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How can I make others and myself feel okay with dying my hair black?


Posted Tuesday January 10 2017, 9:18 pm

So tonight I dyed my naturally blonde hair black for the first time. Ever since high school (I'm now 21) I've been wanting to dye it black because I have a light "porcelain" complexion with pink undertones, light blue eyes, and I'd looked up photos of girls with black hair and the same skin tone so I knew it would look pretty. However, people would tell me not to because they all said that people who aren't born with black hair and dye it that color always look terrible.

Anyways, This last weekend I had a mishap with my hair at a salon. I had asked the lady for light red low-lights in my then light blonde hair and for some reason the lady filled in all of my roots this nasty rusty red (she had me turned away from ...

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Advice on flirting


Posted Sunday January 8 2017, 3:56 pm

Hi 17F.. My cousin and I am turning 18 on saturday and he is holding a HUGE party. Both our friends are invited(I have two) he has alot. I am very shy and he say I'm boring. I would really like to prove him wrong and flirt around a bit but I know literary nothing about flirting. I am have a very low self esteem. I am a little overweight. I have dark brown hair that hangs just below my bra. I wear glasses and have blue eyes. I really like my mouth. I don't really like to stand out but I am willing to try. Please help me I am desperate?


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i need advice: i am scared that he will say NO!


Posted Saturday January 7 2017, 8:01 pm

okay there is this boy at my school and i really like him but if i ask him out i am scared that he will say NO! help me !

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Penis is cross


Posted Friday January 6 2017, 11:05 pm

My penis is cross when it is expanded. Will I have any problem in future while having sex?

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about prevent preganancy.from india


Posted Friday January 6 2017, 1:00 pm

Can there r any chance to get preganant howeever if condoms r used and these r not broken.from india

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MARRIED WOMAN HITTING ON ME AND IM A FEMALE ALSO


Posted Friday January 6 2017, 10:25 am

there's this chic at a place I frequent...she is a married woman with 5 kids...and she flirts with me CONSTANTLY everytime she sees me....and she loves to pick on me...im flattered she finds me attractive (shes not the first woman/married woman to hit on me....but im strictly dicly) but she got folks thinkin we fukkin or messin around in someway and we arent...oh hell no...ive told her more than once that I don't fukk with females nor married folks, that shyt is nasty and degrading.....she'll be like u know you want this.....i told her she is pathetic and to stop multiple times.....till this day she refuses to take the hint....ive told her boss but that was a joke....how should I go about this...just leave it alone since no one on top has a...

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I want help


Posted Friday January 6 2017, 5:29 am

I'm only 16 but all my life I've always been paranoid My family describes me as shy but Im convinced it's social anxiety but I'm not 100% sure because I'm not diagnosed but anyways as a kid I remember being afraid of getting kidnapped I had nightmares about it and everything I've always been afraid of strangers I never knew why I was always afraid but I was and I've started to think more and more since I'm a little older and I don't think I had a traumatic incident in my life to be that afraid of the world and I'm sure it doesn't help that I love watching law and order and murder shows but I dont find it normal.. Up until October when there actually was an incident where someone man was trying to break into my house I've become even more pa...

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my retainer smells horrible...


Posted Friday January 6 2017, 1:52 am

I just got my retainer a few days ago, and it smells horrible, I wash it in water and scrub it, also using retainer cleaning tablets, which helped it a little, but an hour after using it, It smells horrible again. What should I do?

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About penis enlargement


Posted Thursday January 5 2017, 3:48 pm

How to increase the penis size at home naturally to 6 inch?

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What happened? Did he lose his erection because he wasn't attracted to me.


Posted Thursday January 5 2017, 3:10 pm

So me and my boyfriend were in the middle of having sex and he lost his erection. He was disappointed in himself well that's what he said. He said to give him a minute and he came back hard and fucked me raw. Which is weird since we always do it with a condom. Did he lose his erection because he wasn't attracted to me.

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Posted Thursday January 5 2017, 5:55 am


I'm having problems with pleasure. I give my boyfriend blowjobs all the time but when I ask him to go down on me he says no. We've done 69 but Im not really into that I'd rather take turns but he just won't no matter what. I honestly don't know what to do in this situation.

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I made a huge mistake


Posted Thursday January 5 2017, 3:13 am

Hi.. 18/F
I made a huge mistake. Please don't judge me. My cousin(also 18) and I have never been really close until a while ago when we started to hang out. After a while I started developing feeling for him but I didn't tell him because maybe it was just us getting close that I'm not used to. A few nights back we started making sexual jokes and the convention fot a bit heated but then he stopped it. I thought it was a joke. Last night it got a bit sexual again and I asked him if this was a joke and he said no. So we ended up sending each other photos. Afterwards we felt really guilty. I know it was a mistake but how do I stop feeling guilty, help him stop feeling guilty and restore our relationship? Please help me?

