they really didn't talk much and now he is her whole life. Which means she has forgotten about everyone else including me. We used to hang out all the time but I've only hung out with her twice this summer and both times she has blown me off for her boyfriend. He also isn't very nice to her and will ignore her and stuff. So i just want a nice way to tell her that her friends matter too but I don't want her to get mad at me. So any advice helps. Thank you!
14/f
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Was it really my fault?
Posted Sunday August 9 2009, 1:05 am
So a couple weeks ago I (a girl) broke up with my boyfriend. We had only been dating for about 10 months, but after about 5 months we started fighting all the time so i decided to end it so we could still be friends and wudn't end up fighting until we hated each other.
But, my best is a guy, and we hang out all the time, and now everyone is saying that I broke up with my bf becuz i was cheating with my friend. All of my other friends are convinced of this even though I tell them otherwise and think I am a complete b*tch. Did I make a a mistake breaking up with him? I know he is really upset about it, so is it my fault even if I didn't cheat? and what do i say to my friends to get them to stop accusing me? Plz help!
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Posted Saturday August 8 2009, 8:36 pm
Okay, well i jus got a boyfriend and my best friend is actin really jealous. I jus got my 1st kiss by him and she was happy for me yet upset at the same time. She older than me and hasnt had her 1st kiss yet and acts mad cause i got mine b4 her. Im jus busy worrying about her and how she feels instead of being happy about my new boyfriend. what should I do?
Well since im wrinting i have another problem, i am terrified to tell my dad about my boyfriend becuase he is two years older than me. My dad likes him, but im scared he is going to hate him after i tell him or he wont let us be together, but i kno if i dont tell him it will jus make matters worse. What should I do?
From,
CLUELESS
P.S. my mom knows
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How do I tell him I just want to be friends?
Posted Saturday August 8 2009, 5:56 pm
I dated this guy two years ago. I broke up with him also. Basically, we started talking again a few months ago..and I have feelings for him. He, however, has no feelings for me. But! At first I didn't know that. I kept telling him I like him, me being stupid, didn't pick up on the fact that he never even said he liked me in the first place. All he wants is sex. Whenever we talk, it's hard to have a normal conversation because all he likes to do is flirt and/or do stuff. And, for some reason I feel by talking about other stuff, I'm boring him? Anyway. Last week, I finally had the guts to talk about me and him. I was tired of always flirting and doing stuff with him..meanwhile, he has never told me how he really feels. I said, "I like y...
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