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Making and keeping friends as an adult
Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 12:30 am
My mother never really had friends when I was a kid. She just focused on guys and ended up being married 4 times. Now than I'm an adult and married I feel like I'm headed the same way because it seems like I cannot create any sort of friendship with anyone other than my husband.
I feel like I'm behind. Most of the people I know can easily mingle with each other, or have life-long friendships they are involved in. I don't even know how to go about turning an acquaintance into a friend, or what normal friend behavior is considered to be. Can someone give me some advice? I really want to make friends...and have lasting friendships, too!
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party expert=not me.
Posted Saturday October 10 2009, 10:51 pm
my 17th birthday is at the beginning of november, and i haven't had a birthday party since i was 10. i wanna have a really good party since i didn't throw one for my 16th.
i wanna know if anyone has any good ideas about how many to invite, where to throw it, what to do? because right now all i can think of is buying two hotel rooms at the holiday inn or something and inviting a bunch of people that my boyfriend and i know. but i would have NO IDEA what to do. any help? gracias.
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My best friend is using me!
Posted Saturday October 10 2009, 1:14 am
I have a best friend who always is wanting things from me. My boyfriend told me last night that he thinks she tricks me into it! Last week she said to me, "Can I spend the night at your house this weekend?" and I was really excited and got the OK from my mom. I thought we would have an awesome time, but the entire night she used my computer! The next day I was going job hunting and she said she'd like to tag along for support--but then she started picking up applications for herself and she already has a job! I thought it was kind of messed up.
I don't know though. This week she wanted to spend the night again so we could go dress shopping for the dance coming up. The week before last she wanted to spend the...
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familes... and my friend.
Posted Thursday October 8 2009, 2:53 pm
so very recently, my mom and dad got a divorce. they had been seperated for a while, but that's not the point. see i've grown accostumed to my mom, but both my parents, are horrible. even they say it. so i basically live in silence. i go to school, i lock myself in my room hen im at home with her, and i go out with my friend. i don't have many friends, except her. well she's my only friend. but, i recently decided i wanna live with my dad. he's aay a lot, and even though he's the worst out of my parents (he told me he hated me, then didn't speak to me for a year, then moved out, then blamed me, then left me to cope with my fucking manic depressive mom, who basically needs to be looked after 24hrs a day.) i never made a big deal out of anyth...
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I like him but i dont know if he likes me back?
Posted Wednesday October 7 2009, 7:56 pm
Okay first of all I like this kid nd he's my age but in a differnt grade he's a year younger than me. I really like him it has been 3months that I like him nd we flirt a lot but he get girls like that. And then he stops flirting with me and now he has moved to middleboro and I live in taunton so should I forget about him or should I tell him how i feel? And he is also single like me.
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halloweeennnnn
Posted Wednesday October 7 2009, 6:05 pm
What should I be??
I don't want to buy things unless they can be worn againg on a regular basis.
I was thinking something with tigts.
Any ideas, that use pretty much what everygirl has in thier closet!
15/f
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lost my best friend. quotes please!
Posted Monday October 5 2009, 5:17 pm
The other day, one of my best friends and I decided not to be friends anymore because we couldn't stop fighting anymore and I also discovered she was talking about me behind my back.
I'm not looking to fix our friendship, because I've realized this girl was not a true friend and I have no interest in having her back. But I would really appreciate if anybody had some quotes about feeling betrayed? Or losing someone close to you that you always thought would be there and could be counted on.
This girl literally knew everything about me, to the point where she could predict my reactions to things. She knew my flaws and problems. Now she's decided that I'm "too much to deal with" and that she is tired of...
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living his life to the fullest.. leaving me though?
Posted Sunday October 4 2009, 9:05 pm
this may be quite long, but i will definately return the favor to anyone who is willing to read:) i'm 19 years old, second year in college and am doing online (due to ceratin issues). i've known this kid joe for about 5 years. i've always had a crush on him but we became more of friends than lovers. joe will be turning 18 in january, making him a senior in high school. yeahhhh.. age difference i know. he's the only younger guy ive ever liked though and it seems so different because he is so mature. he is the stud of his high school though.. captain of the hockey football and baseball team. all the girls go crazy over him because hes absolutely hilarious and not afraid to do anything and well absolutely GORGEOUS!! welll thats pratically oppo...
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Best Friend problem..
Posted Sunday October 4 2009, 12:06 pm
Hey, okay so my best friends birthday is landing on 18th of Oct. I told her a good few months ago that theres a strong possiblity I might be away that weekend on holidays with my family ,but i would be back the 18th for her birthday,she said that was fine she would more then likely celebrate it then or after.
