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band with friend
Posted Wednesday August 26 2009, 2:15 pm
my friend wants to be in a band with me, so I said, okay. but it turns out, she cant play an instrument or sing that well. how can I tell her this without hurting her feelings?
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older sister
Posted Tuesday August 25 2009, 9:41 pm
i have a girl i know who has become like my older sister and its great. she works a lot and i dont get to talk to her that much (she lives in new hampshire and i live in ct) she just came to see me the other day and we had a great time and all we did was talk. but once she is back home we dont really talk unless something BIG with me happens like a new relationship or something like that. now i wont be seeing her as much as i used to because i would go to watch my brothers football games at the college they go to. now he graduated to i wont be up there as often...we would talk about how excited we were about going to the games and stuff so without that link i feel like i wont be so close...... she will always text me back (like she works ti...
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best friend moving school.
Posted Tuesday August 25 2009, 10:40 am
(this might be long sorry)
so the title pretty much says it..
my bestfriend who ive litteraly been friends with since I was a baby is moving school.
we go to an all girls school in the city (we live about 20-30minutes outside it) there is a mixed school about 5minutes away from where we live but its not considered to be one of the best if you know what I mean like its pretty much a bunch of wasters out there if im to be blunt heh,
anyway so were going into our 5th year of school (Im not sure what that is in schools elsewhere but its our second last year of school and were 16.)
so she was in out present school up until now so 4years but she always talked about wanting to go to the mixed school but she was ...
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A place to talk
Posted Monday August 24 2009, 2:16 am
I need a good place to sit down and talk with my friend. Were in 9th grade so we can't go drive somewhere but what are some general places you can talk to someone with no distraction?
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he wants to know me.
Posted Monday August 24 2009, 12:30 am
19, female.
my best guy friend always tells me that i never tell him anything. and that he feels like he doesn't even know me anymore. but i mean what am i suppose to do, randomly just say everything about me and everything that i'm thinking and everything i've been through?
i wish i could tell him....
that i've been hurt so many times in the past.
that my heart wants to trust him, but my mind tells me not to.
that i'm rarely happy, and that i just fake it.
that i have an anxiety disorder and am taking medication.
that i can't find a boy, nobodys ever good enough for me.
that i'm insecure.
that i'm jealous w...
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A friend likes me and keeps crossing boundaries, how do I end friendship?
Posted Monday August 24 2009, 12:22 am
27/Female. Friend is 36yr/Male
Recently an old friend of mine made contact with me after 3 years of not speaking, and we have casually began talking the last couple of months.I have received care packages and even flowers from him in the last month. He expressed that these gifts were for congrats on my move to Chicago and flowers being a get well because I was recently injured. He also confessed his band just recorded 8 songs that were written about me. Last week my roomate posted some pictures of me on Facebook and the next day I received a late night drunken email from him telling me how beautiful I was and how he couldn't wait to see me again. I never responded to his email and a week later he wrote me another email saying...
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How do I tell my gay friend that I don't want to be friends with her now?
Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 11:46 pm
My friend told me that she is gay and I do not want to be friends with her anymore. It's not that I don't like her as a person but I cannot grasp the fact that she has become a lesbian. Just months ago she was dating men and now she is claiming homosexuality. I don't like it and the entire thing makes me uncomfortable. I'm trying to avoid her now more than ever since she has confessed her sexuality to me and I feel that I need to just tell her to her face why I no longer have interest in our friendship. How should I tell her? What should I say? I don't want to come off as cruel by saying, "You're a homosexual and that makes me too uncomfortable to continue a friendship with you," but at the same time I think it sounds most ...
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Babysitting
Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 8:20 pm
Okay, so I have a lot of babysitting experience, all with kids I know. The kids all knew and like me already. I have a mother's helper job tomorrow to watch 2 kids at a playground with their mom. A whole bunch of other kids will be there. I am kind of nervous, though, because I don't know either of the kids, just the mom. I know that the kids are good, but very shy. I'm kind of nervous about getting the kids to like me, and what to do with them at the playground. Any ideas? I need them within the next 2 hours because it's tomorrow. (The job)
Thanks!
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i need advice
Posted Saturday August 22 2009, 11:02 pm
My problem is this: I used to work in a restaurant with a lady we will call Dee. Dee and I became the best of friends, even after I quit we would talk 2 or 3 times a day on the phone. The problem was that Dee had parties all the time and I was never on the guest list. This went on for fifteen years. I had confronted her about it a couple of times and got very evasive answers, Like you don.t know my daughter (after she was having a 300 guest graduation party). She also had jewelery parties and I love jewelery more than anything. I also have to explain around Halloween she lied about passing out candy when i told her I was bringing the kids trick or treating by her neighborhood. (She didn,t want me there) I have to say as well that I don...
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annoying friends.
Posted Saturday August 22 2009, 1:46 am
17/f.
i'm dating this one guy, who well. isn't captain of the football team or whatever, he isn't cool, but hes so nice & i like him a lot. I've never liked jocky/popular boys like my friends have. I just like sweet nice guys, who are into music & stuff. Well, my friends are ggetting so annoying about it! I never bring him up, because they will just be rude. They'll be like "why are you dating him, he is so weird", "you could do better" & so on. its just little remarks any chance they get to say it. & i really don't appreciate it! i like him, and their opinions really won't change it. but its just getting to the point of unbearable to deal with. i tell them to stop, and they won't. i can't ...
