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What can I do to get my mom to give me some space?
Posted Saturday December 13 2008, 4:03 pm
Hi Im female and Im 17. The problem is that my mom is choking me and my space. She always wants to know everything...I have a job as tutor and make some money. She always asks me when I get payed and she always gets in my business calling people to scream at them to pay me (which is rude) and i know they´ll pay me later I have no problem with that. She is always going through my backpack too she cant see a paper in my room cause she´ll look at it. She is always asking me questions at the wrong times like when Im doing my algebra homework shell come and start talking and asking me questions which doesnt allow me to think at all. And when somebody calls me she always needs to know who it was and what it was for and if i dont tell her she ge...
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I'm the worst boyfriend in history (long story
Posted Friday December 12 2008, 5:03 am
Tonight I cheated on my girlfriend, my soul mate, the only thing that is keeping me alive. What makes matters worse is that it was with a guy. She won't ever forgive me. I want to confess to her if I do I know the odd of her accepting me back are farely high. But I can't risk that. If she says that she can't be with me I will kill myself, hands down. I just spent the last 4 hours crying and debating whether or not to tell her, then I remembered that I had an account on here. I need advise. Well, I want advice but I really need to talk to her about this. She'll be coming to see me in a few days, we have a long distance relationship butive been in love with her for over 3 years now. I can't live without her. What should I do? Opinions matter a lot to me right now, thank you.
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trust
Posted Wednesday December 10 2008, 3:43 pm
how do i get my moms trust back fast? !!
im 15 female.
i jus got in a lot of trouble for skipping school.
how do i get my moms trust back!?!
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treat myslef?
Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 3:51 pm
i always get really depressed around my period. its nothing serious just the hormones are flying. is there anything you girls can suggest to treat myself or make me feel a little better during this time. With my hormones going crazy and school work piling up its hard to relax!
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My sister hates me
Posted Monday December 8 2008, 12:19 am
ok so heres the deal, my twin sister hates me im almost sure of it, i moved in with my dad who is in a different state than my mom my sister came with me because of problems, she got pregnant. my older sister asked me to move back so i aske my twin for some input, she flat out said she didnt think i should go back because she didnt want me there. i told her that hurt me, bad, and i cried my self to sleep that night and havnt talked to her since.
my twin and i , by the way, have been close since birth, BFF and closer we talked about everything, and rarely faught, when she told me that she didnt want me around it took me way of guard because she gave no clue or hint that i was even remotely bugging her. she never apologized to me and ...
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What can I do to get my mom off by back?
Posted Saturday December 6 2008, 6:33 pm
Hi Im a female 17. lately I´ve been having lots of problems with my mom cause She went throught my cellphone and found a really x rated...erotic whatever you want to call it conversation with my bf (which she didn´t even know I had) it was about 6 messages long. And now she calls me hoe, vulgar. and says Im a minor and lots of crap. Im 17 and i think I have a right to explore my sexuality but safely, which I do. It sucks because now she makes me feel like crap with sarcasms and she even went to the cellphone company to check up on my messages and to who i write them. Its a total invasion of privacy i can´t even text my bf anymore and i don´t know what to do cause i really like him and my mom is making me want to seriusly die or kill myself.
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i need help on cavaliers ticket info.
Posted Friday December 5 2008, 8:45 pm
ohkay so i'm 15 and i really wanna buy cavs tickets for christmas. (cleveland cavs, the basketball team) but obviously, i'm not old enough to own a credit card. so does anyone know a way i could do this? like do you have to do it online or is there another way?
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I'm killing my relationship with my sister
Posted Friday December 5 2008, 2:13 pm
My sister and I were never best friends until five years ago, before she went into high school. I showed her how to use makeup and how to make friends. She was always the skinny one and she started growing long legs that my mum's friends commented on being "killer legs". I introduced her to her first "popular" friend and gave her the first taste of alcohol. These days, we joke about how I kind of "created" her and she agrees. Unfortunately, I think I've created a monster.
