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married in name only
Posted Monday June 2 2014, 11:23 am
I guess I should fill you in on what started the whole mess that is my life. OK I was married for 5 years then divorced we had a 4 yr old son at the time so I thought it would be best to leave him with his father at the time. I found out I was wrong about that. he would use it against me when he was upset about anything and also threaten to take him away from the grandparents if they didn't do as he wanted.He got himself into a psycho relationship that ended up in court, she wouldn't leave him alone, so he said if we got married again she would leave him alone. So with me being ME saw a way to get the custody arrangement tossed and doing nothing without a reason agreed,in name only. I asked him if he could live in a loveless marriage with n...
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Lesbian Looking for advice on co-parenting with ex
Posted Monday June 2 2014, 11:12 am
To sum this up. I am still in love with my ex. We are not together and now she is dating someone I do not agree with. This woman has a criminal background and does not seem like the best person. My ex and I agreed that I can be involved in her childrens lives but they live in ny and I live in nj. It hurts me to not have say so in their lives or who they are around, my ex even tells me not to question her decisions as a mother. Should I just walk away from the situation or just stick around to give the kids a positive role model. I am very much attached to them. This situation just stresses me out everyday.
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I still love my ex
Posted Sunday June 1 2014, 10:25 pm
I still love my ex and i dont know what to do. I thought i've moved on but i guess not. We broke up 1year ago .It's sad to say that i cant move on and its hard to be happy for both of them. Please can you help me on how to move on and get over to your ex. I cant get him out off my head! I want him back! I want him back! Oh ive missed his handsome face,the way we laughed,and the way we KISS,but its only a kiss and touch touch. I NEVER had sex with him never even though im super inlove with him. I dont know why.hmm maybe im afraid to get in pregnant. He's my first love..i wonder why he chose that bitch rather than me! But what?? Because i can only give torid kissing and touch not sex? If he really do loves me he should understand me because i...
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Husband in Control of Everything
Posted Sunday June 1 2014, 9:02 pm
As a 58 yr old, married female, I am embarrassed to say I put myself in a bad situation. Up to two yrs ago, I had a high paying job my entire working career and my independence. Chances of getting that back are slim to none. I have little to show for it now, with a small cash reserve, a modest IRA and 401k, but no income. Long story short, at my husband's insistence and his promise to provide, "I'll take care of everything, you don't have to worry, what's mine is yours" scenario, I quit my job and moved with him to a foreign county where he accepted an assignment where I cannot work. Meanwhile, he has benefited financially with my help and he controls all money, all decisions, keeps me completely in the dark about everything. I a...
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I dont like him!!!
Posted Sunday June 1 2014, 5:28 pm
This guy likes me and he is cool but I am attracted to his brothers appearance. I never talked to his brother, only to the guy that likes me. Should I get over his brother and try to talk to this guy or just stop talking to him?
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Best friends boyfriend problem
Posted Sunday June 1 2014, 6:28 am
Ok so this boy is 13 and my best friend is 14.
They have been going out for 5 days now but I know something as my cousin told me. Her boyfriend is a flirt and I already knew that, he chats up anyone he can basically...
Last night my cousin was talking to him and he was saying that he loves her and wants to send pics to her and for her to send back (dirty pictures)
I really don't know what to do... Should I tell her?
How can I tell her? Should I give it time?
Help!!
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Worried about ex
Posted Saturday May 31 2014, 10:42 pm
24 Male
My ex and I broke up a month ago (she broke up with me) and it was messy. She wanted me to stay in contact but at the same time she needed space. We tried for a few weeks but everytime we talked, she would get angry at me. We decided it was best for both of us to move on.
When we were together, she was still in contact with an ex-boyfriend of hers, who she had never actually met in real life. He lives in another country. She had an online relationship with him and they had known each other for 10 years. Her relationship would comprise of talking to him over Skype and texting. He was in her life through out all her previous relationships and had always had an issue with her dating guys in real life. Whe...
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Is he manipulative, insecure, or defensive?
Posted Saturday May 31 2014, 2:45 pm
21/f, 27/m
Just in case you may be wondering, if you believe in horoscopes. He's a Scorpio. I am a Pisces.
Please be patient. This may be long, I feel like you will need to know details to help me answer my question.
I have always wanted to be with a guy that may have more experience than me just because in my relationships, I have always been the one that has had the most experience (meaning, I was usually their first serious girlfriend). I realized that I cannot see what others may see from a third point of view. I am oblivious to things when I am in the situation or when things are not directly said towards me.
I have been talking/dating this guy for a month. The first time we ...
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It hurts so bad..
Posted Saturday May 31 2014, 10:02 am
I thought I was in a good relationship with a guy I really believed to be my soul mate.. We have dated for one and a half years now.
I just came off the phone with his baby's mum. She felt that because he wasn't going to own up to it,then she should tell me other than me finding out from other random people. I was just in shock. He denied responsibility for the pregnancy and it turns out that he was with her the same time he was with me,and he lied to me alot of those times. The child is now one year old and he has never mentioned it to me. She broke the news to his mum because he also wasn't going to tell her.
I am a person who is slow to anger,and so it really hasn't dawned on me yet. But the more I think of it,the m...
