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Liking a guy i've never actually met
Posted Monday April 14 2014, 4:47 pm
There's this guy that I think is really cool and cute. I first saw him working at this restaurant I go to often and was going to let it go but I recently found his Facebook because we have A LOT of mutual friends and he was tagged in one of the pictures. So I added him and just so I could talk to him I was like "hey you look so familiar and I've been trying to figure out where I know you from did you go to ____High school? and he was like yeah and gave me the year he graduated. so I was like oh okay that's probably where I know you from. Sorry if I came off as a creep or anything lol. and he said its okay :) and that was the end of the convo. now Idk how I could begin talking to him again or if I should even try to talk to again. SO I...
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A guy liked me but he stopped talking to me because of his friend
Posted Monday April 14 2014, 4:28 pm
Okay so. (Im using fake names here) Im a girl and really like this guy named Bob. Bob likes me back or I thought he did anyways. Bob's best friend is named John. John also likes me. I dont like John, I like Bob. But John was mad that I didnt like him and doesnt talk to me anymore. Understandable. BUT he forbids Bob to talk to me. Bob and I havent spoken in a couple weeks and he didnt reply to the one time i called him and left a message saying something like um i would like to hear whats going on from you and not anyone else because im really in the dark here and this is pissing me off. Bob likes all my pictures on instagram which is also very annoying because if hes on his phone he clearly got my voice mail and text. I dont know what to d...
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Ex-boyfriend Problems
Posted Sunday April 13 2014, 7:24 pm
My ex and I dated for over a year. We broke up 8 months ago. He treated me poorly. Made me feel bad about myself, often. We fought, leaving me crying all the time. However, for some reason, I STILL MISS HIM SO BAD! We've tried getting back together more than once. It never works out. It's always good at first, but ends up crappy again. Just recently, he started texting me again. It's only every few days or so. He came over the other night. The night was PERFECT. The next morning, however, he made it clear that he didn't want to try a relationship again. (We've tried that 3 times now..)He just wants to be friends and keep in touch. KEEP IN TOUCH? With someone I love more than anything, despite all of the flaws of our relationship? It sounds...
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Open relationship
Posted Sunday April 13 2014, 6:41 pm
Hi,my wife is 40 and I am 49. Our love life is so so. If and when we do, we both fantasize. Hers is mature light skin men, big guy, hairy chest who can overwhelm her with his strength ( I am only 5'7")or her ex boss who tried to seduce her, she was in her 20s n he around 50. She also asks me if I was also fantasizing and I would also fantasize. After few years I asked her if she wants to try out her fantasy and also it would make me happy too but she says no. I told her atleast try it once and if U dont like then we dont do that again and for I know I may not like it. She says no. So, how do I convince her? Ofcourse men will be screened and safety will be priority. Any advise? I really want her to try it ONCE and then we go from there. Kindly advise please. Thank you.Thank you.
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How to get over a best friend
Posted Sunday April 13 2014, 2:56 pm
Aright, so a few weeks ago I snapped and told my best friend that I really really bloody liked her. Her response was that she knew that I liked her and had done for a while but still wanted the friendship. This hit me hard and so i asked for some space for a few days and she agreed. Its a few weeks from that and things are back to normal really, we talk like we did ect but im not sure if im over her if not what do i do? I dont want to end the friendship as you dont come across good friends often....
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Does he really mean it?
Posted Saturday April 12 2014, 2:13 pm
Hi, I am fifteen years old, and my boyfriend is seventeen years old. We have been together for five months, and I am madly in love with him, there is just one problem. He tells me he loves me a lot, but I really don't feel as he means it. He'll hug on me, hold me, and kiss on me, all the time, especially in public, but I just still don't feel as he really loves me. I really don't want to lose him, he is the light to my world. I have spent hours crying over this, because I don't want to lose him. What should I do?
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I want my ex back! :(
Posted Saturday April 12 2014, 10:32 am
I'm 14 and in the 9th grade, I'm obsessed with this boy! He started talking to me in December 2013 and we've been talking until today but I don't think we are quite ready for a relationship... It's complicated. We see eachother around school everyday but it's almost impossible to make eye contact either he looks away quickly or I do, we only talk online. I want to talk to him in person but I get so shy because of my social anxiety and I stutter when I talk, it'd be nice if someone could give me advice on how to get over that too! I should say that we went out in February for about a week but never spoke, and then we went out again for 3 days but he ended it because he's aid he wasn't ready? Could anyone help me?
