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Good ways to get revenge:
Posted Wednesday November 18 2009, 9:42 pm
So there's this guy that makes me want to shoot myself, and I've decided that I'm going to get him back for the mean stuff he does to the world.
I need something really easy, that doesn't cause him physical pain. I want this to be a blow to his pride. . . and a huge one.
Don't bother with the "revenge is not the answer" stuff, I've made up my mind.
Any suggestions would be helpful! :)
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sleep over
Posted Wednesday November 18 2009, 12:35 pm
i was thinking about having a sleep over with my best friend but im not sure what we could do or talk about any ideas please ? :P
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girl likes her best freind
Posted Wednesday November 18 2009, 8:44 am
what would you do if you liked your best freind about a year ago and he told you he couldnt see you because he was going out with someone and you happened to be out with him a few days ago and now hes single and he happened to have a flashback of when you used to like him but you asked him what he meant and he said nothing bad what does this mean ? and why would he bring it up ? helpppp please ?
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Housing and Friendship problem
Posted Tuesday November 17 2009, 11:34 pm
Cutting to the chase:
My best friend and I had been planning to get an apartment together for about a year. She joined a sorority last semester and she clicked with two other girls in her sorority. Meanwhile, she was talking to me about still getting an apartment together.
The other day, she told me she had been talking about getting an apartment together with her sorority sisters at the same time and that she was going to live with them next year instead. BASICALLY, she told me all our plans of living together were not gonna happen because I'm not in her sorority.
Now I have to figure out my housing situation next year (I don't have any one else I would live with) and there's this awkward tension between her a...
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girl likes her best freind what to do :S
Posted Tuesday November 17 2009, 10:19 pm
what would you do if you liked your best freind a good while back and he told you he couldnt see you in that way because he was going out with another girl and now hes single you were out with him the other day sitting and he said he had flashbacks of when you used to like him and you asked if he meant it in a bad way but he replied no of course not what does this mean and what should you do if the feelings you had about him are starting to return ?? help would be grand thanks .
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best friends?
Posted Tuesday November 17 2009, 3:08 pm
I always thought a best friend was someone you tell everything too, someone you trust, someone you can be yourself with and goof around with and a lot more. Was I wrong for thinking that? Is that what everyone else thinks best friends are for? I'm asking because my "best friend" doesnt tell me everything. She gets mad at me and says that I don't even know her. She always talks about how she can really talk to whatever new guy she's talking to about everything even stuff she cant tell me. She gets mad at me so easily and calls me a b**ch quite frequently. I've tried to talk to her about it, cause I don't understand why we are "best friends" if she can't even tell me everything, and gets mad at me all the time and calls me...
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conceited friend
Posted Monday November 16 2009, 7:41 pm
16 f.
i have a best friend, who ive been close with for about 3 years now. i love her too death and we have been soo close for soo long, but latley shes become extrememly conceited. shes always thought she was very good looking, and that never really bothered me that much. but now she has full out turned into a snobby girl. she thinks shes better then everyone else, and shes not the same person i was best friends with. i know her soo well, but she has changed! im a really laid back girl and i dont really get into drama just because i dont like it. so im not going to call her out and make a big deal over it, but i dont really know what to do about it,
should i stop being friends with her? or should i talk to her about it?
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I want him back in my life, even as a friend...
Posted Monday November 16 2009, 12:33 pm
A friend of mine from college grew closer to me over the past year and we ended up becoming best friends. Needless to say, we ended up having feelings for each other. After talking about how we felt we starting spending time together more frequently, almost every day. In addition to this when we weren't seeing each other we would talk online or on the phone...so almost every waking moment we were a part of each other's lives. Eventually, he started talking to me about other girls that he thought were attractive but we still spent all of our free time together so I figured he was trying to make me jealous. We weren't just hanging out as friends and playing basketball--we would watch the stars and he would sing to me, etc...it was always ...
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Our Friend STINKS!
Posted Monday November 16 2009, 11:08 am
Oh my goodness. Our (my roommate and I )friend is very nice, but not really to other people. she's pretty, too, but she smells! Before we go out, she will take a shower, but she still stinks! We thought it was just us, but we met these nice boys and one liked her. Well, we became good friends with them and the boy told us that he stopped talking to her because she didn't smell good. How do we tell her? We don't want to embarass her or let her go through this without knowing again. AND she is kind of defensive in a way......
Thanks!
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pretty superficial
Posted Sunday November 15 2009, 2:54 am
how do you deal with people that constantly need/want attention. Not in a desperate way but people that always like to be the center of attention and talk a lot and always need to have everyone listen to them? i am pretty but i dont talk about it or emphasize it so much but I do have this new friend who is really pretty too and she just likes all this attentions and is always getting it and talking about herself and stuff. idk how to deal with it???
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how do you get a guy NOT to like you?
Posted Saturday November 14 2009, 6:59 pm
you see, one of my best friends like this guy. let's call him johnny. well, one of johnny's guy friends who i am really good friends with told me a month or so ago that johnny likes me. my friend always thinks the guy she likes likes me, and to have one guy ACTUALLY like me would kill her. it's weird to ask this, but i need to get him NOT to like me, or my friend will be crushed forever. she will never let me talk to the guy she likes again. helpppppp.
