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What should I do...cut her off...is she just really conceited?
Posted Tuesday October 27 2009, 9:37 am
I have known this girl for about 5 years, and she considers me her best friend (not necessarily mutual). I have been noticing some things I do not like about her. I'm 23 and she's 22--it's been happening since right when we were younger Now I am very easy going usually and I can talk a lot too, but she is not very polite about things like when she talks she interrupts ALL THE TIME. She also seems to act like just because she goes to the gym now she is the prettiest girl in the world--she's always acted like this before, but it's even more now. I don't go to the gym and am a size 6--I am curvy kind of like the shape of Kate Winselt and I am very proud of it and love it--my bf does too:) She has said things, since going to the gym like &q...
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feeling weird?
Posted Monday October 26 2009, 6:20 pm
so i had this boyfriend about 3 years ago, B. B and i seemed to get really close but after about 2 months, he ended it, saying he wanted to go out with someone he could see more often. i was really really upset about it for a while, since i was going to give him my virginity. but after a while, i moved on. but it took about 2 or 3 months.
now i have another boyfriend, M, that ive been seeing on and off for about a year and a half, mostly on, though. and when we're off, it usually doesnt last too long. we love eachother like crazy and have had sex many times. im glad that i have him and have never felt more close to any other guy. but M and B are best friends. and sometimes B will come over and hang out with M and i, and i gue...
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how to get over this jelousy
Posted Monday October 26 2009, 1:33 pm
I need someone to tell me how to get over this stupid jelousy thing. My best friend is great, and i love her like one of my sisters. but i have another good friend that i was always there for. she would tell me everything and stuff, but now she has gotten closer to my Best friend A. Friend B likes to now keep secrets from me and tell friend A. and each time i try harder to get included it doesnt work. Its like frien B is trying to stel my bff....and i think its working a little. i know you can have more than one best friend and i really sont mind that, but when it gets to the point where i feel left out, that i mind. and i have tried telling friend B that! so that doesnt work. i need someone to tell me how to have a not so jelouse attitude ...
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differents groups of friends
Posted Saturday October 24 2009, 9:47 pm
17/f
ok, so ever since high school, i've always been part of different groups of friends. Right now, im friends with tom-boyish girls that aren't all pretty made-up faces, and another group that is all made-up faced and into boys. They are different groups of people but they aren't too different, like to the point where if u bring them together there could be a massive cat-fight.. So they aren't too different, they just dont exactly like each other a whole lot, they dont mind each other though.. I hope im making sense.
Well, i was just wondering what does this mean? Im finishing high school this year and starting uni next year.. Could this mean that im still 'searching for myself'? But i feel like i know who i...
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How do I stop this annoying girl from bothering me?
Posted Thursday October 22 2009, 9:48 pm
Okay, so I am a 10th grader. Last year there was this girl in one of my classes. Like we weren't friends or anything. Apparently she's pretty popular but i dont know and i dont care Like I've talked to her about school things.. and I think like general things.. like occasionally but I wouldn't call her my friend, at all, lol. Like i dont know how but she looked me up online on some site and found a few nicknames I have that I wrote on it. and I was wondering why she looked me up in google in the first place.. I still dont have that answer. So she was like thinking it was embarassing and stuff when she said it during class, probably,.. when it wasn't. there were like 3 other girls with her in that posse.. well like a class-posse. one of them...
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problem with friend who lives across the street of the opposite sex
Posted Thursday October 22 2009, 10:51 am
I have a friend and neighbor. I am 36. She is 32.several months ago I was going through mid-life crisis and she has a life time medical disorder. I also have diabetes. I did something her family did not like without consciously knowing I did it. Her parents live on the other side of town and 60 days ago told me to refrain from having contact with her. I abided and 10 days later sent the three of them an apology letter explaining what I was going through. did not hear anything. about 10 days ago I ran into her parents at the local Walmart and asked if we could talk for a few. Her mom's boyfriend said NO(in a tone meaning Drop Dead I think). While the girl and I friends I kind of told her how I felt and let her know I was going to ask h...
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Bitchy friend
Posted Tuesday October 20 2009, 5:06 pm
17/f. My one friend has been kind of mean to me lately and it's pissing me off she always puts me down and she does this to other people to. I'm not sure if she is joking or what
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Centers of attention
Posted Tuesday October 20 2009, 3:46 pm
{A little lengthy but not a novel}
Okay so I have this friend who is a real pain in the butt! I know that has got to sound horrible but its the truth and I just don't know how to deal with it!
I am a sophmore and we have been friends since the begging of eighth grade.
She doesn't come from the best home life, parents were drop outs who got knocked up. She is a bit over weight.
She is nice, to me, and she is one of friends, we share locker together and everything.
What gets me though is she loves to make fun of others, especially people who are "bigger" then she is or who have disabilities. I hate that she feels so insecure and self consouse about herself she has to pick on others, but...
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best friend hurt me, now i dont know what to do
Posted Monday October 19 2009, 10:39 pm
hello advicenators.
first of all i havent been on this site in 3 years. and must i say its great to be back.
so i wont get into details because i'm just wondering this in general, what happens when someone you love, as in a best friend, hurts you. they didnt mean to, and you understand that, but what they did hurt you and you start to realize they werent the person you thought they were. i want things to go back to normal but i can't forget what she did to me.
any experiences with a simliar situation? advice?
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lost (or almost) bff
Posted Monday October 19 2009, 2:05 am
I'm 17/f and I have (or had) this best guy friend named Paul. Just to make this clear, we weren't together or dating and I never had any type of crush or romantic feelings for him, we were just best friends for like almost all of high school. Over this summer, especially we hung out all the time and went shopping and stuff. He was always the one I could vent my complaints to about other people and he did the same to me because we almost always shared the same views and didn't have other people who agreed with us. So there are these two friends that we have, Holly and Dani. They were pretty much his best friends next to me and I was (and still am) really good friends with Holly. The whole junior year, he started to get fed up with them and w...
