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He wants to break up when he moves, and I don't.
Posted Saturday May 10 2014, 9:04 pm
A few months ago, I began seeing this really great guy. We attend the same university, but I am a sophomore and he is a senior. He is graduating next month, and after that, he plans on moving to a city six hours away from where we go to school.
We go out on dates and are physically intimate, but he told me straight up that once he moves, we are to be just friends. He doesn't do long-distance relationships.
He plans on visiting the university when he moves, but he told me that we would be strictly platonic, nothing physical.
He doesn't understand how much this upsets me. I have tried so hard to keep from having feelings for him, but he's the kind of guy I'd want to be with, and I fear that I will...
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straight or gay
Posted Saturday May 10 2014, 3:31 pm
Im at 22 year old female, from the age of 12 I have always known that I am bisexual, however recently I have jumped from lad to lad, I have also started to feel its more myself and happy flirting with the ladies, im just confused if this means im more gay then straight
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Want to break up with boyfriend. Don't want to hurt him!
Posted Saturday May 10 2014, 10:32 am
18/f
I'm going to try and keep this simple because I know how boring it is reading through a long question.
I want to break up with my boyfriend. He's the sweetest most lovely guy, just I don't fancy him, he's already talking about marriage (we've been together 6 months) he's a bit immature-and I think I can do better.
Idk how to break up with him know because saying all this will break his heart and will come so unexpected. Also his parents love me which makes it harder.
I just want to have fun-you know?! Any advice would be appreciated :)
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Am in love with my college SU president
Posted Friday May 9 2014, 7:42 pm
Hi, I am 17 years old and I am the youngest person in ny university. I am absolutely in love with the SU president in my university. We talk sometimes and we have also kissed a couple of time on a college night out but it acts like he doesn't even notice me, he is always cold to me when people are around ue but once we are alone together he opens up to me and just be an absolute sweetheart. I do catch him staring at me sometimes and we also flirt alot when we are left alone. The problem is I don't know if he likes me, he is a completely shy guy but I just think he feels like I won't be able to fit into his life maybe because of my age or even my race.i don't know what to do anymore it's been 9 months and there have been no improvement at all.
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I really need help
Posted Friday May 9 2014, 6:03 pm
This question is going to send you to sleep...
So, I'm 14 and there's this boy that I'm honestly so In love with and he's 13. We've been talking since December 2013 and we went out in January for 6 days then I needed it with him because he started ignoring me and it really hurt me, we used to talk so much, all the time! On snapchat and Facebook and text. Then when we split up I really wished I hadn't ended it, I missed him so much I got depressed and started cutting and stuff. Then he started talking to me again, online... Which made me happier then we ended going back out in April for only 3/4 days. He dumped me because he wasn't ready for a relationship, he asked me out though?...
And still today I really miss him ð...
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Does he still like me?
Posted Friday May 9 2014, 12:10 pm
I'm 14 and he is 13, I'm in the 9th grade he's in the 8th. Basically we've both being talking since December 2013 and now we don't talk as much unless there's something to talk about, I will admit that I still like him.. A lot. We've been out twice and the first time I left him because he was ignoring me whereas the second time he dumped me because he wasn't ready for a relationship.
So, I see him every weekday at school and I see him literally everywhere I go! I catch him staring at me whenever I'm near him and so do my friends, when he sees that I'm looking he quickly turns away and my friends say this is a sign that he likes me. I was meeting his cousin at the weekend (just as friends) and then he asked his cousin to come...
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Is he talking to me just for sex?
Posted Thursday May 8 2014, 10:51 pm
21/f, 27/m
Hello,
I am currently talking to this guy. We actually just met online. I was interested in him and we went on a date and I thought it went alright. We recently went out again the second time and he kissed me. I have been getting mixed signals from him and I'm not sure what to think. These are what I have observed so far and reasons why I get mixed signals:
1. He sometimes talks about seeing meeting my family or coming to my house and having my mom make him this particular food he likes.