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About his sexual attentions


Posted Wednesday January 4 2017, 10:24 pm

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for six months now and when we normally have sex he doesn't cum anywhere near my vagina but this time he did. He pulled out and came in the general area. What makes him want to do that?

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My 16 year old sister has a drug problem..how to help?


Posted Wednesday January 4 2017, 9:48 pm

Hello, I just wanted to get some advice on what to do with my sister. She has just turned 16 and over the last few months she has been heavily abusing drugs and alcohol.

It started maybe 6 months ago and i knew she was doing it here and there (MDMA, weed and drinking/smoking) but i didn't really see it as an issue because i did the same things here and there when i was 19-20. I discussed it with her and told her the issues but she said she wasnt doing it much.

However over the last few months she has been constantly angry, sleeping, got fired from 2 jobs, and our family is falling apart because of the constant arguments. Every time my parents go away for the weekend, she will throw a party and trash the house ...

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Does this guy like me or?


Posted Wednesday January 4 2017, 7:10 pm

So this guy and I met online. He's from Korea, he moved to Canada a few months ago. He's 17, I'm 16.

So we've been talking for about a month now. Whenever I had any problems or anything, he would always listen to me. He told me his problems and I would try and help in any way I could.

We would talk about our crushes in real life. He told me he's really tired of his crush for whatever reason. I told him that the guy I like is a complete douchebag.

^^ He comforted me by saying the guy that I like "lost the most perfect girl in the world".

He would always text me Merry Xmas and Happy New Year first and stuff like that. He likes my posts and stuff like that.

He...

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Always reciprocating with boyfriend.


Posted Tuesday January 3 2017, 11:28 pm

Hello. I'm 22 and female and my boyfriend is 24. I'm having a problem with our sex life and I need advice. Usually when I'm on my period, I'll give my boyfriend blowjobs (fair enough, I don't choose to get my period). Sometimes when I don't feel like having sex, I'll also just give him a blowjob. I always make sure he finishes before I stop. Lately I've been noticing though that he can never just give to me without me having to give it back. Like he can't just eat me out, it always has to be 69 so he gets some in return. Tonight I got irritated, so when he started to go down on me, I was happy thinking he'd just do his thing yet two minutes into it, he started shimmying his way up so he could get a blowjob too. So I did until I kept thinkin...

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How long did it take for you to make friends in College/University?


Posted Tuesday January 3 2017, 11:17 pm

It's about to be my second semester and I still haven't made any friends and it's starting to really effect my mental health. I went to my schools orientation week long story short thanks to my strict parents I only went to 3 of the 10 days so all the friendships I made failed because I basically just disappeared. Then school started in all my classes nobody really talks because they're so focused on the lectures so it's hard to make friends in classes. The friends I did make though are only classmates, we always sit together but none of us know each other's names and I'm pretty sure once the course is over (full year) we'll never talk to each other again, I've tried telling them my name multiple times but they don't really care. I wanted t...

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How to be more confident around guys?


Posted Monday January 2 2017, 11:54 pm

So in elementary school (my school was kindergarten to grade 8) I had a good balance between guy friends and girl friends. Everything was fine but then high school started and everything changed. I started getting anxiety and of course being a teenager I became more self-conscious of my self and ended up having no guy friends and only girl friends. Basically I remember the first week of high school I overheard these group of grade 12 guys saying they were going to approach the ugliest girls in school and call them pretty then basically talk bad about them behind their backs. I thought it couldn't happen to me, cause I'm a nobody but of course while I was walking they came up to me and I shut it down and said "you guys said that to the ...

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Is there anything wrong with introverts?


Posted Sunday January 1 2017, 7:42 pm

So today since it's the New Year it's a tradition for my dad to do a New Years prayer so while he was praying he was praying that there shouldn't be any introverts in my family anymore. He was saying that directly at me since I'm an introvert, I got pretty pissed and told him that was rude and uncalled for then left. Is there anything wrong with introverts? I can't change my personality if he doesn't like it oh f**king well. Just because I'm an introvert doesn't mean I don't talk to people. I'm generally a shy person but since I stared university I had to get out of my comfort zone nobody was gonna come up to me and try to be friends I had to do it myself. So I don't understand why my dad said that as if being an introvert is a bad thing?

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How can I tell my mom I don't want to stay with her any longer?


Posted Sunday January 1 2017, 7:20 pm

Hello, I'm currently visiting my mom over winter break (from college) and originally I told her I would stay until the 8th, but I just can't stand being here anymore and I want to go back home to my place on campus. I know she's going to be hurt but I hate being here.

I'm just really tired of being around her and I need time alone. She's constantly in my business and trying to control everything I do. She won't let me buy anything without asking where I got the money to buy it and getting angry with me. She's constantly asking if I paid my bills (which I did already or they aren't due yet). She's overfeeding my cat and giving him too much attention so now he cries when he's left alone and I'm afraid now when I take him back ...

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