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I don't know what I should feel like...


Posted Tuesday February 17 2009, 11:09 pm

I just found out my dad cheated on my mom when she was with us (she passed away)....what would your normal reaction be?
It is it ok to be freaking out and mad?
I'm a 16/f.

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Illegitimate Half-Brother


Posted Tuesday February 17 2009, 9:16 pm

Ok, I just found out that someone I knew was actually my half-brother. Before, I liked them...but now I don't know what to do or how to to react. Should I confront my dad? (Mom's dead)
What would you do?
Talk to him calmly, let off some steam...???

Thanks ;D

I'm a 16 year-old girl.

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mom wants me to see psychiatrist


Posted Tuesday February 17 2009, 3:48 pm

I was having a heart to heart talk with my mom last night and she mentioned that maybe I should go to a psychiatrist. At first I thought she was joking, and then I realized that she was serious. I was (well still am) really hurt and shocked. I don't think I have a problem at all, and my mom really isn't one to go to psychiatrists which is why I'm so hurt because my mom thinks I'm so messed up that I need professional help.

I'm very upset, I don't think I have any problems, and I think that there are a couple people in this family that need help way more than I do. I just feel attacked and sort ostracized by my own mother right now.

I just need a pep talk or just any feedback would be nice. Thank you.
...

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I like girls and its breaking my family apart help!!!


Posted Monday February 16 2009, 5:46 pm

I have liked girls since like I was 8. I told my mom and now it jus tore us apart. I'm scared to tell my dad because he hates homosexuals! And like I don't know. I'm scared about me and my moms realationship. And I dont know what to do

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Need to know what to say


Posted Sunday February 15 2009, 9:26 am

Okay.. I am 23 Years Old. see I have a dad and a step mom.. My dad and I are not very close.. I love my dad and everything. He can be very Sarcatic sorry can't spell it, and very hateful too obma and stuff like that.. and I other hand have a disbity I am hard of hearing and no health issues. well thing is that he like live in the past.. also I don't live with them.. okay here I explain what I am try to say. see thing is that when I go my dad's he drive me nut about how I want be iwth my mom more or just becouse i live with my mom and I act like her more. (that a good thing that I do) and he can't stop bring up the past he don't listen what I do now. he like bring up who i was like 10 year algo.. and I am not that person anymore. I am adult ...

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How do i talk with them?


Posted Friday February 13 2009, 9:26 pm

my parents dont listen to what i have to say. If it is important they say " Whatever it is, the answer is no" or " I DONT CARE WHAT IT IS!" i hate it! how do i talk to my parents without them interrupting me all the timeor end up arguing?

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Neighbors are Gossipers


Posted Wednesday February 11 2009, 9:43 pm

I have tried to have cordial relations with my neighbors, but do not have particularly close friendships with any of them.

A little over a year ago, a young man started coming to my home on a regular basis whenever my wife was out of town. After a while, he began spending the night with me when she was away.

Evidently, some of my neighbors noticed these visits and started gossiping about it, spreading the rumor that I am gay and that this young guy is my lover. More recently, however, he has spent the night when my wife is present, so now my neighbors think something kinky is going on.

At times I am puzzled by this. At other times I am angry at their arrogance and gall. The explanation is simple:...

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Applying for tv show?


Posted Tuesday February 10 2009, 1:34 am

Wasn't sure what category this would go under, so I apologize if I am wrong.
Anyways, I browsed around the TLC website trying to find a place to apply for your own t.v show, and I couldn't find anything.
Does anyone know where you could apply?
My dad is a paraplegic and I thought it would never hurt to try out for a show for him, with his permission. I doubt anything would come of it but, who knows.
THANKS :].

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My Dad Hates My Boyfriend


Posted Sunday February 8 2009, 10:59 pm

16/f. So, around the time the new year started, I started dating my current boyfriend. I care about him a lot because we were friends before dating and we can tell eachother anything. Anyways, my dad doesn't like him, at all. He thinks that my boyfriend has "no personality", no direction in life, and only after sex. When I first found out how he felt about him, it really hurt, because he's actually the complete opposite. My dad is also very overprotective in general: I'm only allowed to go to the mall or some other secure location like a friend's house(if the friend is a girl of course), no guys are allowed at my house, and I am only allowed to sleepover at 2 of my friends' houses. Anyways, my boyfriend is quite the opposite. He u...

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what to do about bully daughter in law


Posted Sunday February 8 2009, 10:13 pm

my son married last july to a girl who is a bully.she likes to be the center of attenion all the time. she talks about flirting with my sons friends and their coworkers in front of my son (they both work at the same company). she has begun to alienate my son from his friends and family (his sister & us) who try to tell him how he's not being treated properly. she called my son's sister stupid in front of both of us with no regard for what she said. he has to get permission to put gas in his car! she gets mad if a friend texts him on his phone. she'll text that person at the same time and ask why he's not texting her. she hates most of her coworkers and talks horribly about them. my son seems to know how bad it's gotten, but is in...