First, I need to let you guys know that we're both Pakistani. No one in my family is religious but we are "officially" muslim. This is more of a cultural than a religious thing but a lot of it is common sense: don't wear cloth...
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Mental/Phyiscal Abuse
Posted Thursday December 4 2008, 8:21 pm
Ok well I really need help. My dad is all the time mentally abusing me. He has said I dress like a slut, act like a slut, wishes he never had me cause my actions come off as slutty. He has a daughter as a slut. All of this he has said to me. Also he has stuff like I will never make it when I grow up, and saying that I am sloppy, and filthy, etc. Plus my older brother is all the time bullying me, saying stuff like how "fat" I am, when I know I am not. Plus recently, he smacked me across the face and sprained my wrist. I have gotten into fist fights with my older brother (who is 17 btw, and I am 15/f) And its just, I dont know, its so unbearable. I can live with my mom in yanceyville, but I would have to go to a different school, bu...
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My mom won't let me go to guys house!
Posted Wednesday December 3 2008, 11:06 pm
Hey guys I'm 14/f and I need a lot of help.
So I met this guy a while ago, let's call him Dan. I've hung out with him twice and my friend Sydney's house in a group, he goes to a different school thats kind of far away but we've been texting constantly ever since. Well, he asked me if he wanted me to come to his house on Friday. And I was like more than excited. But my mom isn't letting me!! She doesn't want me at a guys house alone. I keep explaining to her that the parents are going to be there but she won't listen. She only wants me to hang out with him in groups but that's a little hard considering I don't know his friends and Sydney is away for the weekend. Ugh, I know he's a good kid and I trust him more than ever but m...
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me and alot of weird ness
Posted Wednesday December 3 2008, 3:54 pm
ok so
i dont know where to start
i dont live at home, im 15 and havent lived at home since i was 13 i just moved somewhere good and safe but before i lived all over it was hard but it was what i knew i used to move back home. But then me and my dad would fight and he owuld hit me and or just yell and scream and scare me.
this is something i wrote after a had a flash back of him yelling
But it’s just, just fucked
I get so scared
I see him
And half of me doesn’t think he did anything
He says he didn’t
But did he
What is abuse what does it mean?
When minard yells and uses contradiction and that tone
I don’t see minard I see my dad I see his han...
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It's terrible watching someone die.
Posted Tuesday December 2 2008, 8:30 pm
I actually didn't want to put any of this up here at first. I thought I could handle it, I thought things would get better. I thought I didn't need help. But now I see I do because I'm the only one seeing this and it's hurting me so bad watching. This is a very long story and I appologize but I will try to make it as short as possible, so bear with me:
My brother, sixteen year old, has a screwed up life. About 7 months ago, he started dating this girl. None of us, the family, really knew her at first. He just talked about her a lot and she came over once or twice, but even then they just went back to his room and didn't pay any attention to us. Back then, he still had a little bit of life in him. He was getting better little ...
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partying
Posted Tuesday December 2 2008, 7:48 pm
im so stressed out, first off. last year i went through extreme depression, and i got grounded, so i was captive in my house. if anyone has been depressed, when youcant do anything its hell. This year, i am better.. but, my mom all the sudden has been up my ass. She doesnt let me go out, do anything, where ever i go she wants to talk to parents, drop me off, i cant drive.. im 17. All my friends go out, her best friends kids go out, im very mature for my age... and my boyfriend goes to parties, and hes 18 and i dont wanna hold him back i mean hes allowed to, but my mom is nuts, it makes me depressed, wanna fuckin do shit to myself when im upset sitting home everyone is out. I dont get it either, my brother went out at 17 had parties at my ho...
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*22 Year Old Brother That Doesn't Contribute @ Home*
Posted Tuesday December 2 2008, 12:31 am
I am in my late 20's and still living at home. I wish I could live on my own but currently want to help out my parents so I am living with them. I contribute by paying rent and various bills for my parents. I try my best to help them as much as I can since my father doesn't have a stable job and my mother is the only one maintaining our home.
