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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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how to get over a guy that you REALLY like that is a friend and an ex?


Posted Monday May 3 2010, 11:16 pm

So there is this guy that I have liked for the past 5 years (i am 20 now). Me and him dated back in high school (when i was 15) and ended up breaking up because of drama with friends and never getting to see each other. We just started to hang out again about a year and a half ago (as friends) and as soon as i hung out with him again, i fell head over heels for him again. i have already told him how i feel about him and just recently he acted on it and told me a lot of things that i guess he had been holding back. well a lot of drama got started with my mother (i drove an hour and a half to see him knowing i was going to lose my car when i got home because i had no intentions of coming home until the next night) and right as i was getting r...

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The fifth wheel


Posted Monday May 3 2010, 8:45 pm

17/f

So my best friend Laura has been getting really really close with her boyfriend lately. So close, that unfortunately I feel like she's been shutting me out. =(

We'll make plans with each other, like to meet up somewhere. But usually what happens is that I'll text her saying like "I'm here. Where are you?" and she'll text back "Oh sorry, I went out to breakfast/lunch/dinner/whatever with John. I'll meet you in like half an hour"

It's other stuff too, like the three of us will be walking in the hallway, and then it'll be time for John to go away because Laura and I walk to class together, but lately she just branches off with John and says to me "I'll see you there, ka...

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What can you do when you can't get in touch with sick friend?


Posted Sunday May 2 2010, 6:15 pm

My husband's best friend (you know, "like a brother") was diagnosed with brain cancer with mets about 3 months ago. We have been talking to him briefly every day. Now, for 3 days in a row, no answer on his phone. He & wife live WAY OUT in the country about 350 miles from us. We called both area hospitals, he's not at either one...The sheriff probably wouldn't do a wellness check for a non-relatve that involved about 80 mile roundtrip drive would they? Also we got the names of his closest neighbors based on property assessor site, but how weird would that be to call
what may be total strangers? Somebody give fresh ideas? mucho thanks...!

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My "friend" is putting her son at risk


Posted Saturday May 1 2010, 7:42 am

I've known my "sometimes friend, Tiffany" since 7th grade. I'm now 24, our friendship has been on and off throughout the years. But we have never had a "falling out" and just stopped talking, changes of locations and lost of phone numbers, different directions in life, ect were generally the reasons for our lack of keeping in touch. But if we did happen to run into one another or what have you, it was like we never were apart.

In March or April of 2008, I had come across her myspace page and emailed her, we started talking and hanging out pretty regular.
She had a little boy and was coming out of a really bad abusive relationship with the father of her son, and having problems finically and findi...

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my friendship is all wrong now tell me what you think about this...


Posted Friday April 30 2010, 11:27 pm

I go back 3 years ago me and Elvia were really good friends.then my 7th grade came and she met a girl name Marissa, they became best friends and things between them went from good to fighting every week she always came to me and told me what happen and what she should do i told her to just stop being friends like every week and she always did the opposite thing like now. A year pass it was new years and the hole time i spend talking to her.After that day weeks past and a month or two pass and didnt talk and it wasnt normal cause we would text every single day.Then one day she gave me a note in school that said she was really sorry for not being here for me and i forgived her.Then again a month went by and she texted me and i didnt reply bec...

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Is it weird?


Posted Friday April 30 2010, 9:40 pm

I just graduated high school a month ago and it's summer vacation where I am now. It's just been bothering me that my close friend hasn't talked to me since then. She's been talking to her other friends on Facebook but she never said hi to me. Maybe I'm paranoid but I'm just wondering if it was weird if a close friend hasn't contacted you in a month. Idk if she just probably doesn't wanna talk, but I also gave her a letter last month that said I thought we wouldn't be friends for long but I was wrong and also stated how important she is to me and how much I love her and stuff. Do you also think I should say hi first? Idk what to do. Please help.

Thanks in advanced!

xoxo
Naomi
16/f

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how do i...??


Posted Friday April 30 2010, 2:08 pm

im female, 15. my friend is 16. ok well there is this guy. we were 'talking' before but i decided i wanted to stay just friends. firstly, because my best friend used to like him, and secondly i like good boys and id always be worried about him. he does like weed and stuff. anyways all he mostly talks about is weed and drugs. like i kno what all that stuff is, i dont. but i dont like it. and ive told him before that i dont kno wat they are. theres a hint i dont like it. well he sees nothing wrong with it of coarse. so what are some topics to get him off of that subject. or a way to help me get him off of it by talking to him. he honestly has probably heard it a thousand times that he shouldnt do it. so talking about him quitting wont help. a...

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I'm so confused and mad right now!


Posted Friday April 30 2010, 1:23 am

Today I realized that my social security card, driver's lisence and bank card are all gone. None of them are in my purse anymore and they're the only things missing. My purse is either next to me (even at home) or locked in my locker at work. The only time I can think of that I didn't have my purse right by my side is when I was at a friend of mine's house a few days ago for a bon fire. It was me and my boyfriend and her and her boyfriend. I contemplated leaving it inside or taking it out with me but figured that I was with my friends so it was safe. My friend went inside because she had been fighting with her boyfriend and that's the only time that I can think of that my purse has been around someone else and not me at the same time. ...

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She asked him out for me


Posted Thursday April 29 2010, 10:45 pm

13/f

I have written so many stories abot this guy I like. So If u wunna know about him just look at my other stories. Anyways, I have liked him for a long time but has started REALLY liking him about a year ago. He has asked me out and I wasn't aloud. So I said no that I wasn't aloud. But I am actually thinking about defyin my mom and lying to her. And going out win him. I knew he wouldn't ask me out again. So I kept on wondering how to ask him out. My frend txted me (she is also his ex) and she asked who i liked. I said david (that's his name) and she said that we look like a good couple. Then the next day she toldme that she had asked him out for me. I was like /WAT!!!!!!! / and she replied /is that ok???/ and I was lik...

