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whats wrong with me??


Posted Tuesday December 2 2008, 8:58 pm

ok so everytime a perfectly legitimate guy likes me and i think normally i would probably like him to, after we start talking a lot and he opens up and starts saying we should go out and how much he likes me i start feeling so uncomfortable about him to the point where i dont even want to talk to him anymore cause i feel so uncomfortable... am i too picky?? why do i keep feeling like this everytime im about to go out with a guy i should like?? im 16 btw

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Where to go


Posted Monday December 1 2008, 1:02 am

I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 19. We're both in college but live at home. We've recently been having issues with each others parents and we don't hang out alot at my house becuase my parents are very religious my mom always trys to peak in on us which gets annoying so we usually are at his house. Well, his parents, I feel, have started to have a slight issue wiht me and I don't feel comfortable at his house anymore. So I was wondering if you guys knew of things to do/go while we're together. I mean i know we can go out and such but that gets expensive.

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Hard to get? I dont care.


Posted Sunday November 30 2008, 6:57 pm

17/M

So, there's this girl. And, well, I'm not entirely sure what she's doing, but basically she's being mean to me.(Ignoring me, not making eye contact with me on purpose, avoiding me but not being at all discrete about it...) It's nothing big, but she's a cool person and it's kind of annoying that she treats me like that. I can't figure out if she likes me and she's playing hard to get, or if she's just a flirt, and that's how she flirts, or if she's trying to tell me she doesn't like me, or if she's just trying to be funny... Frankly, I don't care. Well, that's not true, but that's not what this question is about. How do I get her to stop?

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she hates me for no reason


Posted Sunday November 30 2008, 11:01 am

I'll make this long story short by bulleting it.. Basically this girl doesnt like me... idk why...

- On one occasion she started talking about how me and my bf should get a room and she was just being rude and obnoxious.
- Another time she was trying to start trouble by loudly saying she was going to take our food and all this other nonsense.
- lastly, she bangs a window everytime she sees us. That was the last straw. I'm sick, so i just took my breakfast and pushed her out the way, so did my bf. and we left even though she was yelling all this stuff.
She goes to the same school im in.. so when she saw me and my bf she started getting in my face saying "You wanna push me?!" over.. and over.. an...

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get ex back


Posted Saturday November 29 2008, 12:35 pm

me and my bf broke up a couple months ago and he dated other people but i havent and weve talked since then and he says he will always love me and stuff and wants me back sometime but i want him now! more than anything! what do i do cause i already told him that like 5 times and he agrees but doesnt ever do anything!

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to have a good reationships


Posted Wednesday November 26 2008, 7:35 pm

To have to treat others like you want to be treated right? well what if person not treat back way you try treat them way they want to treat you.. i mean like if I treat somone how they want to be treated they treated worst back.

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boyyss


Posted Wednesday November 26 2008, 2:55 pm

OKk so i met this kid and he is 18 and i am 16. and we both go to the same high schoo. i met him through this like retreat thing that he choose me to run with him. He is really cute. and i really like him, but he just got out of a 1 year and 8 month relationship ( no i am not stalkerish he told me that) and he said that its hard to get over... but they broke up in june?

Anyways everytime we have a meeting, like the one last night.. he is always bumbed out.. and i want to write on his facebook wall.. like get better bud.. but idk what to say? what shoud i say?

and i am kinda a shy person.. and he kinda sorta is too... not as much as me.. but i want to like make a move and start making connections how shouuld i do that.

thanksss

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PLEASE HELP ME!!!!


Posted Wednesday November 26 2008, 4:45 am


alrite, long story short: i work at this drama place where my usally i called \"good friend\" back stabbed me and telling every one shit about me that is not true, they call me sluts that there is no way to be found also where i work there is a lots of old people where they have no life and love to talk about things like this, now when some one really likes me and want to ask me out on a date, that they would go and \"warn\" them to watch out, im a bad girl and leave me alone.

i guess its kind of my fault to, cause im too nice i cant tell if they are setting me up. i tell them about my boy troubles and they spread them with nasty words. i dont kno if you guys have ever played the game call spread ...

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boysboysboys!


Posted Wednesday November 26 2008, 1:08 am

so guys at my school..not trying to sound a certain way...a lot of the guys that like me talk to me all the time and follow me and weird stuff and if i even say hi to them once they automatically think i like them and were talking..which is totally not the case AT ALL! lol but idk what to do i mean i dont want to be mean but i just want to be friends with them!

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realationships in school


Posted Tuesday November 25 2008, 6:50 pm

how do you know if a guy likes you??? I'v like him since last year what should i do?????

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does she like me?


Posted Tuesday November 25 2008, 2:01 pm

My name is Josh, I'm 21, and i need some advice.
I've been crushing on this girl at work for a while now, and recently we've been hanging outside of work a little. this past weekend she was saposed to come see my band play at a party but she never showed up, the next morning she came in with gatorade donuts and asprin for me and appoligized for missing the show. i dont know if she was trying to make up for missing the show or didn't want me to be mad at her or what. everyone at work thinks she likes me even our boss said "I've been watching her flirt with you for months now". i guess i just want to make sure before i make a move.

thanks

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What can or should i do?


