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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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i still having feelings for my ex


Posted Tuesday November 10 2009, 9:37 am

well okay 15/f well ii have been in and out with this boy and i really like him we have been together for 9months and we broke up and i went back to my ex and then we broke up and i went back with the other guy now and i still like my ex and i really wan to go back out with him but i end up goin back out with thwe other one and now that i still like my ex and he likes me i dont know what to do hahah wow i get really confused who to be with i got two questions

should i tell my boyfriend that we are over and go with the other guy?
or
should i stay with my boyfriend and just wait till the time comes?

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Never had a childhood...Need to learn how to build a lasting friendship!


Posted Monday November 9 2009, 7:25 pm

When I was a kid my parents always wanted me home RIGHT after school, I wasnt allowed to join sports teams because my parents(mom was too over protective. In highschool I went to a school almost an hour away because my sis went there and becasue all the students from my elementary school took over the options I had for schools in my neighborhood and I didnt want to go to school with them because I was a "loser" in elementary school and I wanted to start fresh. highschool was great! I made great friends I experimented I went out...Sometimes....and I found my soul mate! Now i do not go out with my highschool friends becasue they are too far, they were still experimenting when i left school and I was over that, and I was so fresh wit...

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ex bestfriends


Posted Monday November 9 2009, 9:58 am

hi 15 year old here okay this is probably going to be long


okay well me and this gurl have been bestfriends since the 7th grade soo she met my ex and my boyfriend and she liked my boyfriend better than my ex and well my boyfriend i broke up with just not to long ago and she got mad that i got back with my ex and now shes not talking to me and she said that i talk behind peoples back and that i am a lier and shes saying that she dont talk behind peoples back and the fact that she got so amd at me that she came down the street and tried to make me jealous about them going out if they were which there not but why would she do that anyway im sick and tired of her talking junk what should i do when she approchaes me ...

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Best Friend Drama


Posted Monday November 9 2009, 3:17 am

Me and my best friend have been friends since 4th grade, and we're 19 now. I don't agree with a lot of the things she does, but I've always been there for her regardless. Lately, though, I'm at my wits end.

She has two kids already by two different guys. She just had her second child maybe two weeks ago with her current boyfriend, and he treats her terribly. He used to be like a brother to me, but after a bunch of drama, we really don't like each other. First, it was little things he did that made me worry. He'd tell her what she could and couldn't wear, he didn't like her talking to guys, stuff like that. But last night everything changed. She called me hysterical. He had hit her three times in the face and held h...

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Akward situation..?


Posted Friday November 6 2009, 10:28 pm

I'm a girl in my 20's. So I've been dating my boyfriend for 1 year. I've always been really reserved and quiet. I'm coming out of my shell alot with him. On Halloween, we went to a club. My boyfriend, my best friend(girl whois bisexual) and I. we all were pRetty drunk and sat at a bar table inthe corner. My best friend goes to the bathroom. My boyfriend convinces me to take off my thong and giveit to him under the table...so I was drunk, and I did. As soon as she comes back, he shows her and she gets all mad ish that I did that. So I get super embarressed, put them back on. That night she went home and we haven't spoken since. Should I be the one to call her?! Or her me? I don't know what to dooo . I didn't do anything wrong... Did I?

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relations with friends


Posted Friday November 6 2009, 9:55 am

if you fell in love with a guy that was your friend and he doesnt want to talk to you after you broke up with them and he calls u a bunch of names that you dont like what do you do?

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major dilema plzz help!


Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 10:15 pm

okayy so i realize that this story sound ridiculously shallow and unimportant but please help me! so just to explain i am 16/f in highschool. in between 2 cliques. 1. that would b considered \"popular\" and 2. the other that is a little less but im closer with them. so about month ago i went to a killers concert, i was suposed to go with 2 of my friends from the 1st clique. but they canceled at the last minute and i went with 2 from clique 2. but then we saw other members of clique 1 there and it was awkward. so now there is a the fray concert and i wanted to go with 3 other my friends from the 1st clique., because they are big fans. but i asked one of them if they are going and there like \"yea im working on getting tickets\...

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the right thing to do


Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 4:58 pm

currently, i am in a really good relatioship with my boyfriend. it wasnt always so good, about a year ago he got really mad at me, broke up with me and then somehow his cousin got my number. his cousin started talking to me and soon, i was hooked on him, but more because i just wanted someone to talk to, after my boyfriend ended things but then i got more attached, for bad reasons. he was into drugs and alchohol and i didnt have a problem with that, but for some reason i felt like he needed me, when obviously he didnt. i recently realzied i had to get rid of him once i fixed things with my boyfriend, whose been nothing but supportive in my ventures to stop talking to his cousin.
one night, my boyfriends cousin said something to me t...

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not really a friend question, more of a reflection question


Posted Wednesday November 4 2009, 7:27 pm

Wyoming, 18

Lately I have been issues with friends. I seem to constantly put myself in groups of friends with 3's. What usually happens is I'll be best friends with a girl, then another girl will come along, and then its a tug-a-war! For example, my best friend Alyssa is now living with a recent ex-best friend of mine - but since I have made it clear that i am not a fan of my ex- best friend, Alyssa has been not inviting me places, and becoming such great friends with my old one. Another example is I became friends with Callie who had a good friend - i wouldn't call them best friends - Sam. Callie was friends with Sam, but I started to get closer with Sam but still maintaining a best friend relationship with Callie. Then Call...

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love you, best friend.