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Friends
Posted Friday August 21 2009, 2:10 am
This might seem silly but just bare with me. I was good friends with this girl for like 10 months. We've known each other for a really long time but we had just lately become like best friends. Well a few days ago we got in a huge fight for the first time and we're seriously over. This isn't just a fight, we're through. So my question is...do I take down all the pictures of her that I have on my "summer 09" album on myspace? I don't like her anymore, but I can't change my past, you know? I don't know what to do. I have pictures of other people too but mostly of me and her, since we were like best friends. If I leave them she'll probably be annoyed or something. And I really just never wanna see her face again..so should I take them down or not?
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I'm the only one changing?
Posted Thursday August 20 2009, 10:38 am
Hi Guys,
It seems like lately me and my friends are drifting apart. I knew this would happen when we all started new colleges and we are meeting new people. I have met some amazing people at my college, but I still love my old friends. I still speak to my old friends every day and I see them reguarly. But it seems like we don't have barely anything in common anymore.
I love going to parties and meeting new people and I am much more confident than I was a year ago. But my old friends aren't into this sort of stuff. I don't know what to do because my old friends are my best friends. I want them to come to parties with me, but if they don't want to come then I feel bad for going with one of my new friends.
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I like her and we're both girls
Posted Wednesday August 19 2009, 10:19 pm
I have a best friend who just admitted to me that she was bisexual. I don't really card if she's bi or not though it's just I told her I was curious and didn't know if I was or not. Well I think I kinda like her we talk on the phone everyday all day. I'm just kinda attracted to her i don't know if she feels or would ever consider me soo how do I tell her and how can I know if she might feel the same. She told some people that I was her girlfriend as a joke soo does this mean anything? HELP!!
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my friend is self obsessed
Posted Wednesday August 19 2009, 9:49 pm
I'm 15/f and my friend is 15/f. My friend constantly talks about herself. She will relate stuff to herself, or her clothes, or her grades or the sports she plays. It seems like whenever I am with her it's always about her. I will tell her something that was funny or what happened to me and she will give absolutely no feedback. She'll relate that thing back to herself or she'll go on with her story or interrupt me. My mom and sister tell me to ditch her because she's so self conceited. My friends also get annoyed about how much she talks about what clothes she bought. Our neighbor, who has met her, even said she was very self conceited. She also knows I don't get the best of grades (or atleast I thought she did) and one day she flipped out a...
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welll.
Posted Tuesday August 18 2009, 1:08 pm
i dont really know how to explain myself.
i feel im rude to people.
when im not trying to be,
it could be cause im jsut having a crappy day, but its hurting other peoples feelings.
im very confused at this whole situation and the rest of my life.
please help.
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I Miss You More Than You Will Ever Know--woman to woman
Posted Tuesday August 18 2009, 7:35 am
Okay I have this best friend, I am female and she is female. I told her 2 years ago my feelings for her went deeper than friendship. The story is long so just know that every intuition and gut feeling of mine tells me she feels the same way about me but won't admit it. She KNOWS how I feel about her and she just spent a week with me on vacation, left her husband (no love there) at home. Anyway what I want to know is why if she knows how I feel would she sign off on an email "I miss you more than you will ever know"?? I don't get that statement.
Thank you for your advice.
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friend with jerk?
Posted Tuesday August 18 2009, 12:32 am
okay so ill try to make it short. my friend who is 16 now has never had ANY experience. shes never even kissed a guy. and shes really desperate to, which isnt good but i can understand it...shes just the type of girl that daydreams about love a lot and stuff and gets attached VERY easily to guys. shes just too intense and forward and thats why all guys tend to run from her.
But now she met this guy...who is a jerk...and sex obsessed. but hes nice to her. thing is he told her flat out hed never want a relationship with her, just wants to hook up. And she says that because he told her she feels ok doing it cuz she wants to finally kiss someone...
but hes only after her for one thing and keeps asking her to do other stuff that im...
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anyone know?
Posted Monday August 17 2009, 9:56 pm
anyone know how to get someone to like you?
not like like but friend wise?
cuz im goin into highschool. and im trying to be outgoing. but its tough.
thanks!
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i guess im not exciting.
Posted Monday August 17 2009, 9:32 pm
i was talking to a friend and she said i wasnt exciting.
it kinda really hurt my feelings.
cuz when im texting i guess im boring.
i was perfectly content with my life.
but now it like all changes. :/
any ways to be more exciting?
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I deal with the stress of my parents is hurting my friends
Posted Monday August 17 2009, 4:05 am
I deal with the stress of my parents telling me I'm not good enough and the they dont love me and that they hate every choice I make. and with me dealing with that I take that all out on my best friend and he has done nothing wrong like honestly I think that like if I wasn't around a lot of people would be happy. I just don't know what to do anymore. Can some one Help
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