Oh and I don't want p...
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Cheating for less than two months in the first two months with my boyfriend
Posted Friday April 11 2014, 4:20 pm
I have been on/off with my current boyfriend for about a year and i always told him i have feelings for him, even when i had a boyfriend at the time, i just wanted him. By the end of that year we got together and he disappeared for a week or so, no calls no texts and picks up after many calls very coldly.
I started seeing someone else and then he started apologizing to me, I said OK but i was never ok, because I have trust and intimacy issues and then i told him im seeing someone else, but he said i had to choose, n i chose him. I met the other guy and we had a stupid quicky, never happened again, i tried to actually be with the other guy but i loved number one too much and i really fell for him.
all this was at the first mo...
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my girlfriend is controlling and jealous
Posted Thursday April 10 2014, 6:57 pm
my girlfriend of 3 years is constantly looking for fights. she says she gets mad when i don't give her attention and that's why she's always wanting to fight about nothing. when we start fighting she gives me the lowest blows though. she's always reminding me that she can get any guy she wants. which i already know but i don't need to be reminded. she calls me selfish and the worst boyfriend she's ever had. she's constantly telling me that if she wanted a crappy relationship she'd have stayed with her ex. not only that but she's very controlling, anytime i go out i have to pretty much ask permission. i don't like her talking to guys but all of her friends are guys and she knows how much i hate it but does it anyway. what do i do? i've tried...
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Next step! What should i do to get him back permanantly?
Posted Wednesday April 9 2014, 10:32 am
So me boyfriend and i of almost 2 years are nottogethher anymore. He broke up with me for the second timebecause he said he felt like we were friends with benefits because when we see each oter once a week we usually do somewhat sexual stuff that isnt sex. And his friends told him they didnt think we would work out cause his reason for getting back with me tthe first time wasnt strong rnough and the reason was that he thought we could work out. I called him right after the break up and he actually sat there listening to me. Then i texted him after the call asking him why he would do this. And then left it at no contact for two weeks then texted him saying i want to see him once more to see if those were his true feelings in person. He said ...
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Been with bf over three years..am I wasting my time?
Posted Wednesday April 9 2014, 7:53 am
So my bf & I met when we were both 18 & got together a couple months later. I had cheated on my previous bf with him, but I felt so bad about that I told the very next day (we just kissed,& it turns out to be my current bf's first kiss), & when I told him he asked why. After my first boyfriend & I broke up after 3 months on & off. Less than a month after we'd been broken up, I started dating the guy I cheated with-who turns out to be my steady bf since late 2010. I took his virginity in January 2011, & all was well for a while. Then he started lying over stupid things (where he was, that he had to go home, who he was with-said he was with his friend Kyle, but he was with a girl he "used" to like,& t...
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ex and new boyfriend ...?
Posted Tuesday April 8 2014, 8:48 pm
Okay so first of all im 15 and let's say my ex is tom(15) and my new boyfriend is chad(16).
So tom and I dated like a little over a year ago and our relationship didn't end too swell. We had lots of fun but every time he'd try to move farther with me in the relationship I would say no and yes he respected that. But the thing is I was an 8th grader and he was a freshman at the time and our schools were different but we saw each other every weekend and sometimes during the week. Then all of a sudden 3 weeks into our relationship he dumped me over a text saying that he can't do the long distance? Lol it wasn't even long distance? We lived like a mile away from each other...it took me awhile to get over him because he was the first guy I...
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Being in love with a bisexual man
Posted Monday April 7 2014, 6:01 pm
Hi, my name is Jo. I am married but have been in love and in a relationship with a married man for 17 years. I guess I got over feeling guilty about cheating on my husband a long time ago. He is a good man, but I was never in love with him. I met the man that I have been in love with when I became a jewelry manager. He ran the store , but we only worked together for a few years. From the very beginning, he pursued me and I fell hard for him. I was always overweight , but be never seemed to notice and was attracted to me regardless. I saw him ocassonally but spoke with him constantly . He always asked to see me ,but I suffer from severe depression and anxiety , so I would hold him at bay at times. I was also a bad yo yo dieter and had balloo...