Posted Wednesday November 4 2009, 1:30 am

19 yr old female.

would it be weird of me to tell my good guy friend, who i also have a crush on that i love him? like love him as in a best friend kinda way. i don't want him to be like woaaaah, i don't love you like that, you know? should i be like love you best friend! blaaaa i overthink things. i dont want it to come out and then be silent like ooookay awkward.

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my best friend constantly lies about being pregnant and alot of other stuff


Posted Wednesday November 4 2009, 12:06 am

My bff constantly lies to me about being pregnant & miscarrying & I can tell she's lying because she says she's preg one day after having sex and stupid, obvious stuff like that. She also lies about constantly being sick and random stuff like what people say or what her mom says, its dumb. I know its for attention but me and her boyfriend give her all the attention she needs. Tonight I told her for the first time I knew she was lying and I stood up to her she cussed me out and I don't think she wants to be friends anymore. We work together and she is like the bosses pet and everyones favorite I'm sure she'll make my life aweful there. Any help or advice on what to do or what to say to her would be helpful, thank you so much

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Friendship falling apart?


Posted Monday November 2 2009, 11:03 pm

My best friend is a freshman in college and I'm a senior in high school. We used to call each other every night and talk for an hour, but now its an occasional text and we have run out of things to talk about, and we are definitely not as close as we used to be. How can I try to fix this and make it work? (both girls)

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Best Friend?


Posted Monday November 2 2009, 7:19 pm

Im 17 and a female. So, I have a best friend but we have had bad fights throughout our friendship and almost stopped being friends and it ended up happening once and then we ended up becoming friends again. But she met a guy last year and they ended up dating. The 3 of us all became close! Except for it seems to me that she likes him better now and wants to be with him more even though im her best girl friend! Her bf has even told me that she said she loves him more!? she shouldnt just dump me for a guy right? she hasnt exactley but we have been talking less and I'm not sure what to do. It does kinda hurt but I dont think she realizes it. Even though shes important to me i think I'm gonna let her go. It's already happening so why not? Or no...

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becomming more than friends?


Posted Sunday November 1 2009, 7:08 pm

next weekend me, this girl and a few friends r going out smoking and seeing a movie. its basically like going out with some friends, but i kinda want to make it more than friends with this girl, what can i do?

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Always out for number 1


Posted Saturday October 31 2009, 2:01 am

Hi... I am kind of upset so my writing might send of some type of emotional vibe...despite that i just want to say that I do think I a rational despite all this...

I had arranged with my parents to leave the house for the night so that I can invite a few friends over for a fright night movie marathon. I invited about 15 people over. It was a last minute thing and I kind of arranged this last night... Anyway so 3 declined because they were really scared and couldn't deal with it. my best friend said she couldn't cause she had to finish "homework" . the rest never answered. and one just said she wasn't coming. point blank and very blunt. My best friend really really upset me cause that afternoon she basically ordere...

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She's REALLY bothering me!


Posted Thursday October 29 2009, 10:47 pm

Okay so this girl has been my best friend for like seven years (we're freshman in highschool) and I love her to death but there is this one thing that bothers me SOO much about her. She is actually like really really pretty but she knows this and she also thinks she's like really really hot. And it is so annoying. She's a little slutty... She doesn't have a big butt at all but she buys pants that are crazy tight and then goes around like "oh my god my butt is so big!" and for some reason it bothers me so much. And she also has like the same exact size boobs as me. Like really, I've seen her cup size... it's the same as mine. But she's always like "I'm sorry (my name) but you have like no boobs" or she's like "Here's...

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tagging pictures


Posted Thursday October 29 2009, 7:43 am

Where can i find pictures with questions for facebook?
so i see on my friends profile, i get tagged in pictures where it say " how did we meet" or " what if i died today, what would you tell me"? ... Where can i find a link to stuff like this?

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friends operation


Posted Wednesday October 28 2009, 4:02 am

13/m
ok my friend is going away next weekend for a operation where shes going to get some tube put down her neck to her stomach (not sure why). and shes scared of having it. and she told me that her boyfriend asked her if she was going to be ok, so i said of course shes gunna be ok Shes Brooke(her name) and she smiled from that. what are some other things i could say to make her feel better and less nervous about going.not to spite her boyfriend or anything like that but we are close so i need to comfort her in some way.
thanks

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Is this a good friend or not?


Posted Wednesday October 28 2009, 4:02 am

So, I have this friend whose parent's are really strict and kinda dumb at times. My friend tells others that I'm her best friend. And everyone keeps asking me if its true. So i tell my friend not to go around telling people im her best friend. She embarasses me infront of her crush. My friend is kinda disgusting. She keeps a cat at home and the litter box is INSIDE the house. this is like a wild cat. My friend kisses the cat and its kinda disgusting. My friend leaves food (cheese) on the couch for the cat to eat..and the cat sleeps on her bed...CAT FLEAS AND GERMS SPREAD. My friend also teases people about their names and their skin color. I laugh at this..but inside i know that this isnt good to laugh at. She think of me as a good friend. ...

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taking advantage of my niceness


Posted Tuesday October 27 2009, 9:28 pm

okay so i have this friend and she is the biggest complainer ever..like thats all she does every day and shes always in a bad mood. and so a few days ago she just flipped out on me because of a harmless little joke (that ive said to her in the past and she laughed about it)..i even apologized but then she said something that just really pissed me off. we call each other sluts and stuff (just kidding of course) but she said "did you say that because you're jealous of me?" i seriously wanted to go off on her so bad but i didn't because i don't want to cause unnecesary drama my senior year of high school. it just pisses me off so much of the fact that she thinks i'm jealous of her..i love my own life and i have plenty self confidence...

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