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what should i think?
Posted Wednesday March 3 2010, 4:55 pm
I think my friend is bi. She has had boyfriends in the past but I feel like she is kinda interested in me. It's weird, we hang out on weekends with other girls and she's fine but in school, it's me me me. I feel her looking at me when I look somewhere else and she texts me ALL THE TIME. Not even kidding. She was in school taking a chemistry test and she texted me saying she couldn't figure out the answer. Like, seriously, your taking a test, why are you texting me? It's like she has no life that's how much she texts me. She always asks what I'm wearing the next day and I'll go to school and she'll be wearing the same thing, like jeans and plaid. It's creeping me out. What should I think about this? What do you think? thanks!
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Awkwardness, Confusion and my Two Best Friends.
Posted Sunday February 28 2010, 3:27 am
I am a 21 year old woman who has begun having feelings for one of my two best friends and they found out about my feelings for one of them on a recent four day holiday (they don't know who I like). I was so upset when they found out I had to leave the house for fear it would be awkward. They came to talk to me individually so I felt comfortable (they get crazy when they are together), they both assured me that things would not get awkward and that nothing would change the fact that we were all Best Friends. I want to move on, but have no idea how as you don't often come across a man like my Bestie. How are things supposed to go back to the way they were when I feel they will think I like them no matter what I do or say?. I couldn't bare to ...
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Complicated friendship
Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 11:45 pm
16/female
So I've been friends with this guy for about three years and friends with his girlfriend for about four months. Well they broke up and I tried being friends with both of them. She said all these nasty horrible things about him. He called me really upset a few nights ago saying he was tired of what she was saying and I was like she told me this stuff about you and blah blah. I cheered him up said bye. Well today I went to my friends party and when I came in my friend came up and said that this girl his ex was really pissed and that she hated me because he told her that i told him what she said. Well the party was terrible since she basically made it all about her by crying and making everyone mad at me. I felt like a total b...
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best friend cutting herself
Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 8:18 pm
okay, so my friend isnt eating much. she's at home by herself all the time. her boyfriend doesnt get to see her much so all she really has is her pets. her mum also goes on expencive holidays when they need the money for food. how can i help her and what could i suggest to her? she's just started cutting herself and i dont know what to do to help. ive already done the usual; talk to her, tell her to go see someone about it. she looks so unhappy whenever i see her. what can she do?
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bad comment in my opinion
Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 7:16 pm
so i have this crush who's obviously not into me at all but i kept having this hope that maybe one day he would be. but anywaytoday my friend was like do you still want to go out with him and i was like not as much as he used to. i would if he wanted to go out with me first and she said sorry but i really doubt that would happen. it kind of hurt my feeings for some reason. am i right to feel this way? thanks for the help :)
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Rebuilding trust
Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 11:34 am
I have rewritten this over and over again, re-read and re-read trying to add in every bit of detail to make the story clear and try to answer any questions about whats going on. I know it's long, but please bear with me as I feel its important in knowing exactly how everything plays in.
Pretense:
I guess you can say my story begins as a typical relationship, but things really turn strange. It started two years ago, the summer before my senior year of high school. I met the most beautiful girl I had ever seen. She had a boyfriend that shes been dating for two years so I figured I didn't have a chance in hell. She even thought I was annoying, but I persisted in trying to get close to her. One day she broke up with h...
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what should i do now?
Posted Saturday February 27 2010, 11:30 am
okay so i have been friends with this girl forever. and we know everthing about eachother. we hangout all the time too. soo anyways at a football game me and my friend table topped her and she kinda got mad so i said im sorry and shes just like thats fine. so know when i was talking to her on myspace shes like DONT TALK TO ME, I DONT WANNA BE FRIENDS WITH YOU ANYMORE! i tried everything to get her back but nothing works. i cant belive we just ended a friendship over something stupid. and the part i hate the most is its all my fault. what should i do about this?
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sophomore guy
Posted Thursday February 25 2010, 9:05 pm
15/f
so im a sophomore. this year i have been good friends with this guy. i have one calss with him and ive known him before this year but this year we actually talk, well we used to talk everyday all the time, then our seats were moved and i relized that i liked him more than a friend. after class he will wait for me and we will walk to his locker which is down the hall, we dont talk a whole lot outside of that class. well i invited him to a church event but he couldnt make it, i wrote my number in his planner. but he hasnt texted me and its been 2 nights. my friends thinks that he is flirting with me when we walk out of calss together but i cant tell since we are friends. and does that mean that he doesnt like me since he h...
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My ex just friended me on facebook, what should I do?
Posted Wednesday February 24 2010, 8:08 pm
My ex and I dated for a year and we were close and really happy together. We would talk all the time and spend time together and he really seemed to care about me. Then over the summer going into senior year he broke up with me out of the blue saying he just lost feeling. so two weeks later he calls me and tells me he made a mistake and he wants me back so i get back together and we are fine and happy but then he breaks up with me a second time.. i know wow a jerk but idk he seems really confused about what he wants. so three months go by and we see each other on halloween and we end up getting back together, I KNOW SAD but look through that k well we dated a month and i get a phonecall ending it again so im done and i dont talk to him sinc...
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Is it ok for a 35 year old man to get a 19 year old girl pregnant?
Posted Wednesday February 24 2010, 6:33 am
My best friend is dating an older guy and has been for almost a year now. I know she is a little older than me so I thought she knew what she was doing but they had SEX and now she's PREGNANT at 19! She didn't even tell me that they actually did IT! Well, he's 35 though and now she's all about marrying him so that he can be the baby's daddy on paper too.
