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Strangers ... !!
Posted Tuesday July 28 2009, 1:55 pm
I know I've never been close to my family and they all call me heartless and mean because of how I act. The thing is I have a really short temper, like if someone got me angry I would actually go blind, like I pushed my father before who is 60 years old.
It's weird that I can be so mean but it's not because I'm mean, it's because they're so horrible it's sad to have them as my family, I feel like they are strangers. Sometimes I ask my myself 'why am I here?' or how come I feel like that.
When my mother hugs me or kisses me, I feel disguised. And right now my sister is getting divorced and she's only been married for 2 months, so she asked me for my help to tell my parents but all i did is yell at her for be...
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Pregnancy
Posted Tuesday July 28 2009, 9:47 am
Okay for starters I have a two year old son who will be 3 when my second child will be born. I have a step son but isnt living with us right now. Is there any way possible to prepare your 1st child for a second child? Also why do I always fell sick when I am getting ready to climb into bed?
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HATE My Sister!
Posted Monday July 27 2009, 8:11 pm
I'm 17/f and about to start my senior year in high school. My older sister just turned 21 and still lives in the house with the family. My mother has diabetes and this causes her not to be able to do things around the house as well. Well my sister has a habit of rolling her eyes, stomping around and whining when she is asked to do something. So of course my mom gets mad, but she holds it in. This instigating (as i call it) keeps happening. My sister will say something then my mom gets mad. Then whilst my sister seems act like she's the angel, she'll blame me for something and mom completely blows her top on me! I'm so tired of getting yelled at when my lazy sister gets off scott free!
What do I do?
Thanks,
Tired
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being torn apart by something I can't change : (
Posted Monday July 27 2009, 10:14 am
14/f
My parents are divorced. I've learned to accept that years ago. They have been divorced for almost ten years. Both of them are remarried and I love my step parents. I am very close to my mom, I think every girl is. I am also close to ny dad. I see him Wednesdays, Thrsdays, and I live with him every other weekend. I like how things are. However something has come up. You guys seem to get that I am close to both parents. They don't talk much, but when they do they are very responsible, respectful and they don't fight. My step dad works at NCR and his busnuiness is moving to Georgia. In two days we will get a letter saying if he is asked to move to Georgia. He has been looking for a job for about two months now. Since of...
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old "father" figure back in my life? help me
Posted Sunday July 26 2009, 10:15 pm
so my parents got divorced when i was 7, im 17 now
even before my parents got divorced. i use to spend alot of time at my moms friends house, they were so close i use to think she was my aunt. anyways he husband became like my dad, at least when i was 7 thats how i thought of him since my dad was never around and i continued to go over there all the time untill i was about 9 or 10 or so, they moved several hours away and we just... lost in touch i was like really devastated because of it they ended up having a kid of there own and thats when they moved, well i got over it and ive done a lot of stuff im not proud of like i drink alot and i smoke pot.. its just how i deal with things. Well recently my "aunt" (moms old friend...
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my mom's guy friend (pt 2)
Posted Sunday July 26 2009, 10:02 pm
Hi, I asked this question before:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=565105
and I took the advice. Unfortunately, while I was in the kitchen getting some food, I heard my mom's phone ring. I looked at it, and saw she had a new text. I knew I shouldn't be snooping around, but I did. The text was from a guy that read - "Good night my love. I will see you tomorrow. I know you didn't mean what you said."
Should I be worrying NOW?
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how to convince parents
Posted Saturday July 25 2009, 3:21 am
To start off I will tell you about myself. I am a 21 year old mexican girl. I live wit my parents. Currently no job and I go to college full time.
I have a wonderful boyfriend of 3 years. He is turning 21 in december. And I was going to throw him a huge party. But he would rather go on vacation to cancun for a week. He says he would pay for everything for me which include flight, hotel, food, anything. Just me and him. ROMANTIC! I know. And probably some(2-3) cousins that live in mexico. Its wonderful, exciting. And I want to go really bad..
But here's the thing. I am the first born. I am the baby of the family and my parents would need a ton of convincing to let me go. I need help on tips to convince them. Please help anyone.
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abuse report sibling
Posted Friday July 24 2009, 8:12 pm
so I just asked the question "siblings bringing up ex bf" and my sister (who has an account on advicenators) answered my question, acting like a victim in a "different situation." I rated her a three (which means decent enough advice) because I thought it was horrible how she was lying. she saw I rated her a three and told me she knew the question was from me, and that she was going to file an abuse report, so she did, saying that she didnt know it was my question, and that I was purposely lowering her rating. help?
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siblings bringing up ex bf
Posted Friday July 24 2009, 7:09 pm
15f/
I broke up with my boyfriend, we went out for a really long time (a little under a year.) I finally got over it, and now all the time my brother and sister bring up his, just to annoy me. for instance, I will be texting and they will say who are you texting? Tom? something like that. It doesnt bother me that they are trying to annoy me, it hurts me that they are bringing up his name, because it makes me remember when all I want to do is forget. I have tried explaining this to them, and they laugh. another example is when we argue, they will tell me to go suck on toms cock just to be cruel.
help please!
ps my siblings are the same age as me so its not like they are younger.
