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I'm really sad for no reason.


Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 8:49 pm

I'm trying to figure out exactly why I'm crying. I don't know if it's because I feel like people hate me and I annoy them or what. I just feel out of place all the time and i'm sick of it. I want to have people around me that make me feel welcomed. I was at this guys house and he told me that I was annoying and he said to get out of his room. He's three years older than me so maybe I'm immature to him. Then today my cousin acted like she didn't want me around and she ignored me. Do you have any advice? I really need a soultion.

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telling the counsler


Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 2:29 pm

ok so i am 20 f and i recently mustered the courage to go to a counselor and tell her i am having personal issues with my family and roommate and stuff. thing is i don't think it has to do with "my constant change in environment" "trauma" or "confinement". granted they may have a role in playing crucial issues in why i am going mad... but after two sessions she thinks i don't need counseling anymore! i mean i told her i hear the voices when i am alone and i told her about my mood swings and my extra sensitivity to what people say.... she gave me a self help book and boom... i know i can seem very collected and very mature but thats because i hate other people knowing that there is something wrong with me. its a...

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Phobias


Posted Saturday September 29 2007, 11:26 pm

Ok, so i have a phobia, or many I guess, that is related to anything medical... Like, doctors, deseases, even pregnat ladies make me uncomfortable.
And it's really hard because if you notice, everything nowadays has medical stuff. Like on TV, there are so many hospital/doctor shows, like House and ER... And the commercials, like the anti-smoking commercials where they show details the inside of someones lungs or something, im not sure.. i can't watch it or i'll have a panic attack.
When I was younger, I thought it was just a phase and that i'd get over this when i'm older, but now i'm 19 and it's gotten so much worse... I'm even scared of dentist now and therapist.... I don't even know why!!!
But I can't take pills, I'...

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Show on the N


Posted Saturday September 29 2007, 8:20 pm

There was this show on the "n" its usualy on late. And there was this girl Darah who had daek hair [redish brown] and she was one of those weird artsy people and she always watched this show call weird sick world which was also the name of the magazine she read. She had a really preppy sister whom was blonde and stupid. He dad was a push over the mom was a blonde who worked a lot they also ate lasnga every night.


HELP! What was it called!?

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My (not so) happy life.


Posted Thursday September 27 2007, 9:48 am

I hate to say it, but -- Loneliness is getting the best of me. I want to be able to say "God is enough, all i need to be happy" or "I'm satisfied just having my family and a few close friends", but I can't, I'm not. I constantly find myself longing for the "myspace" life. Having lots of gorgeous female friends and funny male friends to do fun things with and take lots of pictures with. To have people constantly calling me. TO FEEL LOVED. This is not a question of how to make friends - go out, join a sports club, church group.. I know, I know, I know. Whatever.

I probably wouldn't be satisfied anyways. I keep longing for other peoples lives. And in a weak attempt to become them.. I get their haird...

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my hairr


Posted Wednesday September 26 2007, 3:24 pm

i have light brown hair with kind of faded blonde highlights, and my hairs really thick and wavy and curly at the same time. i usually straighten my hair though. but it looks good curly but i dont liek how its really thick. are there any good hair products that could make my hair feel less thick? and also what are some others to help it look shinier or healthier and stuff?
thanks :D


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OCD and SAD


Posted Tuesday September 25 2007, 7:15 pm

14/f

I'm positive that I have OCD and I'm almost positive that I had SAD, but I haven't told anyone yet and even though my parents see my compulsions they dont make the connection or anything and I don't know how to go about telling them or asking them to take me to a psychiatrist. Any advice?

Also, if there is anyone on here who has OCD or SAD that I could ask some questions to that would be great.

Thanks

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Emo and cutting yourself


Posted Tuesday September 25 2007, 5:06 pm

13/f

Okay, I'm emo. Well, my other friends are emo too, but they cut themselves. I don't. I want to know, to be emo, do you have to cut yourself? People are spreading rumors that I cut myself and that I'm a pervert. I mean, sure I have a perverted mind, but I'm immature, give me a brake! can someone explain to me why they would say I cut myself, which I don't, even if I am emo. do I have to cut myself???

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howw ...


Posted Monday September 24 2007, 10:28 pm

How can i relax? I've tried breathing exercises and stuff like that and writing down all the things that stress me out (which isn't much), but they don't really help. the only time i really feel relaxed is when im by myself at a park or someplace like on vacation =) but who doesn't?

I also can never 'be in the moment.' like.. I'm just not IN it. i don't really know how to explain it but once i heard soemone say they felt that way too and it was like "watching yourself in 3rd person." or whatever. I don't feel completely like that but sometimes it does.. & it feels like i just can't focus.

It's not terribly bad, but I was wondering what can I do to stop feeling that way?

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Chronic Alchoholism


Posted Monday September 24 2007, 3:13 am

Which is the latest maedicin introduce to treat Chronic Alchoholism apart from Disufiram ? Which Pharmaceutical company has launched that medicin?Also Disulfiram available in which forms apart from tablets? Is it available as a skin patch?

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addictionss..


