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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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Best friend?


Posted Tuesday January 12 2010, 5:25 pm

Ive been friends with this girl for 6 years.She has always been so nice and really sweet..Then she like tunred into this rude thing..Like pushing people. Calling them names.And being a whore. She told me that all my friends hate me and i am not the girl to take that from people..So what do i do.Be like bye for good.Or what.Ive already sat down and talked to her. SHe still doesnt get it.& no one really likes her. SO yeh

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friend jelouse of my new bf...? help mee =s


Posted Tuesday January 12 2010, 6:57 am

heyy i recently got a bf and my best friend is now acting all weird. i think its cos i have a bf now and she doesnt seem to like it or is jelous.

everytime i ask her to hang out she always blows me off by saying
"i dnt know i cant plan that far aheacd" or if i say "when can we hang out" she is always saying "i dno"

i try and i try and she just keeps being really cold towards me. i think she has given up. i dnt know what iv done.

she hasnt met my bf and thats becos he lives an hour away and i only see him a few nights a week so i have plenty of time to hang out with her.

im confused, wat should i do? i miss her. but she doesnt seem to care i just look stupid the more i try. help!! :(

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friendship lost love gained i think


Posted Monday January 11 2010, 10:54 pm

f/17

i have this friend and as u might have read'ed in my last question she makes me talk and text this guy she likes i don't like him very much but hes okay he made up some lie about haven a girl friend so that i would stop asking if he liked her so now she says shes over him but now i got a bigger problem she thinks he likes me and that i like him i don't like him and im sure he likes her not me but one day when i was standing in the hall it was just me him and her she walked away cause she got a phone call and i was just standing there looking at her then out of nowhere i feel some one hold waist and go up to my ear and say excuse me i turn around and he smiled i just looked at him like wtf then he just walked away she saw...

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My best friend


Posted Monday January 11 2010, 9:25 pm

Ever since 7th grade ,I've had a best friend ..Carly. We're in 11th grade now ,so we've come a long way.We both have never really had serious relationships or boys that have caused us to not be close until just recently. A few months ago,she got a boyfriend .Im actually really good friends with him and he's a good guy and he's definitely the one who i'd want carly to be with. Lately,everytime i hangout with her she either talks about him or is with him ,so i can never spend any time alone with her.I used to be okay with hanging out with them together and we all got along good until the last couple of weeks ,shes been different and seems to only pay attention to him and not me..even when we are together.She still tries to talk to me and hang...

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Am I bad for tattling on some kids in my grade for drinking and smoking?


Posted Monday January 11 2010, 8:50 pm

I didnt know them well personally.. but occasionally I'd check their facebooks when i was bored.. like Im sure most people do on facebook anyways. and there were some pictures of them like drinking alcohol and stuff.. also with some other people and other people smoking and stuff.. everyone underage. i told the entire guidance department using a fake email.. and im not sure whether to feel like i did a bad or good thing? cause in 1 way its like i prevented them from really ruining themselves like some teens who never had someone intervene, even their parents. but on the other hand it was snooping.. stalkerish to do.. and now they have to go through stress with the administration now about it. they are all really popular kids at my school. b...

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i hope im not annoying...?


Posted Monday January 11 2010, 7:23 pm


sometimes i do (what i think are) annoying things to guys(such as talking to them a lot and touching their hair and texting them a lot)

how do i stop doing these things, because frankly they annoy me, too...haha.
also, how do you know when a guy thinks your annoying?

thank youu.



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wtf...?


Posted Monday January 11 2010, 7:08 pm

Well I made this new guy friend named...Andrew.
We texted each other like everyday over Christmas break and he told me he liked me.
Suddenly he seems to like hate me though...he's always calling me a bitch and when I text him he asks if he knows me...wtf is his problem? Like out of no where he like, hates me..?
Am i too clingy or something? I'm pretty sure I'm not...I seriously haven't done anything to make him mad.

Btw this isn't the first time a guy has done this to me.
....wtf...

thanks.

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wronge friend


Posted Sunday January 10 2010, 9:35 pm

i have a friend she's my best friend but she likes this guy who is also my friend the problem is that she doesn't like the fact that he only talks to her when im there i don't think its true but everyone tells me the same thing i got her to start texting him but it turned out worser was telling her what to tell him then out of nowhere he started texting me to at the same time i told her and she got mad she wants me to do things for her like make sure hes okay when he doesn't go to school but i don't like to because then she gets mad i just don't know what to do or say to her or to him so she wont get mad

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confused helper


Posted Sunday January 10 2010, 9:27 pm

i have this best friend we have been friends seen's last year we all have boy problems but hers some how seem to be worse i cant get a guy as u read in my last question but she cant get the right guy she has a lot of guys over her but theres one guy named jake she liked him for what seems to be forever he says he does't but i can tell he does i can see it every one can see it one day he text'ed us telling her he loved her it turned out to be hes brother just playing a joke on her i asked him why did he let that happen he said he does't know anything and he does't care so i asked him do you like her cause i think you do a lot then out of nowhere he tells me he has a girlfriend its not true i know that for a fact so i told her what happen'd ...

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best friend of 3 years.. maybe more?


