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I saw my brother masturbate but he doesn't know, what should i do?
Posted Sunday March 8 2009, 6:40 pm
The other night when i was in bed my brother came in my room to use my computer, i was curious as to what he was doing so i pretended to be sleeping. He started off by just playing a game but then after 10 mins he started to watch naughty videos. I found it funny and thought to myself *haha you are so busted*. But then he got his thing out and started to masturbate, i was really shocked and couldn't believe what i was seeing, it was the first time i had seen a penis in real life and i couldn't take my eyes off what he was doing, after the initial shock went i started to become kinda hot and enjoyed watching. Does any one have any ideas on what i should do? I don't mind that he done it as i kinda liked seeing it, but i'm not sure if i should...
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Taking care of parents
Posted Sunday March 8 2009, 2:49 pm
I've been having to take care of my parents for a couple of years now, its been easy before because they could do alot of things for themselves. Now, its not so easy. My mom's mind is getting worse by the day, she can't remember a whole lot and can't comprehend hardly anything that is not very easy to comprehend. She takes alot of pills daily that I have to lay out for her because she simply can't keep anything straight in her head. My dad is getting over lung cancer, now going through chemo and having a hard time with that, plus has now lost his eye site completely due to glaucoma. He always had a tiny bit of eyesite left, but this past weekend woke up saying it was gone. When I'm home its going to be ok because im here to cons...
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Posted Friday March 6 2009, 6:30 pm
What doyou collect or cherish the most?
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your man
Posted Friday March 6 2009, 3:02 pm
how do you pick up a really good guy who wont hurt you?
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No Mother Daughter Relationship
Posted Wednesday March 4 2009, 8:45 pm
Hi I am 19 years old and live at home with my mother. my sister just recently moved out and my dad left us a year ago. I have tried to have a relationship with my dad but my mother is the one who kept it together when he left us with debt, and so if I go to see him she gets defensive and depressed. The Point in my question is that my mom irratates me. She never really supported me on going to school, while my friends parents are constantly asking "what are you going to do, what school do you wanna go to?" my mom never was interested she was just happy that I had a job didint care much about a career. When i told her I was going to school she thought I was moving out and got upset, then when she found out where my school was (which...
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my grandfather. help please.
Posted Monday March 2 2009, 10:44 pm
Last year my grandpa called me alot hof horrible names. I havent talked to him since and he hasnt tried to apologize. Thing is it hurts me ao much that he did this and i dont think its right for my brother n sis to suffer because of me. I will never forgive him, but i am willing to try. He hasnt been to any family events like christmas or thanksgiving or my brother and sisters birthday. I need to call him because I know his time is coming soon and i dont want our last words to be bad ones. Im scared though. Scared hes going to yell at me like before. It just hurts me so much to not see him anymore bc we used to be soo close, im even crying as im writing this. I just want my grandpa back the he used to be. What should I do? Should I call him...
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Violence
Posted Friday February 27 2009, 12:03 pm
what do you do when you have a very very rude violent sibling who gets extra violent coz there on drugs and your mum's a single mother and disabled...I could physically stop him, but abuse gets you know where. && I wouldnt stoop to his level. he is younger, and I would get into trouble...it tears my family apart. and he's only 12
15/f
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My brother is a perv
Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 9:56 am
A couple weeks ago I posted how my brother was spying on my room from his closet and i didn't know what to do. Since I posted this alot has happened. I tried to close the hole with a poster. A few days later, I walked into my room and it was pitch black (the lights were off and the shades were closed) except for a thin beam of light coming from my brother's clost through the well disguised hole my brother put in the poster. That's when I decided to do something. I wrote him a note telling him I know about the hole and he better stop. I wrote that I don't want to discuss it with him ever and that if he doesn't stop, I'll tell our dad. I put up a different poster, and the little perv did it again. He put a hole in it. I was so pissed, I show...
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Money for my own room
Posted Thursday February 26 2009, 8:00 am
im 16/f and share a room the size of a closet (when it has 2 occupants) with my 6 year old sister. thats a bit of a difference. i need my own room before i go crazy.
my mom says if i can give her $10,000 she''ll give the rest to make me a room.
how do i make 10,000 dollars ASAP?
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What to do when...
Posted Wednesday February 25 2009, 8:50 pm
So my mom is super pissed off at my dad for some shit that went down on Sunday. I think she's being a bitch, but, that's not my issue. How do I make her stop being mad? It's really annoying and its extremely unnecessary.
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Bed time rules-blah
Posted Monday February 23 2009, 11:42 pm
14/f
ok, so my parents totally treat me like i'm four instead of 14. right now i was supposed to be asleep 1 hour and 40 minutes ago. i'm 14!!! most of my friends go to bed at 1 a.m.. all i want is another hour, mayne an hour and a half, tacked on. that's not much. but whenever i bring it up, my mom freaks. also, if i so much as mention boys, my dad goes crazy and starts asking for names, addresses, zip codes, where i met them, blah blah blah blah blah. and trust me, he's dead serious.
how can i make my parents understand i'm not a little girl anymore?
thanks!!! :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)
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Economic problems
Posted Monday February 23 2009, 2:54 pm
Hi i don't really know what category this belongs in but i really need help.
