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Does he like me?
Posted Wednesday June 18 2014, 5:16 pm
So I really like this guy and I've liked him before in 6th grade which he found out about and then when i got over him, we were like friends. But then drifted and now i like him AGAIN and I'm now in 9th grade. and he found out somehow in april and confronted my best friend about it too.. so yeah.. he basically acted like nothing happened until the end of april, he told one of my best friends "I will never ever date (My Name) ever"... and like after that i tried to get over him and he didn't even talk to me.. and 2 days after he decided to say hi to me and act like he didn't do shit. then literally after he said that and i found out, he's been staring at me often... like whenever i'm around him, he would look and stare at me, even ...
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I don't want to like him.
Posted Wednesday June 18 2014, 11:54 am
20,f
A few days ago I realized I like a guy from college. Who happens to be one of my best friends. Today we had an awkward situation where I nearly toppled over him. I was extremely embarrased and I realized I am like that because I like him. I don't get embarrased easily unless it's a crush. The thing is,I had a bad break up recently and I don't want a rejection to make it any worse. Any ideas to get my mind off of him? I wanna stay his friend,I just don't wanna like him anymore.
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He talks about other girls to me.
Posted Tuesday June 17 2014, 8:02 pm
Hello, I am female and 19. I've been talking to this guy I met at college. We started texting on move out day and we haven't really stopped since. He has no problem wearing his heart on his sleeve whereas I'm very introverted and have a hard time with "feelings." We argue a lot and that sucks a lot because we both get kind of pissed off pretty easy but I think that factors into us knowing each other so well that it just kinda happens.
Anyway, I have a lot of guy friends and I talk to him about them quite a bit but they are all only friends and I can promise that's all they ever will be. Well, he gets jealous of me talking about them because he thinks I'm going to hang out with them so much and forget about him. I talked to ...
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bf plays games all the time and does not give me enough time
Posted Monday June 16 2014, 6:30 pm
So i have been dating this guy for about 4 months and for the past month we r doing long distance since he is bck in his home country, though we ll be meeting in 2-3 weeks. skyping before with him was fun .. we talked alot.. we even had some dirty fun n our rela was going awesome even though we played his games as well .. i enjoyed it ... but now it feels weird .. we hardly talk .. he hangs up when he i playing cause his game gets oo intense that he needs to concentrate .. he becomes unresponsive .. our convos r boring ... n he doesnt want to have dirty fun on skype anyone .. recently i asked him if he still into me .. he sai d he is .. but since we r soo far away n he is bored .. he plays his games all the time ... should i be worried .. c...
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need help moving on
Posted Monday June 16 2014, 5:37 pm
i use to date this guy named alex a month ago. he's a freshman in college and im a senior in high school.i can say that I was really in love with him enough to lose my virginity to him and he's one those guys that doesn't show his feelings and he hasn't been in many real relationships and I know what we had was real. we broke up because he never made time for me when he came into town for the weekend and we never really had the typical relationship regular people had. all we did was txt and occasionally oovoo. I wanted him to do the simplest things to show he cared and he never did. I cant really explain all the wrong things because no one gets it but me. and I just really got fed up with it all and ended it. and right after I started talk...
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Risking It All For Love
Posted Monday June 16 2014, 4:51 pm
Hello,
I am thinking about making some major decisions in my life, and I need to know if it's all worth it. (First, a little background) Last year, I met the love of my life. Before I met this guy, I was completely broken. I struggled with ADD, and depression, for most of my life, but I wasn't aware of it until recently, which had made me even more depressed at the time. I was heavily medicated on anti-depressants, and taking Aderrall, and was basically floating through life. I flunked out of school, and my college G.P.A dropped from a 3.7 to a 1.9. I was completely mortified, and just stopped attending school all together.
After I met him, he mad me stronger. Don't get me wrong, I have strength, in my own sen...
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urgent
Posted Sunday June 15 2014, 9:17 pm
Hi,
i am a female and 25 years old. I liked the answer u gave that girl. I am over thinking and i am scared about myself that am i becoming a girl attracted girl? I am so frustrated from one month and can't not concentrate in anything. I have a bf and we are engaged. But i want to get rid of the thinking. I always think will i be like them? I belong to Hinduism religion. I love my bf so much. but i just don't want to think about these topic anymore.
