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My dad is being gross!
Posted Sunday November 8 2009, 7:19 am
I'm constantly catching my dad staring at my tits or watching me as I bend over to put a new bag in the bin and looking at me inappropriate.
It is so gross and and is creeping the shit outa me.
What the hell do I do??
HELP!
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my dad porn?
Posted Saturday November 7 2009, 3:36 pm
My dad watches porn.... I know, like how creepy right? he is like old. what do old people want porn for? he is like 35!!
I found his porn and i have been looking at my dads porn. i think it is so gross that he watches porn when he is soooo old why is that? why is it ok for me but not for him?
17/f
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My bestfriend's dad hits her.
Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 11:31 pm
This girl has been my bestfriend for 2 years and I found out about 2 months ago that her dad abuses her. We're both 15. I'm a freshman, she's a sophomore. I have been through a lot, but I can't seem to help her with this. She refuses to tell anyone-adult or one of those hotlines-because she thinks they'll send her dad away, which will ruin her family. She's told her other 4 siblings, they don't believe her because he doesn't do it to them. She says they only believe what they see but she doesn't want them to see. How can I help her!!?
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my mom caught me masterbating...how do I handle this?
Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 11:27 pm
last night i was in my room after school and I started to masterbate. I don't masturbate too often so I guess I didn't think about locking my door. Well, my mom walked in on me! She left pretty quickly but I don't want to just leave it at that. At dinner she was pretty quiet and didn't seem too happy. I know I should say something to her, right? What do I say? Or do I just let this blow over?
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How to deal with Messy Sister?
Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 4:11 pm
My sister is 18 years old. I'm 22 years old and recently moved back with my family after college.
She is ruining our lives. We live in a small apartment (It's me, her, my mom, and my brother). Everyday she creates a mess. There are clothes everywhere. She saves trash for some odd reason, which has caused a rat to come inside. I went into our closet and found rat poo everywhere because she had saved old food in there. She was supposed to go to college, but she lied about getting a scholarship there. They wanted us to pay $5,000, which we couldn't afford because we didn't know. We really want her to leave. I'm doubtful she will go to college. She steals stuff from me and my mother. I have things my friends gave me that she des...
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my mom hardly loves me anymore
Posted Thursday November 5 2009, 2:18 am
my mom tends to focus her attention on my brother
who is a 2nd year univ student but still acts like a kid
its always been like that, and its bothering me more and more.
my mom and ive always been really close
and ive done whatever i could to try to make her as happy as possible because she's just been through so much
im always looking out for her needs;
simply cus i love her to death
its just that she seems to not notice any of the things i do for her but instead lets her anger out on me all the time.
if she's in a bad mood, she would let it out on me
and never my brother who doesn't even acknowledges us as his family anymore
if my brothe...
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helpless
Posted Monday November 2 2009, 10:29 pm
so just to give u a background, im 16, girl, 2 parents, both doctors, an older sister and 2 little sisters. my paretns are both really strcit and anoyying and unreasonable. they always punish me and stuff for the stupidest reasons and i cant do anythnig about it. fighting bac does nothing becauswe they dont care what i have to say. and they would nebver think their wrong. and i cant rebel or anything because thel just punish me more. so basily they own me and i have to listen to all of their ridiculous ideas and theirs nothing i can do. i cant live like this. i need help. advice? words of wisdom? just anything to getme throught this....
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Ruining everything?
Posted Sunday November 1 2009, 10:05 pm
So in april i met my current man, hes black im white. and my dad jus happens to be racist. my mom knows about my boyfriend and i know she would like him if she met him..my dad jus doesnt open up to anything really and one day when i tell him or he finds out its going to tear the family apart. We already dont talk, and he knows i dont like him. The only reason i stay here is for my mom, plus im underage. I am in love with my boyfriend and there isnt really anything i can do at this point. i feel lost. Help?
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My dads affair
Posted Sunday November 1 2009, 3:56 pm
Im a17 year old guy living in South Africa and my dads having an affair. Most nights he sneeks out and when I look out the window I see him going to the womans house ( she lives practically across the street). The thing is this woman is a family friend to my family and my parents work with her plus to top it all off she's a teacher at my school! My dad doesnt know that I know about the affair. What should I do?! This is really tearing of apart and some advice will be greatly appreciated.
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Advice on religion and family.
Posted Friday October 30 2009, 11:39 pm
Hello there! Recently i have gone to a famous chat advice website here where i live and this is how it went (bear with me);
Anna : My parents are hardcore christians and i grew up in this family. We came from ukraine when i was 6 years old and since then i havent changed one bit.
Anna : My mother..she wants me to go to church every sunday
Anna : and does not allow me to get earrings, get my hair done, etc.
Anna : Now the problem i have is
Anna : I had to grow up really early
Anna : I am only 17 now and i feel like im 23 inside and i just want to be myself
Anna : but i dont want to hurt my mother
Anna : and ive tried to talk to her
Anna : about it<...
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motorbike accident
Posted Thursday October 29 2009, 9:55 pm
ok im 16 and a female
on saturday i had a ATV (motorbike) accident i ran straight into a tree and smashed the front end of my parents quad with my neighbour on the back now i feel useless and pathetic i had stitches in my nose and i still have 6 in my leg and i cant walk so im on crutches and i keep getting the impression that their absoloutly pissed about me not being able to help out even though i mostly still do my chores and i think their pised about the quad but they keep saying it doesnt matter that im lucky and they arent mad at all.. are they mad or what im so confused andi dont know what to think...Please help...