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Stubborn Friend
Posted Saturday November 14 2009, 3:10 pm
My best friend is very stubborn. I love her to death but she doesn't want to hang out in my town because of this boy that is somewhat of an asshole to her. I enjoy hanging out with her. And i told her over and over again that we just don't have to hang out with him, we can have an "us" day. But she says "oh but we'll meet up with him later on in the day". I tell her we don't have to but she just doesn't listen. Am i losing my best friend right before my eyes? HELP ):
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drama drama drama
Posted Friday November 13 2009, 5:39 pm
18/f
Been friends with my friend Sam since 1st grade. We have always been tight. Been friends with my friend Melanie since 5th grade. Sam, Melanie and I had always been great friends. When I decided to go to a different high school, Melanie stops talking to me, and keeps hanging out with Sam excluding me from all activites. I begin to resent Melanie, but am still friends with Sam. Not until recently I told Sam how I felt about Melanie... bad idea. After hanging out with Sam almost every weekend (Melanie being there as well but not talking to me and I not talking to her) did not invited me to go out for mischief night. Hurt my feelings alot since I've been going out with them since freshman year. When I asked Sam why she did t...
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What should I do with a friend like this??
Posted Friday November 13 2009, 1:37 pm
So my friend asks me for homework which i really worked on really hard. I was stupid enough to give it to her. She didn't even thank me! I was really mad at her at that time. Then, after half an hour. she replies "thnx. i didn't really need it. it was for someone else who needed the homework"
1) i know that i shouldn't have given my homework...but is this a good friend or not.. I'm gonna ignore her tomorrow..so that she knows that I didn't like what she had done.
she never even told me that she was gona give it to someone else!
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Keeping in Touch
Posted Friday November 13 2009, 12:01 pm
I'm TERRIBLE at keeping in touch with people. I had to do it all through high school because i switched to a private school so it was really hard to keep in touch with my public school friends but i struggled through it and mangaged to do it. but now that im in college its all happening all over again adn i hate it. I just "fb divorced my bf to be engaged to my friend here because she just broke up with her boyfriend and didn't know what to put her thing as" but now i feel bad about that (not that my friend really cares...its only facebook and we obvs weren't really married' but ugh i'm just so frusterated.
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I feel forgotten...
Posted Thursday November 12 2009, 3:22 pm
Hi, I'm 15/f and these past couple years I've gotten really close to two of my friends. This summer my two bestfriends (who weren't at close to eachother as they were to me) and I kind of formed a group of five with two other girls that I wasn't as close with but still was pretty good friends with. We were always doing stuff together, hanging out whenever possible, going to events together, ect. Up until mid October this year, all of a sudden my two original bestfriends started getting REALLY close. Leaving me out, ganging up on my opinions, taking sides with eachother and telling eachother everything about their love lifes. This is what they both used to do with me rather than eachother. I'm glad that they got really close but now its gott...
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copycat???
Posted Wednesday November 11 2009, 9:58 pm
Im going to have to give you guys a bit of history so that you can better understand the situation. I have this friend. A best friend. Weve been friends since 8th grade, and now were seniors about to graduate and weve gone through a lot. we were literally polar opposites on the surface but intellectually we matched perfect. The thing is, I was always the preppy, kinda girlie one, and she was the dark, gothic one. never really cared about her looks. she even called herself manly. In 8th grade that was our style. Weve both changed a great amount since then. I used to be very shy, now I am very outgoing. I am still girlie, but I play soccer and enjoy Spanish music and am very positive and always happy. She changed as well. Her style became gir...
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It's My Fault
Posted Wednesday November 11 2009, 2:46 pm
Okay so I have realized that whenever my friends and I have a fight, and its my fault, the reason is because I am jealous.
My tendancy to be jealous has ruined my relationship with my ex-bestfriend. And I can see it happening again.
You are probably saying, "well just stop being jealous." or "just be happy for her." but its not like that. its not that easy.
when i make really close friend, i only make one at a time. and lets name her... Sani. okay so sani and i became closer this year. at first i thought she was a a funny, chill, innocentish girl. and sheis... butnow she always talks about boys... and now shes getting closer to other people? and its making me so jealous. and now this...
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A loser?
Posted Tuesday November 10 2009, 6:14 pm
long...sorry :(
I'm a brand new freshman in highschool.
over the summer i grew up and i (thought) i became way prettier, nicer, and more outgoing
lately, it seems like i'm a total FREAK. it seems like EVERYONE is making fun of me while i'm standing right there. every time im by myself in the hall or a class and i hear someone in a group of people laugh i get nervous and i just want to cry and try to make myself as invisible as possible.
i think it all started awhile ago with this little thing on facebook called honesty box (where you ask a question like "what do you really think of me?" and people can answer anonymously)and someone wrote "gross." and then we talked back and for...
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Terrible Friends
Posted Tuesday November 10 2009, 5:40 pm
So, recently have been having problems with some of my closest friends; one of which is my best friend of 3 years.
One of them, who is not as close, gets angry with me about nothing, then when I bring it up, he calls himself an idiot and tells me not to listen to him when he gets angry with me. But, it happens so often, I'm not sure what to think anymore.
Another is dating a close friend of mine. He spends a lot of time with my best friend, and once I caught them holding hands in a haunted house. He still hasn't broken up with my friend and insists that nothing is going on.
My best friend is always hanging out with another friend of mine and with my other friend's boyfriend. At a school Halloween...
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