My neighbor is losing her house,car,and she can't pay the bills.Her husband lost his job and they want to move because they don't know what else to do. I really don't want them to leave. Is there anyway i could help them. I'm desperate
any advice is good.
thnks in advance
xoxoxoxoxo
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sterile?
Posted Sunday February 22 2009, 11:25 pm
what is the cheapest and easiest way to tell if me or my fiance are sterile?
We've been having unprotected sex for 3 years, not trying to intentionally have a baby, but we want to eventually. we thinks its wierd that after 3 years im still not pregnant
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My boyfriend's family is putting unnecessary stress on our relationship.
Posted Saturday February 21 2009, 9:27 pm
I'm 21, he's 23. He still lives with his mom and dad and brother, who's my age. We've recently gotten back together after like two years of fighting and pretending not to love each other. We're head over heels for each other, we treat each other well - I mean, we're still trying to get past some of the stuff that we had trouble with before, but we joke around with each other, we laugh together, we cry together...We'd have a perfect relationship now if it weren't for his family.
His family hates me - absolutely HATES me - I've done nothing to warrant this behavior. If anything, I've been a saint as far as they should be concerned. I've spent hours taking care of him while he was drugged out of his mind on painkillers after surgery, I...
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Favoring the younger sibling
Posted Saturday February 21 2009, 12:32 pm
I am the oldest in my family and i have two younger brothers and a younger sister. It seems like my mom hates me because she never listens to my side of the story. She automaticly assumes i should get grounded when my brothers and sister tell the story. There is way more to it but i don't think that i can get into all that.
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mom is (emotionaly) hurting me.
Posted Friday February 20 2009, 11:40 am
16/F I have a boyfriend (17/m), and he is wonderful. he is sweet, kind, fun, compgassionate, and everything i thought i would never find. Yes i know im young, there for i cant possiably be in love, right. Sorry thats bull. I cant really explain it, i just know you know? I love him. thats not the problem tho. we got in a little trouble together a while back. nothing illeagle or life threatening tho. The first time, i let him in the house when he wasn't supposed to be. Long story but he was covered in scraches and mud, i had to let him use the bathroom to get cleaned up. Poor guy, wouldn't you have helped him? the second time, i skiped a day of school. ya bad i know, but it was during finals, but i had already finished the finals for those cl...
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To Leave Or Not To Leave
Posted Wednesday February 18 2009, 8:42 pm
Ok, Here's the stitch.
My mother just got back together with her 3rd Husband, [the one that i cant stand] they breakup then makeup maybe 3 times a year...as soon as things start goin well he comes out of the blue and walks back into her life. My mom knows how much i hate him but she dosnt seem to care. She mostly just wants 2 make sure im not mad at her, she dosnt care that i dont want to be a part of the "family" im the only one in the way and its exhausting! I feel like a complete bitch because im not helping my mother in any way but what about her? When she and my stepdad got married i only met the man once and 7 days later they got married. My mother is the type that's better off without a man but dosn't seem to relize ...
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i'm 15, but parents still think of me as a little girl.
Posted Wednesday February 18 2009, 11:53 am
15/f
It's really annoying me how my parents seem to think of me as a little girl.
In certain ways they don't - they know that I drink and do drugs and party, they let me stay out as late as I want to and I can go practically anywhere I want, but the way they speak to me is like I'm a little girl.
Also, certain things they do make me think the same thing. For example, the other night, my grandad gave me a lift to the train station, but I had missed the train and my friends had all left. So I was waiting for the next train. My mum called and was like, "Why did your grandad not stay with you? It's late at night and it's dark and cold and you're just a little girl!" I had to remind her that...
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My Overbearing Mother :(( :(( :((
Posted Wednesday February 18 2009, 9:08 am
Actually I don't know if overbearing is the right word to describe my mum. The thing is, my mum is so hot headed, so sensitive that every time I do one little wrong thing, she always explodes. She gets mad unreasonably. I used to keep quiet every time she got mad, I would just keep quiet because if I spoke, she would get even more mad. I try my best to be a good daughter and to be less of a burden. I sacrificed so much so as not to be one of her problems. I even tried to kill myself because no matter what I do, she didn't appreciate and feel any sacrifice I've done which is why I'm good as dead. My theory is the reason why she's so hard on me is because she's doing her best to be a good mother and she's sacrificing too and all those things ...
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I miss my father...Why?
Posted Wednesday February 18 2009, 12:33 am
OK here goes nothing. I am 39 years old and my father has not been in my life for many years. But tonight i find myself physically crying and wondering why he still doesnt want to be a part of my life. From the time i was 2 when he left my mother and my sister and me he was never there till i had my first child at 25. After a few months of thinking everything was good he just stopped calling or coming around. So the ultimate question is why do i still miss him and should it still hurt to think that someday i would get a Hey i'm proud of you from him. This just hurts so much right now.
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