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Do you think I should stop talking to them all together ?
Posted Sunday November 29 2009, 3:53 am
Right.
Ill make this SUPER short.
I just want a straight up answer.
My 2 friends ashly and marianne have been really distant.
me and my friend jess are fully sick of it. we have all been best friends this year. but we have all kind of parted.
should i just gradly stop talking to them and let them be. i dont like talk to them bout this stuff because i have once before and they angus.
so shuld i just stop talking to them..
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third wheel out :(
Posted Saturday November 28 2009, 7:08 pm
okay so basically it's always been me and my 2 best friends Melissa and David. But now Melissa and David are going out, and when we hangout i just cant help but feel like the third wheel. there all lovey dovey and it's weird because it's never been that way! I feel like he's her property and that me and David cant even hang out anymore and that every time he hugs me or says he loves me or anything that She'll get mad. They always say there gonna include me when we hang out but they never end up actually doing it! So it's just awkward for me and they know it. I just don't know what to do! And when they get in fights (which is alot) they both come running to me and i don't know what to say and they get mad that i dont side with them. it's bas...
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are they haters???
Posted Saturday November 28 2009, 1:56 pm
hi im katlyn... there are dese girls at school they dont like me for no reason and dey are really buggin me they love to talk about me and they love to messs with me every time i walk past dem they study me hard and dis one girl always comin by me telling me to give her candy and if i dont she said she gon do somthing which aint gon happen ....i think its because im pretty and she is ugly real ugly and dark as hell to and she always pushing me arond and she hate me to fo no reason....i dont even kno da bitch and the girl actin real hard in front of her friends tryin to make me hate myself and she keep on touching me and pushing me which i dont like and yes i do do something back and if she do it again on monday we gon be fighting cau...
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Does she wanna be friends or not?
Posted Saturday November 28 2009, 3:42 am
i used to be REALLY good friends with this girl called marianne
we were bestfriends
then we start drifting
and i dont know why!!!!
its weird! :(
we used to hang out ALL the time and go to parties and peoples places all the time
now she doesnt hardly talk to me.
she doesnt wannt to do anything anymore.
ive tried explaining this to her..
but she thinks thats nothing has changed at all but it hass!
even my other bestfriends relationship is drifting as well.
it seems like we are aqquatinces now..
what do i do without her getting angry.
or should i just leave it .
does she want to be my friends or not ?? !
PLEASE HELP
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I feel left out.
Posted Friday November 27 2009, 10:53 pm
Let me start from the beginning. First it was two of my friends that started out close. *Lauren and Becky* well then a couple years later I join their little group in second grade. Then another person joins in in third , Ashley*. Well Ashley moved away and now we have a new friend name *Mika. Well than in eigth grade, *Jessie cam along and was obsessed with Becky. Like her little pet. Well now Mika* Is all around the older class and basically ignores us now. But now there is Lexi* and Dani*. I've noticed lately that my friends write on eachothers walls about how much they love eachother everyday and yet, I get none. NONE. I'm started to feel unloved but not just by my friends, but I'm starting to feel ugly. Sure they talk to me sometimes bu...
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Boyfriend vs. Bestfriend
Posted Friday November 27 2009, 7:55 am
I have a really awesome guy best friend who is like a big brother figure for me. He is like my guide, he always waits for me in every class and after school, he makes sure I'm alright, and he spends his free time with me... people always comment on how inseparable we are. Lately, he's been very attached and I get confused. My boyfriend and I are currently on stage where we're unsure about where we stand at the moment. Because he was away for few weeks and when he came back, I realized how I just felt much more comfortable with my best friend than with him. During the time my boyfriend was away, my best friend acted as if taking over his place; he'd do things my boyfriend would do for me [except all the hugs and holding hands etc] My best gi...
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OMG! she wont stop talking about my brother!!