Posted Monday November 24 2008, 10:11 pm

Im a 16/m. Today my kinda girlfriend told me that she started talking to her ex and her feelings came back for him. I say kinda because i never asked her to be my girlfriend because her parents didn't want her to be in a relationship. I told her that if im keeping them apart then i would stop talking to her. She said she cant be with him right now but she didn't say why i think it was a distance thing. Then she told me that she still wants to talk as friends but i cant do that she already hurt me before i don't think i could take it again. So i said goodbye and i asked her if she could stop talking to me completely so i could get over it faster. I don't know what to do i feel sick ive been crying for the past 4 hours and i have to see her t...

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boyfriend,


Posted Monday November 24 2008, 6:07 pm

okay so this might end up being long so yeah. but my boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months now and I just kind of see myself picking out his flaws all the time, he tells me how his ex girlfriends broke his heart and how he got depressed blah blah blah. I mean he treats me like pretty much perfect and I really really like him, I'm just confused, and need advice. it seems like I'm drifting away from my friends because of him. I want to stay with him but I'm afraid if I stay with him too long it will be worse in the end. Theres way more to it but I won't write more, thanks in advance!


iRATE

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How to stop your self from falling in love?


Posted Friday November 21 2008, 4:56 pm

OK, there is this guy in ALL my classes. Before I liked him as a friend. Now, I love him..absolutly love him.Lets call him J. But you see the problem is that he is going out with one of my best friends. But everyone says that he is going out with him to get to know me better. Well, today we were talking and me,amber,and kelly(some of my friends) were drawing blank dollar bills and then disigning that. Well, Amber started by drwing a pic of him, then me, then Kelly. Well, he was like Imma gonna draw all three of you. When he drew them he showed tehm to us and my pic was a pretty girl. So he has this friend named, well, lets call him A.) A likes me and J was like "outside, go and stalk her" so A said sure.
tehn inside were jo...

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hard to find a book I like


Posted Thursday November 20 2008, 1:49 pm

anyone know any really good books. and I like books have questions kinda. like one of mysteries books have like questions what you think happend next. and book make you think alittle and draw to it. I want a romance but nothing you know. I like something about finding your way or books base on real life but somtiems I like read fansty I sorry can't spell. but anybody know any books they love so much give me ideas I try it out. i am high school leavel books thanks. :) plus series to :). i dont want any books people talking to eacher not my thing. and don't need slef helps books well maybe alittle maybe being postive and stuff like that. and i am looking for like book working with Delepemtal kids sorry bad spelling..

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playing doctor.


Posted Thursday November 20 2008, 6:08 am

how do you play "doctor"? :] ;]

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Help Please. D:


Posted Wednesday November 19 2008, 6:33 am

Okay, so, this past month my one best friend, he started liking this girl he met on myspace and facebook. She lives really close and whatever, so it's not like it'd be an online relationship if they'd date.

She had really strong feelings for him and he really likes her. She'd tell all her friends how cute he was, and how special he was, and whatever. And then she went to a party, and started talking to one of her guy friends who has a crush on her. She told my friend she kind of likes the other guy more now. They eventually met then.

Now, it elevated once again. She completely doesn't like him anymore, and just wants the other guy instead. Now my friend is in this big state of depression and I don't know what t...

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Ex-boyfriend


Posted Monday November 17 2008, 8:20 pm

Okay so i went out for my ex for a long time..and he's on the football team. And everyone knew me as his girlfriend and his..so its kinda like i'm marked by him. Well we're broken up and you know like i want to hook up with other people or have another relationship or whatever but i feel like my ex owns me or something cause everyone just associates me with him. Some people even think were still going out when we broke up like 5 months ago.. WHAT DO I DO? its crazy lol i'm alawys like "WE'RE NOT TOGETHER!!" but i feel like no one gets it. And my friends hook up with guys a lot and i can't even like find someone else cause of my ex it seems like. I want to like put myself out there but i guess i'm kinda shy so i don't know how ahhh
help.

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Self esteem problem


Posted Monday November 17 2008, 3:42 pm

I had no idea which category to put this under. Does anybody have any tips for me so that can raise my self esteem people say that its low. Any tips please.

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A smell of the past....


Posted Monday November 17 2008, 12:33 am

So for the past 8 months I have been dating my boyfriend Anthony whom I absolutely love to death! He has been nothing but wonderful to me and has treated me like a princess. Way back in high school I date this kid James who I went out with for only 2 months...but something happened tonight that freaked me out. James was my first kiss and boyfriend.

Anthony smelled just like James...and I felt when I kissed him I was kissing James. Anthony took a shower and he no longer smelled like James but I keep thinking this is more then deja vu. I don't know what it is...could it be closure? I'm not sure. James and I really don't talk but he will randomly text, call, or even IM me...when we haven't talked for over several months....

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