Posted Sunday January 10 2010, 8:51 pm

Well, I've been really close with a boy since 3rd grade, we are know in 10th, still best friends. All of my friends seem to think we would make the cutest couple in the world. Neither of us see it though. We talked about dating and such and we can see us together but it's kind of a weird spot for us. I look at him as my brother but this past weekend we had a dance and a girl was all over him, I felt like I was getting jealous but I shouldn't have been. Now, I literally was the one who got him to go, I texted him alllll night and finally convinced him to go but he spent no time with me, I felt neglected but it was okay, I was just happy he was there. I can trust him with my life and I'll tell him my problems and after say "thanks for li...

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now what?


Posted Sunday January 10 2010, 2:56 pm

okay this guy likes me back he told me but he also told me he doesnt really want to date right now and he said he was sorry...
whats that supose to mean?
will we ever go out or what?
should i still hang out with him and like him?
or am i waisting ym time with him. i really like him...

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did i lose him?


Posted Saturday January 9 2010, 11:28 pm

I was just at a dance tonight and I asked my friend, Ben if he was going, he said probably not but after about two hours of convincing, i finally got him to come. So, i was warning people that he was coming and one girl that heard likes him soooo much which doesnt bother me until later that night. she was on him allll night and i felt like i was getting jealous but i shouldn't have been. then at the end of the night a slow song came on, she grabbed him and started dancing, he doesnt feel that way, i know so, he told me, but i got so upset that i just walked away trying to keep my cool until i came home. so i arrived home, texted him and told him how i felt tonight, that i was so upset that i was the reason he came, but i got zero time with ...

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liar liar pants on fire! >.<


Posted Friday January 8 2010, 8:36 pm

17/f.

to make this very short, my best friend is really jealous of me & gets jealous of anything i say & do, she makes up lies and always tries to one up me. its getting on my nerves so much. its getting worse & worse. i tried to confront her about it, and she gets better for a few weeks, and then its back to her old ways. i just don't know what to do.

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I need more love from my friend


Posted Friday January 8 2010, 6:27 am

I have a friend who is really close to me. But she thinks that only one girl is her GREATEST friend or...very AWESOME. And my friend really misses her really badly. When my friend went to a tournament, she hugged that girl but not me. She talks to her and says good things about her. But I don't see what's good about that girl. Now, I feel like I'm loosing my close friend. :( I really wish my close friend would like me more than her. Well, I know it's her choice on whom she choose to like. But that girl moved from where me and my close friend lives! So why does she have to brag about how GREAT she is. It's really annoying. And again, I would like her to like me.

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BFF FALLING TOO HARD FOR HER (OUR) EX


Posted Thursday January 7 2010, 1:16 pm

so me and my bff dated the same guy, she went with him the day after i did and they broke up so now its a new year and she was at my house talking to him on the phone and she wouldn't tell me what they were talking about... so i think they are getting back together and i dont want them to because he is a cheater and she gets hurt and falls too hard for him too easily and its ahppened before but now she is not taking my advice...well if they ever "youknow" i hope she makes a "mistake" and learns a lesson you kno? gets pregnant because she's the kind of girl that will happen to but how can i seriously talk her out of it a better way than i try?....
13-14 female...

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I need advice about my best friend and her bf


Posted Wednesday January 6 2010, 2:38 am

Ok so I live with my best friend, and for the most part she is a decent and good friend, but this girl is sooooo insanely attached to her boy friend. Let me start out by describing their relationship. They have been together for over 2 years and neither of them have ever been with anyone else. She drops everything for him all the time. She'll make plans with me and then not show up because he called and she 'forgot' our plans. She cry's if she cant see him for a day, she is constantly txting him, calls him for an hour every night. I live with her and we share a bed room and he is here almost everyday. I just feel like she puts him before her own life, and she's constantly upsetting our friendship because of him and I am at my wits end. I do...

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Pushover?


Posted Tuesday January 5 2010, 6:24 pm

How could you be nice to people without them taking advantage of you?

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ex girlfriend from 30 yrs ago


Posted Tuesday January 5 2010, 4:40 pm

I received a e-mail on My Space page from a lady who wanted to be added to my friends list, so I did. After e mailing back in forth she asked I knew who she was. I didn't, after she gave me some hints I finally figured out she was my old gf from high school, 30 yrs ago. After a couple e mails she told me she just got out of an abusive marriage 5 months ago.The questions I have are , What do I do now?Why after all those yrs she looked for me? What is she looking for from me? How do I handle her after an abusive marriage? I've been single for 17yrs and must admit it sparked some old memories.

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A hate triangle


Posted Sunday January 3 2010, 10:11 pm



I will try to make this sound easy to understand


I have been best friends with this girl (Kelsey) since I was 11 years old and I am 26 now. Kelsey started dating this guy (Tim) 6 years ago. A few months ago Kelsey started lying to me telling me that I was a control freak and when I asked who told her this she hesitated and told me someone who hardly knows me said it. (I know for a fact it was her boyfriend Tim because of out all these years Kelsey never said such a thing about me) anyway it began as that then little by little she kept on lying to me more and more about little things. I stopped speaking to Kelsey for a month, Then I slowly began to speak to her again trusting her a little at a time and ...

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crazy friend


Posted Saturday January 2 2010, 9:57 pm

i have this friend shes 15 were not best friends but were friends she has a problem every time she gets a boyfriend she acts like there the best in the world and theres no one other guy in the world but i think this guys no good for her he keeps telling her they should have a kid that he really wants her to be his baby mama we told her that shes crazy why is she even thinking about the answer should be no but she just does not get it she thinks he loves her but we don't i mean he cheated on her who cheats i need your help how do i help a friend who does not understand

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