Posted Friday November 27 2009, 1:40 am
my friend sophie used to be INLOVE with my brother for 2 YEARS!!! my brother has never had any interest in her what so ever. they have hooked up and had sex for all of 2 minutes.. but to him its just a fling..then she goes all crazy in love with him as soon as she gets over him. but i dont believe someone that has been in love for 2 years can get over a guy in just 1 day.. that seems highly impossible. shes always talking about him badly so all i say is 'ok' or 'hmmm' after she says somethng. then shes all like 'dont you even care what im saying..he has HURT me' and i was like hes my brother soo what do you expect me to say!? i dont really know what to do about her. shes always talking bout my brother. i said to her i didnt really wanna he...
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I just don't get why they are doing this
Posted Friday November 27 2009, 1:20 am
I have a friend named *Leya* and she started to ignore me all of a sudden. So we got into this fight where she wouldn't tell me what happened. And finally she told the reason was because im obnoxious and annoying and stupid. I don't know what happened because i've always been nice and complimented her. I sit alone now in the back of the cafeteria because all my friends hate me. I don't get what happened between us. It makes no sense....I don't know what to do. I don't eat any more and i usually end up crying a lot. She told me she hated me and that we weren't meant to be friends. I just....Ugh!!!! I don't know what to do! I have no friends and everyone hates me! Even my Best Freind since pre K! Please! Anyone please help me!!! Please!
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My friend has a different problem everyday!
Posted Friday November 27 2009, 1:12 am
Sophie is one of my good friends. Everytime I log onto MSN shes like "omg guess what oi" and then shes either really angry at someone or really upset. So I try to help her out in everyway possible like friends should. Trying to make her feel better and all sorts. But she never helps me out when I have a problem. Shes just like "dont worry about it, hes just a **** or somethng" and I care for her when she needs my help. I help her throught all her problems and everything and then i was angry about something one time and shes just like "you can be angry IM angry" and i was like woahhh settle down. I dont know what to do about her. And i cant get angry at her or in a fight because shes one of those people that you...
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FRIEND 'SEXING' MY OLDER BROTHERS FRIEND
Posted Friday November 27 2009, 1:09 am
Hey, my name is Nikki. My brother is 18 and his friends come around ALL THE TIME! So when I have my friends over, there always over. My brothers friends are like my brothers, because I have known them for SO long. My friend Jess was over one time and was like "whose that? hes hot" (talking about brothers friend carl) So i was like carl.. and shes like hes hot as. So she went on bebo and went through my list to get my brothers bebo so she could get carls bebo. Now they talk. So, i made a rule.. saying "none of the girls over when the guys are over" so she was like why?? and i was like because you girls (when my other girl mates are over) always flirt with him and stuff. Now they are going to have sex sometime soon! She a...
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What am I doing wrong?
Posted Thursday November 26 2009, 5:07 am
I feel like my so called "best friend" doesnt care about me. I realyl don't feel like anyone does really, and that sounds so stupid. I mean if i'm upset or something and just have my hands over my face, no one asks me if i'm okay or anything. I just don't understand what i'm doing wrong. I try to be the best friend that I can be and end up failing miserably. Just like with everything else. I try being the best sister, daughter, anything and I fail. What am I doing wrong?
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My friend is mean to me when she's talking to her boyfriend, what do I do?
Posted Thursday November 26 2009, 2:43 am
My friend always gets rrealy mean when she's talking to her boyfriend. Whether it's online, or on the phone, she's just always really mean to me. I've tried thinking of why she might be doing it, but the only reason I could come up with is that she's trying to make herself look better. I'd like to think my friend was different but people can surprise you. My question here is what do I do?
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Forgiven but not fogotten
Posted Wednesday November 25 2009, 4:04 pm
I am a sophomore in college and have been friends with a girl since my junior year of high school. Well I guess I shouldn't call it a friendship. Here is a little bit of background on the situation. Good "friends" until she got with her current boyfriend ( they have been together for about a year and a half I would say). During their relationship, I noticed the girl and I hung out a lot less. It's not like she ditched all of her friends, just me. I never confronted her about it because we never talked anymore. I find out her boyfriend doesn't like me for reasons I don't know. He didn't like her hanging with me an it's pretty obvious she listened to him and ignored me. She even deleted me off her facebook friends and blocked me for...
