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he complains about my sleeping habits
Posted Monday May 26 2014, 5:09 pm
My boyfriend and I are in our twenties. Since we are both full-time students we still live at home, although I do sleep over his house occasionally.
After my boyfriend I go to sleep at night he frequently gets annoyed with my sleeping habits. Apparently I try to push him off the bed and I’m like the worst person to sleep with at night. Since he is the first guy that I have slept in the same bed with for any amount of time, I am unsure if this is because I am just a bad sleeper or if he is just a light sleeper.
Of course my cat does not complain about my sleeping habits but he does leave the bed at night to do his own little thing after being pet, in which he either returns or leaves to sleep in another spot in the house. Al...
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Im ruining everything. i really want a boyfriend but as soon as they like me back i stop liking them! why?
Posted Sunday May 25 2014, 8:20 am
I'm 14 years old.I liked a boy that was 15 but as soon as he liked me back i stopped.So he stopped too.When i realized he stopped i liked him again.. so he did too and then again i stopped.He thought i was playing him but i really wasn't.This happens to me all the time and because of that now he hates me.He likes another girl now and i don't really wanna admit to myself that i like him because i know he will never like me again and if he does i will stop liking him.I played him for like 4-5months and i feel really bad now.I don't understand i even cried for him i thought that i really like him but i quess i didn't.This happened with my ex boyfriend too..What should i do.. i really want a boyfriend but as soon as they like me back i stop..Please help.
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what should i do?
Posted Saturday May 24 2014, 8:57 pm
so i met this guy int he beginning of the year and hes graduated now. We had a thing for a while maybe a month or so but i cant help but to think i pushed him away because i might be afraid of my feelings. after a few weeks have passed we stopped talking and he eventually got a new girlfriend but he kept staring at me waiting for something to happen and he does this all the time. i tried talking to him on facebook but he didnt message me back so i just gave up and thought maybe this is when i need to give him some space or would it be better if i talked to him in person or is it just no use at all?
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Snapchat Ex
Posted Saturday May 24 2014, 6:42 am
So what can it possibly mean that my ex keeps checking each and every snapchat story update I have?
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Boyfriend isolating me.
Posted Saturday May 24 2014, 1:15 am
i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and whne hes with me he can be nice he can be mean he does buy me things and takes me out. But he refuses to drink when I'm there but he'll go out to parties with his freinds when my friends are there and drink with them! It's just wierd hes started lying to me about my friends being there and they post pictures I know they are there! I don't mind him having a night with his friends but hes out drinking with my friends he never invites me and he refuses to drink when I'm there. Why? Is he hiding something. Next weekend we are going out with his freinds from work but hes willing to drink then? Its just i get anoyed when he goes out partying with my friends he never invites me and it isolates me i'm...
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breakups
Posted Saturday May 24 2014, 12:06 am
its my bfs first reltnshp with a gal and he is immature to some extend.. we have been together for 1 yr 5 mnths.i always knew he wanted a breakup because we fight a lot and he is fed up of those fights. its our possessiveness that is causing those fights.. i knew he wanted to breakup so i only told him that lets breakup because i know you want to be free. he asked me whether il be his only after a breakup so i replied that i wont be anyone's after this breakup then he got sad.. he wants to come back but he says its not the right age. so that day itself he told me that i want to continue this relationship. what should i do? we go through many breakups n those breakups hurt me. should i give it a last try?
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I have a crush and want to know if I should dismiss or go for it
Posted Friday May 23 2014, 5:20 pm
Alrighty so I'm a junior (17 and a girl) in high school and I previously attended another high school for about 2 and a half years, but recently transferred into this new school. I've been in the school for about 4 months or so and haven't gotten too involved into social circles because I'm a pretty shy person... So, here comes the problem, I have this huge crush on a guy in one of my classes. I don't know too much about him, but from what I've seen he seems like a very laid-back, funny person. I noticed that we make frequent eye contact multiple times throughout the class. I try smiling at him to leave a good impression, but he usually gets flustered and walks away. Occasionally we make off-handed good-humored comments about each other (to...
