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Posted Friday November 23 2007, 9:20 pm

i lived in nc for a long time then i moved to pa. i recently came back down and all my friend told me how much weight i had lost. i thought it was really strange because i thought i had gained alot of weight. is it just in my head that i project myself as being heavier like when anorexic people look in the mirror and they see someone who's like 100 pounds heavier than they actually are?

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anorexic friend


Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 7:07 pm

I think my guy friend might be anorexic.
He's told me that he used to not eat, but that ended. But now, he's not really eating again. I don't know if he just doesn't eat in front of me, or if he's not eating at all. But I think it could be a serious problem.

What should I do?

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OCD


Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 5:46 pm

I am pretty sure I have OCD. I have a high amount of the symptoms of OCD. This is not a problem for me. I have a very mild condition, and often simply perform miscellaneous acts, like closing doors on my way down halls, subconsciously straightening books, desks, etc. I have not been officially diagnosed with OCD, though. The problem is, I get great anxiety on whether I have OCD or not. I stress constantly, and check every day to check symptoms, compare my symptoms with other anxiety disorders, and so on. I often get like this, checking over and over again for things like making sure my alarm clock is set, and check maybe 5 times a night. I can deal with this myself, but having to check to see if I actually have something wrong with me?

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depressed...


Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 5:38 pm

I'm very depressed and don't know what to do about it. I don't want my depression to go to far and me do something I shouldn't do. I know I'm depressed because I should be happy. I have a boyfriend, friends, even best friends, a decent family, and no money problems or anything. I mean nothing is really wrong with my life. The thing is my boyfriend cheated on me after four month of being together and I don't think I've gotten over it. We've been together for a year and something now. He's done little things like text messaging girls that he's had dreams about having sex with them, and stuff like that... The thing is I love him. I want get over this already, but I don't think I can. He's what makes me happiest, and I think the problem is that...

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lately i...


Posted Tuesday November 20 2007, 4:23 pm

havent wanting to live with my family im 14 and i already know what i wantt. i know that i HATEE my family[mom dad sister,17] with a burning passion that cann never be describeed. likee it reallyy wouldnt matter to me if i didnt lived with them anymore. they dont listen to a word i sayy, there always on eachothers siddee, like im neverr everr right, my parents sent me to a catholic high school which i absolutly HATEE ! and they know i dont wanna go there and never did want to, and i have the most amazing friends that i never see besides the weekend. im starting to make friends but i would choose my old friends over everything. i would do annyytthingg for them, and i mean anything. we all feel the same way about eachother. and if i continue ...

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Slight anxiety?


Posted Monday November 19 2007, 7:51 pm

16/f. This year, I am taking very hard classes and I'm trying my hardest to do very well in them. This puts a lot of pressure on me- and I've noticed that much of the time I seem very anxious. I can't relax about anything- I can't sleep well, and randomly my heart starts pounding. It's not to the point of racing, and it's not like a medical condition, it's just like the "butterflies in the stomach" thing. The problem is, I don't have butterflies in my stomach... I'm just really stressed out all the time. I eat right, exercise, and I look and feel very healthy. Yet whenever I have a lot of homework to do or anything, when I think about it I start to feel really weird, uncomfortable, and sometimes even shaky, as if I had just...

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I like naked women ... but im a woman myself...


Posted Monday November 19 2007, 11:42 am

ok im 20, female. I get really turned on when i see naked women and i want to touch myself. But I would never consider doing anything with a woman. Like, it kinda grosses me out thinking about doing something with another woman...but I like to watch lesbian porn. It turns me on way more than man-woman porn. Whats wrong with me?

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Posted Sunday November 18 2007, 10:55 pm

- Sorry its so long

Ok so i have a friend who is like OBSESSED with this guy named ralphy and they used to go out and stuff but they broke up. She says he loves him. Ok so the have sex and i guess this is what she does to try to get him back. I have a feeling they wont EVER get back together because he likes this other girl but isnt dating her because her mom wont let her. Ok so he practically uses her. She doesnt realize it. The gurl he actually likes still hangsout with him and stuff but whithout her mom knowing. My friend constantly tells me she wants to kill herself when she either see's them together or finds out the were together. Im really scared for because he doesnt want her anymore and shes going to end up hurt in the end. Wat should i do to help her out?

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insomnia?


Posted Saturday November 17 2007, 3:45 am

18/f - For years, i've had restless nights. to the point where i would be tossing and turning in bed for hours. some nights, i fall asleep like a baby, but then get up in the middle of the night and can't fall asleep for hours. i dont drink caffine, my room is normal condition, no lights, no noises, no messes. ive never been able to talk to a doctor about it, but it happens alot when im stressing out or dealing with alot of stuff, like after my dad died, i slept and slept. but even when i get 7-9 hours, IM STILL TIRED. its getting annoying because nothing is helping me. i have, yes only once, had a friend give me a sleeping pills because i went days without sleep, and it made me fall asleep and i wasn't tired after 7-9 hours of sleep. (that...

