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what do I do?
Posted Thursday September 17 2009, 3:20 pm
this is long and I'm truely sorry but I really need help.
my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half now. a month later he moved in with me *we were friends in high school* so we knew each other. in the beginning his mother and I did not get a long at all, she assumed "I stole her son". While his mother called a good 25+ times a day I told her to stop calling so much *it was my phone line* and she called back leaving dirty messages, mainly harrassment ones. then she started texting our phones leaving more harrassment messages and we went to the cops. My boyfriend and his mother didn't speak after that for 5 months after that, then he called her again because family told us that she missed hi...
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divorced parents
Posted Tuesday September 15 2009, 6:39 pm
my mom is thinking about getting a divorce with my dad. but my dad doesn't want to and he is trying to make sure my mom won't. my mom has been crying and she can't eat or she might puke and she can't sleep. she jus read a book called the the divorce express . she won't even sleep in the same bed as him. she sleeps on the floor in the living room. they don't even talk to each other anymore. i dont know what to do cuz i really dont want them to separate.
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older guys dating teenage gurls
Posted Monday September 14 2009, 8:12 pm
Im 16 and im dating this 19 guy. How do i tell my mom??
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Dont want kids taken away
Posted Sunday September 13 2009, 7:58 pm
I was raised by my moms parents. Mom had nothing really to do with me growing up. If she came it was only to borrow money or to eat. I tried just being nice to her but all she did was take. Borrow clothes without bringing them back. Borrow my child suport money and didnt pay back and so on. I'm now a happily married mother of 5 great kids. When mom was watching my daughter one weekend I called her to bring her back. She refused and instead brought my daughter and the cops with her to my inlaws house (where i was at). She fussed at me cause i had a job babysitting a neighbors 2 kids. There was no harm in it whatsoever. My daughter was right with me every day. She just didnt like it so started fussing at me and my hubby so bad. A cop brought ...
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emancipation 15/f
Posted Saturday September 12 2009, 3:41 pm
so this may be a little long but i am practically begging for help here. okay so living here with my parents is making me really stressed out and making me do things that I would of never thought of doing to myself. example: i overdosed a couple months ago because of all the stress i was going through because i thought it would help and it did. it made me feel careless and i really liked that feeling. but then someone told my councilor at school and she called my mom and i had to go the hospital. at that point my parents were very generous towards me for about a week. then everything went back to the way it was. they wont let me hang out with the friends i want to hang out with. they wont let me spend the night at any of my friends. they ma...
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Its all falling apart!
Posted Thursday September 10 2009, 9:48 pm
Im 15f, and my family is falling apart. my dad always cusses and uses bad language in practically every sentence (hes a yankee) mom doesnt like it because he always does it around my 2 year old sister. He's an ass! he has threatened to beat me before to the point of not stopping and he has gottin pretty close to it too. well in every sentence he talks to my mom... they clash. you never would say they love eachothe and that is pretty much proven by just watching them. mom is starting to look for a place so me and her can move in there. What am i supposed to feel? im a little frantic inside and just feel like crying... but i wont. i know that crying wont do anything but worry my mom and then she will back down. i dont want to worry them and i...
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Phone Haressment.
Posted Tuesday September 8 2009, 6:36 pm
Im Pregnant this is way to much stress on me and I need answers.
My two year old son called my sister in laws phone. Her husband cussed out my son. My son hung up the phone and her husband called back. I said this isn't your phone to begin with its BreAnna's and it was jayden who called not me or dustin and I said bye and hung up. She would copy everything i wrote on myspace I asked why she said i dont and its a free country. I said okay whatever bye (through text messages) her husband was going to play the music at our wedding my husband didnt want him to since he doesnt get along with him. they brought that up i said the music was all up to dustin and not me i planned about everything else that was not my fault. My husband ...
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opinions please
Posted Monday September 7 2009, 8:41 pm
So yesterday (sunday) my sister had plans to go to her boyfriends house for a bbq. (16f) My mom bought an apple pie and a cute small pot of flowers (yellow) for her to bring. She flipped out saying its so stupid and nobody does that, and all her friends say its dumb and "gay." I thought it was a really good idea. Anyway she was late, and almost didnt go because she got into a huge argument over it with my parents and refused to take them. She wasnt even going to call her boyfriend to tell him she couldnt go. We even tried to get her to just bring the apple pie. My mom ended up bringing it when she dropped my sister off, but it was almost such a waste, we bought two apple pies one for us and one for them so it wasnt like we could just eat it.
Opinions? thanks. and help.
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what to do about our 1 month old neice???????
Posted Monday September 7 2009, 2:42 pm
Hi,my name is jennifer and I am 23 years old. My husband n I just got temp custody of his neice which is a month old we have had her now for one week. His sister had dhs called on her so we took the baby. They have only been here one time to see her for like 20 or 30 min brought her some things. They are not showin any effort to get there child back. I dont want to take the baby from them for good but they are not compilyin with what the judge said to do. They are just takin there time. We have a three year old and a one year old of our own. We love the baby so much. they had her just so mest up like tryin to feed her chettos. They feed her so much rice that now she has a hernia in her belly button from tryin to go to the bath room and not ...
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best friend with my cousin. problem?
Posted Monday September 7 2009, 2:03 am
i'm 19 years old, female. my cousin is 17.
me and him are really close. we hang out all the time and just always have a good time together. the dumb thing is that people think that we are dating! uhm hellooo? he is my COUSIN. people keep telling me, "you need to stop hanging out with him, people are starting to think you two are dating" and tonight my uncle was like youre not dating him are you? and i started laughing because how rediculous is that? and he was like see you cant even look at me and say youre not! i was like honestly, do you think i would ever ever EVER do that? its not like we flirt with each other, thats disgusting. we're just always together. whats so wrong with that? apparently there is something....
