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Restraining Orders


Posted Friday August 14 2009, 6:49 pm

Well I have two questions to this topic. First I will explain the situation.

My boyfriend and I broke up (Ex now) about a month and a half ago. I left him after 2 years because he always abused me, never made time for me, and wouldn't let me do anything. He used me sexually and financially. I finally left, and couple weeks later I found someone else. I got over it so quickly because I never really loved my ex for a couple months prior to the breakup. I finally did because I couldn't handle it anymore. Well my new boyfriend and I are in love, happy, and such.

Problem is, the ex is still trying to contact me. He calls and texts me from different numbers; he IMs me from screenames I never even gave him; hhe tried ...

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school..uhoh.


Posted Thursday August 13 2009, 7:08 pm

well im very nervous for highschool.
im sure everyone is.
but i dont want to be all shy and nervous.
i want to be outgoing! and just have fun and not worry.
any ideas on how to gain up the courage?

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Emerency!! Stepfather and Dad


Posted Wednesday August 12 2009, 2:06 pm

Well this is a tough one and I have no clue what to do, lost you could say. Im going to try and explain this to were it makes sense. Im 13 and turning 14 in a month. Curently I live with my jerk of a step father and mom. when i was little something happened with me and my dad. He went to jail. My mother lied saying my step dad is my real dad. I found out the truth a year or so ago and found my real dad a month or so ago now me and my dad have grown close. How do i get my SD to let me see my dad?

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I can't get over him


Posted Tuesday August 11 2009, 11:35 pm

Okay, I meet this guy in august a year ago and we have become friends pretty quick well by october I started to REALLY like him well that lasted for a while and kinda died down a little. but it was never a problem Well since mid june me and him have been texting everyday and those strong feelings came back, only I started to like him alot more then I ever did. And He is a really good friend and i don't want anything awkward to come between us. and he flirts alot and he told me that he use to like me back in october but I haven't said anything about me likeing him, cause im really shy and i think it might screw up our friend ship. and he is all I think about, every text I get every message I hope its him, I love it when he talks to me, hugs ...

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New Webpage


Posted Tuesday August 11 2009, 6:26 pm

littledolphin23.weebly.com
please leave comments and let me know what do you think? and if needed more messages let me know i wll add and i put name bottem of message and then i put my name bottem of mines

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band


Posted Monday August 10 2009, 11:23 pm

Okay, here goes it. I'm in marching band. Band camp has started, I love it, it's my life. I know I can count on any single person in the band. They're like my second family. I spend everyday with them during the school year and three weeks of summer with them, getting sweaty & muddy & nasty. It's an amazing opportunity, if one person in the band is upset, the entire band is, we have parties in the guys locker room before our home meets. It's amazing, I can tell anyone of them my problems & I know they will understand & give me amazing advice to fix it. so my question is: with a tight nit relationship with everyone in the band do you think it will be possible to start a deeper relationship (boyfriend girlfriend) with one of t...

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i lied


Posted Monday August 10 2009, 10:53 pm

hi! my name is tanya and i like a guy very badly. his name is aditya. but hes in 8th class in school and im in 6th. we go to a summer camp together. he asked me some days ago that if i like him as a friend and he also told me he likes me. but yesterday one of his friends started asking me science question which they only study in 8th and as im in 6th i didnt know the answers so i just told that im not interested in that at the moment and i made a complete fool of myself in front of him the other day. he thinks im a failure in my class when im a topper. now he has found out that im in 6th. please tell me what to do now please. i really like the person.

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How do I help my coworker avoid sexual harrassment problems?


Posted Sunday August 9 2009, 10:58 pm

I have this male coworker and I'm female. He seems like a pretty friendly guy. During my training I was told that I wasn't ever suppose to touch another employee as it could be taken as sexual harassment--even if it was just a little touch that meant nothing to me. I guess I understand that. A meaningless touch from me could make somebody else feel uncomfortable if they thought more of it.

Anyway, my coworker keeps rubbing on my shoulder as he passes me in the hallways and such. (You know, "Hi! How you doin' today?" while touching the shoulder, passingly.) I wouldn't mind because I know he's just being nice and friendly but he had the same training that I did about this, I'm sure. He should be well aware of ...

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so theirs this guy...


Posted Saturday August 8 2009, 8:36 pm

ok so there is this guy at my school that i really like. he is so amazing and i went out with him once before. we whent out for about 1 month. once during thanks giving we were on the phone for 3 hours strait but than shortly after he broke up with me because he wanted to go out with one of his friends. they eventually broke up and we became firends again. Well then i decided to ask him out but he said no and made up a really dumb reason. he said that he was having a bad day and that he still would of said no. but i don't think he is telling me the truth. I think that my cuzin and him are going out and keeping it a secret from me. My cuzin won't even talk to me and i don't know why. how do i get over this guy?

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boyfriend drama


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 10:24 pm

okay. i have this really kute boyfriend but we have been through our ^s & downs and he thinks we need tew go fast and im not comfortable with it wat should i do?

