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i dont no any more
Posted Wednesday September 2 2009, 4:44 am
im not the most confident of people okay but my best friend is an she always is sayin to me god you are so boring and sometimes if im on msn the same times as sh is she will talk to me like usuall an vice versa but last night she started talkin to me but was acting really strange so i was just givin one word ansers bcause i could tell it was not her but it was her sister who all ways likes to take the piss out of everyone an she started saying to me you dont say much do you an i said no not really lol so then she said well start a convo with me then so i did but all she said was boring so i just went offline there was no pont in trying because whatever i said she would of ansered boring so i need some idears on how to be more confident an m...
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Regrets
Posted Tuesday September 1 2009, 8:05 pm
I lost a very competitve club election at the end of sophomore year and I still have regrets about it. I feel that I should be one of the elected officers right now because I devoted a lot of my time for the team. These officers also seem to get a lot of respect and I feel that I am not taken seriously by anyone on the team. The main reason why I wanted to be an officer was I wanted to make a difference in the team and for once people can take me seriously. I know I blew the election speech because I was too nervous, but I really don't know how to move on. It wasn't just the speech that was relatively bad, but it was also how the coach's favoritism was involved. I got the bitter end of her sarcasm when she asked us questions on the sp...
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help, i hate feeling like this!
Posted Tuesday September 1 2009, 6:50 pm
hi, okay so i like or liked this guy, (my bffs brother-----> lets call him a) and im kinda getting over it but at the same time i still like him.(even though he is always mean to me... yea i got no idea why i like him either ha) but there is this new girl(lets call her b) at school and not many people like her so me and my best friend(callin her m, we call eachother sisters... yea we r really close) hang out with her. well b likes the guy i like i like. i know a would never go out wid her because well, (not to be mean but b aint all that great to look at), but she can be nice. well she knows dat i liked him n stuff but when we hang out she is like attached to my bffl. it is starting to kind of get on my nerves. like she will follow m aro...
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best guy friend
Posted Tuesday September 1 2009, 12:06 am
So, Ive been best friends with this guy for like 3 years now, and now we're off at college together. Anyway, I don't know whether or not he's gay. He has some tendencies that would suggest it and his facebook doesnt say "interested in". I love him to death and would no matter what. But I wish he would just tell me one way or the other. I don't think I should bring it up right? Does he feel like he can't trust me or that I wouldn't think of him in the same way? I want him to feel like he can tell me anything! What should i do?
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Best Friends Boyfriend
Posted Monday August 31 2009, 9:35 pm
I am a guy, 17. I have a friend, 16 and her boyfriend, 17 looked up gay porn on her computer. She found it while looking on the history. She dumped him for a couple of hours and took him back. He acts childish and talks down to her and calls her names in front of her. She takes the crap. Sadly I was kind of happy she dumped her boyfriend, but then she took him back a couple of hours later. We start school tomorrow, September 1st... and when she told they talked it out and got back together I pretended to be okay with it. Should let it go or tell her how I feel? I've been friends with her since fourth grade and we have been friends since then.
WHAT SHOULD I SAY OR DO?
Thanks,
Onebirddog2000
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Blind Date
Posted Monday August 31 2009, 6:21 pm
i met diz guy wit my friend well actually diz guy call me on behalf of my friend who's locked up right now but ne wayz me n him r really getting along n we talk alot on da fone but da problem iz dat he's never seen me n ive never seen him n he tells me dat he really likes me n dat he wants to go out wit me n i dont know wat to say to him if i should listen to him or just forget about him cuz he does drugs n i tell him to stop n not em but he wont listen ni i tell him to stop hangin in da streets n not to do bad stuff but he wont listen so teell me wat should i do
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Friendship
Posted Monday August 31 2009, 8:24 am
how to make friendship with girls?
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Phone Shy :X!
Posted Sunday August 30 2009, 10:19 pm
Hello everyone <3 ! Well for all i could remember i've had this horrible case of phone shyness :(. For some reason if I'm on the phone i just close up and i have no idea why! It annoys me, because i try to avoid talking to people on the phone because of it. I honestly wish i wasn't like this though, how can i stop being phone shy? have you ever been phone shy? what did you do? anyone know why phone shyness happens to people? I'm totally lost, hopefully you guys can help me out :(! thank you.
16/f
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Life That Needs Excitement
Posted Sunday August 30 2009, 12:45 pm
Hi,
I am a 17/f. I live in a tiny town, full of older people... and in my pre.k to 12 school, there aren't a whole lot of good friends. I am not saying that there aren't people,there are.. there just aren't very many that don't smoke, aren't jerks, won't stab you in the back, wreck havoc, and so on. I have never had any (what I consider) real friends that a person can rely on. Until.. I met this one new girl, several years ago, we were best friends for several years, then she dumped me for my brother Whom she dates, sucks faces with, sleeps with, and excetera excetera. My mom who I live with (my parents are divorced) doesnt seem to care about what I think/do no matter how many times I confront her. She has a boyfriend now (he seem...
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Should I confront her?
Posted Sunday August 30 2009, 12:25 pm
Hey okay this is quite a long story so il do my best to sum it up ina nutshell.
basicly at then end of school before summer myself and 2 of my other best friends fell out with a girl in school litteraly over nothing.
she over exagterated the whole thing,she went home to her sister crying and told her that we were bullying her and spreading sh*t about her.
now she was one of our really good friends wed never do that to her or anyone it was just some good natured fun we were all having even she was at the time just teasing each other over stuff like we always do and we didnt take it too far,it went on during english class and we were all laughing and even the teacher was there so shes proof that we werent bullying her or ...
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Egotistical.
Posted Sunday August 30 2009, 9:59 am
Advice columnists give advice. This site is not for advice columnists.