2. He holds my hand when walking in the street, driving in the car, etc. He also kisses me on the cheek, tells me I'm pretty and I have a cute personality.
3. He sometimes...
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how do i turn him down easy?
Posted Thursday May 8 2014, 10:27 pm
ok so basically be and this guy named bob (not is real name) I knew from school have been talking on facebook like friends and I didn't think much of it and then my friends told me someone liked me but they said they wouldn't tell me so I secretly went on m y friends facebook to see any messages between her and any guys I knew and bob was talking about this girl it didn't say a name so I didn't wanna assume anything but I was still thinking about it and today at lunch my friends kept asking if I liked anyone and I said no one and they said I should like someone and I said well how am I supposed to know if you guys wont tell me and then my friend Sally (not her really name) really stupidly said its someone who talks to you everyday and that ...
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I can't stop thinking about her
Posted Thursday May 8 2014, 12:38 am
Hello, I'm 18/F and my bf and I have been dating for two years now. When we began dating, he had told me about girls who also likes him. There are quite a few and I just can't stop thinking about this particular girl he told me. She liked him and I think she still does but he didn't like her. My bf and I live in the same state while she live in another state. I completely have no idea what's about her that I can't stop thinking about her one day ending up with my bf. of all the girls he told me that like him, why her? What can I do to stop thinking about her ending up with my bf?
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how do i understand this???
Posted Wednesday May 7 2014, 5:42 pm
hello,
i met a guy 8years back...without even looking at him..i fell in love(seriously!!!)but we never spoke,he is very very silent.from then i had been loving him secretly.we two stay in different states..never met again,now after 8 years i got to meet him in a get-together..he looked at me many times but when i look back at him he turned away his gaze.this happened many times but, once he looked into my eyes continuously for say..hmm..6-7seconds..i too noticed that but pretended as though i wasn't looking at him..but i felt it was getting too much bcos if people saw him staring at me,it wouldn't look good..so i looked back at him...can u guess what happened????LO!nhe turned away "IMMEDIATELY"..and while he was ...
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do girls stop liking others?
Posted Wednesday May 7 2014, 4:29 pm
A long time ago in august i flirted alot with this girl on facebook and i was 100% sure she liked me, i wanted to ask her out the following day at school face-to-face but another boy was faster than me. She went out with him but eventually broke up because he said too many lies. Meanwhile i got friendzoned(or so i think). she hugs me alot we dont really go to the movies together or do anything outside of school but im pretty sure im friendzoned. Do girls get over guys that quickly? Its hard for me to move on.. and if i ask her out then it will be too awkward for me if she says no! please help!
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iam n love with this guy
Posted Tuesday May 6 2014, 10:05 pm
hey my name is zohra and iam from india. my age is 22. My story is firstly my fb was open and my frnd sent a frnd request to a guy frm my profile and after acceptn he initiated the convo with me. the next day when i went to cafe he is in my college he was there he was looking at me the whole time but wen i look he turns away and this kept on happenin wen iam not there he always searches for me coz my frnd alwayz notices him and he makes a point to sit n frnt of me or sit at a place where he can see me but he has a really high ego problem. Then I started initiatin txt wid him he alwayzz was the one to prolong it and always I end the convo. when i went to watch the match in cafe he txted me where am i wen i tld him iam there he came n 5 mins ...
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not sure if I'm a lesbian
Posted Tuesday May 6 2014, 7:37 pm
Okay so, My best friends name is Lindsey and she is a lesbian who recently came out. Sometimes we cuddle and we made out once. I used to be 100% sure I was straight but now I don't know. Lindsey just makes me feel really special and I want to hold her in my arms all the time. I don't know if I just like her as my best friend or more than that. And even if I do like her more than that I wouldn't want to tell anyone because I'm scared that people will think I'm a complete lesbian and then they won't like me. People as in boys. I just need help, like how do you know if your gay or not? Oh I'm 15 and a female by the way.