Please please help me as early as possible cause i have final soon.
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Im pregnant and got cheated on before my pregnancy and during.
Posted Sunday June 15 2014, 10:02 am
I have been in a very wonderful relationship for about a year and a half that started on Jan 2013. In august, my partner met someone and became something with her. Only a few times. Took her to his house to have sex a couple of times also. We communicated well, texted always, but i guess he did this while he told me he took naps at home or went to the gym. I was not aware, neither was the other girl. December we decided to have a child. January 2014 i found out i was pregnant. Best news ever and we were both happy, he was always showing love for me, very supportive and was saving money for a home and baby things. But he still had someone else. I graduated highschool during my pregnancy and the next day (June 8th 2014) this girl confronted m...
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How to break up after being cheated on. It is far more complicated than usual.
Posted Sunday June 15 2014, 1:19 am
I've been in a relationship with a girl from overseas for almost two years. I'm a 26 y/o guy, and she's 24. She came with me here about a year and a half ago. I treat her well, romance her, buy her roses, bake her cakes, take her out when I have time, tell her that she's beautiful, help her look for work, and a lot with English.
Last year she started acting funny and talking about a guy, and I found out she cheated on me by looking at her phone, and reading her emails (Not saying this was right, just that I did it). I confronted her, but I never really felt she thought what she did was wrong. I promised not to look at her stuff again.
For the half year since then she's been using her phone a ton, and hiding it from me....
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Should I give up?
Posted Saturday June 14 2014, 3:50 pm
The guy I'm talking to and I have been quite rocky the past few months. Now I'm not entirely sure whether or not I should continue to hold on...
A few weeks ago, he mentioned to me that he was going to another state for a "job". Now, let me just mention this other state is quite far away from where I live and the idea of a long distance relationship isn't quite pleasing.
The thing is, he's 24, and he doesn't quite have his life figured out, I mean who does at that age but, he doesn't know what he wants to do, in all honesty. He could have already been established or in school to become something more than what he is today, but he did not take those opportunities at the time. Now, he realizes the importance an...
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Is he playing mind games? Or just not interested..
Posted Friday June 13 2014, 10:37 pm
So i met this guy a few months back. (Im 19 and hes 21) To be specific we met mid April, we have been talking non stop every single day since then. Hes my best friends cousin so she was always trying to build things up between us when we met. Thing is, I got out of a relationship 3 months before I met him, so when we met it was really difficult for me to believe in anyone or anything for a while, I was devastated and it was a terrible time for me. When I met him, he really liked me.. he asked my friend for my number and asked to see me all the time, he was such a gentleman and was such a sweetheart. At first, he told me he liked me and I told him that i thought it was too early to talk about it because what comes easily breaks easily and he...
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i cant differentiate between dream and reality
Posted Friday June 13 2014, 9:06 pm
I am 23 yrs old gal. I was in a relationship for past 3 yrs. He ws my lifeline but last year I came to know he ws cheating with me. It destroyed me.I tried to move on. During dos months I started having horrible dreams. Most nights I see m in some battle field fighting. Ders blood everywhere. I scream but wen I woke up derz nthing. I really feel all dis happening to me in real. Unknown people's faces der screams, blood in my hands. I couldnt sleep for months bcz I fear des dreams will haunt me again. After some months my friend proposed me.He lives out of station so basically it would be a long distance relationship so I said yes. At first it was like a diversion from my nightmares. I finally slept peacefully at night.For me it ws more of ...
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He is called left message but hasn't called me back? Feeling unsure
Posted Friday June 13 2014, 8:40 pm
Thank you very much for your advice.... I got a missed call from him... He left me a voicemail.... "Hey what's up, it's me, just umm giving you a call, I don't know if you are at work or what's up.... Umm you can call me back... Just saying hey I just been umm doing my thing... Everything is pretty normal... But you know trying to get my stuff in order... So just wanted to call and say hey... And I got your messages and all that... I hope you are doing well... So... Have a good day... If anything call me let me know what's up... So I'll talk to you then... Bye" I honestly don't know what's going thru his mind about us? I did call back he didn't answer left messages... I
Was work on break called and when I got home to let h...