Hear me out.
Most people here are concerned about their ratings or how many questions they've answered, to give themselves an illusion of being perfect.
When somebody actually comes along who needs some help, but its a touchy subject that would take too long to answer or might bring down your rating, there are a golden few who actually bother answering. And what if the person who asked really needs some serious help?
But it's safer to stick to your comfort zone, answer the easy questions such as "What color should I die my hair?" and "How do I get free Jonas Brothers tickets?"
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I'm 13 And I Want To Have Sex With My Best Friend
Posted Sunday August 30 2009, 6:32 am
Hi, My name is Brittany well i wanna have sex with my bf he is so omg cute when ever i see him i feel nervous and i feel like ima have an orgasm just from looking at him and we spend a lot of time togehter alone cause no ones home or is sick and we kissed once but it was on accident and i wish it wasn't and whenever he just pokes me i wanna jump on him and rade though his parade and omg like i belive in marriage before sex.what should i do before i reveal myself in so many new ways to him.
Please i need advice fast!
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What should I do??!
Posted Saturday August 29 2009, 7:19 pm
Me & Seth are best friends and have been for 3 years now. He's 18 and a senior in high school, I'm 15 softmor in high school. I've had my heart broken before Seth was there and comfurted me. I'm nervous that my last heart break(march '09) might have affected me liking him. Either way I like him, what should I do?
-Quinnie
(female 15, usa)
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concerned.
Posted Saturday August 29 2009, 3:22 pm
16/f
I'm not trying to sound conceited when I say this, but I am a really good friend. I have helped people stop cutting and feel better about themselves. (only my close friends who tell me things) I tell them to get help and try to help them as much as I can to the best of my ability. I'm kind of like the go-to person, the one they vent to, then one they can trust.
So today, my best friend and I were talking on aim. and we were talking about how we felt we were drifting apart. we got mad at eachother at first because she accused me of judging her (when I don't, I really don't judge people, everyoneis who they are) and she wasn't acting herself. Then we got to the point in the conversation where she told me that she wasn't g...
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concerned about my best friend
Posted Saturday August 29 2009, 1:41 am
16/f (please read, I know it's long)
I'm not trying to sound conceited when I say this, but I am a really good friend. I have helped people stop cutting and feel better about themselves. (only my close friends who tell me things) I tell them to get help and try to help them as much as I can to the best of my ability. I'm kind of like the go-to person, the one they vent to, then one they can trust.
So today, my best friend and I were talking on aim. and we were talking about how we felt we were drifting apart. we got mad at eachother at first because she accused me of judging her (when I don't, I really don't judge people, everyoneis who they are) and she wasn't acting herself. Then we got to the point in the conversation wher...
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I have no friends
Posted Friday August 28 2009, 4:21 pm
Ok so in high school I was never really a social person...I had like 3 close friends and then I would hang out with people but it would be through those 3 friends somehow...
Senior year there was some drama and I'm no longer friends with them. So I feel like I have noone anymore. I always see groups of girls out on girls night or they'll show up at parties together and I feel like I need something like that.
I've been out of school for a few years now, I took off time to work some...and now I'm starting community college next week.
I need some tips to make some friends in college....
What I can see being a problem is I don't have anything to invite people along to...like most peopl...
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so much for best friends?..
Posted Friday August 28 2009, 12:36 pm
19f
so my best guy friend, we've been close for about 6 years now or so got in a fight last night.
he's a really popular kid, all the girls want him, but he never let that get to his head. he currently broke up with his girlfriend of a long time and now feels the need to be a player! and still hang out with his ex at the same time?! i don't want him to be like that! he's my best friend!
so i heard from people what he was doing to girls, like saying he'll hang out with them and then at the last minute say oh i have to go to my uncles, and then go hang out with his ex.
so i confronted him last night, well in a text, maybe not the best way to go buuuuut, this is what happened...
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I want my friend back -REALLY LONG.
Posted Friday August 28 2009, 6:10 am
THIS WILL BE LONG.
I guess I'll start at the beginning.
We met in year 7.
Her computer wasn't working so she was seated
next to me. Neither of us wanted to sit together,
I though she was a total nerd(she had glasses)
and she thought I was a total FREAK.
But we got talking and we became best friends.
Lets call her Kelly.
She was in all my classes, we slept over each
others houses a fair bit(well mostly I slept over
hers - I have A LOT of family issues which I'd
rather not get into)
We hung out all the time.
Then year 8 rolled around, we were still friends,
cause we were in all the same classes together. ...
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Talking to a cute boy!? -- sounds childish, I know.
Posted Wednesday August 26 2009, 4:09 pm
Well to start off, I'm a 16 year old girl, and there's this cute boy that I noticed in band (marching band, heh) and he is a drummer.
I want to start talking to him, but I am pretty shy when it comes to talking to new people (especially when they're cute!)
Any suggestions? I was thinking maybe a simple compliment to start off but I just don't know! I get so nervous.
Any comments are helpful, maybe even self-experiences! :]
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she won't give him a break!
Posted Wednesday August 26 2009, 3:52 pm
19 yrs old/female.
my best guy friend and his girlfriend of almost 3 years broke it off about a month ago or so. i feel so bad for him though because he want's to have fun, live the single life with no worries. but everytime a girl gets close to him or hangs out with him, his ex girlfriend FREAKS out on the girl.
and one time me and him were watching the movie obsessed with beyonce in it and he was like now you know what i have to go through! and i feel so bad for him because he doesnt have a mean body in his bone and for him to be like "hey listen, we're just friends, i can hang out with who i want" or something of that is something he would never do.
how can i help him? can i even? i feel so bad for him!
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