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My Ex mate is still harrasing me and i dont talk to him...


Posted Thursday August 6 2009, 3:30 am

ok look at the messege he sent me yesrterday its propper pathetic

Subject: You can be a real dick without even trying I don't even know why you bothered coming back to wow, you said it yourself its a stupid game so why on earth did you come back? I don't even want to know because at the end of the day you can't make up your mind about anything anymore. You should just quit like you do with everything else that you can't make your mind up about. All I hear from anyone anymore is how your being a complete idiot and that you've changed and its starting to piss me right off. And in truth you have changed. I don't know what shitty idea crawled into your head when you dicided to be a fucking dick but i'll tell you one thing. Everyo...

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Posted Wednesday August 5 2009, 4:09 am

My friends just dumped me. For. Good. I'm kinda shy, and have this big deal about jumping into a group. I've been sitting alone at lunch, but there's this group I really want to get into. I have two friends in it. Not like close friends, but friends nonetheless. And the guy I like is in this group. But the group is kinda out there. Pretty much all they wear is black, and they listen to music that I've never even heard of. I've heard of some of it..but not enough to impress anyone. I want to get into this group, but I don't want to change myself for them. How do I do that!?

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sickk and forgot to call.


Posted Monday August 3 2009, 9:25 am

Okay so obviously jobs are really hard to find now a days , well me ? I finally got a job . And my manager loves me already , but I kinda screwed up sunday I woke up feeling like crap , like REAL crap and it was my first meeting and third day of work. Nd I missed both , and I didn't call . I want to call I don't know what to say . I didn't call cause I was scared to call in , since it was my third day. But now I feel stupid cause I actually like that job . Whaat should I do ?

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Reasons For Ignoring Someone


Posted Sunday August 2 2009, 10:11 pm

16F

Could anyone list any good reasons why a guy would completely ignore a girl out of nowhere? Like this guy has known I liked him for several months andwe barely talked about it but we texted each other a couple of times and he truly made it seem like we were still good friends and out of nowhere he started ignoring me..it's been two weeks now. And he told my friend that it's because I'm boring and annoying but it really doesn't add up because in the conversations we had he was holding up the conversation more than I was, and it's relatively easy to tell when someone is annoyed with you and he wasn't. I did nothing wrong and I'm trying to move on from him but it's hard to when I have no idea what his issue is and he won'...

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losing him..?


Posted Sunday August 2 2009, 1:41 pm

ok. i will try to make this as unconfusing as i can. i like this boy but he doesn't talk to me. i know he likes me though because i gave him a note that said i liked him and he wrote one back saying he likes me a lot but he cant talk to me because he gets to nervous. i on the other hand have done everything, i called him first, wrote a note first, emailed first. he admitted to my friend that he needs to put effort in but he doesn't know how. lately i feel like I've been losing him. he used to look at me and my friend said the looks he gives me are like I'm the most important thing in his life and i don't get those looks anymore, in my opinion. like, i would take a bullet for him and i feel like I'm falling in love alone but I'm not looking ...

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Posted Friday July 31 2009, 6:53 pm

Ok 14 and I have 2 girls after me 1 is dull and the other is more of a prep and sporty and great grades I'm dating the dull now wut shud I do

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i dont know how to tell him to leave me alone


Posted Friday July 31 2009, 3:11 am

um well i have started school and there is this guy in my chem class who likes me well that what i think he feels like a stalker he asks me to many personal question he says that he sees me the hallways but i never see him he even messaged me and asked if im a outt or a inn ! i dont know how to tell him to leave me alone my friends say imtoo nice thats how i got a stalker! what should i do?

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what to do if a boy likes me and I want to go with him but h


Posted Thursday July 30 2009, 3:16 pm

It's this boy at my scool that likes me, and I want to go with him, but he flirts with a lot of girls.

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Posted Thursday July 30 2009, 5:22 am

Friends, I am in desperate need of help, I am 40 happily married and a lovely family but recently on a long haul work related trip I badly rather we badly fell for each other that is me and my friend/colleague since the past 20 years. He has always been been my close friend, very trusted and we would share our worries and actually grew our families on each others experiences. But this new feeling is devastating, I know I am deadly in love with him and he too is. The attraction is so obvious that we would be lying if we deny it. I do not want to leave my family neither does he, but we love each other as well. It was a damned moment when we argued on something simple and he apologised and we felt how anything we do and say reaches our hearts....

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My life not going so good.


Posted Wednesday July 29 2009, 5:27 pm

Hey, ok let me begin.I just graduated school.I'am seventeen years old.And i personally think i'am more stressed then i need to be.For starter's I had to hold off going to college because i just dont have the money for it.I got some money from finacial aid but it just isnt enough.I would rather work to get the money that i need to help pay for my education.Even though i'am seventeen, sometimes i feel like im 30.Also,my friends,my sisters,and just about every body else i know have jobs and they are living there lives to the fullest but i just cant find a job for nothing.All my friends are going to college this fall and i feel like it should be me.And it also feels like everybody now have boyfriends but im alone like always.I feel some what le...

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