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Trying so hard but still can't satisfy people
Posted Sunday August 30 2009, 4:28 pm
I'll make it as brief & clear as possible.
I am 19 and female. I live at home with my parents. My boyfriend and I are getting an apartment in a month or two (thank the Lord). But in my house, my parents always put me down and yell at me. I have clinical depression, and high anxiety. I am on lots of medication. I can't seek help b/c I am broke (just started working) and my parents think it's all in my head. My mom is an alcoholic so when she is drunk she likes to hit me, and yell at me. My dad doesn't drink [he's diabetic], but he yells at me and threatens me. Sometimes I have to go all day stuck in my room without food because my parents won't let me out.
I just started work at this bank. Well my manager h...
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Weird Child
Posted Friday August 28 2009, 8:09 pm
I've been friends (frenemies) with this guy ever since freshman year. Everyone knows him as genius-but-gets-bad-grades-due-to-laziness-arrogant-but-nice-at-times guy. He tends to use hurtful sarcasm towards all my friends, but I seem to get the worst end of it. He sometimes hurts me verbally, ignores me, and tries to humiliate me. The guy always calls me "stupid" and thinks I'm the idiot (even if I do get better grades than him, but I have to admit- if he tried he could have been the valedictorian right now). I do assert myself and call him out on it, but he always continues. No one takes his dry sarcasm seriously, but his seems to hurt me a lot, and whenever I tell my friends, they tell me to ignore it (in fact, people find his h...
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OKAY should i just GIVE UP?!
Posted Friday August 28 2009, 6:25 pm
Hi 14 f
Okay, me and my friend Joey are close. We dated before, and i felt t that we were a good couple. We broke up though, well i found out from his friend chris(tht also is my friend) that he likes me. He told me he can so tell and and everyone else can. My friend shaila told me JOEY told her tht he like me to, but he said not to tell. Well, it seems like he really really likes me, he stares at me talks to me makes me laugh, sits by me every time he gets the chance, today even he joined himself in our reading group haha. he sat right next to me and he was playing with a wire behind me, that rubbed up against me. hahah it tickled. My friend called him and asked him out and he said no. i dont know what is up. Maybe i will h...
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guys teasing me part 2
Posted Friday August 28 2009, 8:19 am
hey this is the same girl with the lifeguarding question:
i just wanted to add, on his last day working i said something like, "this is my last day working with you and then i don't see you for a year!" and then he answered, "thank god!"
also, the last time i saw him he told me not to be the "village bicycle" and then he walked away! it just seems so insensitive/an assholeish thing to do to me if he liked me! wouldn't he have been just a little bit affectionate since he wouldn't see me for awhile? especially since i gave him a hug i would expect him to hug back...sorry it's just difficult to fathom it all.
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college relationship...
Posted Thursday August 27 2009, 6:41 pm
17/f
I'm in a bitt of a tough situation...I met this guy and he's absolutely the greatest sweetest person I've ever met.. We started out just talking and soon it became more than just talking.. But my problem is he's leaving to college in two weeks =(..I mean the college is only a train stop away but he's dorming there ..I guess my question is ...what are the chances this relationship is going to work out? I mean isn't he going to be too busy to be in a relationship? And college means parties and new girls =/...I have talked about this to him and he tells me not to worry but its hard..I really like this guy and I'd hate if this didn't work out...help?!
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Friends hang out with bullys?
Posted Thursday August 27 2009, 6:23 am
well my friends are kinda weird.
i was bullied for 5 years and these 2 guys, which we will call, JA and AL.
well both of them are still mean.
but all my frineds still hang out with them and so im left to sit on my own.
everyday.
any suggestions will be acepted
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drawer being short
Posted Tuesday August 25 2009, 6:11 pm
My cash drawer at work keeps being count short or over..and I'm on my final written...I don't know what to do. I count the money customers give me 4 times..twice when being handed to me and twice before putting it in..how can I stop my drawer from being short or over??
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Am I really that blind??????
Posted Friday August 21 2009, 8:16 pm
Ma always asks me about my day at school, and I always tell her. Sometimes my brother overhears, and lately he has been. And after hearing about this boy I sit by in a couple of classes, he's said "That means he likes you."
I mean... I don't know... he steals my pencil sometimes, tries to mark me with a pen, throws small objects such as erasers at me then when I look at him he grins great big, and we both end up laughing when he keeps doing it. He always tries to make me laugh.
How is that all such a sign of being liked? O.o
My brother said it all is...
Am I really THAT dense????
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In love with a best friend who's supposedly in love with me too...
Posted Friday August 21 2009, 4:44 pm
I'm reallllly crushing on my best friend who I became friends with in the first place because I knew he liked me. We're total nerds and we have soooo much in common. this past summer, we were emailing each other and stuff which I thought brought our relationship a little higher, you know? Sooo here comes the new school year, and he's not nearly as outgoing as last year. we've walked together a couple times from class to class and even got lost together. we got lost on purpose, but it wasn't planned on. he just kinda walked right past the right door and I followed cuz I knew what he was trying to do... we had a mild conversation in the hallways while we were lost, he kept stuttering and keeping his distance. lately I've been trying to decode...
