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Previously abusive ex wants me to babysit
Posted Friday May 18 2012, 10:14 pm
I just moved back in with my ex who has been physically abusive in the past. I've returned because the situations I fled to turned out to be worse. He has custody of his kids later this summer and expects me to be default babysitter. However, he is not committed to me long term and is saying he's leaving town next year, so I'm not sure why I should invest the time. The kids have behavior problems and their mom insulted me last summer when I made a genuine effort to be good to her kids. If I don't do it, he is threatening to hire a babysitter, and chances are whatever girl he finds to watch his kids will take my place in other ways as well. He also accuses me of not liking his kids. It's really the lack of appreciation from the parent...
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Being a bit pushy.
Posted Friday May 4 2012, 3:31 pm
I have a boyfriend, and we've been going out for 3 months. We started really nice and everything was lovely. Recently he's been under pressure due to stuff going on at home, even though he won't talk to me about it much. We were at his house and he got really upset. I tried to hug him but he pushed me down onto the floor, it didnt hurt much but it was a shock. Numerous occasions after this he's hit me or shoved me when he's got annoyed. I know he's stressed, but he doesnt apologise. He just pretends it never happens. Im beinning to bruise and im scared. What should I do? (17, girl.)
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In a relationship with a pastor for almost 8 yrs. Most of his church members think he is still with his wife
Posted Friday May 4 2012, 2:46 am
i am in a relationship with a pastor for almost 8 yrs. Most of his church members think he is still with his wife , he is not divorce her yet but he is living with me. Now sudenly his wife is working night shift as home health aid, he has to go sleep with his son every night and left me alone. what should i do now?.I am so depress and i feel likekilling myself
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Do I need to tell on him after he tried to pressure me into sex?
Posted Sunday April 29 2012, 5:38 am
I'm a 16 year old female who was sexually abused two weeks ago, and knows about the pain and awful trauma that follows. My abuser is in jail, and I feel good knowing he won't do it again. Last night, a 19 year old guy kept on asking me to have sex with him, and he was very inappropriate and not giving up, even after I told him I was a virgin. He later apologized when I told him I was calling the police, cuz he was really scared. I feel if I don't tell on him, he might actually hurt other girls, and I don't want to take responsibility for that. But he didn't actually do anything. Should I tell on him? I don't want to ruin his life...
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how does one escape abuse
Posted Friday April 27 2012, 11:34 pm
if a person is living in an abusive home then they are the victims of sometimes name calling cruelty hitting cheap remarks insults why stay when there is a whole new path of life out there were you are freed from abuse men and women whom don't abuse or use people to their advantages if you are being abused or now of someone whom is there are shelters crisis centers doctors nurses clinics whom can help you
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sexualy abused by brother in law
Posted Saturday April 21 2012, 12:45 pm
Well I was sexualy abused I asked a question about this before I took the advise told my teacher and my family knows well I needa talk to someone have a hug and just talk I like it when I do with my teacher I feel conftable I don't want to with my family or friends tho I feel as if no1 cares my teacher used to talk to me nd she asked me 2 chat to her sometime but never spoke to me again well not about this anyway and I feel so safe when she hugs and talks to me how can I just get her to talk to me again ?
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how can i show my wife i made the changes she always wanted
Posted Sunday April 15 2012, 9:47 pm
for 7 years me 7 my wife have each done things to hurt each other.. we met in colorado & she was married @ the time. she left me & i would come home from work to note on the table talking about her confusion. this went on for about 2 weeks before i came back to north carolina, so i get back home & she has called my family members looking for me. so my grandma found me & said i should go back & i did.. it wansnt $ days after getting back she left again.. i stayed & waited for her to come back.. she has kids which are not mine.. so we moved on past that & it has been rocky, we have had good times but alot of bad times. i was very verbally abusive to her & just did whatever i wanted to do with no regard of how s...
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I want to kill myself..I get picked on & my family hates me
Posted Saturday April 14 2012, 11:29 pm
I want to kill myself...I've been getting bullied since middle school & my family hates me?
I really want to kill myself. I'm always depressed because I get picked on at school & my family members treat me like I'm a piece of crap. they think I'm a weirdo because I'm quiet & they tell me I don't have any friends, but if I told them I was getting picked on in school they probally wouldn't care or believe me. My family always fusses at me & talks about me like I'm worthless, they don't understand me & I don't want to talk to them because they never will understand.They say a lot of things to hurt my feelings & then I go to school & get picked on by kids because of the way I look. I have been being pi...
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Is this considered rape?