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Why would married man end our affair and then change his mind?
Posted Monday April 7 2014, 2:51 pm
I am involved with a married man (or was, or is?). Last week we spent two days together. On the second day, he told me it was over. He couldn't see me again, he hated the fact he was cheating on his wife, and it was killing him inside. We held each other and cried and said our Goodbye's. I felt as if the world came crashing down on me. I told him how sorry I was that we got involved in something that was against both our morals. He said he wanted to remain friends but we had to stop our flirting, texts, and messages.
The weekend went by and I barely ate or slept. Today he calls me (we work for the same department, different locations) and tells me he's not sure he's done with me yet. That he just wants an extended break. Why ...
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Becoming intimate with a guy: I am insecure about my Vagina
Posted Monday April 7 2014, 12:19 pm
So i am 15 Years old, and people in my year have started becoming more sexual. There is a guy i know and like who wants to do more than kissing but i am too insecure about my vagina to do anything. It hangs down alot and im worried he will be grossed out. Help:(
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How can I rekindle my relationship?
Posted Monday April 7 2014, 11:09 am
I met the guy through some friends, let's call him A. We began talking for a year, but we never met privately. We would always bump in to each other and talk that way, but never meet personally on our own. Through the year of speaking, we stopped for almost 3 months, and in that 3 months, I got myself in to a relationship with a guy who I were close with. A came back in to my life and I decided to give it another go, then we stopped talking again, and I met a guy who I was interested In. Again, A came back and I decided to give it another go. Whilst I was on these dates and in another relationship, I still really cared for A, he was still my first thought of every morning. Anyway, when he came back, we decided to give it a go in to an offic...
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He didn't get me anything for my birthday
Posted Monday April 7 2014, 9:48 am
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. Today is my 23rd birthday and he didn't even get me anything. I don't even want much just something to feel special but no. We have a long distance relationship and I had a party Saturday that he wasn't able to come to because he couldn't afford the 500$ ticket but he was able to go out that night and spend over 100$ on drinks. He told me he feels like an awful boyfriend but then today on my birthday he tells me he's going to the casino on Thursday... So I'm guessing he doesn't feel that awful. On his birthday I made a huge deal I sent him a care package, visited him, and bought dinner and some other things for dessert. But he can't even send a card or anything. Am I just over thinking...
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Is it time to break up?
Posted Sunday April 6 2014, 3:07 pm
My boyfriend have been together for around 2 and a half years and we moved in together 8/9 months ago. Over the past few months things between us have started to go downhill pretty badly. We argue several times a week (mostly about things like house work and money) and our sex life is terrible! We treat each other horribly and don't show each other any respect.
I love our life together and when we are getting along things are great. Up until this point we were planning our long term future together but now I don't know if we have one at all. It all came to a head last night and we now haven't spoken for around 24 hours, something we have never done before even after arguing. We're at a total stalemate and I don't think eithe...
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Hard time accepting that he may be moving?
Posted Sunday April 6 2014, 2:23 pm
21/f
I'm having a hard time right now. There are things that are changing in my family environment and now things are changing in my relationships.
There's this guy. We dated when I was 17 years old. We went on and off when I was 19 years old, we weren't really seeing anybody in between those times. Our on and offs were pretty much him saying that he wanted to move on, and three days later he'd come back. We were going through a rough patch of him telling me to move on and then coming back asking me to stay. We fought constantly over the past 4 years... But recently, things got better. We stopped fighting. I thought because we've been through so much we don't fight as often anymore. When we get into an argument...
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What's wrong with me
Posted Sunday April 6 2014, 10:37 am
hello everyone. I'm 15 female. Is there something wrong with me coz nobody had ever courted me so far. Like nobody since ever. I've had no boyfriend. I live in a city, im active in community and popular in our school.
Uhmm yeh I'm boyish type but I'm girly still. I play with guys on school and talked with guys always. Guys say that I talk like them and whilst girls on the other hand say that im still even girly. I have lots of crush in school and some of them know that I like them but they never courted me. Is there wrong with me? Coz I want to get a boyfriend. Thank you.
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