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Down to earth?
Posted Wednesday November 25 2009, 8:41 am
I didn't know what category my question would go under..here it is
What does down to earth mean?
Like when someone says your so down to earth
Thanks just curious :)
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what can i text him saying?
Posted Wednesday November 25 2009, 12:23 am
19/female.
whats a name that i can call this guy joe... we've been friends for about 4 years now .. we're not dating but i do have a crush on him ;) he doesn't know it. i havent told him because he just got out of a relationship of 3 yrs so it'd be too soon for him i think. we are close friends though.. "best friends" if you want to say that.
i don't really want to say like..
hey!...
boo
best friend (that sounds cheesy?)
boy
his ex girlfriend called him joejoe so i don't want to say that and just saying joe isn't fun and unique. i'm usually the only one who calls him joseph .. but that gets boring. any ideas?? i don't wanna say sweetie, hottie .. anything that would be too strong.
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feel like shit because of her....
Posted Tuesday November 24 2009, 9:39 pm
so my "ex best friend" said something that just made me be like ...wow i don't want to be around you anymore. its a long story of what she said and when she said it blahblah but it hurt..alot, and i don't want someone in my life that says those kind of things to me. the thing that sucks though is i see her everyday at school. shes in 4 of my classes. i'm forced to sit with her because all my good friends are friends with her too. i have other friends but do you think it'd be weird to just switch tables? idk what to do i just don't want to see her as much as i have to but i don't want to make it obvious that i'm changing everything because of her.
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i want a best friend...
Posted Tuesday November 24 2009, 9:34 pm
i have tons of friends, but i'm not extremely close with any of them. i used to have a best friend but she let me down big time and i realized i don't want someone like that in my life. i feel its even hard to trust my friends, like don't get me wrong i love hanging out with them and stuff and they're fun people, thats why we're friends :)...but i feel like i can't completely trust anyone..everyones always talking shit and i actually caught my old "best friend" talking shit about me. i'm honestly a nice person and i try to get along with everyone but high school girls and even most of the guys now just love to talk shit because they're bored with their own lives and they love attention. i only trust 2 people in my life, my dad and...
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I'm developing feelings for my best friend but I'm scared
Posted Tuesday November 24 2009, 12:24 am
I've only been friends with this guy for 2 months now, but the rate at which we got close to each other was astounding. I can consider him one of my best friends, if not my actual best friend.
A month ago he had told me that he liked me. I had been developing slight feelings for him at that time but after he sat me down and told me this I found myself repulsed and kind of angry at him for ruining the natural flow of the friendship. For a while we went as close, but recently I've noticed that my feelings are growing again. We are perfect for each other, and he might very well be my soul mate. Even his dad's friend remarked that we should get married, which made me very uncomfortable at the time.
I can see myself...
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Rumors
Posted Thursday November 19 2009, 3:55 pm
On Monday, my friend Gabi told me that on Saturday, my best friend, Emily, had kissed a friend of ours, Chaise, on a dare. I was surprised she hadn't told me about it, and contacted her immediately to ask what had gone one. She had told me that no one else that was with them was going to tell anyone, including Chaise, and I promised not to either.
On Tuesday, Emily called me and told me that Chaise had told her that I had told 5 other people about what had happened on Saturday, when I hadn't told anyone. I told her otherwise and tried to forget about it.
The same day, I heard Chaise telling someone else that he was dating Emily. But when I confronted him about this, he told me had never said anything like that....
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My friend switches her friends everytime she gets a new bf,
Posted Thursday November 19 2009, 3:05 pm
Okay, I've been her best friend since sixth grade,and we're in 9th now. and since last year every time she switches her friends to her new boyfriends friends. Like when she dated an emo guy, she was all emo and was only friends with his friends. and now shes dating a football player. and shes all besties with his best friends, who are girls. and sometimes she will invite me to do stuff and talk to me, but just when shes not with them. Shes like their clone. she never even talked to these girls before she dated this guy... so i dont know if i should talk to her about it and just let it go...
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