Posted Sunday September 23 2007, 7:03 pm

okay this is like somethingg i really need advice on and the more the better..

story:
okay so my grandmas neighbors who my whole family is really close with and have been my whole life. okay well the sonn has been getting in alot of trouble recentaly. for DWI, overdosing on pills and the whole nine. well today when i was over my grandma's the police brought him home bc he has aniexty pills and had taken an entire bottle in one day adn left the house to go to a friends house, and his mom called the cops to find him and stuff. bc they were worryed bc he has been threating sucide and everything. like today when he got home his mom was telling him that hes gonna die if he keeps doing this and he goes death is what im hopin...

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What disorder is this?


Posted Friday September 21 2007, 10:33 pm

Is this some kind of personality disorder im going through?

I jump from happy to angry to sad to just about different emotion to the MAX so if i am happy, im really really happy, but if i am angered by little thing, i get so aggrevated and mad.

I act on my emotion, such as yell at people, punching walls, swearing like crazy (which i have stopped now), saying i hate someone, and then pretty soon after, I just feel so sad and bad that I had done all that and regret so much.

Is that some kind of disorder? I would love to get that checked out by some kind of therapy, but my parents thinks im lying and they are kind of in denial because I said i need some help because I am sick and tired of crazy mood...

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Im Fat.


Posted Wednesday September 19 2007, 7:44 pm

14\f.
Today has sucked. For months know ive been completely moody, and it ruining everything.
Whyy am I for one moment happy, laughing and enjoying myself, next completely sad.
Its weird.. Im not on my period. Im not PMSing!
My Mother calls it hormons. I call it being depressed because im always in a bad mood. then maybe for a day ill be hyper, happy then crash and wanna stay in bed forever.
Help!

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What's wrong with me?


Posted Tuesday September 18 2007, 5:23 pm

15/f

I just started going to a boarding school liek a month ago. Recently I've been feeling like I'm always fighting back tears. I've been way too overremotional. And it's not just because of pms- because my emotional side effects that go along with that are not this extreme ever. I'm really homesick and I hate being here for a lot of reasons and I don't have any friends or a boyfriend.

I'll be trying to do something and all of a sudden tears will start to smoulder in my eyes. Especially when anyone asks me some kind of question- even if it's normal... I'll start crying (or nearly, but fighting the urge) at the drop of a hat.

What's wrong with me?

(ps: i've already passed puberty so that's not it)


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Regret after decision!


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 3:25 pm

I no longer trust myself. I regret every decision I've ever made. I can't seem to choose right! What can I do to change this? I've tried both the method of just going with my first impulse, trut my feelings, and never second guess myself - and the one where you think before you act - NONE OF THOSE WORK FOR ME.

:( I'm miserable, help.

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Rock Bottom.


Posted Monday September 17 2007, 12:14 am

I'm 15/f.
I have no friends.
I had a tight group of friends last year, but for some reason they started to distance themselves from me & all became really close just the three of them, & I don't have anyone else that I hang out with.
I talk to a lot of people at school, but no one would just randomly ask me to hang out--most of them assume I'm still friends with the same people I was last year.
I've never had a boyfriend, or a guy show any interest in me.
I hate my body & the way I look.
Ever since school started, I have been crying myself to sleep every night. Especially because it's hard to see my old friends acting like nothing's wrong, saying hello to me but nothing else.
My m...

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alone


Posted Sunday September 16 2007, 10:49 pm

16/f
im gettin really depressed cauz its already been a month of skool and im still single every one i know has a bf or reciently got one and we all know that when you get a bf your friends dont count as much soooo they spend most of their time with their bfs. i only have one friend who's a girl left and she'll probably get this guy she likes to ask her out this week so im gonna be totally alone fast! i got soooo depressed at that thought that i just started bawlin and i was at skool too so that means i was really depressed cauz i try really hard not to show that kind of emotion around my classmates. i dont know how im gonna make it though the week without losin it cauz just this sat. my all time best friend got a boyfriend, and now ...

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do you think ..


Posted Sunday September 16 2007, 6:59 pm

I think i need counseling. I haf anger issues and me and my very best friend (friend fer 10 yrs)got into a massive fight and she said that she wasnt my friend ne more and i cut myself all over and then i started hyperventalating. i couldnt feel my hands or my feet and the room was spinning and she called me and i was freaking out on the fone with her and i was so afraid. we worked things out but i think i need help idk waht to do im so scared.

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I think I'm depressed


Posted Sunday September 16 2007, 1:47 am

I think I'm depressed or going through depression. I eat a lot more than I used to, cry a lot more than I used to, and I'm just over all not happy most of the time when I have a lot to be happy about. I mean I have a boyfriend I've been with for almost eleven months and things are going okay with my family. Better than normal I would say. I'm getting decent grades in school compared to what I got last year. I've realized that I've been only paying attention to the bad things. I stress on the bad things. For example, my boyfriend cheated on me a while back after four months of going out and I forgave him for that. At least I thought I did I still think about that all the time and don't trust him as much as I used to because of it. If I'm sti...

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Why don't they like me?


Posted Saturday September 15 2007, 8:30 pm

Recently i found out that like one or two of my friend's friends don't really like me or hate me and i don't know why.

I never came across them, I am a perfectionist so I'm pretty sure I don't do anything stupid or be a teacher's pet or soemthing and my personality is like achild so it makes me feel really bad that some people actually HATE me =(.

Is there maybe any reasons why?

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