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mean girl
Posted Tuesday January 20 2009, 7:50 pm
hey i am 17/f and im having some problems with these girls. well one of them, her name A was in my class last year. and her other friend b sits with her at lunch well one day i smiled at B b/c i thought me and her were still cool. but then she and her friends including A started talking about me. i got really angry and upset. well i ended up going on facebook yesterday and i messaged her and i said "hey you and your friends need to stop talking about me" and then she messaged me calling me a dumb bitch saying that im not the center of attention and im the last thing that she and her friends would talk about me and said i was ugly, and we went back and forth saying things to each other. and she said that im too scared to say stuff ...
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Annoying kid
Posted Tuesday January 20 2009, 6:52 pm
there is this kid on my bus who is really annoying but he thinks we are best friends. in the classes i have with him he always follows me around and it gets kind of embarrassing. he also tells me and the other girl on my bus how we are ugly and why. he always tries to make my life seem terrible. he has no friends and i dont want to hurt his feelings, but how do i get rid of him?
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more friends
Posted Monday January 19 2009, 6:35 pm
13/f
i used to have tons of friends, popular ones too. then they all ditched me. now all of my friends, even the ones who havent ditched me, are subtily avoiding me and not talking to me. i think its because i shut down after my best friend ditched me. how can i get my friends back and make new ones? because i am sick of being alone every friday night.
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I am so confused!
Posted Monday January 19 2009, 5:43 pm
Okay, this will be long so get ready.. alright I like this guy named Matt so much! Like , I'll start from the beginning. Okay, I started likening him on the second week of school. I still like him even MORE now. I started giving him notes...telling him I like him...I heard rumors from my friends that he threw them away.So, I quite giving him notes. I gave him a Christmas card...and he took it...I am thinking about giving him a v-day card... but I don't think I should because...the last time my friend tried to give him a note from me ...he wouldn't take it!! So, should I give him the card ...or not ?? I don't think I should because ..he won't add me on my space ... In the request I told him that I liked him a lot and I wanted him to add ...
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Birthday Help ASAP
Posted Sunday January 18 2009, 3:24 pm
Hello Everyone. I know this is kind of late notice but please help me. My boyfriends birthday is Tomorrow! and I don't have anything planned. I brought him a gift but I just realizd that tomorrow will be his first birthday without his family and close friends because everyone will be back home. I asked him if it was anything special he wanted to do and he said whatever I had plannd but... ugh thats nothing as of now. Please help me. Any advice will be better than none. Thank you.
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He won't leave me alone!!!!!
Posted Saturday January 17 2009, 9:46 pm
I was wondering about something really important to me. I have this boy that has been stalking me for a while and wants to do it(have sex) with me. I really don't like him like that and don't really know him but he still stalks me and looks at me in the wrong places. Can you give me some advice?
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When you really like someone...
Posted Saturday January 17 2009, 8:24 pm
you know when you really like someone ?
but they dont feel the same way;
but then again you dont really know;
how do you find out.
i know it isnt love;
so dont think i am naive
but i want to grab this feeling and take the chances it is giving.
So to be honest; i could do with some advice to find out how he feels about me...
he is flirtatious with me and he doesnt know i like him so that may help drive your answer ?
Thankyouu. :)
xx
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hot teacherr
Posted Friday January 16 2009, 1:07 pm
okay so like i have a HUGE crush on my teacher. he is really good lookin and like im pretty sure he knows i have a crush on him. this is like really embarressing to say and i cant tell any of my friends caus elike i know its werid but like i hate weekends cause i dont get to see my teacher. haha and weridly enough last night i had a dream about him. to embaressing to describe it. ahah like idk what to do hes 10 years older then me haha. how can i get him out of my headd haha?
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Asking Out
Posted Thursday January 15 2009, 10:20 pm
Okay, so i am 15 and in high school. I really like this one guy that i don't have any classes with but i know very well. I know i like him because when he talks to me, i blush and can barely speak in front of him because i am so nervous. So my question is... Can a girl like me ask a guy like him out?
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Crazy rumors...
Posted Thursday January 15 2009, 5:50 pm
I use to date this boy and we broke up so whatever. I was really hurt and cried all the time but now I am getting better. I really don't even like him no more. But.... He is going around telling people that I sucked his dick. (itz not true at all) I just don't know how to handle this. Everybody sayz to just ignore it and all that stuff.. But I can't. We go to the same school so I have to face this EVERY DAY. Its dayz when I don't even want to get out of bed because I know what I have to face. Can anybody help me? I am 14 years old, a female and in the 8th grade.
Please somebody.. I don't know how long I can handle this.
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girls who are trashing talking about me at school
Posted Tuesday January 13 2009, 7:59 pm
so im a 17/f and im a senior. umm so there are a few girls in my grade and they have my lunch and one of them, Sarah, who use to be my friend when i first came here in 8th grade.and i smiled at her but then she was just looking at me and then she said something to her friends. and her friends nelma, chrissy, & andrea started staring at me and were talking about me. they were even staring at me when i got up because i saw them so don't sit there and tell me that i don't know for sure if they were talking about me because i know when someone is talking about me. well anyways nelma was also my friend last year, but then she told me that she was taking cosmetology class and they were doing a project where they give makeovers to people. and ...
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Matt!!!
