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Some 46 year old women tried to seduce me ... HELP
Posted Monday February 28 2011, 6:02 am
Since my job as a cashier doesnt pay enough , i started a small one-person cleaning business. So i get a request from some lady to clean her backyard. $240 is a pretty good price for her condo-sized Yard. So when im about to leave she invited me for coffee , and we sat and talked , but since i was wearing my orange skinnies and i kinda got hard she noticed it and she put her hand on it and said "your really big" and rubbed me harder and kissed me, I ran out .But shes really hot! why is this happening help!
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Gray Rape?
Posted Thursday January 13 2011, 2:33 pm
So for those of who are familiar with the term gray rape, I want to explain a situation to you and you can tell me whether or not this is gray rape. I'm 19 and I have a new boyfriend, and he's really great :), but back in October before I met him, I decided to hang out with my ex boyfriend, who at the time had no idea what he wanted.
I had previously text him sexy pictures of myself the day before that he decided that he wanted to hang out with me. He told me that yesterday made him realize what he wanted. I told him that he wasn't getting laid becuase I did not believe in having sex with someone who wasn't my boyfriend, I'm not really for the idea of casual sex. Well, I got my dad to give him a ride to his house, and we wen...
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I regret having oral sex with a guy at a party; how do I get over it?
Posted Wednesday January 5 2011, 2:36 pm
I went to this past on New Years and was having a good time. This cute guy was talking to me and we were flirting. At one point we were making out and he kept pushing me for more. I kept telling him no and that I just wanted to have a good time, no sex involved. I don't know where things went wrong. All of a sudden I found myself agreeing to give him a blow job. Everything was moving so fast and by the end of it, I felt horrible. It's not what I really wanted to happen. I mean, he was nice and everything but that wasn't me, who I am as a person.
Now I feel really guilty and depressed over it. I don't even know the guy's last name. He was practically just a stranger who was being nice to me at a party. I can't believe I did th...
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My mom touches me
Posted Wednesday October 13 2010, 3:36 pm
13/m Sometimes my mom touches me down there on my thing. She has for years now and never says anything about it. We were talking in sex ed and I realize this is like sexual abuse and is bad. Who do I contact about this so she stops? Just like local police or what? I don't want to ask in class. It's embarrassing. Is there like sex abuse hotline or 1-800 number I call?
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I'm a guy but I think I was raped at a party when we were drinking
Posted Wednesday October 13 2010, 1:35 am
Hi. I'm 16/m and I went to this party last saturday. I dont know what to do now really because it's embarrassing. I was hanging out with this one girl and we were drinking. I know I drank too much and I shouldn't have kept at it but everyone else was doing it and I guess I wasn't thinking. Anyway, we were kissing and fooling around a little but I didn't want things to get serious by leading to sex. The other guys ended up leaving us in this room after awhile and we were alone but by then I was pretty drunk. She took off her top and it was nice to see so we did keep fooling around. Then I think she took advantage of me because I was so drunk. I mean she had been drinking too but I told her at one point that I didn't want to go further. My th...
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Free tests to find out if you were sexually abused?
Posted Friday September 17 2010, 8:20 pm
I really hate my Dad because he's a prick and is always grounding me for this and that. Like I come home only like 1 hour later and he's FREAKING out. He doesn't like me I swear. The only thing I can think of is that I'm sexually abused or something and maybe he did it! I'm so mad at him. Is there like a test I can take to see if I'm sexually abused? Like a FREE test because I dont got a job.
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How to tell if you were raped
Posted Wednesday July 21 2010, 2:49 am
I was at a party about a week ago and we were drinking. It was a fun time and there was this guy that was flirting with me all night. He asked me if I wanted to hookup and I said yes.
We ended up having sex that night. I didn't say no or anything but I WAS DRUNK. He had been drinking too but I don't think he was as drunk as I was.
Is this considered rape? I mean, I was drunk so I wasn't in my sound mind or whatever...
16/f
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I was raped and I "had an orgasm!" Now I want to die! :-(
Posted Friday January 29 2010, 9:39 pm
I can't imagine feeling worse about myself than I do right now. I was raped and I can't even tell anyone! :'( He got me alone at a party and I told him no but he made me have sex with him anyway. So i cried and tried not to think about it but in the middle of the rape... I had an orgasm!
