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group of friends.
Posted Saturday April 17 2010, 11:45 am
so im in a group of friends, i guess u could say we're kinda popular, but its my first year at this school and im good friends with all these people. little did i know, that last year none of them had problems with each other, and now every person in our little group of friends has a problem with another one in the group. its really bad, and hard to avoid, but somehow i manage. im close friends with a girl, lets call her "S", and im also friends with 2 other girls, lets call them "B" and "C". S liked C and B before, and now she doesnt. C told me that S was acting two-faced and that C didnt do anything, and she doesnt know why S is acting like this. I told C stuff that i probably shouldnt have told her. Like S d...
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Girl advice
Posted Saturday April 17 2010, 1:51 am
I like this girl who we have been texting for while now and we hung out and it went great and I'm starting to like het but I got no clue if she likes me, how do I tell her I like her without scaring her away?
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I'm in a fight with my friend
Posted Thursday April 15 2010, 12:08 am
F/13
I just met a new friend this year. I thought she was amazing. Except she is kinda strange b/c she dresses emo and goth but says she's not. She also is OBSESSED with tokio hotel and hellboy. And it gets sooooooo anoying b/c she talks about them all the time. So she also told me in the beginning of the year that alot of ppl turn on her b/c they think she's wierd and gets really mean. And I was like "that could never happen with us. Well be friends forever." boy was I wrong. We always had fights. One day we'd be friends and then the next we'd be enemies. So one day I was walking home with my friend and he asked to have her number. I told him I'd have to ask her first. So the next day I was joking around and told her I...
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Friend doesn't respect my boundaries
Posted Tuesday April 13 2010, 11:25 pm
20/F
I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. We have two very close friends who have been dating for a while. We go to parties at their house fairly often. When I get drunk, I'm very open, and I have showed my boobs a few times (I know it's bad). The thing is, I do these things because I was raped, and in a weird way it makes me feel like I have control again. It's hard to understand unless you've been through the same thing.
Anyway, my boyfriend was cool with that, but lately my male friend has been asking to see them A LOT. Him and his girlfriend are in a very open relationship, so she doesn't care. Lately, though, he'll walk up without asking in the middle of a room full of people at the p...
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this girl
Posted Tuesday April 13 2010, 10:26 pm
theres this girl in my school. She is very pretty and wear gorgous clothes. Her and I talk a little and she and me have a great sense of humor. I dont want to sound desperate but i kinda want to be her best friend. I mean my old friends are sorta not the kind you wanna be around with. Is there any way I can be friends with and even maybe best friends?
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his grad party..
Posted Monday April 12 2010, 9:15 pm
19/female.
So I'm currently in my second year of college but I have a good friend who i've known for like 5 years now in high school and he's graduating this year. Well me and him have always had a strange realtionship, we're more than friends but not in a relationship. Anyways I feel obligataed to go to his grad party but there will be so many people from his high school (he went to a different one than i did) because he is a popular jock. he plays football hockey and baseball so basically everyone from his school will be there hahaa and I just think it would be awkward for me becasue I won't know anyone and I feel like all the girls will be staring at me like whose this girl and his ex girlfriend who he is still close wit...
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he is a good friend in i think i love him
Posted Monday April 12 2010, 9:10 am
ok there is this guy in my class and he is my best guy friend. ive had a crush on him since we met. i know he only likes me as a friend but my feelings keepgetting stronger and stronger. i want to go out with him so i asked him out and he said "OH GOD NOOOO" but i still like him and my friends keep asking him out for me and i dont want them to. what do i do about him and my friends?
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My friend and her love
Posted Sunday April 11 2010, 6:01 pm
15/f
My friend and I are 15. She's beautiful and desperate for a boyfriend (even though she refuses that shes desperate). She is planning to lose her virginity to a guy we know soon. They aren't going out and haven't known each other for more than a year. I've told her the first time should be special and that she should be in love first. She's nervous and I know she'll regret it. What can I tell her to make her change her mind? Thanks.
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How can I Iaugh again?
Posted Friday April 9 2010, 8:34 pm
I have a problem. It has progressed to the point that I want to cry at work, in front of clients for no reason, but my sadness and desperation. I have reached my limit, I can't take it no more. I don't know what to do, nothing seems to work.
A few years back my life changed dramatically. At the same time I lost my bestfriend and my anchor for her new boyfriend and moved to a place far from everything and every one i knew and started to look for a first job which messed my mind because of my poor self-esteem (got a lot of rejections, and now i'm doing something i don't like. I can't relate to people but I don't blame them, it's just my frown face... I need a friendly shoulder...
How can I pass through the sadness, misery and loneliness if it is a vicious circle?
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Friend/Boyfriend Drama
Posted Friday April 9 2010, 6:39 pm
I've known my best friend since 4th grade, and we're almost 20 now. She's been dating her boyfriend for a while. Her boyfriend and my boyfriend used to be best friends, but there was a bunch of drama a while back and they stopped talking. Recently, we all started talking again and everything seemed fine. But today, my friend called me and said that ever since our boyfriends have started talking again, he's been really mean to her and has been acting like he doesn't need her anymore. This was definitely not what me and my boyfriend wanted, we thought it would make everything better since we could all hang out again without the awkwardness. But he's been calling her names and telling her what to do, and just acting weird. Any advice for this situation?
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how to keep your best friend?
Posted Friday April 9 2010, 4:54 pm
Me and my best friend have been friends for 4 years, but this year weve got into fights and were always, well shes always angry at me and everytime she is I come crawling back and I apologize even though I have no idea what I did the other night she said that I make her feel like an idiot when I do stupids things but I told her that shes not an idiot and shouldnt feel that way cause im just joking around and now she's not talking to me and honestly im tired of all this and i was gonna ask her if she thinks our friendship is worth saving because at this point im not gonna kill myself over this anymore but I'm not crawling back this time shes gonna be the one crawling back but I'm scared cause I really dont want to lose her please help me cause im really cofused....