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i REALLY like this guy


Posted Tuesday April 27 2010, 7:17 pm

Well, ive liked this guy ALOT for 4 months. he says he likes me back, but hes afraid to ask me out (by the way he told my friend hes afraid to ask me out not me). i cant ask him out because i asked him once and he ignored the question. people were telling him to ask me out but they finally stopped and now he only tells one of my friends these things. should i move on or not? hes a really sweet guy but i dont wanna have to wait on him FOREVER.

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my friend and her boyfriend


Posted Monday April 26 2010, 2:29 pm

my friend and her boyfriend have been dating for a little over 2 months and he practically lives at her house with her, her brother, and her brothers friend. her boyfriend cory is controlling of her and doesn't ever let her hang out with her friends without him and when she does hang out with me cory gets really mad at her thinking that she would rather spend time with me then him. so when me and my boyfriend wanted to go to the beach with my friend, Cory didnt want her to go so when i called her house he said she was in the shower and would tell her i called and tell her to call me back which she never did. but, cory always goes and hangs out with his friends all the time without my friend while she is working and even when shes not. im ju...

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i like a new friend and still have feelings...


Posted Sunday April 25 2010, 7:04 pm

okay i have a new *guy* friend and i like him alot. but yesterday i saw the old *guy* friend yesterday for the first time in 6months and my feelings for him came back stronger than ever b4. well my new and old guy friends are the same age 15 and im 16 well i have no idea who or what to do cause my old friend cried when i told him about how i like my new one and my new friend got mad when i told him bout my old....someone help me please

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how to uninvite a friend?


Posted Sunday April 25 2010, 12:55 pm

17/f i'm going to this amusement park with my friends & family for the weekend. my one friend, has an eating disorder, and was just put into the hospital over the weekend, but she said she'd be out by the time to go she thinks, the problem is, I don't really feel its a good idea for her to come now. first of all, we plan on swimming, and i don't want anyone giving her dirty looks or anything for how skinny she is. (weighs 70 pounds, you can see her all her bones..) also, my parents don't feel comfortable with her coming, because they are afraid she won't eat or whatever & don't want the responsibility. how do i uninvite her? i don't really want to tell her my reasons, i just need a good excuse!

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my msn friend!


Posted Friday April 23 2010, 1:41 pm

me n this guy are very close .. but only on msn, hes a year older than me an im 13, he is one of the fittest lads in our school , but when im in school , i feel really embarresd , wat can i do to help it?

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Friends Again?


Posted Wednesday April 21 2010, 8:35 pm

so this is about my fiance and his best friend from childhood/high school. my fiance (C) recently found his friend (J) on facebook. well J is in the air force and C is in the navy. the last time they saw each other was at C's high school graduation. what i want to know is if it's at possible for them to be close friends like they were. i know C really misses him and all i want is for C to be happy. my thing is i don't know if i should talk to J about it or maybe possibly visiting each other so they can work out everything from the past. also what are the possibilities of them being stationed in the same place even though they are in different branches.

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Family doesnt want me dating the boy im in love with


Posted Tuesday April 20 2010, 8:32 pm

To start it off..I know I'm Young I'm 14..8th grader. My Boyfriend is 2 years older. Yes age diffrence I know. From the day I met this guy..on fb...(my best friend added him for me) So my friend always talked about how funny, cute and sensitive he is. At first I didn't think anything would happen..but after we talked for hours, and when my best friend and him called me for the first time I realized I was falling falling hard for him..At the same time I was dating my ex..and I didn't always feel we were "right" ..I always thought "Well, he's probably not the "one" I have alot more guys to expierence and meet." Sadly I didn't think we had a conection. He would play games with other girls..he would get angry at m...

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Friend on internet, boyfriend, best friend???


Posted Sunday April 18 2010, 6:24 pm

okay sorry this is long

my best friend introduced me to this guy she likes (they've meet in real life) via the internet. We had talk a little but no anything major, then yesterday; my friend went on MY facebook account and he started talking to her thinking it was me. I was on her at the time and i started a conversation with him (him knowing it was me) He told me a was the perfect girl for him, ive never meet him in real life so it was kinda odd. When we went back to are own accounts she saw are whole conzo and was crushed , she pretended to be amused by it.
We all had a three way convo on msn, and i really do think he likes me.
What should i do????Hes really sweet and i love his personality

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How to address a letter to a friend in army boot camp?


Posted Sunday April 18 2010, 4:26 pm

i have his address and all, im just not sure how to write it out, so many numbers.
here is my example of what i have written, but its been changed of course.

TzT smith, John Rm 000
W co 1-50 infantry
9999 5th armored division rd
Building 0000 555 infantry bergade
Fort so-and-so, Gorgia
00000-0000

is this about right? should something be changed? please help

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cheating boyfriends


Posted Sunday April 18 2010, 11:17 am

My friend's boyfriend is cheating on her. I've seen him hooking up with plenty of other girls before.

I've told him that he's hurting her, that he should man up and tell her about it, etc. but he refuses.

What do I do? Should I tell my friend? Do I have a right to meddle in her relationship like this, even though her boyfriend's being an unfaithful bastard?

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The Friend Stealer?


Posted Saturday April 17 2010, 3:53 pm

OK so I have a situation here. I have 2 friends. One used to be really nice and used to treat me and another friend equally, but now she seems to only like the other person and not me. She almost got me in serious trouble once,she dosen't hang out with me any more and it's irritating! I Want to have them both be my frinds again but I dont know what to say! I really dont know what I'm going to do when the weekend is over, so I would appreciate any help. Thank You!

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