-sleepiesheep-
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parent problems
Posted Thursday October 29 2009, 7:53 am
so its gttin near winter now and it get dark quite early and i like to go out wiht my friends but my parents always say i hae to be in at 5 when my friends are aloud out later nut my parents dont like me in the dark an i carnt see why. has anyone got any ideas on how i could convince them to let me saty out later. and by the way im not one of then teenagers who gets drunk an does stupid thigs like that and my parents no that i think
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Dad playing head games?
Posted Thursday October 29 2009, 2:16 am
for about 4 years now my father hasn't exactly been around a lot, My older sister and my father had stopped talking due to my sister and his wife not getting alone and do not see eye to eye on things. They got in an arguement my dad called my sister and saying "Have a nice life" hung up the phone and they haven't talking in a few months now. A little while after this I've exspressed my true feelings towards my dad about how I also don't care for his wife and how I believe she is the reason that he and my sister had stopped talking. I've also exspressed to my dad that I think she is the reason that my dad and I don't have much of a relationship. "He never calls me...maybe if I'm lucky he'll call once a month.." I ...
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what the hell am i supposed to do.
Posted Sunday October 25 2009, 11:17 pm
Icaught my dad cheating on my mom almost three years ago. walked down stairs saw him on a web cam with another women.... we stopped talking all summer, i never told my mom, i could never ever let my parents split and ruin my life, i was 15, now im almost 18. we finally kinda have a relationship, i mean.. i guess we talk. it kills me everyday, we hardly saw hi, and i never do anything with him. i caught him on weird chat sites.... all the time. and tonight, i found it again, on yahoo. i found his user name, a reallyy fuckin weird one for him, i luv9999... what the hel am i supposed to do. ive been depressedover this shit, for the fact my dad is a fake, im the only one that knows, and my mom is my best friend and im hiding this from her. its ...
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emancipation???
Posted Friday October 23 2009, 1:42 pm
i legally want to seperate myself from my parents. they are dead to me. i don't want to get into it, but yes, i AM sure, so please don't bother with that. the problems is that i don't know how to go about it. i live in england, and am 16. what are the legal requirements. all my family and friends live back in the US, and i have been sponsred to move there. by the time im 20 i'll be a US citezen. i don't mind waiting till then, but i want to know any thing and everyhting about it. i really hope you understand that this is my life, ao please take this seriosuly, and tell me everything you know evevn if you aren't 100% sure (just tell me, if that is the case). even tell me your own opinions (about the practicality of it, not whether i should d...
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Mom making me pay for everything
Posted Thursday October 22 2009, 8:19 pm
17/f I recently got a job babysitting this little girl and I watch her twice a week and I get paid $40 a week so it's not bad and by the end of the month so anytime I want something my mom now goes "well you have money" and I'm not trying to sound like a little princess but I don't think that's fair because before I hadthe job she would buy it. I want to save the money for more expensive items. What can I say to her?
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brother
Posted Wednesday October 21 2009, 11:07 pm
im 16/male
my brother is 18
i just wanted to know what is wrong with me. me and my brother get into fights pretty often, but when we dont, we're good friends. When we fight, its pretty much 50% yelling and 50% pushing. He does most of the pushing. He think hes stronger and bigger and better than me, but truthfully, he is not. He is only like an inch taller and maybe 10 pounds heavier. He is super skinny for an 18year-old, and im more on the meduim build side. I know i can tear him up, but for some reason, i dont. I always let him push me around and scream in my face, and i can say its gotten to the point where i seriously want to fight him back. But if we do, we will never stop, only until one of us is dead. So thats ...
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my aunt is being really bitchy lately!
Posted Wednesday October 21 2009, 9:28 pm
I've been trying to call my Granny at my aunt's house becouse she is living with my aunt and my Granny is 92 years old today and I want to wish her a happy birthday but every time I call she either hangs up on me or somebody else answers the phone and tells me that granny is not there when I know it's a lie why would they do this to me I mean I know they are pissed off at me but why won't they let me talk to my own granny I mean my granny isn't going to live much longer and I know that becouse she's 92 years old and I just want to wish her a happy birthay and they won't even let me do that how can I tell my granny happy birthday instead of calling my Aunts house?
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my grandmother adopted me wrongly i want to live with my dad now can i?
Posted Monday October 19 2009, 10:51 pm
Hello. My names Jessica. I was wondering if you could help me or give me information on finding someone who could. I don't really know how to go about finding information out. Okay. Well, When I was about eleven my parents starting having problems. There was never physical abuse. Never really verbal abuse either. They just weren't meant to live together. My grandmother never liked my father. She thought my mother could do better. She convinced everyone that he wasn't a good father. That he did drugs all the time. That he treated us wrong. That he never wanted to try and take care of us. But that just isn't true. No one is perfect. If he's guilty of anything it's being with the wrong woman and having one to many beers accasionaly. But he was...
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I am extremely worried about my mother
Posted Monday October 19 2009, 7:22 pm
My mom is 56 years old. She lives with my family, which consists of myself, my husband, and my two young daughters. My mother is diabetic and significantly overweight by at least 40 pounds, does not eat right, and does not exercise at all. Within the last couple of years, I have noticed that my mother is starting to act elderly. She sits in a rocking chair for hours on end, nods off to sleep whenever she feels like it, and has no motivation to do anything else. She has the physical behavior of an 80 year old and my mother is no where near old enough to be acting this way. I know that part of it is related to her lack of health. But I believe part of it is her emotional state. She does not act happy, content, excited about anything.....
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