I keep telling her that this is a really bad idea because he's much too older for her. My mom is so shocked and thinks it's disgusting that he took advantage of my friend like that and I agree! I don't think there are any real laws against this (is there?!) so I don't think there is anything we can do except try to talk her out of this mess.
What can I do ...
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Trust
Posted Tuesday February 23 2010, 1:25 am
How do you know to trust somebody? Im seemingly losing all trust in people. My best friend seems to be hiding things from me, people around me are cheating, lying to one another, scheming. I just dont know who or what to people? Why are people so private yet so seemingly open. Or why are they two faced? And how do we know who to trust with our own secrets? I seem to be losing all control over my trust, its just not there in so many cases I don't really know what to do. So many people are telling me not to always be so naive? But what kind of relationship can you have with someone if you don't trust them? Please some one help me with this... What is trust and when should it be given if at all? Who can we truly trust?
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quotes
Posted Monday February 22 2010, 7:08 pm
can anyone give me quote(s) about someone who thinks they're amazing when really they need to get over themselves, get a reality check and see that they cant get everything they want. more specifically, someone who's obsessed with their boyfriend and literally cant live 12 hours without him.
greatly appreciated! lol
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My Bestfriend... Maybe
Posted Monday February 22 2010, 6:53 pm
Me and my bestfriend get in fights over the most stupid things! At first I think she's joking, but then I can see she's not! I really love her as my friend, but the fights make MY life worse! What should I do?
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Anorexic friend, losing friend.
Posted Monday February 22 2010, 4:32 pm
17/f my friend went on a diet and at first I didn't think anything of it, I mean it never hurts to lose a couple pounds. But my friend didn't lose a couple pounds. She probably lost like 30 pounds in like 2 months. She looks really bad. She iS not only a toothpick, but her eyes are so dark underneath and whenever she talks or smiles it looks like it hurts her face. I know most teenage girls go through the anorexic phase, but I think my friend took it too far. She promised she would stop a long time ago. Every time I see her she looks skinnier. She gets mad whenever I mention it, she looks like one of those mal nutritioned African kid. I don't know what to do. She's not even the same person anymore. She's always tired and in a bad mood. I t...
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How to get someone to open up to you
Posted Sunday February 21 2010, 5:49 pm
Hi! I met this new girl at school and I really want to be friends with her because she seems to interesting. The problem is that she won't open up and be friendly with me! She's, pretty much, a loner and keeps to herself. Everybody needs a friend though and I'd like to get to know her better. I don't know if she gets too nervous to really talk to me or what but I'd really like to have some conversations with her.
How do I get her to open up to me and be my friend without being pushy or intimidating? THANK YOU ALL!
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Moving half-way through school.... COOKIE IDEAS & other advice
Posted Sunday February 21 2010, 2:54 pm
Im moving halfway through school (next week) and I've been living here since I was 6 (Im 16) and I want to show people I love them by baking cookays! Or other little simple snacks like that. Not cupcakes though, I have no idea how to make those, lmao. Maybe brownies though? anything like that.
Lots of them, too.. like somewhere around 200. Naturally I wanna make some bada** cookies so they'll remember me in a good light (I dont want them to remember me as the girl who gave them like food poisoning or something lmao) so give me websites with awesome recipes!!!
THANX! Any other tips for a girl whose moving next week? Im feeling homesick yet excited, yet nervous, yet anxious all at the same time!! I feel like typ...
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Going away party NIGHTMARE
Posted Sunday February 21 2010, 10:53 am
So on Friday night I sent out invitations for my going away party this night at Applebees. On facebook, cause its easier to contact people that way. And now its Sunday, and out of the 28 people I invited, 4 have accepted, 9 have said "maybe", 2 have declined (I didn't like them too much anyways), and the remaining 13 people haven't replied yet! So basically.. 4 people are certain. I almost feel like crying.
My family is moving on Thursday half-way across the country, so I can't have it next week. And I've lived here since I was 6 years old so its not like people didn't know me or anything. I invited all the people that I was friends with.. even people I havent talked to in a while but still want to remember of livin...
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Friendship down the drain over money
Posted Saturday February 20 2010, 11:59 am
A 20+ year friend (Jane) and I have been at odds for about a year now because I helped her daughter (Melissa) with a large sum of money, and the daughter has not paid me back as promised and agreed. Melissa also took advantage of her own mother, amoungst other people, and she obviously has mental problems. Recently I lost my job and am in serious finaincal need. It'd be great if she would pay me back, but Jane or Melissa will not communicate with me.
Jane continues to enable her daughter. I would like to repair the friendship with Jane as I miss her, but I don't think I can NOT bring the hardship up that Melissa has created, and she simply doesn't want to hear any bad things, or even attempt to speak to her daughter about the...
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Making friends in college
Posted Saturday February 20 2010, 12:10 am
I'm a senior in high school beginning college next fall. I'm not much of a party person but I consider myself to be really nice. What are some ways to make quality friends on campus?
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To be friends or nat to be?
Posted Friday February 19 2010, 9:31 pm
I'm super pretty. Super skinny. All the boys drool over me. But I'm nawt popular, because in 5th grade, i was a total LBR and i befriended the lamest girl in my class. Now,were still friends and shes still and LBR. Most of my friends are super popular and i would luh-v to hang with them instead I'm expected to hang out with my LBR. So how do i gradually drop her without hurting her feelings?
Thanks!
xoxo Kellie
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