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I need advice!


Posted Thursday November 15 2007, 6:53 pm

I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months, and I am attracted to this other guy. I've slept with this other guy 3 times, and I want to tell my boyfriend that I've been cheating on him. I feel like I need to tell him. OH, and also, I have a bachelorette party for my cousin in 2 weeks, and I'm going for a Mexican theme, since she's Mexican. I want to make some enchilladas for the event, and I need a good recipe! Thanks!

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my friend was abused and still suffereing 8 years later


Posted Thursday November 15 2007, 5:36 pm

my best friend was abused by drugs and got on them and so much more by the time she was 6. her dad died. her mom went to jail. her aunt took her and her sister so they wouldnt get put up. but their not legally adopted. she refuses to use her aunts last name. her real mom keeps calling and leaving messages or coming over. i thought she had a restaining order or sumthing. but everytime, my friends aunt is screamin at her and her sister and makes them leave they cannot see or hear or even a picture of their mom. but her mom left in a message that she also gave them all aids and that they have 3 brothers they never met. so she cant see her brothers she doesnt even know who or were they are. she fights nonstop with her mom. she is bipolar and im...

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diagnosed for ADD


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 7:48 pm

how are girls diagnosed for ADD? i read somewhere that they are not as physically active.. but i dunno. any help on this?

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Always sad and irritable


Posted Wednesday November 14 2007, 5:21 pm

I sad, listless and very irritable a lot of the time. How can I become happier and calmer?

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throwing up


Posted Monday November 12 2007, 5:23 pm

if you made yourself throw up once and only once and do not think of doing it again, does this still make you bulimic?

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Important dream


Posted Sunday November 11 2007, 10:53 pm

I always have this one dream when something very important is going to happen to me. Whenever it happens it means something will happen, A death, A relationship, Anything life changing.It scares me because I know something is gonna happen and theres nothing I can do about it. Im in my moms old truck and its completely empty, its rolling toward the ocean, I look out the window and i see myself with the girl I love, usually it is flashbacks of my life, Im laying there with the girl i love and i wave to myself, the truck hits the ocean water and i drowned, then i wake up. Every time i have this dream i understand it more, it hasnt seemed like it was gonna end till now. I dont know what that means, am i gonna die or will i help myself from the sinking truck?

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Nerves


Posted Sunday November 11 2007, 8:21 am

Hi I would be greatful if anyone can help with any ideas on how to deal with nerves and shyness. I currently have alot of things in my life where i need to keep control of my nerves.
I am soon taking my driving test, A levels and a new job as a waitress but I am finding my nerves are getting in the way, I start shaking, going bright red and I carnt speak properly. A few times I have failed a few exams because my nerves got the better of me.

I would be greatful for any help. Thank you.

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bipolar disorder


Posted Saturday November 10 2007, 2:08 pm

Is depression or more specifically bipolar disorder genetic? Could it possibly be passed from a parent to the child?

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Last night I was crazy?


Posted Saturday November 10 2007, 12:18 pm

16, F
(Don't know if this is the right category!)
So last night my friend and I were acting crazy at the mall. I have no I idea why! Could it be becuase we were on our periods? Here's what we did:
-joked with our employee friends at a shoe store. I like 1 0f them and he gave this other girl a 'lap dance' in there. I wasn't really mad I was just playing and she caught my eye.
-everything was hilarious.
-had a conversation with this guy who came in there. Cracked him up, got his #
-met these guys and talked n laughed crazy with them (they thought i was drunk? So I played a long)
-the girl from the shoe store mimicked (Sp.) Me, gave us a hand gesture, so we turned around, took off our h...

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ALGEBRA.


Posted Saturday November 10 2007, 11:14 am

How do I solve h(x)=2x-3/4 by finding the eqn. of inverse?

the 2x-3 is the numerator
and
the 4 is the denominator.
I don't know how to insert fraction bars...

PLEASE SHOW A STEP-BY-STEP RESPONSE!

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My sisters daughter is mentally retarded


Posted Friday November 9 2007, 8:09 pm

My neice is mentally retarded. We just found out. My sister was hysterical. My mom was crying. My dad was very mad/sad. I felt nothing. Is this wrong? I love my neice and care about her, but i don't care if shes retarded. I'll still love her the same. I feel bad for the troubles she will have to go through but i'm not really sad. Also i am kinda pissed about how everyone else is so pissed off. Is this good or bad and why am i feeling this way?

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