I was talking to her the other day and shes like by the way we are going out for my birthday on the 17th you cant miss it and stuff like that,and im like I told you I wont be here that day theres nothing you can do about it so she starts going on about how she cant believe im missing her birthday putting the guilt trip on me when in actual fact im not missing it! techniqually. She did something really bitchy on my birthday last ...
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Friends don't respect my job
Posted Sunday October 4 2009, 10:03 am
I have 3 best friends that I spend all of my time with. However, I'm the only one that has a job, and they don't respect that. They're always asking me to pay for them, to drive b/c "I have gas money", they always ask me to call in sick to work to hang out with them instead, and they get mad if I don't want to stay out late b/c I have work early in the morning.
I'm not trying to be a party pooper, I just don't want to screw up my job. What should I do? They don't seem to get it when I talk to them about it.
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i dont do it for the attention.. its just me!
Posted Sunday October 4 2009, 2:53 am
19..female. i'm a very outgoing girl. i'm very confident in myself but not to the point where i'm cocky, i hate people like that. i just love to have fun. i'm crazy loud and heard to be funny/fun to be around. the problem is..
girls HATE being around me and guys because they feel like i get all the attention and like i'm asking for it. but really, its just how i am. its not my fault that they give me the attention?
for instance..last weekend me my friend and her neighbor went to go see her boyfriend. i was in the back seat and we pulled up to his house and i was like hiii!! and then i was just being gooofy and stuff while my friends neighbor was talking to her boyfriend. i didnt seem to think i was doing anythi...
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GETING JUMPED
Posted Saturday October 3 2009, 9:36 pm
ok me and my cusin and her friend and her friends little sister where about tew get jumped and you wouldnt want your little sister to get jumped so i ended up geting jumped for no reason but the good thing is i didnt have nothin wrong im just a little sore but then the girl with the little sister ran because she was tryna protect her little sister but my cusin ran and left me to get jumped and this is my second time bein with her and geting jumped so should i still be friends with her or ignore her please give me and answer and thank you those who do answer
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the best friend
Posted Friday October 2 2009, 5:12 pm
well my best friendis my best friend but she is always goin on at m because i am alot more quite that her an she always says '' oh its always me making the conversation '' an well its kinda annoying tbh so i was wondering what are some good things to say that will make her from saying this again. thanks :)
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sneaky curfew thingg
Posted Friday October 2 2009, 2:01 pm
so my parents are really strict. by my friend is having like 10 girls sleepovver her house the night of her birthday, but before that were just gunna walk around town and stuff until like late. And she told me like 2 weeks ago that her mom said curfew would be at 1230. and then today she asked me if 2 oclock was okay. to which my mom said no obviusly. but since her mom already said 1230 before what changed her mind? so heres what im thinking...
what a lot of my friends do is that since they know my mom will be the first to say no, then if their [parents wont let them do something, they will ask me, knowing my mom will say no, so they can tell everyone it is my mom that said no and not theirs. so i think she was hoping my mom wouldnt ...
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Why do I get along with older people better than people my own age?
Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 3:39 pm
Why is it that I do better, socially, with people older than me? I'm 20 and almost all of my friends that I talk to are 30 and up. Some are even much older...like in their 60's and 70's. I'm not sure why but I feel like I relate better with them and have better conversations. My time spent with older people is more enjoyable than with those my own age. Is this normal?
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side sweep and layers! how?!
Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 1:06 am
hey im cutting my friends hair tomorrow after cutting her sisters the other day, her sisters went well luckily but ive had no other experience and i need to know how to cut a side fring/sweep and layers please help! x thanks x
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My best friend hasn't been acting like a best friend. Should
Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 1:00 am
My best friend hasn't been acting like a friend. She is always blaming things that I didn't do on me and even blaming them on my mom. I really don't know what to do. We had some great times together, but is it right to let that go?
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I need advice mann
Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 1:00 am
okayyy so like my friend i dont know if shes lying to me i hear all the time she is and i have known her forever what do i do ?
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my so called "best friend"
Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 12:32 am
Okay, this is going to be long and very confusing.....
so yesterday my so called "best friend" katie gave me a lecture about my boyfriend ryan that i have been going out with for a year. She told me that we, ryan and i, both need to move on. Ryan is in college and he has been for about 2 months now, i'm 16 and im a junior in high school. We both can make this long distance relationship a sucess because we see eachother every weekend. But you know, to make a relationship work and be stronger you have to fight. Well, she went off on me because i was telling her about a fight that ryan and i had. something little, meaningless, just a argument. and she went off on me saying "Laura, you need to just break up with him you gu...
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I don't usually do this...
Posted Tuesday September 29 2009, 8:09 pm
This guy I'd been dating had a birthday party on Saturday. I got wasted and made out with his roommate for 3 hours. My best friend had a crush on his roommate. Now pretty much everyone hates me. Any ideas for damage control on this one?
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