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being brave and talking to him
Posted Friday May 30 2014, 4:25 pm
so me and my boyfriend are I guess sexualy active...I mean he hasn't penetrated so I guess it doesn't count its mostly fore play and making out any way its heating up and you see im a virgin.. I want to have sexs with him but im afraid of pain and I know fore play makes it hurt less and I know I have to communicate with him but im realy shy
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How to handle tables being turned?
Posted Thursday May 29 2014, 9:47 pm
21/f
I'm dating a guy who tends to turn tables on me. For example, whenever he acts "off" or awkward and whenever I confront him about it, he tends to redirect the conversation, "turns the table" on me and says that I'm being weird. So, all the sudden I am the focus of the conversation.
I've told him if I do anything that upsets him or if something is bothering him, to let me know and to be direct and straight forward because I don't like playing the "guessing game." We're not in a complete relationship maybe that's why he doesn't feel like he has the right to tell me something is bothering him?
But I don't know what to do or how to handle the tables being turned on ...
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Love
Posted Thursday May 29 2014, 6:03 pm
How do i know he really loves me when he says it?
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He's perfect for me, but does he like me back?
Posted Wednesday May 28 2014, 9:25 pm
Hi everyone,I'm 16/f.
There's a boy in my history class who I really like. He is just perfect for me. He's taller than me(I'm 5'9), has a loving family, is athletic, has a life outside of his sport, he's gentle, a good son, a good brother, soft spoken, has a really deep voice, has a lot of patience, very mature, I can go on and on.
My point is, he's a gentleman. VERY rare at our age. And I like him. I've always looked for boys like him to get to know. I didn't even notice he was in my class until he stood up to present a project one day. And then on a class field trip a while later, we had a gorgeous conversation on the bus, followed by an in sync nap. Also he accepted this girls flirting all day, and she walked with h...
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the sex toy talk
Posted Wednesday May 28 2014, 6:51 pm
My husband is a bit old fashion and doesnt feel we need anything in the bedroom thats new, and we barely ever have sex yet he insists hes happy. Well im pretty UNHAPPY, and want either more sex, or be allowed to use toys if i feel. He does not agree with ANY kind of toys.
I recently discovered the newer toy called the sybian, its uses nothing but vibration. I know that they retail for about 1400 bucks but i found a way to make my own for a fraction of the price! the only problem is i cant tell my husband....
my question is, is it better to own a toy like this and never tell him (risking him discovering it because they arent that easy to hide if your place isnt that large) ORRRR tell him, make the thing anyway,...
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I need major help I'm such an over thinker
Posted Wednesday May 28 2014, 5:08 pm
I'm driving myself litterally inane someone please help 16/f I overreact idk is it normal for your boyfriend to talk to other girls as friends and hangout with them on weekends if he's with his friends and his friends invite the girls? Or if he tweets them and was like had a great day wih you guys. I'm just such an over thinker and it's because I love him so much and we are very serious with each other. Also is it true that the newness of a relationship wears off after a couple months ? My mom said it did numerous times like all of the lovey dovey things wear off some because of getting used to each other please help me please thank you I do give stars
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My heart genuinely loves and cares about him and his overall well being but am I in love with him? I don’t think so.
Posted Wednesday May 28 2014, 4:48 pm
I am a 22 yr. old female who lives on her own in the US. I rent and live with my boyfriend of three and a half years. The guy I’ve been with has put me through hell in the last three years we have been together but I stuck by his side fearing that I would be alone. He has abandoned me several times even on our anniversary and I know deep down I deserve better. I go to school PT and I work FT. To give you a vague idea of what life has been like for me, I do everything- tend to his needs, clean up after him because he won’t clean up at all, buy all the food, he treats me poorly- has no consideration for my feelings at all, doesn’t acknowledge anything that I do, is jealous that I’ve got a better job than him, refuses to work FT, ...
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Should I ask him friend about his friend?
Posted Wednesday May 28 2014, 3:09 pm
There this guy I like and I feel like he likes me too but not sure. He would ask me what time and I'm leaving work and said he wishes he could leave with me. Then he was gone for a wile because he got really sick but when he came back he asked if I missed him. He always sings love songs when walking by me randomly and he always smiles and looks at me so I think he likes me but I'm scared about asking him out. I am friends with one of his friends and thought maybe I could ask him about my crush's situation. What do you think?
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Live cam with boyfriend
Posted Wednesday May 28 2014, 12:10 pm
My boyfriend and I have been thinking about joining a live cam website to let others watch us do it. What are the pros and cons. What are some good websites. Or anything else you can think of. Thank you.
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super
Posted Tuesday May 27 2014, 5:14 am
i need help
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how do i break up with him?i know he loves me dearly,i love him too
Posted Tuesday May 27 2014, 1:14 am
i am a young lady aged 22 and my boyfriend is 25years,we are both still at university,i am from Botswana in Africa,i am my boyfriend's bestfriend and he is my bestfriend too..he has cheated,hurt me,betrayed me countless times and i have always learnt to trust him,give him all the attention and love i think he deserves cos i love him.lately he has changed from the cheating behaviour and he is trying to be a good man,i can see that and i appreciate it,PROBLEM,he is controlling,he never wants to to let me go out with my friends or sisters,he wants to know my passwords,he gets so angry when i miss his calls,he does'nt want me to have any male friends,HE DOES NOT TRUST ME,and i have never given him any reason to not trust me..everytime we hav a ...
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