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He's on his FIFTH wife!
Posted Monday September 7 2009, 12:27 am
Ok, so my dad called me yesterday and told me he proposed to his girlfriend of a year and I think most kids would be happy but I'm not. This is his FIFTH wife. I think she's cool and all but I know he's gonna end up cheating on her and divorcing her and putting all his kids through this stuff again. What should I do? I tried talking to him about my feelings but he just got mad. Please help me!
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Words cant describe how I feel right now.
Posted Sunday September 6 2009, 11:52 pm
Expressing myself through a computer screen Is very hard to do.So sharing info with random people is something i have never done in my life.But im just screaming for help and I have to be heard in one way or another.And im not here to be told that im just overreacting or that i just have to never give up because i've heard it all before and my pain runs so much deeper then that.So listen and just try to spare me the tough love and just help me by giving me the best advice possibly because that it what i really need right now.
This litte feeling that takes over me has been happening since I was a tyke. I mean i felt like my family has always teamed up on me.I guess you can call me the black sheep of my family.I mean my childho...
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they hate each other
Posted Sunday September 6 2009, 1:08 am
My father and my husband HATE EACH OTHER. They aren't nasty to one another, they just complain to me. It is a huge emotional burden to carry. Any advice for peace is appreciated.
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Death
Posted Friday September 4 2009, 8:43 am
Hi..
I'm 21 years old - Female. I live at home in a small country town in Australia with my grandparents who raised me from a new born and my boyfriend of 4 years.
My grandfather was 58 (due to turn 59 in a months time) He worked all his life and on the 1st of August he suffered from a very bad stroke. He was a very fit and healthy man and my whole life I have never known him to be unwell apart from the usual common cold.
He was air lifted to our capital city the day it happen as we do not have the facilities in our town to deal with such extreme illnesses. He arrived in the city an hour and a half before we got there (we had to drive ourselves) when we arrived and got to see him he was still unc...
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crisis
Posted Monday August 31 2009, 8:33 pm
im 15/m
my parents divorced about 3 years ago.
ever since then, me and my older brother had been living with my mom. my dad moved into a condo 5 minutes away.
but not i just started living with my dad while my brother is still living with my mom. but my dad has a new gf that my mom doesnt know about. me and my brother know, but my mom never knew. its almost been a year already.
then yesterday, my bro and my dad had an argument and my bro told my mom everything about my dads gf and how shes been living with us.
she was crushed. everybodys crying especially my mom and i dont know what to do. my dad and bro hate each other and now my mom hates me because she feels like i be...
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annoying parents
Posted Sunday August 30 2009, 10:39 pm
so basicly i have an issue.
me and my parents, mostly my mom, have never gotten along. I am a slightly stubborn teenager, and i don't like addmitting i am wrong if im not. My parents are pretty strict and unreasonable with most things. and when i talk to them about it they never understand what i am trying to say and just don't seem to get just how redicules they are being. We fight all the time, and i am pretty good at defending myself, but all it gets me is more fights and trouble. What always happens is we yell at eachother for a while, and ten ignore eachother, and eventually forget about it. but noting is ever acomplished and they never admit they are wrong. Yet they expect to admit when i am wrong, and they yell and ...
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brother
Posted Saturday August 29 2009, 4:20 pm
ok so, i have the password to my brothers facebook. i log on to it a few times to check out recent pics and vids of my friends in the band, i dont have one, nor do i want one, thats why i use his. i logged onto it the other day and he had a conversation up with one of his buddies, admitting that he was high. that got me thinking, when your high, do you know you are? i thought it kinda made you crazy and your not thinking of reality. idk what to do anymore. he just had his buddy over and my brother went to the bathroom then him and his friend went into my brothers bedroom and i heard my brother's friend say "you made that? impressive." that only got me thinking did my brother concoct a drug in the bathroom? i dont want to go and te...
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dad songs
Posted Wednesday August 26 2009, 7:54 pm
Hey im 18/f my mom had me when she was 16 and my biological father gave away his rights. Then she met my adopted father bryan. he is my 2 sisters real dad. But he adopted me when i was like 2. They got divorced and he could have not seen me anymore and whatnot but he chose to. He is basically my dad and i dont think of him any different. I want to create something to show how much i love him. Is there any songs that you can think of that somewhat relate. I really like brad paisleys song he didnt have to be. Are there any other songs like that out there?
Thanks
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i dont no wot to do
Posted Monday August 24 2009, 12:40 pm
i am 13 an latley i have been watchin alot of shows on the t.v about pregnancy it sounds strange i no but i would really like a baby now but i wouldnt if you no wot i mean i wouldnt wont one as i am 13 and still live with mom but i would because it would make me feel like i had something of my own to love i dont wont to tell my mom this because im scared she will just have ago at me and wont understand
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4 months pregnant...what should I buy for the baby?
Posted Sunday August 23 2009, 11:59 pm
I am pretty early in my pregnancy still, I guess, but was thinking I should probably start buying things for the baby. I just don't know where to start! What do I buy first for the baby? It's, of course, my first and we aren't going to find out it's gender until the baby is born :D
Should I get newborn clothes or diapers or a crib or should I wait until it's closer to my delivery date? Should I buy the expensive, necessary things right now? I just want to be prepared, that's all.
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