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suffering from depression and anxiety for years


Posted Wednesday June 27 2007, 3:19 am

its almost impossible for me to be open, so its hard to post this. I have been suffering from depression and anxiety for about five years id say. i NEED help. i dont know what to say to my mom, who has blown me off in the past, about this. i have a sever anxiety disorder and need treatment. i dont know how to go about getting this.

17/f

please help. thanks

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WE'RE ALL GONNA DIE!


Posted Tuesday June 26 2007, 10:01 am

Ok Well a long time aog I knwo the sun was goign to go away and we would all die but that was goign to be way after I die so I guess it's ok but now there's news that we could all die in..i think 2012? Cuz of sun rays?

Now I'm scared and going crazy with WHAT IF..

Like the little children! So many of my relatives has little babies and now..omg I'm just so scared and going crazy.. and thinking stuff liek will it be a quick death or a slow death where we'll all burn?

Please help me I don't know how yet I can't even type all the things I'm feeling!

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OCD?


Posted Monday June 25 2007, 10:08 pm

I'm not sure what's wrong with me, and wheather it's paranoia, or OCD, or something else. This is really hard to explain but i'll try my best.

In my head while i'm doing something, i'll make like, a 'bet' with myself. Like I have to do something or else i'll die. It's about really stupid thing, too, but it's just become a habit ie: You have to fast forward through the opening credits of this tv show, otherwise you'll die. I found a way to kind of 'derail' it, by instead of saying,"Otherwise you'll die," saying something like, "otherwise beyonce will gain a pound," But now saying that has because an obsession. I used to do something kind of like that, but with music videos on MTV. And whatever music video ...

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Embarrassment.


Posted Monday June 25 2007, 4:16 pm

Is there any good way to deal with feelings of embarassment? When something embarassing happens to me, everytime I think about it even weeks after it happens it just kills me. I feel terrible about myself.

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girls only.


Posted Monday June 25 2007, 12:41 pm

I was just wondering what age some of you got your period at. Cuz im 14 and i still havent got mine.

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Am I depressed?


Posted Sunday June 24 2007, 12:46 am

I was recently dumped and have absolutely lost my appetite. I don't want to eat, move or do anything at all. Is this depression?

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this is so weird and crazy


Posted Saturday June 23 2007, 1:34 pm

i think that i have like mental issues.
right now i think that i am really a retarted person who is living in the perspective of a normal one.
ahhhhh whats wrong with me!?
what should i do about it?
i need help!!!!!!!!!!!

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so upset and depressed


Posted Friday June 22 2007, 6:15 pm

14/f

I'm more upset than I usually am right now because a guy friend of mine just told me that this other girl said i was fat and was making fun of me. I used to not think I was fat, even though I am. I'm curvy and i thought that was sexy, but apparently it's not okay. I'm sitting here crying right now and i've been doing that all day. It's not my fault that I don't have a metabolism. I eat 1200(or fewer) calories a day, only healthy food, and I work out every day, but lo and behold I'm still a fatass! And everyone else i know is an anorexic bitch who eats whatever she wants.


If you don't believe that I'm fat- take a look at this pic: (yes i know the clothes are form-fitting- that's so you can see my fi...

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they dont talk to me like they talk to each other.


Posted Thursday June 21 2007, 10:44 pm

ok so i just ended my first year of high school and i really just hate who i am. i'm not the person i want to be and i make too many mistakes and when my friends don't include me in their conversations when im around it just makes me feel invisible and horrible. i just dont like myself because i never know what to say to them. one of my friends i really like (as in like i want her to be my best friend forever) and i don't wanna say something stupid to get her not to like me because shes really nice most of the time and shes fun to be around. i dont wanna change myself cause thats just dumb. but my main point here is how can i get them to talk to me like they do to each other? thankss.

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Schizophrenia.


Posted Wednesday June 20 2007, 8:49 pm

Okay, I've been living with my seeing things and a slight fear of the dark and almost any noise you could possibly imagine for the last few years. Lately though, it's getting worse and my paranoia has reached amazing levels, I also tend to be more aggressive about it. I've talked to my friends James, Casey, and Travis about it. Travis & Casey know alot about mental disorders and suggested that I am schizophrenic. Lately it's all getting worse. I'm frightened all the time, of almost everything, and not just at night either. Someone give me some advice? Anything would help. Thank you so much.

-15/f

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Fear


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 1:01 pm

16/F.I always feel shy to use public toilet. I feel somebody would heard the noise (Pissing & farting)and this make me embarassed. So I keep holding urine for many hours and give pain to my self. In my home I never use common toilet due to same fear.
Please help.

