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normal?


Posted Thursday February 14 2008, 7:17 pm

I masturbate like maybe once a week, is that normal?
or even okay in the Christian church?

i just feel weird and guilty after it.

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Cutting.


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 8:03 pm

I've been cutting for a couple years now but lately it has been getting worse. I told a teacher, who is my friends mom on terms that she wouldn't report me or tell anyone because she isn't a teacher 24/7 so I was talking to her as my friend's mom. Well that was fine but I told her I would try to stop and if it got worse we could get me help. So I was wondering how your mom / dad or parent reacted when they found out. Or what happens when you go to a school consulor. Thanks.

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Should I see a psychiatrist?


Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 4:47 pm

I've asked my mom about seeing one... I don't think she took me seriously and it's really hard for me to ask her about that (or about anything) so I want to know what others think first.

I used to be so optimistic, and hardly anything could get in the way of my happiness. I enjoyed every aspect of my life and accepted mistakes as ways to learn, and thought everything happened for a reason.

Recently, somehow I've changed. Sometimes I feel numb, like I just can't feel any type of emotion. My friends will laugh and I can hardly get myself to smile. Other times I'm just not happy. Sometimes I know why, but other times I will feel sad and not know why I feel that way. It's taking a toll on my family, friends, ...

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ive been really upset lately


Posted Tuesday February 12 2008, 9:43 pm

hmm, where to start? Well, im a 13 year old girl. Everyone thinks that im this perfect girl, with a smile on her face everyday. But, on the inside i want to cry. No one knows that im feeling the way I am. I am so fake, that that makes me upset. Im like a prep. But, once I get home, I go upstairs and just cry. I dont know why this happens, or why im even crying. It might be because my friends are mad at me? That i got in trouble with the law recently and am going through that? That my parents dont trust me? That im failing school? hmm, im not sure. But I know the outcome is very upsetting. I cry myself to sleep, i've tried to cut but stopped. How though, im getting addicted to snapping hairbands on my wrist. And, ive wrapped my scarf around ...

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rubber band method.


Posted Tuesday February 12 2008, 5:01 am

Umm im an ex-cutter and im usings the rubber band thing but i think im gettin addicted to it.
Im after any advice or input on this matter.
thanks in advance.

P.S dont tell me to see a counsellour or sumthing.

P.P.S dont tell me thats its not a good thing to not want to see a counsellor.

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stressed out


Posted Monday February 11 2008, 11:30 pm

im really stressed out
just alot of stuff has been going on lately and its really eating at me, i can't shake it off.

valentines day and my birthday are coming up and i really want to be in a great mood for my boyfriend and friends but i feel horrible and moody. how can i help boost my mood and energy and get rid of this stress QUICK?

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My nerves can't take this anymore


Posted Monday February 11 2008, 8:05 pm

i really don't think that my nerves can take it anymore. I'm going to start from the beginning because I don't think you can fully understand the problem without understanding where it came from. It all started when I was about 13 years old. I go to an all girls school and have gone there my whole life. So, yes, it was a big deal for me to socialize with boys, maybe a little bit of an even bigger deal than it is for the average person. I'm not saying that I was boy crazy, it was just that it was important to me.. well to all of us that have been going there since we were little. But, that was the age I started talking to boys. I started talking to this one boy who really liked me. My mother sat next to me telling me everything to say and do...

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Cutters.


Posted Monday February 11 2008, 5:14 am

This is for any cutters out there.

Im an ex-cutter who is still stuggling.

It would be greatly appreciated if anyone could tell thier cutting stories.

Also mention the country you live in-this is out of curiosity as im an aussie and would like to know how much this happens in australia and other countries.

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sick+bored


Posted Sunday February 10 2008, 10:55 pm

i'm bored as hell because i'm sick with "viral pharyngitis" but i can't do anything because my throat is killing me and motrin doesn't work.

god what can i do? i'm about to kill myself or something i'm sick of sitting at home in excruciating pain with nothing to do.

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feeling restless?


Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 3:59 pm

15/f

I recently started taking 5 mg of Abilify (mood stablizer), but i stopped it 2 days ago because I started to feel really anxious and antsy and jittery and restless all the time. I haven't had it since then, but the restless feelings haven't gone away.

nothing else has changed about my diet, etc.

what can I do to stop this? It's like i want to get up and run around in circles but I'm too tired/can't.

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bc


Posted Saturday February 9 2008, 11:34 am

is it ok to still be taking birht control if ur already pregnant? ive been takin it for a year and if i get preg. is it ok to still be takin it?