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What is wrong with me? I just don't know.
Posted Friday June 13 2014, 12:49 am
20,f
I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday. We had been fighting a lot in the past month and he hasn't been the same since. Then yesterday he said he loves me,but he doesn't know what he wants and he can't be with me right now. We were together for 3 years. I am studying medicine and I am extremely busy,yet I still made a lot of time for him. I gave all my love,support,I always listened to him and offered my help,I was 100% loyal and devoted. He is younger than me and will get to college this year. I know the amount of pressure he's under. I had it a lot worse in my senior year in high school but I never let him suffer because of that. So I end up giving it all and I get this. And it's always been like this for me. I am no doll when...
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Need help translating notes
Posted Thursday June 12 2014, 2:17 pm
So my boyfriend recently came back from vacation and he brought me back a few notes he wrote for me while he was gone. Unfortunately he thought it would be funny to write them in different languages to bug me. I need help translating them.
This first one is in Mandarin I believe is what he said:
(Remember these are rough translations and he or myself may have spelt them wrong. Try if you can even rough estimates are appreciated)
"Ni Dui Wo Lai Shuo Hen Te Bie"
The second one is in Mayan (sorry about the middle part, I can't really read that hand righting part)
"In má kàj óol tin puks kal (or it's "puksi'i kal"), kux, in lakesh hala ken"
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should i walk away or..
Posted Thursday June 12 2014, 11:56 am
How do you know wether to walk away from your relationship or to keep trying?? I spent a year and 4 months with him but I don't know what I want or what to do..
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About my crush.
Posted Thursday June 12 2014, 5:39 am
Okay, so here it is. I have a crush on this guy since I graduated from highschool and I'm in college now, so that's like, two years. The crazy thing is he does not have any idea I have a crush on him. We haven't even exchanged few words from each other. I mean, how did I even have a crush on him? Anyway, I still stalk him on Facebook. I know, I'm such a creep. I want to somehow let him know, you know, about how I feel. I am planning of sending him a message on Facebook. But, I don't know. Should I send him or should I not? I really need an advice. Please.
I am 18 and I'm female.
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Getting serious with a foreigner
Posted Thursday June 12 2014, 3:10 am
I am 21 years old (female). Me and my 23 year old boyfriend have been dating for 3
years now. We are very close, and spend a lot of time together. Since 2 months in, we both knew that this is it, we are meant to be together and one day we'll get married :)
We are both still students.
My boyfriend is a foreign national, and is here in my country on a study permit.
He's planned to immigrate here for many years, but applications for citizenship require work or permanent residence permits, that he can only acquire through getting a job. He has been looking out at carreer fairs for when he graduates and he is usually unsuccessfull in finding a company that employs foreign national graduates. The few opportun...
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Breaking up because he's moving away
Posted Wednesday June 11 2014, 7:08 pm
Several months ago I started seeing this really amazing guy. We are both in college; he is graduating in a few days and moving away for work. His job is 6 hours away (driving), but less than an hour by plane and tickets are very cheap.
He doesn't believe that a long distance relationship will work, and wants to become "just friends" when he moves. His job relocates every 2 years or so and he may eventually return to my city, but I'm scared that he will lose interest in me (as a friend and otherwise) in that time.
What should I do?
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i wanna figure everything out I don't know where to start.
Posted Wednesday June 11 2014, 11:30 am
So I'm a girl, and I'm starting to wonder if I'm bi. You see, I notice cute guys on TV, and cute girls on TV and like looking at guys abs amd girls in bikinis. I could imagine myself being with a girl amd boy the thought of kissing a hot member of each sex seems fun. I've never actually dated someone and at the time I'm crushing on a guy. I'm guessing my mom notices my confusion because she is trying to wiggle it out of me. She says she wouldn't mind she just wants to know and not get supprised if I marry a girl. But I don't know how to figure it all out. Also, being bi seems fun u can date anyone u want.
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