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my moms birthday is tomorrow


Posted Sunday February 8 2009, 9:00 pm

my moms birthday is tomorrow and i dont no what to get her i only have 5 dollors.\


- Samantha white a 14yr old

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my brother is a perv


Posted Saturday February 7 2009, 9:31 pm

I'm 16f and my brother is 14. His room is next to mine. about two weeks ago I was looking for something ona a high up shelf in my room and I noticed a small hole in the wall. I looked through it but couldn't see anything. I didn't think anything about it and sorta forgot about it. Then like 5 days ago I was in my room getting ready for bed and right when I took off my bra and panties to take a shower I heard a noise right where the hole is. I was totaly wierded out and decide to check it out. The next day I went into his room and figured the hole is in his closet I went in there and saw his set up. He has a chair in there and a box of tissues (YUCK!!!!) From the hole, he can see most of my room including my bed. I was so scared s...

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nose piercing


Posted Friday February 6 2009, 7:52 pm

so i really want my nose pierced but i doubt my mom will let me ..
do you know any way i can force my mom to let me??

if not how can i hide it from my mom??

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place for a...


Posted Thursday February 5 2009, 1:06 pm

ceremony. a ceremony after someone passes away.

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In-law issues.


Posted Thursday February 5 2009, 9:39 am

This is long, so please bear with me.

I've been having some issues with my future brother-in-law (I'll call him J). He and my fiancee (I'll call him S) are twins, and had a closer relationship than most brothers. S has been fine about putting me first, but J views me as an intrusion on their relationship. No matter how many times S or I try to put J in his place (i.e. me BEFORE J), he just doesn't get the idea. He still sees it as him and his brother against the world.

S and I recently had a small tiff in the car while J was present. It was little, and we resolved it later on. A couple of days later, S and I found out that J had been telling everybody in his family (I mean everyone from siblings to parent...

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divorced parents.


Posted Monday February 2 2009, 10:11 pm

Is it normal for kids not to like there parents relationships? because ever since my parents got divorced I haven't liked anyone that they have dated, they could be the nicest person ever and for some reason I just don't like them.. I just want my parents to get back together!


what should I do?

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Father Left a Year ago!


Posted Monday February 2 2009, 5:42 pm

My father left us Jan 2008. Him and my mother alwasy had issues but he officially took his stuff and left. He has slept in shelters, gone out with random women, put his name in the newspaper statign he was looking for a women. He left us with over 20 K in debt and now we have to go bankrupt because we dont have enough income. I REALLY want to go to school, and I have applied but recently I have had to support me and my mother with food and rent and so have of my savings are gone. Ive asked him for money and he says that if it will in any way help my mother he isnt giving me anything. I tried to keep a relationship (we never had a great relationship but he is a sweet funny man and he never wanted to harm anyone) When I think of him leaving a...

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my crazy dad


Posted Monday February 2 2009, 4:41 pm

okay, so my dad is 46, my mom and him got divorced when i was 7 and my brother was 12, well now im 16 and my brother is 21. My dad is an alcholic and a drug addict and he lives in a motel.. he wont save his money to get an apartment or anything my dad i guess you can say had a rough past but, alot of people who have rough past's can move on and do something with there lifes i dont understand why my dad wont.. i never see him maybe like once every 5 months or so if that and if i do see him its a quick hi, bye type of thing we dont talk much or anything he talks to my brother all the time tough, since he can drink they go to the bars a lot my brother was telling me how the other day he was in the bar saying how his dad messed up his life and...

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My mother


Posted Monday February 2 2009, 4:01 pm

my mother is all up in my life. She keeps taking my stuff away because of my grades. My teachers won't help and i explained that. We can't afford a tutor or anything and i lose my concentration with people talking. My mom reads the notes i write and listens to my phone calls what can i do to get my mother off my back and my grades up

- Samantha White a 14 yr old

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family fued


Posted Monday February 2 2009, 12:31 pm

I moved in with my cousin after I graduated high school and I lived with for about 7 monthis and for those 7 months my autistic cousin her son followed me around everywhere I couldn't even use the bathroom or take a bath without him beating on the bathroom door telling me to get out and that I needed to be around him.I could't even talk to my mom on the phone without him trying to talk to me and my cousin didn't do anything about it and when I tied to go talk to her about it she got mad at me so I moved out and then when I moved out she dosn't want to have anything to do with me anymore becouse I didn't let her son follow me around everywhere and now when I go to my aunts house her mom everytime I go to watch t.v my aunt tells me to go be i...

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