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distant..
Posted Saturday April 3 2010, 8:45 am
Hey okay so lately ive been so confused..
Ive been going out with my bf about 5 almost 6months now and lately I just don't feel bothered anymore.
Its like I get a text and im like ugh" or "meh"
I hate feeling like this I really do and I don't know what brought it on.
Like when we text i feel really disinterested but when I see him its different its like I forget all about it?
Hes the sweetest guy ive ever gone out with yet at the moment I seem to be pushing him away and closing myself off!
He sugested taking my shopping and then to dinner after last night and its almost like im feeling mad at him for being so nice to me..
I know if I break up with him il be throwing away one of...
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I'm a boyfriend stealer.
Posted Friday April 2 2010, 4:56 pm
17/f I have a reputation in school as a boyfriend stealer. The friends I do have, don't ever let me meet there boyfriends or near boys they like. I don't mean to take anyones boyfriend, and I never date any of my friends boyfriends but they always end up liking me. I really don't know why I'm just myself and
nice. But I was wondering on ways to NOT flirt.
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Lifeless anorexic sick friend.
Posted Friday April 2 2010, 4:44 pm
17/f my best friend is anorexic, she has been since last summer it's really bad. She looks like a Skelton and it's really gross. She probably weighs 80 pounds. She is lifeless and boring and always in bad moods. Before this crazy diet she did she was the funnest craziest girl I ever met. I'm considering telling my guidance counselor because I'm really afraid she is going to die. What do you think I should do? I know I can't control her, but I'm not going to watch her die either. People have given me multiple anorexic warning sheets to give her. It's just really bad and I don't know what to do
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Posted Thursday April 1 2010, 1:15 am
well, it seems like everyone has all of these best friends and things and i know i have friends but i seem to drift away from all of my so called *best friends* it's like their my best friend for a year then we get spilt up and we aern't friends anymore...or they just completly ditch me and just find other best friends? i know it is possible to have more then one best friend but, sometimes i just like it better only having one...is there something wrong with me am i the wrong on in the friendships?
13/f
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EPIC FAILURE! ;P
Posted Tuesday March 30 2010, 5:18 pm
HEy
my friends just randomly come up at lunch that we should start a band..epic failure haha >.< I don't know if we really ARE going to have a band or not but maybe. So, I'm assigned to be the vocals..and to be the screamo..idk how to do screamo ..a little but I start laughing during it because I sound ridicoulous ..any ideas on how to really do screamo? thanks..
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Seventeen birthday party with my crush >.<
Posted Tuesday March 30 2010, 4:54 am
f/16 I'll start off with a little bit about me. A lot of people think I'm very shy and innocent but I have a very freaky side to me that a lot of people don't kno about. My crush is going to be at my sister's birthday party. I'm the one who's supposed to plan everything. I'm not sure what kind of teen games we should play? My parents are going to be home so it has to be appropriate but they'll be in their room so it doesn't have to be too appropriate. I was thinking if seven minutes in heaven BUT I don't want my crush to be with some other girl in my house. I'm not sure what the theme of the party should be either. It's going to be daytime, around 15 people and it's mostly going to be in my backyard. Mostly girls. This is my first time thro...
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What kind of trust issues does she have?
Posted Monday March 29 2010, 4:17 am
I met a new friend in my class well lets say we just started talking as a friend cause we only used to have those small talk.But I was kind of able to read her like her personality, shes shy,has trust issues,advice giver,sympathetic and introvert, bottles up her feelings and write it out instead and likes art she thought it was kinda scary how I knew I was able to read her and we started talking more because of that, well the thing is how can I open her up more? She has friends but shes scared to get close to people because in the past she had a best friend that was like her sister but her mom told her to not talk to her anymore and she was really really sad about it and since then she has trust issues and she said she doesn’t trust peopl...
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How can i be closer to someone who is distant and reserved?
Posted Monday March 29 2010, 12:01 am
i have a friend and shes friendly and a nice girl, but the thing is something is about her is distant and reserved. She seems to block people in a way but i really dont know what it is, but sometimes its hard for me to approach her does she have trust issues?
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what are the traits of vulnerable person?
Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 11:58 pm
what are the traits of vulnerable person if they tend to not show it?
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Touching,nonverbal communication?
Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 11:57 pm
what does touching while talking to someone has an effect on someone who doesnt touch the talker while talking? does that make the talker feel safe when they touch them?
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My So Called Friends
Posted Sunday March 28 2010, 10:21 pm
My bestfriend asked me if she could go out wit my ex-boyfriend whom i had dated 4 about 10 months before we broke up. I wondered why she would take interest in someone she barely knew. Later i found out that she had been talking to him behind my back. So i told her we couldnt be friends anymore and i haven't talked 2 her 4 about a year and my ex-boyfriend, whom i still remained friends with after the breakup, is not apart of my circle of friends any longer. So my question is "Did I Do The Right Thing By Cutting Them Both Off?"
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It's long, but I would really aprechiate the help. Thanks..
