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Prom Dilemma
Posted Wednesday February 3 2010, 2:33 am
In advance: I get that this "dilemma" may seem ridiculous, but it's been bothering me. If you're only here to be sarcastic, move along. First off, I'm a girl. I've been thinking a lot lately about my HS Prom for some reason, and how it's going to work out for me.
Let's just say that I will not have a date. Not a lot of people really go to Prom with dates at my school, most people just go with large groups.
I mainly hang out with three other girls who, let's just say, are very anti-school event and pretty much everything-event. They hardly ever even go out. Which means I hardly ever hang out with them outside of school. We have a lot of fun when we're together, and we're good friends. But for some rea...
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Lonely
Posted Tuesday February 2 2010, 9:08 pm
Is it bad to feel lonely. I just lost a few of my freinds, (backstabbing) and i feel like everyone just gangs up on me and treats me like I'm absolutely nothing. I'm just depressed. I dont't know. What should I do?
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want to talk to him more..
Posted Tuesday February 2 2010, 12:15 am
okay so i've hooked up with this kid tyler twice. we have mutual friends so we've hung out before, but not too much. i'm very attracted to him so how do i talk to him more without seeming clingy/ without seeming like it's because we hooked up? i feel like after we hook up i have this sudden urge to talk to him more, but i don't want it to seem weird. thanks!
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Friend wants me to play softball
Posted Sunday January 31 2010, 1:06 pm
I wanted to start a softball team. So I started asking a few friends and an Acquaintance (call him Mr. A). Mr. A asked a few of his friends (who are not friends of mine) to join the team. Mr. A now has enough people to field the whole team. In the meantime, I've changed my mind about playing softball. Mr. A keeps bugging me about starting the team. Should I tell him that I just changed my mind? BTW -- Mr. A's wife is very friendly with my wife.
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21 questions game - How do you play it and what do you ask?
Posted Friday January 29 2010, 10:01 pm
My friend said that we were all going to play "the 21 questions game" when we meet at her house for dinner in a couple weeks. My problem is that I never heard of any such thing before! :(
Obviously there are questions but am I asking them or answering them or both? If I have to ask questions what kinds of things should I ask to play the 21 questions game without looking like a retard.
Thanks so much to those of you who have social lives and know these things! :)
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My "best" friend
Posted Friday January 29 2010, 11:53 am
Ok, so I'm a 19/f, and I' currently a sophomore in college. I met this one girl in college freshman year, and we have been best friends ever since. But I've noticed that this past year, she has maken it sort of her hobby to put me down. She'll constantly say negative comments about my body, my hair, my clothes and how I look. She even manages to take blows at my personality. We'll be in casual conversation on a completely unrelated topic, and she manages she find some way to insult me.
I do consider her one of my really close friends. I tell her everything and we do a lot together and always have a lot of fun. I just don't know why she insists on always putting me down. It really hurts, and I'm always so insecure on how I look, which...
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how do i make friends
Posted Tuesday January 26 2010, 7:00 pm
at my new school i know absolutely no one!! and out side of school i have no life because i just moved and no absolutely nobody here. How do i make friends fast so i can get out??
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Lieing
Posted Monday January 25 2010, 9:55 pm
Hello, Its my birthday party tomorrow and my cousin will be coming so will a few of my friends. My cousin has never met my friends before so i guess when they meet they will be talking a lot. And One of my friends went to QLD, a place in australia during the holidays and me and my cousin went there a while back. I told my friends i went to 2 theme parks there when i went to one. Im scared incase my friends find out im lying if my cousin and they talk about it. And theres other stuff ive lied about I dont know why i did it, but what do i say if they do find out?
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how to stop attitude from a "friend"
Posted Monday January 25 2010, 8:50 pm
hi i'm 16 female. i have this friend who this year became more involved in my life. the beginning of the school year was great we were getting along. starting around november she began acting differently. she's been giving me HUGE attitude and treating me like crap. i didn't do anything wrong that i know of and if i did do something wrong that i didn't realize i did it definitely wasn't anything terrible enough to be talked to like this. it's like that vibe you get when you know someone doesn't like you and has been talking about you behind your back. some days we talk nicely and civilly and then the next day she's really mean. i don't get it. she's not like this to everyone, just me and maybe a few others. she will tell secrets in front of...
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So Confused
Posted Saturday January 23 2010, 11:58 pm
I sometimes feel very unhappy with myself. I feel like i'm always thinking mean thoughts about other people just to feel better, and also I always feel like I don't fit in with my friends. Like they don't care how they look, and I always feel "better" which is horrible. I feel absolutely horrible feeling this way, I don't know how to accept me, and my friends. Help!
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Hatred
Posted Saturday January 23 2010, 11:56 pm
I'm not friends with these two girls I use to be. I still feel hatred at both of them, looking back at how they severely bullied me down and just back stabbed me. I know hate is not the answer, and I know I can and never will be even ever to look at either of them again. But is there a way to get it off my mind and find a state in not feeling "hate" towards them?