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urm how would i know exactly? Mmm
Posted Tuesday May 6 2014, 9:10 am
Im still in love with my ex like crazy, we saw each other on sunday and it was actually amazing felt like the old days.. He wants to carry on seeing me to see how it goes and such but he said he didn't want a relationship right now? It confuses me, because i just don't see myself with anyone else. Im 20 by the way.. and it's weird but it cringes me if other guys touch me or stuff it's like i can only be myself with him like i only want him to touch me.
He knows how i feel, he thinks i only like him still but deep down im still in love with him after 2 years and a half.. i'm going with the flow and all but i don't want to be lead on or anything .. he still acts himself with me when were together (this is the second time) we saw each o...
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Crush
Posted Tuesday May 6 2014, 7:34 am
Ok so I really like this girl for a long time. I always think about her which is kinda sad. We used to talk a lot, now every time I'm around her I freeze up and don't know what to say and I act retarded. And the worse part is, I think she knows that I like her too, so I guess she's always ignoring me. What do I do?
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He's so perfect for me, but I don't know if he likes me back! Help please
Posted Monday May 5 2014, 2:37 am
Hey everyone! I'm 16/female.
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So there's a boy in my history class who I really like. He is just perfect for me. He's taller than me, has a loving family, is athletic, has a life outside of his sport, he's gentle, a good son, a good brother, quiet, soft spoken, has a really deep voice, has a lot of patience, very mature, I can go on and on.
My point is, he's a gentleman. VERY rare at our age. And I like him. I've always looked for boys like him to get to know. I didn't even notice he was in my class until he stood up to present a project one day. And then on a class field trip a while later, we had a gorgeous con...
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She is a christian I'm not.
Posted Sunday May 4 2014, 8:12 pm
Hey guys. I would love any and all advice. So my question is if its worth a shot? Here is the situation: so I met a girl I realy like. There is one problem she is a Christian and I am a LaVayan Satanist (no that dose not mean I'm a devil worshiper if you think so I encourage you to reasearch the subject). I know she is a Christian because I whent to her church with a few freinds one time and that's were I met her. The sermon that was given the night that I went was on relationships. The pastor said that Christians shouldn't date people who are not a Christian. I'm not sure if she belivies that or not. I have no problem having a relationship with some one of a diferent religion. I would never try to convert her of go against what she wished...
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A Guy With Potential?
Posted Sunday May 4 2014, 4:29 pm
I was seeing this guy mostly on and sometime off for about 7 months. At first he seemed like the perfect boyfriend, but then his ex interrupted our picture. The thing is, he has a daughter with her, who is adorable I may add. His daughter is going to be 3 this year and they basically are in a custody battle over her because the Mom would rather party then raise her daughter and though he works full time, he says if he got custody he would make it work so he's with his daughter even more than he is now (everyday after work). He's a great father at 27, his ex is 19 right now and I'm 22. See, the only trouble is that when he sees his ex, his attitude completely changes for the negative... but he doesn't realize it, which caused little disagree...
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lesbian but 2 boys are crushing on me
Posted Saturday May 3 2014, 2:42 pm
It's sort of hard to explain, so I can't imagine myself in a trillion years dating a boy. Ew! But dating a girl sounds much better to me. Yet this one boy teases me every chance he gets, which obviously means he likes me, I'm not a retard. Another boy won't leave me alone and keeps stalking me. I really don't wanna admit it, I'm not ready, but this is really uncomfortable for me, and I don't know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Just found out my boyfriend is on instabang
Posted Saturday May 3 2014, 6:01 am
As well as other meet & fuck websites & zoosk. We've been together over 3 years & I love him so much idk what to do. His family means more to me than my own, & I really can't see him cheating. Do you think it's possible he could be part of these websites without actually going though with it?
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