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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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what a dilemma!


Posted Sunday December 13 2009, 6:12 pm

The first part isn't part of the question; it's just really helpful to know some background info :]

So, it started off around a year ago. I met a friend through a friend over msn, we got to talking and actually became quite close. We met a few times, flirting absolute loads. We had a kind of weird relationship - I would go through phases where I liked him which only lasted a few weeks. Now, normally this would make me extremely uncomfortable knowing that he knew I liked him, but the fact that I wasn't, made me realise in the end it was just because we were close. Anyway, he introduced me to his friend. We got even closer in 3 months than me and my other friend did in a year or so. By the beginning of January we were going o...

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taking a hint....


Posted Sunday December 13 2009, 5:49 pm

so basicly i wanna go to a taylor swift concert really badly! iv been spending a lota time looking for tickets and for almost a most been trying to organize for some of my friends to go together. and there are 4 people who were going. one of them keeps telling me she really wants to go and is willnig to pay however much it is, but then i fo0und tickets and she says there too expensive. then the other friend i am not so close with, and said she wanted to go. but then shes like "llemmmee see with my dad" and then her dad said yes and shes like " i dont think i want to go becuase i heard shes not so good live" is that just an excuse becuase she doesnt want to go with me? should i keep pushing or just for get about...

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sweet 16 program


Posted Saturday December 12 2009, 6:17 am

I'm having a Sweet 16 on the first week of January. It's gonna be a candy themed party. Could you give me any ideas for making the program? I'm kinda stuck 'cause I haven't thrown a party in yeeaaars. So please give me any suggestions to keep my guests entertained throughout the party. Thankyouu.:)

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just like me


Posted Friday December 11 2009, 11:17 pm

My "bff" is driving me insane. She wants to be JUST like me!!! It is killing me because i want to be my own person, and i like for others to do the same.

She lies to me to make me think she is rich and everything.
trying to make me dislike my other friends so i will just hang out with her
Wears to tight clothes
Is getting the cell phone i have been dying for!!! So now i gotta find something else cause i am not going through with that AGAIN


HELP

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What do i Dooo??


Posted Friday December 11 2009, 3:16 pm

So i have a good friend, we were friends since grade 5. now were in grade 8. in facebook, she tagged all her friends. she tagged me as "a good friend" and she tagged other friends including my crush as "the one you can trust on". so my friend doesnt trust me :(... what should i do? we were like sisters...really close to each other. maybe i was acting a little mean to her. thats coz she doesnt care if a guy makes fun of me ... (being racist with me)..

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i want to be with both of them?


Posted Thursday December 10 2009, 10:19 am

Well 15/f here well me and my best friend and we have been best friends since 4th grade now. well he has a problem with my boyfriend he doesnt like the way he treats me which is really good and yesterday he called me and started yelling at me and i gave my boyfriend the phone and my best friend and my boyfriend was fighting and it was coming to the point where both of them are about to get in a fist fight and my boyfriend doesnt play games so when my bestfriend showed up they started fighting and my bestfriend got beat up really bad and he told me not to talk to him again and said delete his number out of my phone and now hes texting me saying all this stupid stuff like " I am going to kill your boyfriend " but me and my bestfrien...

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My roomate won't shut up!!!


Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 5:40 am

I'm 18 years old and in a serious relationship. My boyfriend is my bestie and all thee above. I believe our sex life is our business and personal and we NEVER discuss it with anyone.

Well, my roommate caught us having sex one day and ever since then she won't SHUT up!!!!

[My boyfriend is pretty uncomfortable knowing she saw us. Violation of privacy is what it felt like.]
If a condom commercial comes on: "omg you and eric!"
I had leftover conditioner in my hair: "don't know with THAT is since you and eric are..."
A sex scene: "eric's butt!"
"everytime I see sex on tv I think of eric's butt going up and down."
"we need one of those ...

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My friend is depressed about break-up & is avoiding human contact! (Long)


Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 2:08 am

They broke up last week and she is very very sad about it.
But, he was a horrible boyfriend and is a horrible person. He treated her badly, he made PLENTY of mistakes and she forgave him, then when she made ONE tiny mistake, and he dumped her. He got mad because she wouldn't have sex (she is 15 and he is 14!) and he was a total @ss hole.
She is naturally a very cheerful girl, she is strong and doesn't let people get her down, so i hate seeing her like this. She keeps blaming her self, but it wasn't her fault at all, it was his fault because he acted like an emotional, over-dramatic, inconsiderate, selfish jerk.

Anyways, she keeps beating her self up about it and she is completely in love with him still. She wa...

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Friend Stealer


Posted Tuesday December 8 2009, 5:36 pm

For the past three years I have been best friends with a girl my age. We've really had no problems before this, but lately things have started going the wrong way. Because of the school we go to, we no longer have any classes together, or lunch. I've seen her only five times outside of school since the beginning of the year.

At our Halloween dance, she waited up for me, and we walked there together and hung out for the first twenty minutes. But after a while, a friend of her's named Kylie (They share several classes together) came over. Kylie came and went, but after an hour at the dance, Emily (my best friend) ditched me and started hanging out with Kylie. Every so often she would come back to talk to my other friends, but e...