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Forgiving My Best Friend.
Posted Thursday April 8 2010, 7:26 pm
Im 18 male she is 15. Sorry if this is long by the way.
So we have been friends for a few years now and are super close. She has had a few boyfriends while I have stayed single. We know everything about each other and talk 24/7. We flirt alot and tease each other and stuff even if she is with a guy. Since September 09 I told her I like her more then friends and I love her more then bestfriends and it seems like she has mixed emotions about it. I saw her a few weeks ago and we were alone in her house and she laid on me while watching a movie and i kissed her and we ended up making out and doing other things. Then when i get home she phones me and said she made a big mistake and she has a boyfriend im like oh im sorry and shes like wha...
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Emo kid
Posted Wednesday April 7 2010, 6:29 am
im 14/f and have a male friend who is "emo" he cuts the lot, but deep down i think he is only doing it for attention, truely there is nothing wrong with his life, although he thinks he is fat but thats about it.
He wants to kill himself, and hates when im happy around him, he makes me say horrible things to make him happy.
i dont know what to do!
also he is sharing a razor with two ther chicks in my grade....im scared they are going to get sick.
is their ANYWAY i can help them
:)thanks
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on and off friendship.
Posted Tuesday April 6 2010, 9:09 pm
Here's the story:
I moved to Texas in the year 2003, I moved in with my grandma, and became best friends with this girl that lived on the same street as me.
We would hangout ALL the time, we were pretty much inseperable. We would fight but we would eventually get over it. Well, a couple years ago we got in a huge fight she got her sisters and her parents involved which resulted in it being a war against my family and her family.
I didn't talk to her for a year then she randomly messages me out of nowhere and apologizes for the whole thing it took me a while but I ended up forgiving her. My family still hated her, and her family still hated me so we never hung out after that but we'd still talk a little at school and ...
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Did he change his mind?
Posted Tuesday April 6 2010, 5:51 pm
15/ f. I have a guy best friend, 15 as well. He is the best, he's there for me and he listens to me when I need someone to open up to. Lately, everyone has been saying we should go out, it started with just our friends telling us and now it's everybody. I just look at his actions as being friendly, I mean we were good friends for seven years now. I could be having a horrible day and I would text him and just tell me all my problems and he'd listen and help me out. When we're on the phone, he'll play songs on his guitar for me because he knows I love that (he's still to nervous to sing in front of me, though). He'll help me with my homework whenever I ask him to. I yell at him a lot because he's negative a lot, he says some positive things b...
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long, but important to me. i need advice.
Posted Tuesday April 6 2010, 4:15 pm
I have a problem. I have always wanted abest friend that will be with m everywhere, and with me through everything. I keep sitting with new people that look like they are the perfect one for me!....dont laugh. after a while, they fade away, and i just want one that would want me as a friend as bad as i would want them :( one that wouldnt want anyone but me to hang out with and i just dont see that happening. im not unnormal or unnatractive, i just want a friend, and dont know what to do. help me! i am a girl....
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shy or not
Posted Monday April 5 2010, 7:40 pm
so what do you guys think is a good personality? and how do you know if someone is boring or really just shy? I can be talkitive and fun but when i go to my youth i am not really outgoing or really show my personality. ive been with my youth for a few months and i live like 35 minutes away from them so i dont really hang with them. I feel like I have a good personality at times but then at other times im just really quiet and people that i want to show my personality dont see the talkitive side just the shy and quiet side. It seems like the people at my youth think i dont have good conversation but yet when i with people in my town and school im really talkitive. and i have other friends that fit right in but i dont seem to. well what do you think?
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situation regarding split up of groups/friendships after longlasting issues
Posted Sunday April 4 2010, 7:28 pm
this group is an online spiritual group. We are a tight knit family, but for the past few months there's been a silent air of resentment. Everyone could feel it and tensions were growing between moderators and administrators.
Recently one of our bolder administrators, as in she is more of the project controller and the site being in her name) has been in a bout of depression. One of the members has attacked her (not wanting to but just a lack of consideration and of egging her around). I had a talk with this person because I was upset with him.
Im not a person in control, not a mod or admin because being 17 i am under the required age, but ive been in a fit of "this group and all these people are my family too and im no...
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Am I the problem?
Posted Saturday April 3 2010, 10:40 pm
13/f
Ok, so I have only ever had 2 close friends, one of them moved to Switzerland, and the other I have recently separated from (see my other question). I have other more mutual friends that i try to be close with, but it always seems like i am trying harder than them. I will invite someone over to my house, but they never return an invitation. They invite me to parties and stuff but if i didn't ever invite people over i would only hang out with them outside of school maybe once a month, and it is usually the same person. That is a good friend of mine but she is almost always with two other girls that she is very close with, i know i could hang out with them but their interests are completely different from mine, also they n...
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What is going on with her?
Posted Saturday April 3 2010, 10:04 pm
Ok, so i recently had a HUGE fight with my best friend. (Sorry this might be long) Well she was at my house and she was on facebook and she made her status "F*****g around with molly (Molly made me put this as my status grandma)" i didn't realize she was making a joke so i asked her to change it. then she got mad and i got mad, and she has stopped being my friend, along with calling me nasty names, and saying that she has been wanting to say that for a long time, she seemed like a true friend before so i don't know whether i should believe her, she also said people were talking about me behind my back, but i don't know whether to believe her or not because she has lied before. i have tried to talk to her and apologized already but...
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