Posted Saturday March 27 2010, 3:35 pm
went to a bar last night with my boyfriend, my best friend and her guy friend. My friends guy friend drove down to meet us (He lives 45 minutes away) While I went to pick up my friend she told me that her guy friend had intentions of spending the night at my apartment if he gets drunk. (Which I had no idea until she told me..) I was a little upset about that. However, Around 11:30pm My friend's guy friend already had about 4 beers and was a bit tipsy. I happened to run into an old prick from high school (Rob) Everything was going well until (Rob) tried talking my friend's guy friend into getting drunk...(I wasn't fully paying attention, I was playing pool) Then it happened that after the 4 beers he got tipsy and (Rob) asked me if it was oka...
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Put on the spot
Posted Saturday March 27 2010, 10:54 am
I went to a bar last night with my boyfriend, my best friend and her guy friend. My friends guy friend drove down to meet us (He lives 45 minutes away) While I went to pick up my friend she told me that her guy friend had intentions of spending the night at my apartment if he gets drunk. (Which I had no idea until she told me..) I was a little upset about that. However, Around 11:30pm My friend's guy friend already had about 4 beers and was a bit tipsy. I happened to run into an old prick from high school (Rob) Everything was going well until (Rob) tried talking my friend's guy friend into getting drunk...(I wasn't fully paying attention, I was playing pool) Then it happened that after the 4 beers he got tipsy and (Rob) asked me if ...
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I made out with a guy...and my friend likes him
Posted Saturday March 27 2010, 4:32 am
I went out with my friends, and one guy was dancing with my friend. I didn't know that she was into him- i just thought she was having fun dancing. The same guy approached me later in the night to dance (mostly salsa music, so everyone was dancing), and then, without thinking, I made out with him. Now, I'm concerned my friend is upset at me...well, we don't know each other well, but we did go out. I made some comment about how I couldn't drink the shot that some guys bought all of us, and she said "it's okay, my LOVER drank it for me," she was referring to the same guy. Later in the night as we were saying bye, she seemed nice with me, but I am still concerned that our friendship is at stake, and that she doesn't trust me. What should i do??
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I don't have close friends.
Posted Friday March 26 2010, 9:28 pm
I used to have best friends in middle school. Now, a junior in high school, I have no best friend. I don't have someone that I hang out with all the time or that I confide in. Sure, I have friends that I occasionally hang out with, but I don't have a close friend. My aunt says it's cause my dad, the one person that was closest to me, is an alcoholic. He was sober up until I was in 6th grade, and then things got bad. It really has strained our relationship and he's sober now, but I don't know how to re-establish what we had. But I don't get why that would affect me making friends. I have trouble getting close to people cause it seems like every person I've been close to has hurt me. I've only had one serious relationship with a guy and we we...
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true best guy friend?
Posted Friday March 26 2010, 4:45 am
18-female. i've always had feelings for my good friend but never implemented i wanted to go further because i knew it would just make our friendship more complicated. i just don't even know if he's the "good friend" i thought he was, but then when i think about it i have doubts..
we go to different schools. he's best friends with my guy cousin - they go to the same school. recently my grandma passed away (also my cousins grandma) and i know my cousin told the guy that she did and he told my friend she was in a better place blah blah .. but the thing is he never once called or even texted me to see how i was doing or to even say sorry to me about my grandma. to me, that doesn't seem like a good friend. although he ta...
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Why?
Posted Wednesday March 24 2010, 11:02 pm
My best friend of 7 years and I are fighting a lot recently. I hate when we fight and we never fought before. He is a boy and I am a girl, we are both fifteen. I know we still care about each other, I just hate that we fight and the we started fighting more after a rumor went around the school that we like each other. Why do you think we're fighting? Because of the rumor? Thanks
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How do I become friends again with an ex-friend?
Posted Tuesday March 23 2010, 10:39 pm
All through high school I had this friend. We had a lot of classes together. I was pretty much her only friend but we were close! We even sat beside each other on graduation day. I went to her graduation party afterward. I totally knew all of her secrets and I thought we would be friends forever! When we graduated we ended up going to the same community college but didn't share any classes together and, so, rarely saw each other. We stopped talking after awhile and drifted off on our own paths. Well, the other day I was at work (cashiering) and she came through my line! I was so excited and tried to make conversation with her but she would not say a single word to me! I don't know what to think about it now.
I reall...
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Posted Tuesday March 23 2010, 5:46 pm
Thank you so much. i believed this is 100% true. am just going to let her be . am not even going to connfront her or any of that . Thats not going to fix anything.. since she has anger problems ..what i aslo think is that she is hardly in school and she does bad in classes,and she is a senior, i really dont think she is going to graduate..so since this is happening she probably wants to fight me so then people could think she is not graduating because she fought..which is really pathetic. !
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Prom Date [Awkwardness]..
Posted Tuesday March 23 2010, 4:51 pm
So today I got asked to prom. I don't know the guy who asked me that well, but we're kind of in the same friend "circle"
Well anyway, when he asked me it was reallyyyy awkward, and that just got me thinking, how awkward will it be on prom night??
I'm really scared!! I mean I have to dance with him and everything, and I already act dumb enough around guys on a typical day, so I cannot imagine how embarrassing I will act.
So do you guys have any tips? Like how I can calm my nerves, or maybe get to know him better?
ANYTHING is appreciated! Thank you so much! :]
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