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11th Grade
Posted Wednesday August 19 2009, 10:29 pm
16/F
What are some little ways or things you can do to be more outgoing and befriend people easilier? I'm starting the 11th grade tomorrow and I want this year to be different. I don't want to be shy anymore. My best friend makes friends so easily...
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I'm in love with him, but she blew it for me.
Posted Wednesday August 19 2009, 8:00 pm
I'm 15 and a female. So there's this guy that I have been head-over-heels for since last year. He was like my best friend, we spent alot of time together and stuff. He actually liked me back, until marching band season came to a stop and I got no contact with him for about 8 months(I was in 8th grade, he was a sophomore). The first 3 I saw him maybe 3 times, and he was the same old lovable guy I'd once known. I found out he got a girlfriend(who is gothic and "used" to be a lesbian) and ever since then he's not been the same. They broke up over a mishap a while ago, but he's completely changed. He knows I still like him, and I have a feeling he likes me still. The only problem is, I see him every single day at school(since I moved ...
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Tired of playing nice.
Posted Wednesday August 19 2009, 6:39 pm
16/F
I'm tired of being the nice girl that everyone steps on; I want to change. But how do you just stop caring what everyone else thinks?
I go out of my way trying to please everyone and if someone doesn't like me it's all I think about, and i'll do just about anything to try to get into their good graces. I just hate when people don't like me.
How do you just not care what people think? How do you get over the petty girls in high school who hate you for non-existent reasons and just live your life and be who you are, regardless of who hates you for it?
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same town different school
Posted Tuesday August 18 2009, 1:02 pm
I live in massachusetts and I have such bad problems at my highschool thhat I just cannot go back (dnt tell me to suck it up lol) and I want to go to another school in a different town. I called the next town overs highschool and they won't let me='( ..are they jus saying tat? Ks there ANY way I can get into that school without living in that town?!?!
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A Coach with no Respect
Posted Sunday August 16 2009, 4:52 pm
I'm on the volleyball team at my high school and this will be my senior year. The coach (let's call him "Coach A") has been the head coach for only a year, this year being his second. The coach before him was awesome and respectful to every girl on the team and never once did I feel like I wanted to stop playing the sport i loved. Now 'Coach A' constantly reminds us that he doesn't care about our feelings or opinions. I know that the coach is the leader but shouldn't he atleast value the opinions of his players? He treats the seniors, juniors and sophmores like we are nothing but robots to win games and build his image with the coaches at the other schools. This is "his" team not "our" team so he thinks. I've b...
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he just dosen't seem to get the message
Posted Sunday August 16 2009, 10:28 am
im a 13 yr old female and resently a 16 yr old male added me on msn we got talking and i found out he use to go to my school but finished this year. he keeps sending me texts saying i love you but hasn't actually asked me out yet i told a friend about this an she said to just tell him you are not intrested so i did but i dont think he got the message wot shall i do please help me on wot to say thanks :)
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Volunteering at an assisted living
Posted Saturday August 15 2009, 5:14 pm
So I'm starting to volunteer at an assisted living next Saturday. I don't really know what all I'm supposed to do when I go. I know the main thing is just to be friendly and talk to them, play a card game with them, checkers, chess, bingo, etc., but what all could I talk about with them?
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Posted Saturday August 15 2009, 6:06 am
My friends drawer was short 500 dollars at work after getting it count... should she be worried about loosing her job? She just got hired completed her 30 days last week & this is her first mistake..help?
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girl waiting for me
Posted Saturday August 15 2009, 4:52 am
13/m sorry its so long
ok so im bad at....being a boyfriend i suppose would be the best way to put it.
so my girlfriend ill call S dumped me after a week of us going out about a month or so ago saying that i was too much of a fridget, didnt hold her hand enough and didnt tell her how much she meant to me(making her feel special like whispering in her ear she was beautiful and stuff)
ok before me and S were going out one of my other friends who is a girl as well told this girl, we'll call Tammy, that i like her but i never said that. so after me and S broke up tammy started talking to me a bit more and told me abuot how the girl told her that i said i liked her before me and S were going out and i said what?? i never s...
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How to get the right attention from guys...my friends are stupid!!!
Posted Friday August 14 2009, 11:03 pm
I know that looking good in public is important and that guys like good looking girls but my friends are getting on my nerves about it! They are so obsessed with having the "perfect" figure and make-up so that these "hot" boys will show interest in them. One of my friends finally told me that the rest of the group is upset with me because my boyfriend is "hot" and I didn't even have to "try" to get him. I did "try" though...I approached him at lunch after our science class and said, "Hey, I think you're neat. Would you happen to be free this weekend?" That was it! They're upset I didn't go to extremes like they did, I guess.
Yeah, I do my make-up and I dress ni...
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my school rights
Posted Friday August 14 2009, 8:50 pm
My highschool has done a lot wrong for me. I left school because my insomnia is terrible causing me to leave school. I had documents stating I needed to be home schooled. For months my school ignored me and my mom about a tutor. We finally got one but then the school failed to give me ANY WORK! My tutor had to make up lesson plans for me. Then the school ignored that work! But yet they have the time to send me a letter to attend summer school. I got my tutor and had to pay her out of my own pocket! I took the MCAS with her and did pretty good since it was in biology and I hadn't had any kind of biology in 8 months due to my school. They keep ignoring me and I'm sick and tired of it. They're just going to keep me back a year but that's not f...
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