My question is the following......My brother who is 22 is living with us. He brought in his girlfriend and they both don't pay nothing at home. I've talked to my parents about this but they dont' say nothing. All I have heard from my mom is "Be nice and do things for others and let God work his wonders" I am with that but I think it's very unfair. I haven't moved out t...
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I got her expelled..
Posted Friday November 28 2008, 11:34 am
17/f
Over the last year and a half one girl has basically ruined my life. She has assaulted me twice (ruined both grad events so far this year) and turned everyone against me. I don't have many friends, I can't go to parties.. it's just a bad situation. I didn't do anything to deserve this. I FINALLY told the principal last week because of the last assault (I am pressing charges) and now she has been expelled (the school board, not the principal.. she has a bad history as it is).
Except now her friends are all trying to make me feel guilty. They're telling me she is dropping out (not finding another school even though she has that option) and she is going back into using hard drugs. They're telling me about how...
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I'm making a cd for my parents because I'm leaving for college. Please help
Posted Friday November 28 2008, 3:04 am
Hello everyone. My name is Bryan and I am transferring from Illinois to Arizona State University in January and I want to make 2 cds for my parents to give them the day that I leave home to go to school. I want to make one cd for my mom and one cd for my dad. My mom likes country/classic rock music and my dad likes 70's/80's rock, newer rock and the blues. Please give me some suggestions of which songs I should put on each of their cd's. I have a very open mind and I am willing to take ANY suggestions. Please help me immediately with this. Thank you for your time everybody!
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I can't stand them!
Posted Friday November 28 2008, 12:07 am
I aboslutely cannot stand my family. My brother annoys the crap out of me and I always get really mad when he's around. And my Dad is just like him, but worse. My Mom and I get in fights every day about the stupidest things. I can never be around my brother and Dad for more than 5 minutes at a time or I get super annoyed or really pissed. They know what they're going is annoying me and pissing me off, but yet they just keep doing it. More and more. They make fun of me, gang up on me and do whatever else they think of to piss me off. I've honestly gone to the point today of breaking down and crying in my room for hours because of them. I just can't handle it anymore. I don't like them. At all. What should I doooo?
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Monroe Piercing
Posted Thursday November 27 2008, 11:08 pm
F/14 For my 15th birthday i reaaaally want the Monroe Piercing!
I told my mom about awhile ago and she and my dad teamed up and told me how disgusting they look on girls and how only like, people in gangs have piercings like those. My mom allowed me to have two piercings on each ear yet not one little one on my upper lip?! She even said the nose rings are cuter than the Manroe (which i'm not going to forget ;D). Point is: I want a way to convinse my parents to let me have the Monroe done. Can someone tell me or give me links to websites explaining how not very painfull they are and the price and healing and all. Thanks :)
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mom banned me from bfs house!!
Posted Thursday November 27 2008, 4:30 pm
im 14/f.okay so last sunday i gave my bf a bj. and we were texting last night and my parents were pissing me off and i told him and he was calling them names because he knows how mean they are to me. well mom took my phone away and read all the texts and the one about me giving him a bj and shes soo pissed. so on our way home we stop at his house and he had already told his mom what was going on and she said i was no longer allowed at his house because his mom lets us go up to his room alone, and thats wen i gave him the bj.
we were leaving and i could tell he had been crying, and ive never seen him cry in the 3 years ive known him. well he reached out to hug me and mom said no and told me to go he was like please but she woudlnt le...
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Temper problems
Posted Wednesday November 26 2008, 7:59 pm
I have a bad problem with my temper- specifically towards my mom. She doesn't trust me because of some trouble I got into over a year ago. I've worked hard to stay squeaky clean since, but I understand why she could still have doubts.
Still, it drives me crazy. She asks me so many questions about my personal life that I get flustered and can't even think of the truth. When I ask her for my privacy, she gets angry. Eventually, we both end up very, very mad. We've tried talking it out but it hasn't worked- my dad tried helping and that failed too. I don't want to hate my mom, but at this point I get so annoyed with her endless questions and suspicions that I avoid all contact with her. What should I do?
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