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Posted Wednesday June 11 2014, 6:44 am
Hello, I am 20 years old, female and it has come to my attention that I really would like to change my relationship of three years. I want to be more submissive towards him and want him to dominate me in bed and in our day to day lives. Yesterday we had our first conversation about it and I think it went really well.the issue is that neither of us have really done anything like this before and I am not sure how much he understands that I am very serious and have thought about this for a while and it's not just a phase. Does anyone have any advice for novices like myself? What about recommendations for a forum or resources where I could possibly seek a sub mentor or a friend to keep in touch with and get advice from. Thank you all for your time
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I wanna die.
Posted Wednesday June 11 2014, 6:41 am
I am from Nepal a 20 years girl.My bf says me that I am characterless.He fought with me and we broke up.I haven't done anything like characterless.He used vulgur words and bit me hardly.I still love him.I can't live without him.I wanna die Days are very difficult to live.Nights are diffucult to dream..What should I do?I am completely broken.
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Trusting and True Love
Posted Tuesday June 10 2014, 1:36 pm
So I have been with my bf for about 8 months and this is the 2nd time we tried to make this work. The first time, he screwed it up and then left but later came back. This time, we compromised and talked and made a "request list" of what we don't want each other to do. Because we are both super protective, its requests like not checking out members of the opposite sex and not lying, etc. Over the course of our 8 months, he has lied to me a couple times and broken requests. I can't leave the house without seeing a girl and thinking "oh gosh I look awful and he would totally love seeing her" yet he denies breaking the opposite sex requests. I'm over the lying. I want to trust him but I don't know what to do. Over the course...
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how do i pick between my boyfriend and my guy friend
Posted Tuesday June 10 2014, 5:26 am
im 13 and ive been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months and i love him but ive also liked 1 of my guy friends for a while and my boyfriend even said our relationship is getting boring and ive relized that my guy friend likes me to but i dont know who to choose
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i love him but i couldn't say
Posted Monday June 9 2014, 4:32 pm
am a high school senior, i am so
worried that my feeling to this boy i
love is going to show b/c i don't
want any body to know even though
its killing me inside! i know he
loves me b/c he asked me to be his
girl friend way before and we
talk,but not in person its by e-mail
b/c when he sees me he is so shy
even to say "hi" b/c i rejected his
question eventhough i wanted to
say yes so bad, but when i did that i
told him that we could be friends or
even best friends.so i should have
been the one talking to him b/c he
is my classmate and am not
shy ,that was who i should have
been, but i love him too that i also
...
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future
Posted Monday June 9 2014, 1:59 am
I want to spend my future with a boy and settle down and have children later on in life i am 17 years old and want to be with him what's the best way of approaching this
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Why ask to alone for a while... But doesn't want to stop talking?
Posted Sunday June 8 2014, 11:29 pm
I've been with my boyfriend for 3mths 1/2... We instantly fell in love with eachother when we first meet... He wanted to meet my family and He did... Then he surprise by taking me to meet his mom... He has talked about marriage and moving in... Starting on the 2nd month we agreed to wait on being intimate until we got married possibly... So we enjoyed eachother's company he would cook for me, take me on the sweetest dates... But during this he has been struggling because he wasn't making enough to live in his apartment, pay child support.... He lost his job and sold his car wasn't working that great... He would always tell me and remind me that he loves me... But he recently ask to be alone for a while... He texted me "You are a bright...
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Are his feelings changing or am I just thinking too much?
Posted Sunday June 8 2014, 5:02 pm
21/f, 27/m
I have been dating this guy for about two months. He used to say "good morning" and "good night :-*" all the time. And he used to text me at least by 3 PM everyday. Last week, I noticed that things started changing. He stopped saying good morning and good night. He doesn't text me unless I text him first... And his texts are becoming short. When we see each other, he still kisses me, holds my hand, etc.
He recently went on vacation to LA and he texted me that he just got to his hotel and that he wished that I was there. After that, he didn't really say anything after that. He hasn't texted me at all. My friend told me that if it was him, he wouldn't be texting on vacation and I s...
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He gets jealous easily when I'm with or talking to other guys?
Posted Sunday June 8 2014, 6:22 am
So I'm 16 and I might have some feelings for this guy. He's a year older than me and we text a lot but hes hard to read and I don't know if he likes me back. He gets jealous easily when I'm with or talking to other guys. And he always wants to hang out. What do you think? Does he like me?
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Staying the night at his place-how to get mum to agree
Posted Sunday June 8 2014, 6:01 am
18/f
I want to stay the night this weekend at my boyfriends house.
My boyfriend has commented recently that I never go to his place (20 mins by train) but he always makes the effort to come to mine.
We've never stayed over at each others homes before. We've been dating for 7 months.
My mum is pretty strict. Whenever I even suggest that my boyfriend wants me to come to his house just for the day, she'll say "Well I'd prefer it if she came here for the day"
But I can't allow this anymore because it's making my boyfriend upset and his family think I don't like them.
