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how can you tell if you were molested or not..
Posted Saturday February 18 2012, 6:12 pm
sorry for the length..
Im really confused..lately ive been thinking more and more about this and wondering what is wrong with me. I dont really know how to explain this but my whole life, or ever since i could remember, sometimes every now and then i would randomly out of the blue feel this weird feeling throughout my body..and it made me feel gross and uncomfortable..and if i was wearing something a bit low cut i would feel like i had to cover up or just go somewhere and be alone..i know that sounds really strange and i dont even know why that happens but lately ive been thinking about it and its been happening more often. my mom and dad got divorced when i was 12 and ive been living with my mom so i dont really see my dad that much...
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My Older Cousin was touching me
Posted Wednesday February 15 2012, 6:54 pm
13/f
I was with my cousin today hes 18 and he was touching in the wrong places. I told him to stop, but he said that he knows I like it. Now I feel really dirty what should i do.
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How to stop him hitting me
Posted Tuesday February 14 2012, 3:09 pm
Im 24yrs old female partnered for 8 years two children an he hits me he has had a aggressive upbringing and a motocross crash Which left him with a fused ankle,pain and a anger problem I love him an don't want to leave him, I don't never want anyone else but my old partner back should I leave him
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My brother attacks me, everyday, multiple times a day.
Posted Sunday February 12 2012, 12:07 pm
When I was younger my father would chase me into my room and beat me over the littlest things (ie saying I don't like broccoli), but after he got arrested he stopped, mostly. But now my older brother is taking after him. He is a six-foot-four three hundred pound football player, and has tried to break my neck before, and today punched me in the ribs and now I can't breathe right or move my left arm. When I told my parents they told me to grow up and stop being so dramatic. What can I do? (16-year-old girl)
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Do girl squirt while having masturbation
Posted Friday February 10 2012, 1:50 pm
Hi! Do girl squirt while having masturbation
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my dad is cheating on my mom
Posted Tuesday January 31 2012, 10:29 am
i figured it out on christmas eve and even though i wasnt supposed to look through his text messages i did because i already had a bad feeling about it. in his inbox, all the mssages were from friends and workmates but in his sent items most messages were sent to an unknown number and they go like "are u wearing panties?" "where are you?" "im coming please reply" "are mad at me"
i think there were a lot more but i couldnt take reading em all anymore for i was shaking. i dont have respect for my father anymore. not one. :(((((((((
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What's the sociological category or term for this behavior?
Posted Thursday January 26 2012, 6:40 pm
a girl and a man who knows each other for 5 years, are very uncomfortable around each other. he ignores her and seem uncomfortable, like he wish she is no around him. otherwise, he is happy when he thinks she is not around. after some time, she starts to treat him the same. he has an alpha male personality, and commands everyone (their mutual friends), to do what he wants. he seems quiet with her and sad. sometimes he try to be sarcastic with her, but it does not seem to matter to her. he only speak one word sentences to her, and seems to want to get away to avoid more conversation. she doesn't seem to care either way. recently, they are inadvertently walking on the same road both going the opposite direction. they see each other from a dis...
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he wont stop hitting me
Posted Saturday January 21 2012, 10:08 am
OK I'm a 15 year old female and my bf won't stop beating I broke up with him and its getting a lot worse I have to call the polese to get him to stop pleas help me I'll take any advice.
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He said if i tell everyone hes going to start rumours about me. What do i do?
Posted Monday January 16 2012, 8:01 pm
Basically, im a 16 year old girl who one night decided to go to a party that my mom did not know about. I told her i was staying at a friends and ended up stranded, so i stayed at a boys house with a few of his football friends. I ended up getting really drunk and one of the boys, who i do not know, forced me onto the sofa, unbuttoned my trousers and fingered me against my will. I tried everything to get him off but i was too drunk so i started to cry, he then said if i tell everyone hes going to start rumours about me. What do i do?
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my boyfriend said he would hit me
Posted Friday January 6 2012, 6:42 pm
I am 46 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years. We recently got into an arguement and for the first time ever, he said he would hit me and throw me in my car. But he didn't. Is this a sign? I love him very much and he says he loves me. We are both divorced. He does not want to get married. I would like to someday and he said that he might too. He said that I am very special and he has never felt the way he feels about me before. He went through a nasty divorce and has dated many women. I was married for over 20 years, raised 4 sons and own my own home. He has only worked 5 weeks since I met him, he makes me drive alot even though he owns 3 cars, 2 motorcycles, jet skis and a drag bike. I struggle and I feed him, cook f...
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mistreatment
Posted Wednesday December 21 2011, 11:21 am
hi everyone!!i need some good advice,my partner treats me bad,he just acts as if he didn´t care anything about me anymore,i know that, and what´s even worse ,everyone knows as well,what can I do?because I love him a lot,I wish I could send him to hell but I know I can´t do that, I feel like I´m going crazy...kiss
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he hits me so much i am getting used to it and the verbal abuse hurts more. i have no family and i love him. what do i do? help!