Please believe me I didn't want to! It just happened! My boyfriends in the past didn't give me orgams and and I just don't know what to do! I really want to die i just feel so dirty and aweful!!! how do I tell my mother I was raped at a party she told me something bad would happen at if I went to it....... when i obvioulsy must have wanted it because I had one!
please someone tell me what to do I really want to di...
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aroused by my cousin?
Posted Sunday November 25 2007, 2:33 am
I think my cousin touched me in an inapropriate way
we were playing frisbe and i had the frisbe, he ran over and takled me,,,this is how our family plays it, and like he touched my breast and me "down there" i couldnt tell if it was an accident,
and when he did i had this really good feeling wash through me like i actually enjoyed it...but i didnt cause hes my cousin, but i never had a male touch me there before,,,,should i feel akward around him,....was this good feeling natural...or was i sexually aroused by my cousin??
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abuse?
Posted Friday May 4 2007, 11:25 pm
my boyfriend punches me alot and calls me a whore,slut,hoe etc. i usually am good about hiding the bruises his friends tell me he doesnt mean it and should take him serious. he always apoligizes and i have been with him for a year and hes always nice to me. so i forgive him but im afraid of him. im not oignt oo dump him. does anyone have any toher advice?
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raped
Posted Thursday November 16 2006, 9:07 pm
my female roommate in an all girls group home raped me, well idk if she really raped me. at first she did then i really liked it. what should i do. be mad or happy to have finally gotten laid.
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My step-father forces me to have sex with him!
Posted Friday February 24 2006, 9:01 pm
My step father has been forcing me to have sex with him for a few years now. When I was 8-9 he brought home a porno tape and showed it to me. I called my mom and told her that it was a sick tape and he threw it away. After that, my dad has brought porno tapes for us to watch and has had sex with me various times. I hate it when this happens, but I've been afraid to tell anyone!! He taps my ass and touches it and stuff. What do I do to make it stop?!?!
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Posted Friday August 26 2005, 12:27 am
I have a problem with my boyfriend touching me 'down there.' We have been going out for 3 years now, we have had sex and all and I am still afraid to let him touch me down there or even see me down there. But I have a very good reason, I was molested at the age 5-6 years old, I have told my boyfriend this because he has asked me numerous times if that was the reason so I finally gave in and told him the truth. Now he knows, but he still tries to touch me there even though I have told him it makes me uncomfortable and I am not ready for that yet. I have always been shy about it, when he tries to touch me there it turns me off and it brings back memories of being molested. My question is how can I overcome this? And why does my boyfriend keep...
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Posted Sunday March 20 2005, 10:44 am
Ok... I was in a porno Video cause i needed money to go to a school trip in France..! But now All of the guys at my school .. Are porno freaks.!! and all they want is sex from me..! i dont want to give sex to them cause i only did that 1 time to get money for a trip and all the girls think im a slutty ass bitch.. and im not i was always the nice girl and now after one mistake i am called a slut! All the guys try to talk me into sex but i dont want to.. when i go on a date i always get forced to hhave sex. its really annoying and bad.. I hate it and i dont even think i want to go on this trip. after all thats happening.. One of my friends told me that She over heard her boyfriend and his friend saying that this kid that goes to our school ma...
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My girlfriend was raped :( (this is long)
Posted Monday September 20 2004, 9:46 pm
I wasn't sure what category to put this under by recently my girlfriend / best friend and I just lost our virginity to each other. It was amazing. But then the next night, I get a phone call from her brother saying to go the hospital because my girlfriend's just been raped...by her father. I didn't know what to do, so i just froze and went after her father. I beat the crap out of him and broke my hand. I know that wasn't smart but what he did to her was less smart. He's been abusing her since about the age of 4, I was one of the few people who knew this. She didn't want ANYONE telling the police because her father threatened her. And she didn't want to run away and leave her little sister with her father for fear he might hurt her too.
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OoO My teacher...
Posted Saturday August 14 2004, 5:04 pm
Wow im so sorry in advanced for this being so so long!But i think i really need to tell someone.Ok here it goes.Im 16 and I've only had sex once.I have never been fingered or eaten out.Anyways i was at school and my math class teacher said he could tutor me.I thought he was a nice guy so i said ok thanks.He invited me to his house on last saturday morning to study.I agreed and drove to his house.Once i got in he decided to show me around his house.When we got to the bedroom he said "so what do you want...to do?".He moved up closer to me and our bodies were touching.I said uhm I think we should study now.He pushed me on the bed and said ok lets study.He handcuffed my hands and legs to the bed and put layers of ducktape on my mouth....
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