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E-mail: cougarkid012@netscape.net
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Occupation: Student
Age: 15
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Member Since: August 14, 2004
Answers: 2
Last Update: August 30, 2004
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my "best" friend is always ditching me and almost all of her other friends, even her bf. and me and our other friend are the only ones that say something about it but she wont listen to us and were outta ideas. any suggestions?
**were both 14, freshman** (link)
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She dosent sound like much of a friend to me.If you still want to be her friend try talking to her once more and ask her why she is ditching you guys. You know ask her if something is up or if something is wrong. If she still wont listen then I say ditch her as a friend.If you want to be gentle about it you could warn her if she doesnt listen and dosent talk to you about it then you will ditch her.
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I have a friend who ALWAYS brags. She is like...uggh. well mostly she brags about school and stuff, and it makes me feel like I'm 2nd best compared to her. How do I get her to STOP bragging?
and the problem is, if I stop being her friend (she is one of my only friends) so it's hard cuz I don't have many friends.
plz help...thnx (link)
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It may be hard, but the next time your friend brags honestly tell her how you feel. If you are worried she'll get mad then try to add a compliment into what you say. You don't want to make it seem like you think she is a bad person. For example you can tell her that she is good at many different things but she tends to brag a lot and it makes you feel like you're 2nd best. Maybe the reason she brags is because she feels 2nd best compared to you. The only way you'll ever know is to talk to her about it.
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