Posted Friday December 16 2011, 2:14 am
I have been living with my boyfriend for over a year now things r not going so good.we argue a lot but usually we get over it pretty fast.in other cases we both flip out and he starts getting really violent. He hits me in my face knees me throws me amd mainly chokes me now.i pretty much have gotten used to the hitting it stops hurting fast now but I'm not sire i can handle the verbal abuse.he says he blacks out i love him a lot but im not sure what to do i have no famiky and I'm onoy 17.i need advice please!!
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Feeling Guilty About Being Intimate After I Was Raped
Posted Sunday November 6 2011, 9:11 pm
I was raped about a year ago and now I'm dateing a guy that I feel like I am giving mixed signals. I freak out when he does certain things, and when I do things,then I feel guilty like I shouldn't be getting any pleasure out of it. When will I begin to lose the guilt over being intimate with him?
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What happens when you are raped?
Posted Monday October 17 2011, 11:33 am
what occurs when a person is being raped
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i think i was sexually abused?
Posted Thursday September 8 2011, 7:57 pm
I am 18 years old now. ohkay i need help. ive been trying to figure this out for a while. So since i was little i remember humping things, i remember tring to do sexual things to myself and playing "doctor" with other people when i was like 9ish. i was told from my mom that she caught my older cousin kissing me one day, i dont remember this AT ALL. i just remember her never letting me and him alone together ever. Ever since those young years i always get this "guilt" feeling like when i have sex with my boyfriend i have to stop because i get this feeling. but i had that feeling even when i humped things when i was little. and about 3 years ago i fell asleep in my brothers bed and i woke up to him touching my butt so i mo...
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I know about incest that happened... should I tell their mother?
Posted Saturday September 3 2011, 12:02 am
my friend who is 18 has sex with her 20 year old brother .She told me she instigated it .should i tell her mum
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Was I raped?
Posted Thursday June 23 2011, 10:41 pm
I am almost positive I was raped but I am not 100%...About a year ago I was with my well now ex boyfriend and we had been dating for over a year...One day we ended up at his house and we were doing stuff...Well I always got really scared and wanted to cry so I was asking my "sex expert" of a friend what to do and she thought I was ready to have sex. I told my boyfriend this and he started pushing me to do so. He used everything he could to get me to give in from family, to religion, to friends, to if I really loved him...Even though before he said he would wait as long as I needed...Especially since from the start of the relationship I told him that I didn't want to have sex until marriage and he was perfectly fine with that. When...
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Is it possible I was sexually abused as a child?
Posted Tuesday June 14 2011, 5:49 am
17/f.
For a very long time, I have suspected that I have Borderline Personality Disorder, as I display almost all of the symptoms, and it is very common with BPD sufferers to have been abused as children. I didn't ever consider this as a possibility (as I have no recollection of being abused) until recently, when I started to think about myself, and suddenly a lot of things started coming together:
- Ever since I was very young, about 3, this weird feeling would suddenly pounce on me - it's a kind of sick feeling, and even when I was that young, I associated it with sex. I don't know why, it's not something I've ever thought through, it's just what comes into my head when I get this feeling. I used to get this ...
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Im 18 and I was sexually abused...My boyfriend wants to have sex
Posted Tuesday June 14 2011, 3:29 am
I've been dating this guy for about a year and he says he's ready for us to take our relationship to the next step but every time we'd come close to having sex I'd ask him to stop. The thing is, I was sexually abused as a child (it started at about 5 or 6 and didnt end until I was 12), which he doesnt know. His younger brother (my best friend) and my older sister who helped stop the abuse are the only ones that know about it. Im actually surprised that I can talk about it here. Anyway, because of that Im just really nervous about having sex (to say the least). I know theres a difference between rape and sex. And I like kissing and making out with Kevin, but whenever he touches me or when he starts to get a little rough from being so 'over e...
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Is It Safe Fingering Myself after I have been raped?
Posted Tuesday June 7 2011, 3:47 pm
Hello This is embarrassing but yeah, My Name is Amie friends call me 'Me me' because it's my nic-name but it's cute yeah.
I'm 13 and I finger myself I use 2 fingers and I go deep, I have a boyfriend who has fisted my vagina in the past and it hurts sometimes, I also have been... raped but I didn't tell my parents and it wasn't serious but I'll just tell you so you might be-able to tell me whether I could be infected or not.
Here goes what happened:
I was walking near a park it's in a forest and I was going home from a friends house at 9PM it was quite dark and I got to near the main road on a quiet street when I was pulled through a bush and fucked...
Can anybody Help me?
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