How do I encourage my mum to let me stay over at his house? I mean his parents will be ...
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Posted Saturday June 7 2014, 6:45 pm
Is taking sleeping pills a painless way to die? I am tired of being betrade by my husband ;(
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what i actually want: I need courage that everything will be alright!
Posted Friday June 6 2014, 1:59 pm
Everytime when i want to make one step forward HE comes from somewhere and just with 1 look in his eyes everything comes back, our history our things that will never happen again. He was my first love and i'm afraid if i can forget him cause it takes long time ago when we were WE. I want to forget him and treat him the same way he treated me, maybe then he will understand how much it hurts. I just wanted a little fairytale with happy ending, but now i'm afraid to believe in boys. I need courage that everything will be alright!
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Falling in love again?
Posted Friday June 6 2014, 8:02 am
Hi, I'm 17, female, and a kinda past love of mine is coming to visit soon, I haven't seen him in two years. While he's here I want to get him to fall in love with me? Any tips?
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I don't feel physically attracted to my boyfriend.
Posted Friday June 6 2014, 1:29 am
I don't feel physically attraced to my boyfriend anymore. But I do love him very much. I connect with him on an emotional level. He's like my best friend, I'm really happy to be around him, he generally makes me very happy and I also get butterflies when I see him. I don't want to leave him, because I love him!
I never thought that he was the hottest guy in the world but he does have things that I like. (longish hair, he has a nice face.)
The problem is that he doesn't take care of himself that much. He often has dirty fingernails and I don't like him touching me with them. He also has horribe acne on his back. (which I know isn't his fault but instead of doing something about it, he keeps scratching)So whenever he takes his s...
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How can you know if a person is serious about you?
Posted Thursday June 5 2014, 4:45 pm
How do you know if a person is serious about you ?
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He doesn't buy me presents yet buys presents for his friends...
Posted Thursday June 5 2014, 12:32 pm
Boyfriend 68 and im 65..We are renewing and old relationship from over 30 years ago.
He calls every night for past 8 months and sees me when he can..
He bitches about spending the lowest amount of money when we are out...Yet he gambles alot.
He doesn't buy me presents yet buys presents for his friends..
What is with this man?
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I screwed up and I don't know how to fix it. Please help!
Posted Wednesday June 4 2014, 6:12 pm
18 F
I've been battling depression for about a year now and i think I've been getting better but every once and a while I have a relapse. The other night I had a break down and I started cutting again and it got bad. I've now got a whole load of scars that weren't there before. I have also been dating my boyfriend for two months now but for the past two weeks he has been on vacation and now he gets back in four days and I don't know what I'm going to do. He's only seen the old marks which had faded decently and he thinks I'm better. How am I suppose to explain these marks to him?! He's going to be discusted with me and hate me for how pathetic and weak I am. I don't know what to do and I'll know he'll see them and hate me. I don't wa...
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Should I tell my parents about my boyfriend! Complicated
Posted Tuesday June 3 2014, 6:30 pm
So I am a 19 year old girl from Europe who moved to LA last June.
I met a guy the first week I came here and eventually we started dating. He's 23 from around LA and unfortunately in a gang.
Just so we're clear, I am not one of those girls who looks for danger and would intentionally date a gang member. It just happened.
I just recently told my parents I've been seeing someone for a little over a year and that I'm in love. They don't know anything about him, just his name.
The thing is, I know how they would react if I told them what he does. I know how every parent would react..
He's really a great guy and never put me in danger
So basically I'm just looking for advice on ...
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I dont know what to do !
Posted Tuesday June 3 2014, 12:21 am
Hey , I'm from Poland , and there is this girl who i knew over the internet , but she lives nearby, and she wanted some serious advice.Anyway , i gave her advice and afterwards she wanted help with her homework and i helped her.Every problem she faced , she seeked advice from me , So i thought we were like brother and sister and i said ,why not ? , but after a couple of days , she was like i love you so much.That was so weird and random , i mean we barely know each other. i don't know what to do , she loves me and she wants marriage , but i'm just being nice ,i don't wanna be rude.To be honest , shes doesn't have the looks i want. hhhh , please help me.
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Separation anxiety with my girlfriend?
Posted Monday June 2 2014, 8:26 pm
So I met my girlfriend a while back, but unfortunately we lived in different states so for a long time we were long distance and only saw each other every 4 or 5 months.
Now we are lucky enough to live together and it's a joy! I love it.
But.
Ever since moving in together I've had such a debilitating anxiety whenever she goes out without me or I go out without her.
It's not that I'm scared she'll cheat. I don't have any trust issues regarding that.
But even if she goes to grab lunch with a high school friend & I'm at work and can't join, I get this weird anxiety.
The worst is when she goes out at night.
I honestly get sick to my stomach and have to take an anti anxiety pill and for...
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