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new girl; my replacement :( jelousy
Posted Sunday October 18 2009, 4:17 pm
there is a new girl at my school and she joined my group of friends. she has my exact same name which i have a very unique name so its awkward, she is my same hieght except shes super skinny and very outgoing and friendly and is so pretty. she gets along soo good with my boyfriend and best friend and is exactly like them so they talk about alot of stuff i dont understand. i used to spend every single day with my best friend and boyfriend. and now she is with my bestfriend everyday so i am pushed out n never get to see her n they ditch me. then shes always talking about everything with my boyfriend n she has more inside jokes with both of them than i do n always touches both of them n even held my boyfriend he always talks about her but says...
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with friends
Posted Sunday October 18 2009, 2:24 pm
m/16. yesterday i smoked with my friends and i was with some girls. what are some good ways to start and keep a conversation going
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should i stay friends with him?
Posted Sunday October 18 2009, 8:31 am
so one of my good guy friends found out that i fancy him. but he still has feelings for his ex.
he doesnt mind me fancying him but i do have the feeling that things are kind of awkward when we talk :S.
the thing is that i reaally like him & now i dont know if i should stay friends with him or just completely cut him out of my life :/
we've only known eachother for a month anyways but we just klicked. & im new at this school & he was one of my only friends. i dont know what to do because just seeing him hurts me:/
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friend is an addict - again? 16/f
Posted Saturday October 17 2009, 11:22 am
so last year, my friend was in a car accident, and someone close to her died in it. she was in a lot of pain, physically, and was in hospital for a while. she had to be weaned off the painkillers, because she got so addicited to them, and it was really scary, but now she's back to normal. then fo the past two weeks shes been really distant. also she's been taking theese blue capsules. they are a light blue and i'm putting a link to an image of a similar looking pill, but it's a tiny bit darker:
http://images.medscape.com/pi/features/drugdirectory/octupdate/UPJ03950.jpg
it had the word 'ROCHE' on it and another word which i think started with an 'X'. i'm probably worrying over nothing, because she's really smart, but i'm worrie...
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copier
Posted Wednesday October 14 2009, 9:56 pm
my friend copies everything i do. like, i will make up a word and she will use it all the time after she hears me say it. or i will wear sweats to school and the next day she will wear sweats. my mom said don't look at it in a negative way look at is as she looks up to you but i hate it! my outfits are my style and i dont want anyone taking it. nobody reply "just talk to her and tell her how you feel" because she is the kind of person where you can freak out on her and she will just laugh or she will change her attitude that day and then go back to her normal self the next. help, please! im at wits end!
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me n my bestie just got in this huge fight over???
Posted Wednesday October 14 2009, 4:18 pm
so yesturday my best friend started to ignore me. i had no clue why, so i asked around. today i found out that another friend told her i said something like she was giving out blow jobs or sumthing like that, but i didn't i was joking around with a friend and she got the joke. but then she told someone who didnt take it as a joke. i even told my bestie that and she thinks i'm lieing. also she and my boyfriend are good friends and im affraid that he'll break up with me over this whole mess. i need some advice please. what should i doo?!?
*female age 13*
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How can I not be so controlling and overprotective of friends?
Posted Wednesday October 14 2009, 12:35 am
I don't want to see my friends get hurt at all. I tend to get a little too involved and concerned though so I end up being really controlling and overprotective. This has backfired on me because then they are afraid to tell me things they would normally share with me. I just don't want any of them to be hurt by anyone/anything, but how can I learn to be less controlling? It's frustrating because I always feel like I need to take charge and make the situation "safe" for them...even if it means controlling every tiny detail!
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My friend like his teacher?? Normal or should I straighten him out?
Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 11:45 pm
Recently, my friend has been talking about how "hot" he thinks his teacher his. He keeps saying he fantasizes about her and he worships her. He said he likes walking past her room, he said he wants to buy the yearbook and school newsaper just to oogle and "jack off" at any pictures of her in them. Worst of all, he said he wishes she was a pedophile and if she wanted to molest him he'd be all for it. He also said one day he was leaving school he saw her walking towards her car, he took out his cellphone and snapped a pic of her secretly. Its kind of funny but its also kind of creepy to me. I always thought a teacher is someone you respect, not look at in that way. Is this normal? Or should I straighten him out?
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What to do when I've lost most of my friends :"(
Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 10:58 pm
(Female/14)
In grade six A,D,T, and me we're best buds but unfort. A moved away so it was just me D and T.
In grade seven, T started hanging out with L and Z and it wasn't until the end of the year that i joined her and well we drifted away from D so it was then me T and L and Z.
Grade eight it was us all the way but we had so many fights that in june last week of school L and Z went there way and well me and T were once together again.(At this point we wished we hadn't left D )
Now in grade nine i missed first two weeks of school and once I come bacl, T is friends with D and M( m was friends with d after gr.6) L and Z arent friends anymore so i started hanging out with L and her s...
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Comfort Someone: Should You Go With Your Nature, or With the Necessity?
Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 9:34 am
Hmm . . . how should I start?
You see, when close friends are hurt, they may have different ways to support each other:
1. some would lick each other's wounds,
2. some would pull each other up, and
3. some would just become a silent shadow.
None of those methods is better than the others--sometimes we need someone to help us recover, sometimes we need someone to push us forward, and sometimes we just simply need someone to just silently sit there and listen to us . . . of course, a combination of three would be perfect, but not many people are able to do that--and it also depends on the situation.
Oftentimes we select which method to apply based on our very own nature...
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