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Is This Guy Crazy or in Love
Posted Friday May 23 2014, 1:57 am
This guy is obsessed with me. It's been going on for years. I had a feeling at first that feeling was confirmed when he wrote a poem. This poem was about me and it was sexually explicit. So I got scared and stopped going to the same places as him etc. So fast forward two years and I stopped being scared. So, I wanted to see what kind of feelings does he have for me. He likes to keep our conversations short which frustrates me. Its really hard to tell what kind of person he is or how crazy he is from talking to him. My conclusion was he is really shy and has a big crush on me. I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt. When I tried to make conversation with him I asked if he had a Tumblr. He said “No”. I later found out that he indee...
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Does he like me or hate me?
Posted Thursday May 22 2014, 11:26 am
Hi, I'm a 15yr old girl ,from the U.S.A ,but i live in India.
I'm extremely confused about boys in general, Last year, i was friends with this guy and I didn't know he liked me ,because i'm very oblivious, when he asked me, whether I liked him, I got nervous and said no ,because my best friend liked him too. Ever since then, he hasn't talked to me ,but keeps staring at me and I DON'T KNOW WHY? One day, in English class our teacher, paired us up together and he still refuse to talk to me, and still the next day he kept staring at me! So, does he like me or hate me?
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feeling jealous.
Posted Wednesday May 21 2014, 3:56 am
I have been feeling super jealous lately. I don't know why, I'm not usually like this. It all started when my boyfriend said he was going to get drinks with co-workers after work last friday. Most of them women. And I just didn't like that he was going without me. (I work late and couldn't go) What's more is that he didn't even tell me he was going until I asked him to do something after work. Also he carpools with this girl, who almost never pays him gas money, and I find out that she went to the bar after work two Fridays ago, and he bought her nearly $30 in drinks.
Anyways, I told him that I really dont like what's happening and I would prefer he doesn't go for drinks after work. Carpooling is one thing but alcohol doesn't...
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getting fed up
Posted Tuesday May 20 2014, 11:53 am
I've been talking to a guy for a couple of months now and its been rocky the whole time. I'm usually one to hold on and hope things get better but I'm literally on the verge of calling everything quits. I am very angry at him and I dont know what to do. You see, our relationship went through a mishap and it never really fully recovered. We didn't go out for long either but we both had hopes it was going to be a promising relationship.
Anyway, for numerous times I have told him things aren't right and they need to change. He acknowledges it but doesn't do anything to help me out halfway. He used to say that I never really acted like I cared enough for him and because of that he stopped trying. But I don't understand how does one stop ...
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Am I overreacting about a recent sexual experience?
Posted Tuesday May 20 2014, 10:05 am
I'm going to try to keep the back story brief. About six months ago I got out of a long and tumultuous relationship with someone I really loved, but we just couldn't make it work.
Recently, I've decided it was time to start dating again. I met a guy at a party, asked him if he'd like to go out sometime and he accepted. Our first date was fun and pleasant - I was excited for the second. The second was fun, but something felt off, I think primarily I was tired and should have just gone home after dinner. After some thinking and an awkward interaction on the third date, I told him that I wasn't trying to be in serious relationship at that moment and just needed something very un-serious and slow. He seemed let down, but I expla...
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So tired of this!!!!
Posted Monday May 19 2014, 7:01 pm
I'm 19 and my bf is 24 and we have a 10 month old kid together. We have roommates that live with us so our son sleeps in our room in his crib. Me and my boyfriend hardly ever have sex and he said he doesn't really care for it n that its just not important to him. I want sex pretty much every day but I would settle for once a week I guess. He doesn't even make me feel wanted. He isn't very touchy feely I'm the one that usually initiates the kissing or touching. He doesn't like to cuddle or hold each other we sleep on our own sides of the bed and I feel like were an old married couple that no longer even have any interest in sex. I'm driving myself crazy here!!! I got birth control because he had said we don't really have sex because he doesn...