Posted Tuesday April 10 2012, 5:16 pm
Is tape only intercourse? I told my boyfriend I didn't want to give him a blowjob. But he stuck his dick in my face and demanded. I resisted so he just hacked off in my face until he came. Is this considered rape? 15/f
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Video Tape Exploition
Posted Saturday April 7 2012, 6:57 pm
I am in desperate need of advice. Couple years ago, a guy got me drunk a few times before we had sex. We had a thing for a little while but the times I drank around him were few. I think he has a video of us or me naked. He admitted to it several times and denied it several times. He described the time it happened. The reason I approached the idea to him was because I remember a camcorder right next to the bed a specific night we messed around but I was drunk out of my mind and don't recall several hours of that night but I remember waking up half sober/half drunk and seeing it right there and he told me he didn't record anything but there were a tone in his voice when he said that insinuating he did. He denied it everytime I asked until re...
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Death
Posted Wednesday April 4 2012, 2:07 am
I know many people think this is a stupid question, but how can I kill myself with no pain at all? I've been through so much from abuse, rape and so on..I just feel like its time leave this world.
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Abusive Boyfriends
Posted Friday March 30 2012, 2:09 pm
I have been with my bf for 3 years. When I met him he was very depressed & not mentally all there so i guided him through the hard times he had & he turned out amazing. Now its been 3 years and a couple of months ago he started to slap & rip my hair when he gets mad! I said I am not going to accept this & left then helped him seek help about his problem. When I began to see improvements in his behaviour I stupidly forgave him & come running back. Now he close fist hits me & I have had enough. Each time I try to walk out the door he gets more mental coz he knos I am the one who helps him. But I dont understand why I have to get a fist to the face when I havent done anything wrong. Should I stay & help him through ...
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its about the man i love whos clased as mental who beats n strangels me
Posted Friday March 30 2012, 10:24 am
What do I do if my feionce whom I love so so much beats and strangels me :(
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my cousin and my brother have tried to have sex with me! what do i do? im really worked up about this.
Posted Saturday March 17 2012, 9:18 pm
Please,no abuse please this is really serious.
When I was about 10, my cousin james was very "horny" if you like, and he'd always try to get me to have ''sex'' with him. I didn't want to at all, but I was too scared not too. He didn't really have sex with me, he just touched me in the wrong places.
Then, when I was 12. My brother and I were really close, so we'd sometimes sleep on the same sofa and stuff (no sexual activity at first) but then one night, I fell asleep with my mouth open and he started ''kissing'' me. I just let him. I got him off me and ran upstairs. Then, I was sitting with trousers on and my legs slightly apart and he started ''feeling me up''. I also just let him, and ran upstairs a...
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mothers a drunk fathers abusive
Posted Sunday March 4 2012, 7:25 pm
18/f
this has happened my whole life. my father sells coke and smokes crack, he doesn't have a job. my mother makes over 100,000 a year. she's also an alcoholic. my father beats my mother and verbally abuses me and my brother whose 16. every time i hear the things he says to her i start crying. the thing is shes okay with living like this. she enjoys living in her "fantasy drunk world." every time ive had my father arrested she just bails him out, its pointless. my mother has never been around for me since i was in 4th grade. the animal of my father raised me. everytime my father enters the house its just a horrible horrible vibe. my brother and i HATE HIM SO MUCH. weve told my mother how hes abused her and us so many times...
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is this bad? is this being molested?
Posted Saturday March 3 2012, 9:38 pm
13 f
i go to a cstholic school i live a great life my dads a dentist my mom doesnt work and i have a lil sister hoo is 10. i was wondering if it is normal for my dad to spank my butt alot and squeeze it and go "oooo look at them buns" in a wierd voice he just spanks my butt and squeezes it alot he is catholic and a dentist but is this molest??? help!!
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how can i get my husband off my back
Posted Wednesday February 29 2012, 10:59 pm
my husband works and i stay at home. he says there is no reason why the house should not be clean and laundry be done etc... he refuses to help in any way says he pays all the bills and
i am responsible for everything else. if its not done, i really get yelled at and im about to have a nervous breakdown
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my brother-in law is molesting me
Posted Monday February 27 2012, 1:18 pm
Well I'm 11 and when I was 10 my brother-in-law lifted up my skirt and ever since he was asking me for naked pictures and he's tried kissing me and touching me he sent me sexual messages so I told my mom about them and I deleted the messages so I didn't have proof for the police I told my sister about him lifting up my skirt but she didn't believe me please help me I don't know what to do! Oh yes and he has a child and he's 32
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my bf says he will kill himself if I leave him
Posted Monday February 27 2012, 3:33 am
me 16 bf 18
everytime my boyfriend lets me down or makes me sad he says that he is not worthy of being with me..he also says that since he cannot stop loving me the only way out is killing himself..he never wants to cause my depression or make me cry but he does..I really love him and sometimes I get extremely scared because I really don't know what he is capable of doing..I am afraid that if I don't feel the same way in the future I will be forced to stay with him because of this..what should I do? :(
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Working with your rapist
Posted Saturday February 25 2012, 1:39 am
I was raped by an ex that I still work with. Is there a way to tell someone so we can be separated but not be drug through a nasty confrontation with any of the people over me? I can't work with how it is now. I just want to be away from him, not have to tell everybody what happend.
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