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boyfriends older cousin
Posted Friday July 24 2009, 3:41 pm
I'm 17 and so is my boyfriend. He has this cousin who's about 30 years old, maybe a little older. Well his cousin hasn't spoken to my bf in about a year and they live five minutes away from each other. Well suddenly his cousin decided to reconnect with my bf and they've been spending every day together for the past week and a half. I honestly wouldn't mind because its family but his cousin is so rude, annoying and racist. My bf quit smoking pot but if he smells it, it makes him want to smoke and his cousin always smokes pot around him. If we're in the car he'll smoke a cigarette and not bother to blow the smoke out the window. We live in an area where there's a large hasidic Jewish community during the summer and it makes the full time res...
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I can't stand his mother
Posted Friday July 24 2009, 1:46 pm
So my boyfriend who is 17, almost 18 in 2 months and is in foster care. His foster mother said he cant see his real family unless she is there and she hates his real sister so he isn't aloud to see her at all. Well yesterday we went over to his sisters to hang out and just have a good time like usual. Well his real brother was there [who is not in foster care] and he barrowed his bike to go get something from the store. Well on his way back my boyfriends foster mother seen him and fallowed him back to my boyfried's sisters house, then told my boyfriend he had to come outside. Well we went outside and his sisters daughter fallwoed so I went to take her in well as I went in his mother freaked out on him. I go back out side and she is tells me...
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Disturbing mother-son bond..
Posted Thursday July 23 2009, 11:09 am
Is it just me or is it weird that my husband who is 31 years old sits on his mothers lap when we go to visit, or cuddles up next to her on the couch?
Maybe its just me, but i find it odd that a 31 year old would even want to do that. I mean I feel like maybe he does this because of unresolved issues from his childhood.
Unless I'm wrong, and this is completely normal and I just have no feelings.
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eyes
Posted Wednesday July 22 2009, 11:54 pm
um.....hey i have brown eyes omg but i soo dont know what to bring them out with i use eye liner well black eye liner and i dont know what else to put on and. By the way im 14years old i dont whant like to much make up on and ya thank you very much bibi
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what should i do if my family gets me really mad?
Posted Wednesday July 22 2009, 5:57 am
what should i do if my parents get me really mad and start yelling at me for nuttin? my parents think that my lil sister is more respondisble cuz she lies and she gets away wit everything and i tend to cut my uppper arm and that but i dont know wat i should do instead of cutting my upper arm can u tell me wat i should do?
sincerly
confuse girl in OHIO
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my mom hates me
Posted Wednesday July 22 2009, 5:47 am
my mom hates me i know she does... im 14 years old... on my 14th birthday she kicked me outta my house.... and told me it was my fault.... i dont wanna sound like im the perfect kid cause im not... but i just dont know how to make her happy it seems like im always doing something wrong.... i cant please her..... she tells all my friends parents that im a bad kid.... i spend a lot of time in my room or sleeping so idont hafta see her so icant get her mad at me... i dont know what to do anymore... i dont think i can live like this please hekp me someone....
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Posted Wednesday July 22 2009, 5:35 am
My friends dont trust me at all. they wont let me know anything cause they're like "youll just go off and tell it" and i dont! And i never had! Ive tried telling them i dont tell but they never trust me. How can i Let me trust me again.
--Not a secret teller
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Transportation Issues...
Posted Tuesday July 21 2009, 12:13 am
Well, I have a prospective babysitting customer who lives about 20 miles away from me, and I have yet to receive any calls or e-mails from people within my own town (my town is rather small with around 7,000 people), and my parents refuse to drive an 80-mile round trip (20 miles there, 20 back, 20 there to pick me up, 20 back home) since they both work at home.
I can't get my license till October, and my parents rarely have time to take me driving so I can get my mandatory 30-hours of provisional driving in. They won't let me drive at night, and I need AT LEAST 10 hours of driving at night!
I don't know if I'll ever be able to babysit because of the transportation issues; I'm stuck at home for mostly the whole ...
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help
Posted Monday July 20 2009, 6:36 pm
well my mom and dad are arugin and my mom left me with my dad becasue she went to live with her mom and i dont like my dad very much and he doesnt let us leave becuase he probley scared we will leave him and i got 2 lilttle brothers and i dont know what to do??? should i leave with out him knowing
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ediqute at a funneral
Posted Sunday July 19 2009, 10:28 pm
As the long term girlfriend of 6 years and once engaged to this man, who's mother passed away. Tomorrow at the funneral he asked me to sit with them. Would it be proper if I also stood with him and his family to greet?
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Trust
Posted Saturday July 18 2009, 9:11 am
So my boyfriend is moving.we've ben together for 9 months so this is tough. so me and him had some beer rite and it was only because i was really upset. and my clothes ended up coming off.
and i got caught by the cops and my parents find out. i told them i was sorry and i never wanted to do it again but they just won't give me the chance to prove it to them.
How do I make this better?
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