Posted Tuesday January 13 2009, 7:34 pm
Hello, I like this guy that's truly amazing . I asked him to add me on my space...but he hasn't added me yet, and I want to know why. The friend request was real nice. I told him I liked him and I wanted him to add me so he and I can get to know each other. I was so nice ...but he went on my space 20 minutes after I sent the request...and he didn't add me. It, makes me so sad...because I like him SO much and I just want to be his friend...so he can see that were meant to be together.... my friend is his friend on my space...and she said we have a lot in common. So , please someone tell me why he won't add me. Or, what I said wrong or whatever ...thanks for whoever try's to help!!
- Mattlover
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How to handle overload
Posted Tuesday January 13 2009, 1:44 am
I run a free monthly newsletter online reaching 1,000 people nationally. It is high demand. Have a small staff that won't work with me. Newsletter is over 30 pages long after tons of cut backs. For me to handle it is just too much being a housewife and homeschooling the kids. I am also trying to write books and the newsletter is a great stepping stone for that. Well, what do I do now? I can't write it all, don't see how to cut it back, kids need schooling first, really need the money of writing plus my dream, where to go from here?
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Mixed Signals
Posted Sunday January 11 2009, 2:17 am
17/f
There's this guy, we'll call him N. Well, I've liked him for a very long time. I told him eventually, he didn't feel the same. Okay, cool. We were friends. Still are. But now, ever since him and his girlfriend (er, now ex-girlfriend) broke up, he's been flirting with me like there's no tomorrow. But then, when he's texting me updates about the game, he stopped texting back so fast. So my friend Tyler sent me updates. Well, N told me the same thing Tyler did, so I told him that Tyler told me. He then replied "Okay, just making sure pal."
It's stuff like that that always throws me for a loop. Is he just looking for a fun time, or what? I mean, him and his girlfriend only broke up cause he's going to Univer...
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Ignoring.
Posted Friday January 9 2009, 8:52 pm
Okay so i've been talking to this guy, and everyone is telling me he is a jerk. So i dont judge someone before i get to know them and i've been talking to him for a while now. He is really sweet to me over texting and IMing and stuff like that, but in school he totally ignores me!
The other day i looked at him and smiled, and he looked the other way. When we were hanging out after school he didn't say one word to me.
He texted me then next day and said he was sorry and that his friends were distracting him.
I'm texting him now and he's being really sweet again. But i just don't know, cuz if i go out with this guy i dont want it to be just a texting relationship.
I'm not even sure if he likes me that way, It just made me wonder.
Help?
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<3 MATT <3
Posted Friday January 9 2009, 4:52 pm
Hi, I need some advice...so anyone PLEASE HELP!!I love this guy named Matt...he's so amazing... tonight I am going to write a email to him( if my friend finds it) I am going to tell him how I feel about him... my friend is his friend on my space...she says he likes girls who mean it when they say they love him.I absolutely do!! I don't know what I should do when I go back to school Monday... how I should act...I'll be happy that he reads it..(if he does) but..I'll be extra nervous. I am so shy around him... I can't EVEN talk to him... so someone help me out...also do you think he'll not read it even when I say to?? Please...I would like ANYONE to try to help... thanks to whoever try's to help..
- Mattlover
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what should i do about this guy?
Posted Friday January 9 2009, 1:54 am
Hellooo
I'm 15/F and a sophomore
I was wondering if I should go for this guy I like.
He's my age, he's super sweet, really cute, smart, funny, and respectful. The only problem is, his best friend is my ex boyfriend and we had a REALLY bitter break up :/ to our friends, it would be really wrong if anything were to happen between us but I have really strong feelings for him and I don't know what to do.should I go for him, or not? And if I should, how do I let him know how I feel?
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Don't know what to do
Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 1:14 am
Well I was talking to this girl for a school semester on and off. She's 14 and I'm 16. Everything was going great and we were closer then ever. But one day after being back together for about a week. She told me for I dunno the 5th time that she's scared to hurt me. So I told her how I felt about her " I know what I want and I I've found it in you" " that's how I know I won't hurt you". Then she said that she's trying really hard to find that something in me. After that i told her I haven't been completly myself around her I meant that I'm kinda more outgoing when I'm with my friends. And that I really like her and that I want to be with her and I asked her if she wanted to be with me. She told
Me that she doesn'...
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im screwing up again
Posted Tuesday January 6 2009, 4:59 pm
i have this guy that im dating, well kinda its complicated. anyways the last time i really liked someone they broke up with me and it really sucked, i was upset to say the least. he broke up with me for the same reason that im asking for help, i was just put off. like i liked him i was just nervous to be around him. and to do stuff with him. i have trouble saying what i feel. it goes even further than that. i just have a hard time getting close with someone.
this guys he is one who wants me to cuddle with him, and basically just act like i want him to be there. and i do. i just kinda push him away.
he says things like i miss you and im just like ok. and in reality i miss him too i just cant bring myself to say ...
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Pressure into sex
Posted Tuesday January 6 2009, 12:00 am
Ok. I'm sorry if I make this akward but my boyfriend, nathan, sometimes pressures me into things I don't really want to do. I really love him and I have never felt this way about anyone. I don't want to break up with him but he pressured me into having sex in his friends house and now I feel like a slut. He males me feel that way sometimes and everything is always bout sex. He loves me and he cares slot bout me but idk what to do! Someone please help me!!! I'm a girl and I'm 13
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