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Posted Saturday April 26 2014, 9:08 pm

I was talking to this guy since January of this year and like a week ago we got into a fight. It was something stupid, I wasn't texting him back fast enough and I got tired of him complaining to me about it n I told him to get over it. He freaked out basically n I ignored him for the rest of the night. The next day came and I answered him. I was still butt hurt about the night before so I wasn't very nice. He made me talk about it though and eventually he said he'd leave me alone for a couple days. At first I said okay but he kept talking and was really nice n I told him he didn't have to go for a couple days. After that he said ok and that his dad needed his phone back (his phone had run out of minutes) and he hasn't said anything since. I...

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Really shy guy - want to be friends?


Posted Saturday April 26 2014, 11:36 am

Hey guys, there is this guy, named Matt. And he is really shy, but he talks to me online all the time. He seems really funny and nice, and I want to be friends with him. He normally takes the intiative to message me. Today was the first time we talked in person, face-to-face. I was the one who talked the most, and he seemed like he didnt want to talk to me even though he told me he wanted to. Now i'm really confused... he says online that he wants to be friends, and that he likes me and stuff, but in person he hardly talks.

1) Is this like a shy-flirting thing?
2) What should I do about his shyness?
3) also, i've heard from many people that he has a crush on me... he's really outgoing yet he doesnt talk a lot.

Thanks for the help guys. :)

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I cannot understand my boyfriend


Posted Saturday April 26 2014, 9:17 am

Hi! I am from India 22/f. I have a bf.we are together since 2010. He is much older than me. He is sweet. But i cannot find any match between us. He is very orthodox by nature. I am littlebit modern than he. He cannot like girls/woman, except his mother and sister.he has a negative point of view on women. But he had a relation before me.and he also proposed me.so i can't understand his mentality.also he has a big issue with working women.he thought that those who(woman) work in office,she cannot run a family and grows child.his idle woman should be stay at home after marriage,bt do household work only.i am educated and want a good career.also a husband and child.i think woman can easily handle both the thing easily.but he can't accept it.al...

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Island of Gozo?


Posted Saturday April 26 2014, 2:56 am

Where is Island of Gozo?

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Grand Canyon Bus Tour


Posted Saturday April 26 2014, 2:50 am

How can I make my bus tours of the Grand Canyon interesting for my family? Please share your great wisdom here!

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Lesbian with a straight: Is she using me?


Posted Saturday April 26 2014, 1:09 am

I'm a lesbian, and i'm always getting used by my straight friend. She is always dirty texting me, and touching herself when she's talking to me, but she says that only i turn her on and she wouldn't date me because she doesn't want to be a lesbian. She has a boyfriend, yet she comes to me when it comes to pleasure. I love her as a best friend, maybe more, but only if she accepted. But, it seems like lately, all we've been doing is "making love" and she doesn't even love me.
Is she gay? Why is she using me like this? When she asks me to turn her on, etc, she tell me to "Make love" to her. Does that mean she loves me? because she normally says sex, unless she's talking about me. We've never actually done it, but we talk and touch ourselves.

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How do i get him to unblock me and talk to me?


Posted Friday April 25 2014, 9:20 pm

well first i'm 23 and he's only 20. i walked away from my ex because he was being extremely needy and i just needed space at the time being that i had a full time job and going to school full time, i was just exhausted and he didn't really help. anyway, when i left he pretty much said that i treated him like crap the whole time (which is pretty true) and he was through. so i just said "ok, sorry you feel that way bye!" and left it at that. well i'm not a fan of social media but my friend said that i should get on twitter and see this page he made that deals with thoughts/quotes/advice on chivalry and such. well i did and it broke my heart because everything he post is about me. even on my birthday when we weren't talking he said h...

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Bad coping skills


Posted Friday April 25 2014, 3:27 pm

I've been with my fiancé for 6 years. We are both 23 years old. It has been the most stable 6 years and the reason why is because he struggles with addiction. When he relapses on drugs, he often pushes me away and I tell myself I deserve better and leave for a while. I never really get over him though and when he comes back with some sober time, it's hard to not slowly get back into a relationship. I know this is a bad thing. And this past time it took me months to get back into it.

He'd been sober for over a year this past time and was really moving forward. We never fought and we were both on paths in our lives that lead to good careers. But then something happened (trying to not be super specific) and things didn't work ...

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help


Posted Thursday April 24 2014, 8:04 am

What is 69 i need help because he wants to do it.

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How to be more confident in having sex?


Posted Thursday April 24 2014, 2:42 am

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now and he's asked me if I would like to have sex with him, we are both at the legal age of 16. I want to do this but I don't feel confident at all with my body, I'm not sure how he would want me to look. I feel embarresed about doing it and if it would be awkward, what do I do? Just sit there and let him do the work? I'm not sure if he would want me to shave or not, I would have sex with him but I'm just not confident yet, I feel as if I am ready, I want to be confident!
Someone please help me! :)

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How can I end my relationship with my boyfriend?


Posted Thursday April 24 2014, 1:46 am

How can I end my relationship with my boyfriend? I don't like to continue our relationship anymore, I'm afraid maybe he will only play with me, when we were still new with our relationship he asked me if i am still a virgin, and i said yes then as days past, I just know that before we've met he is such a playboy, he like girls those who have big boobs, sexy body and he want to watch those movie in sex. I know this when we were already in a relationship. Now i like to end up our relationship, but he don't want... Do you think my boyfriend is serious? I need an advice...