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more teenage drama :b
Posted Saturday January 23 2010, 11:40 am
So this all began when I told my friend I had sex with my boyfriend. I still don't really know why I told her, but I guess I brought all this upon myself for doing so. Anyways, I told her and had her swear she wouldn't tell anyone because you know how it is...in teenager world, if you have sex one time with your boyfriend, you're automatically a slut and nothing will ever change that. So obviously, I didn't want this getting around. But I told her and she, of course, went and told people. Now that's not what's bothering me. I mean yeah, it wasn't her secret to tell and she shouldn't have told, but looking back I should have known that she was going to tell someone. The thing is, she told her exboyfriend (who I really don't know, he is a com...
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Husband cheating on Friend
Posted Friday January 22 2010, 2:13 pm
My friend's husband has been cheating on her for about a year. He is telling her that he loves her and will not leave her. He is telling his girlfriend that he is only staying at the house with his wife until he can move some of his stuff out and that he sleeps on the couch. He tells his girlfriend that his wife knows its over and he is leaving her. Wife is ok with that! He is actually working both sides of the fence for his benefit. Girlfriend has money, wife does not. Has told all his friends that his wife knows he is leaving her and he has nothing to hide. He does not want to give up the house to his wife, wants her out. Girlfriend is completely unaware of what is still going on between the husband and the wife, they are still s...
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Sadie Hawkins Dance
Posted Thursday January 21 2010, 4:57 pm
15/f
The dance is late February and i don't like any guys, but i'd wanna go up to a cute guy and ask him. Is that okay to do? To ask someone you don't know?
Also what do i wear?
The fliers don't have a theme on them, so yea.
Any tips on who to ask would be great.
(I can't ask any guy friends)
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Feeling Lonely
Posted Thursday January 21 2010, 3:03 pm
17/F
Sorry if its long, so lately ive been feeling so lonely. My best friend and I are no more, my best guy friend and I havent been very good and dont talk as much as we used to,and i dont have as many good close girlfriends as alot of girls do. Because id always do and go everywhere with my ex best friend,so now its harder for me now that were not together. I also just transfered to a new school my junior year(last year) and I have made some girl friends but were not close, and now lately theyve all obsessed with there boyfriends and UGH!! im going crazy! I feel like im not good enough for anyone! what can I do to meet new people or friends? Because im not in sports and in extracurricular activities. As dumb as this may sound but advice would be great! (: thanks much!!
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Friends parents.
Posted Wednesday January 20 2010, 5:24 pm
Here's the thing. My friend is 13, her boyfriend is 18 (Don;t judge they were cute together -plus I know this is wrong-) And my friend's parents were ok with her going out with this dude, as long as nothing physical happened. Well, she had sex with him and texted me telling me all about it(as she does) and her dad read out Outbox messages on her phone and found out. So, now she is GROUNDED, she is forbidden to see her boyfriend ever again, I think they are moving her to another school so they can't be together there. She's not allowed out of the house, she's not allowed the internet... she just has to sit at home and do nothing. I want to see her, her parents wont let me talk to her on the phone because they think I'm just going to ...
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I don't have a best friend?
Posted Monday January 18 2010, 10:48 pm
This is kinda random-but I've come to realize i really don't have a best friend?- I used to have one,from when i was 3 up until about 3 years ago (she's older, going to college,working-ect)and we've just grown apart. So lately i've been looking around a noticing- everyone has a best friend. I sort of feel like i've missed my chance at getting that title, because i'm 16 and usually your best friend's the one you've known since you were little,you know? I really have no one, i mean i have awesome close close friends-but none that i'd really consider that one best friend-anymore. Am I alone in this? Am I..missing something? I guess it's got me feeling kind of down XD.
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END OF FRIENDSHIP OVER A BOY
Posted Monday January 18 2010, 1:28 am
Well at the beginning of the year me and my friend liked the same guy so me and some kids from school went out to eat and he was there so my friend likes to seduce people...i went to go get something to drink and when i came back they were KISSING!!! Now i feel like i can't trust her. How can i stop holding a grudge against her about this situation?Also everyone including her brother,sister, and cousin told her that she was wrong for doing that to me
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How can I be a supportive friend?
Posted Saturday January 16 2010, 12:18 am
One of my close friends turns 18 in a month and plans on moving out. He's had a lot of family drama and wants to get away. I don't blame him for wanting to live somewhere else but I am afraid he is going to ruin his relationship with his whole family by making this decision. There are pros and cons that are too deep to get into, but I guess what I really need to know is, how can I be there for him?
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She did what?
Posted Wednesday January 13 2010, 5:29 pm
My best friend of 6 years. Really did me wrong last night. She wrong on her statis on facebook. "mynamehere,Is a dirty slut & a liar"
Then all my friends started attacking it and writeing on it and curseing her out. but then she got mad, nd wrote all over my wall,4 paragraphs.On everything sexual ive done,My weight,nd alot of other stuff.I got so mad.Like so mad. Then for some reason my mother got in it.And started curseing on it. And all this 15 years olds didnt like it.So they were telling my mom to square up & what not.When i read all of this today.I was like how stupied can people be?
But any way.I really don't know what to do.i did talk to her cause her mom called the school and tryed to say that i start...
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