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Boyfriend best friend?
Posted Monday May 19 2014, 3:31 pm
I have a boyfriend of over one year and I love him but I may be developing feelings for my guy best friend? He's so funny and understands me on another level. He never fails to cheer me up and no matter how irritated I get I always want to be there for him. The problem is I feel the same way for both my boyfriend and my bestfriend. I've obviously lived through a lot more with my boyfriend, but my friend is something else. But why should I risk such an amazing relationship? And why is that even crossing my mind. My boyfriend is such Ana amazig guy and deserves nothing but the best. But so does me best friend😭 god I don't know what to do, every passing day everything becomes harder. I can stare I to my best friends eyes even if the feelings aren't corresponded. Am I in love with two guys?
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Why do I feel like this?
Posted Monday May 19 2014, 8:09 am
I'm 14 and there's this boy I've had feelings for since about January, he's felt the same about me ever since then too and we've been out twice but it didn't really work. He is 13.
I'm not sure if he still likes me but I know for sure that I'm still crazy in love with him, I see him everyday at school and when I'm not looking my friends say they catch him staring at me and I have seen him doing it before when he thought I wasn't looking! When I try to make eye contact with him he quickly turns away or turns around and walks backwards looking at his friends.
Why is this?
But, I still really really like him! We used to talk so much and about everything! He'd pop up to me every night even just if it's qui...
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My crush hates me... 😞
Posted Monday May 19 2014, 8:02 am
So, I'm 14 and he's 13. Basically this boy said to my friend that he thinks I'm annoying and he hates me, I really like him a lot and he has liked me before in that way but now he hates me. I think he said I'm annoying because my friend spammed him on MY snapchat, he knows it was her now but I still feel bad.
What can I do to make him like me again? Just as a friend at least, I hate knowing that he doesn't like me as a friend 😩😞
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Did he find someone else or did he just get what he wanted?
Posted Monday May 19 2014, 7:44 am
21/f, 27/m
I posted a question up about a guy that I met online and was giving me mixed signals at first. We spoke about giving mixed signals and stuff afterward. I mentioned that I am not a "booty call" and that if he was looking for one, to look elsewhere. He told me that he hasn't done a "booty call" in years and that he does not know if we would work out or not, he just wanted to try it out and see.
Ever since that talk, things went back to normal. He was still a gentleman and we still spent time together. We went wine tasting but I apparently was a bit off because I had a lot on my mind. But technically, I felt like he was not sure if he was actually being truthful to me. Long story sho...
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Instagram??
Posted Sunday May 18 2014, 6:50 pm
So my boyfriend and I broke up for about 2 months now and I was begging him to be back with me for a while.. We were together for almost 2 years and we've broken up once before but got back together after 3 months of me trying to see him and convince him. Well lately ive been in no contact with him for a month now and he's always checked my snapchat stories ever since. Suddenly yesterday when i posted a picture of me on instagram of my trophy from tae kwon do competition he liked it right away. What does that like mean? I still have feelings for him but im trying not to hurt myself with high hopes but its hard still. The purpose of me in NC is just for me to heal a bit, improve myself, and ultimately make him miss me.
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I am lost in my relationship and its is killing me.
Posted Sunday May 18 2014, 4:08 am
Its been almost 3 years and they have had there good times and bad times but today i didnt talk to her because I didnt want to fight and when we spoke she kept fighting with me... I feel like dying because she is my life and i am so stressed out, what should I do?
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Can I have anything bad after swallowing semen?
Posted Saturday May 17 2014, 9:30 am
So my boyfriend is still a virgin & i know hes a clean guy. I gave him head the other day and i swalled. Now im paranoid because i read that HIV can be passed through oral. Is that true even though hes never been sexually active?
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