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so lonely


Posted Tuesday June 19 2007, 12:50 am

14/f

I'm just a really lonely person. all the time. I don't have siblings, and I don't have friends or a boyfriend. I can't make and keep a friend, unless THEY initiate it. I'm not really shy or anything but i just don't know what it is.

my life exists only on the internet.

What can I do to feel less lonely?

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Last bite?


Posted Monday June 18 2007, 11:48 pm

OK, this is very weird & sorry, I had no idea what to put it under. Anyway, for some reason, when I eat a meal, I never ever eat the last bite. I mean I'm sure I could if I really tried, but, it usually just happens that there is that little last piece that I feel I can't eat! Everyones is like, "oh, you can't eat that last little bit?" But, I just don't do it. Any ideas on why this is so normal for me?

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Blocking out my feelings?


Posted Monday June 18 2007, 11:15 pm

You could say that I can't "get into the moment." Its very hard for me to feel "fun" and just let go. While everyone else is haing a great time or when when everyone around me is feeling the spirit I just can get my mind into it. I'm either obsevering the moment or just can't focuse. I remeber reading the scriptures with my dad and I could feel it -- it was sort of a happiness and joyful just popping out of me.I also remember when me and my two friends where with one of her "crazy" brothers (lol) and we were doing 160's and 360's in the car --it was total excitment. Is there something wrong with me? Anyway to let go and put theses boarders down?

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cant make decisions


Posted Monday June 18 2007, 10:06 pm

I need help. I cant make decisions on anything! i hav no favorite anything because i cant decide what my favorite thngs are. I can never decide if i should buy somehting or not. sometimes i will be in a store for an hour deciding whether i should get a shirt or soemthing. i also have no idea what i want to be when im older. i was wondering if it is like, a disease or soemthing. someone please help me! everyone else just decides on things, i feel stupid cuz i dont even know what my favorite song is. this is really becoming stupid. just help, please?!?!

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I can never make a decision!


Posted Monday June 18 2007, 7:58 pm

i have a really hard time making decisions about ANYTHING! i mean, even the stupidest, simplest thing, i can't make up my mind about! like any time i go out to eat, i can never decide what to order. so the waitress and everyone has to sit there waiting for me to decide, until someone will finally just pick something for me. and like today i saw this really cute shirt at the store, it came in pink, black and blue. so i sat there for like 35 minutes trying to decide which one i liked best. finally i got the pink one (just cuz my friends were getting mad)... but now i keep thinking "oh no, maybe i shoulda got the blue one!" and its so stupid because ITS JUST A SHIRT! last week i couldnt decide which color sandals i liked best...

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i have an unhealthy obsession


Posted Sunday June 17 2007, 4:30 pm

ok i think i have an unhealthy obsession with gerard way from my chemical romance. ok all i think about is him and i mean i am 13 years old and all i think about is him. i mean my desktop is him, my screen saver is him, my aol sn is him, everything is him. i mean when i found out he was engaged i cryed for 4 hours straight (seriously) and im still so upset that he is engaged. i mean yeah i know i will never have a chance with him i just feel better knowing he is single. i just am so upset and i mean i just cant stop thinkin about him. what do i do??? (by the way plz dont say "find another crush" or something like that because it doesnt work)

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Weird dreams


Posted Sunday June 17 2007, 8:46 am

Lately I've been having weird dreams, not bad weird, good weird.

And they haven't been about the same thing over and over they've been totally different things so it's not something on my mind.

I was just wondering, what might be causing them? Because whatever it is I want to keep doing it. These dreams ROCK!

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Sick?


Posted Saturday June 16 2007, 11:15 pm

I don't know what's wrong with me lately, but I just don't feel good at all. I have really bad anxiety, but i'm not sure if that's it.

Two fridays ago i threw up, had panic attacks, and was feeling better by monday. On Monday, my symptoms changed, and I felt light headed and tired all the time. Probably because I had lost my appetite, which caused me to eat even less. That feeling continued all week until yesterday afternoon. I came home, and had eaten a full meal and felt a lot better.

But yesterday afternoon I went to a fair in my town where I ate ice cream and a soft pretzel, and went on rides that spun around a lot. Needless to say, not the best idea. I felt really queasy when I got home, so I went straigh...

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Need some insite


Posted Saturday June 16 2007, 6:53 pm

Ok I am 15/f.I KNO I'm not bi, But when I see 2 naked girls kissing AND ONLY KISSING it really turns me on.On the internat.Is this normal?
~Athena

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