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sleep over


Posted Monday December 7 2009, 10:52 am

i wont a sleep over with my best friend, but the thing is im not the best at making a good conversation and its always her making the conversation an i think she is abit sick of it tbh. anyone no how i could make an interesting funny conversation ? thanks :)

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How can I stop letting people go too far with messing around with me?


Posted Sunday December 6 2009, 8:15 pm

Like in my history class there are 2 guys who poke fun at me. especially this one guy. like this one guy always makes comments to me almost everyday.. hes in a couple of my classes. like he'll call my name pretty loud when i come into class or something. like he actually wouldn't be that bad if he wasnt such a jerk like 90% of the time. so then i think it carried on into history and then now this other guy who sits in front of me does little things and says hes just messing with me. and its annoying cause im not good when people are like that.. especially when i dont know them that well so its like... you think they are being genuine when they arent. and im not always the best at detecting when someone is joking or not and just arent the ty...

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how can i deal with my friend?


Posted Sunday December 6 2009, 5:56 am

My friend and I are having a fight with our other friend.
Friend A is boy
Friend B is a girl
I am the third friend.
friend A likes friend B more than just friends. but friend A claims to be bisexual. friend B does NOT like friend A. friend B says that she like likes friend A but he doesn't know that she doesn't like him anymore.
they never told me about this until a little but ago and this has been going on for about two years now. Friend B told me. Friend A is pretending that nothing is going on.
How can i deal with friend B who has lied to me but came clean?
how do i remain friends with friend A and still be mad at him ?
please help!?

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change


Posted Friday December 4 2009, 10:12 pm

Okay so my best friend since... ever and me are fighting, well sorta. I'll give you the story it may be long but it is essential to knowing my problem:
Okay so yeah we have been best friends for six years {sophmores}. And now he is changing! It is horrible, his parents are seperating he is moving away, in a year!!! I feel so bad for him! However he has treated me like crap! He won't text me or anything! I txted him one day and asked him something. When he didn't answer i got my cousins phone and txted him, and he replied to him!!!!

When I asked him why he wouldn't talk to me he says he forgot to! Also he only likes to talk to me or be my partner, or eat lunch with me when no one else in the world is around! Its like h...

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I'm 100% clueless.


Posted Friday December 4 2009, 7:39 pm

I really need help.
okay, so i have a bestfriend.
but theres so many problems.
i love her so much, its just like i cant live with or without her! whenever its just me and her, things are PERFECT. whenever someone else is around, she acts like im noone. im invisible. im a ghost. its horrible. like, i feel so clueless and helpless. noone understands how i feel.
please, please. someone help me? :(

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bus sitting issues. plz help!


Posted Friday December 4 2009, 1:55 pm

so basicllyyy i keep having these problems with every trip and idk what to do. i have friends but just everytime we go on a schoo ltrip of something we have to take a bus and i always worry about who to sit with. to the point where i dont go becuase im too scared about the bus ride. please help me. what do i do?

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wondering what to do


Posted Friday December 4 2009, 10:26 am

okay well i am 15 well anyway me and my ex which we are still friends he texts me and goes that he still loves me and i know you still do to well i told him that i only love im like a brother but me and my ex will always love each other and now how tot ell my boyfriend. since me and my ex have beenn together for nine months until now i miss him so much and i still love him but the main thing is i dont know how to tell my boyfriend because hes the type of guy that gets mad! i dont want me and my boyfriend to break up but i still love my ex!

i got two questions

1.should i tell my boyfriend i still love him?
or
2.should i just keep it a secret and keep telling my ex i still love him?

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attactive and a freak?


Posted Thursday December 3 2009, 5:54 pm

i'm very aware of how shallow this sounds but it's the only way i can explain.

15/f

so according to a very large group of boys, i'm considered hot.
and based on how they look at me and how they ignore me all the time and laugh at me, it seems as though a lot of girls (the popular brats in particular) think i'm a freak. like they seriously don't like me and think im really weird.

it seems like a very odd situation to me. I know i probably seem like im naive or asking for complients or im plain stupid, but i just want to know if its actually possible to be "a freak" and "hot" at the same time.

thanks:)

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Best Friends


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 4:19 pm

You can have more than one best friend can't you?

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fb statusssssssss?


Posted Tuesday December 1 2009, 7:56 pm

This guy (history with him, not gonna go there) posted this status on facebook and i'm trying to figure out if he's talking about me.
so here it is:

Weird thing is that the only reason ive been keeping my mouth shut is cuz u said you would handle it..well you havnt. And i don't know how much longer i can stop from saying anything..

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"Best Friends"


Posted Monday November 30 2009, 7:57 pm

So I'm pretty much in tears right now. When you here it, it'll probably sound retareded but if you were actually "there" it would have felt horrible. Friday, I was suppose to meet my 2 best friends at the mall. I told one of them they had to be there by 6, my parents had plans. So i got there at 6:30, and they were both still at there house, so my parents were like were not leaving you there, were goin to drop you off at the game. So they ended up callin and i was like sorry my parents made me go to the game. The next day, i went to my friends house and i was going to invite one of the friends from the other night but she was like "oh i don't wanna go with her" So i texted her and was like whats ur problem? my parents sa...

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