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really long...


Posted Friday February 8 2008, 6:48 pm

Please help if you can... Lately I hate myself. I hate who I am and everything I do. Everyone sees me as a happy person who loves her life, but inside I'm torn apart. I cry nonstop anymore when I'm alone. Everything in my life goes wrong. The one person who I always trusted to love me and like me for me unconditionally(ie MYSELF) ... has given up on me. Yes..I've given up on myself. One of my best friends moved away a few months ago... she never let me know how to get ahold ofher... I just gave her my number and she said she'd called me... haven't heard from her since. Now my absolute best friend is moving. I don't know how I'm going to live without her. She's the only person who has every believed in me. After she leaves I don't know what ...

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i dont even know.


Posted Thursday February 7 2008, 6:36 pm

im new at my school and im a freshman. i didnt move or anything i just used to go to a different school. so anyways im really quiet in basically all my classes because i feel reallyy uncomfortable. because of that, i only have a few friends. why am i so quiet around people i dont know? why cant i be open and outgoing like my friends? also now i never feel as happy as i used to feel, when i went to my old school. like, right now, i feel sad..and i dont know why. i tried playing guitar to make me happy because that usually does, or watching tv, and that stuff. but nothing is really working..i still feel sad. my mom and sister wanted to go out to dinner tonight and usually i like that feeling of getting out of the house on a week night, but no...

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he hates me


Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 8:55 pm

One guy that's in almost all my classes told me in 3rd period that he doesn't like me, straight up. I have no idea why he would even say that. We barely know each other, and I'm not but not bragging smart and I try to be a perfectionist but i'm not straight up, i just lay behind in like the shadows and am really quiet. He's really quiet too.

I'm sure that everyone probably hates some people for no reasons (we all admit this to ourselves) but it hurts so much that we don't even know each other at all and he just tells me that he doesn't like me. Worst of all, just straight up, face to face. And yes, he was serious.

I'm just so hurt and my esteem went down ten-folds. Is there anything i can do to make myself feel...

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paranoia problem


Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 11:10 am

I am having problems with a few things, but they all relate to paranoid tendencies.

At night, I have the feelings of someone trying to break in, or am scared that I am not going to wake up if we get broke into, or a fire breaks out.

Another problem, I am paranoid that my husband is cheating on me. Also, that he is trying to poison me to get me out of the way. I know that sounds nuts, but this is how I feel. It also feels like a conspiracy theory at times. I am always sick, and seem to be getting worse so. (I have been to doctors and had blood work, no problems with that).

Here's my question, does anyone know of any ways to help conquer, overcome, or cope with paranoid tendencies? Any help is a...

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Shrinks.


Posted Monday February 4 2008, 7:56 pm

I need to start seeing a counselor, but idk where to find one in my area.
Brunswick, georgia. help please.

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okkkk


Posted Sunday February 3 2008, 2:01 am

well this just started happening to me.well when i mess up something i get really upset and i don't know why. and it is very stupid like.if i mess up my nails or cause i have these beads in my room so when i go to put my clothes away the hangers get stuck so i just start ripping them down.please help i don't want to tell any of my family.

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depression or not


Posted Saturday February 2 2008, 5:54 am

hey,
would you classify this as depression or something else.
*Wanting to be alone most of the time.
*getting really upset over nothing.
*self harming(cutting etc).
*not talking much when normally really social.
*pushing away friends.
*feeling excluded from people.
Etc. Etc.
Thanks heaps.

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f/15 and hopelss :'[ where is the old me ?


Posted Friday February 1 2008, 12:50 pm

latley i have been feeling like the world is out to get me. i feel like this is the worst year of my life. and ill tell you why. the boyfriend of almost a year broke up with in the beginning of the school year b.c well he said he doesnt know. so thats great then like a week after that i find a new guy from our school and hes just wikid hott and being upset as i was i made out with him. and the ex thought i didnt love him so he didnt ask me to be his girlfriend again. then the hott guy i hooked up with is flirting with other girls and my parents hate him and are arguing with me about him so i just forgot about him was hurt that another guy hurt me but w.e....then my ipod got taken away by some teacher i got it back with out getting a detenti...

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agoraphobia


Posted Tuesday January 29 2008, 9:23 pm

Can someone help me to find steps to help my son who has been housbound for 2 yrs. he is 22 but every doctor says he has to come in. where can i find help or at least steps to help him. he is so desperate. He wants to go out but after being out for 5-10 minutes has to go back and it has to be at night or early morning when no one is there. please someone help.

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