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Is he using me?


Posted Wednesday April 23 2014, 2:53 am

So, I'm 14 and he is 16, we've been talk for a while now and we met up yesterday. He asked me out because everything went trails well and we'd both admitted we liked eachother, we sat by these toilets and spoke for hours. We were just cuddling and we kissed a few times but he asked me if I wanted to go In the toilets with him... Obviously I knew what he meant by that and I did say no as I'm 14.
Later on in the evening he text me saying that he think we rushed things a bit, I did agree but I don't see why it was a problem as we were both fine in he day. He also said he still wants to meet me, does this mean he's using me?
I don't know where I went wrong, he said I hadn't done anything...
Help!

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Was it my fault?


Posted Tuesday April 22 2014, 10:05 pm

This summer my ex came around to help with hay bailing and we started this no strings attached. And I honestly thought that was what he wanted. Then for Fourth of July I had plans to meet another guy there but my parents invited my ex along and he knew I was suppose to go with the other guy. Well I blew the other guy off for him and told him I had to go see my friend Brooke who had probs with her mom. Which she did and my ex drove me there then everything was fine and then we left to go home and that's when I knew something was wrong with him. Then he finally stopped the car and told me finally that he didnt want to see with me with another guy tht he didn't want to lose me to him even though I was just using him. I was in complete shock I ...

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Is my relationship pathetic?


Posted Tuesday April 22 2014, 6:51 am

Okay so I have been with my boyfriend for almost three months and, in my mind, things have seemed to be going okay. I'm 16 he's 15 and this is the first relationship for both of us, we're also both quite shy people so the relationship is moving quite slowly. We see each other most days at school and we've met up a few times at weekends and we don't text an awful lot. People say that we can't really class ourselves as being in a relationship and that we're being pathetic. I can kind of see what they're saying seeing as we don't make any physical contact with each other - we've awkwardly hugged once but that's as far as we've got.

I wouldn't mind moving things on a bit faster and being in contact with him more but I'm not reall...

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concern


Posted Tuesday April 22 2014, 12:32 am

Signs that my boyfriend wants my best friend

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Is it time to move on or keep trying?


Posted Monday April 21 2014, 9:42 pm

I'm 23 he's 22.

We've been dating for a little over a year but we've been friends for 8 years.

Lately, we have just been fighting incessantly. We can't even be on the phone for 10 minutes without wanting to kill each other. He swears he's not seeing anyone but the way he's acting makes me think otherwise. We usually fight but not to this extent. Usually when we fight he'll call back and apologize and be sweet and we'll get over it. But lately he seems like he's just saying and doing anything to hurt me and then goes to bed without any regard to my feelings. I'm not usually a person who cries in front of him but that's the only way I can get him to stop being mean to me. He will continuously poke at me to get a...

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Boyfriend and his ex


Posted Monday April 21 2014, 8:02 pm

Im 16. My boyfriend is 17. We've been together on and off for a year and 2 months. His ex girlfriend asked him to prom because shes a senior and needs a date. They dated abt 2 or 3 years ago and he claims they want to be on a friend level. Im not sure how to take them going to prom together. I wanted to be his only prom date. He understands where im coming from but he said hes thinking about going. I don't feel comfortable with it. What should I do??

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I think I might be lesbian :(


Posted Monday April 21 2014, 7:44 pm

OK, I've thought about kissing girls, or something like that and it seemed fun, and when I think of kissing a boy I feel… nothing. I never feel anything to boys. There's a lot of other reasons on why I know I'm lesbian, but I won't get into detail. Anyway, my mother accepts gays and lesbians, but that doesn't mean other people will. Some of my friends think that they're gross, and I'm afraid of loosing my friendship in them, and being harshly judged and bullied. Maybe my friends will be able to accept me if they thought I was lesbian. I've tried to have relationships with guys, but ended it because I knew deep in my heart of hearts this wasn't right. I know I'm still a good person, but I'm having trouble accepting myself now. Is there a way to become…un-lesbian?

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Taking a break...but it hurts.


Posted Sunday April 20 2014, 5:31 pm

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years and it was an amazing 3 years. We always know how to make each other laugh and each other happy. We love and care for each other very much. About a few days ago, he came to me and wanted to talk. He told me he was re-evaluating his life and wanted to take a break from the relationship so he could "find" himself. He said also he needed some change. I know this break is meant to help us be able to go out and enjoy life without worrying about the other but it really hurts and it's really hard on me. He said that the spark between us was there still but it just wasn't kindling like it should. What makes me more upset about this "break" is he wanted this beautiful necklace back ...

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Problem with three guys, help?


Posted Sunday April 20 2014, 11:31 am

Hey everybody, so I'm a girl (obviously) and I'm having a problem with three guys at my school. The problem is, they all like me. The names I'm going to give are Daniel, Matt, and Adam. So, I met Daniel on a school trip. I started to like him.... And he admitted afterwards that he likes me a lot too. So I told him how I felt as well, and now we're really close. I can't date until I'm 16, so we aren't dating, but we're just really close friends. Daniel has a friend, Matt. This guy, the first week I moved into my school, texted me and we started to talk. We never talked in real life or anything... but we texted a lot. Then, I told Daniel this, to see if he knew anything about it, and Daniel was like "yeah i did know, i wanted to see if y...

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