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Member Since: May 5, 2005
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Last Update: July 17, 2005
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i met this guy on a blind date and we became friends and like we even liked each other at the start but then i went to europe for a month and when i came back he was dating my one friend... they recently (2 months ago) broke up and ever since then hes been hanging out with my friends again and like i have been talking to him and the feelings i had a year ago are starting to come back...should i tell him or let him go?? (link)
I think mayb you should tell him... if your starting to like him again... mayby you should go for it.. its not like hes not single...well hope this helped... if not ... you know where to find me


I saw that you play guitar....are you in a band? haha yeah I'm really random...but i was just wondering

-Johanna (twistedsister17) (link)
Yes i do play the guitar.. i have been playing for almost 3 years now.. and no im not in a band.. but i do play with my friends.. but we wouldnt really call our selves a "band"


well where do i begin? i really like this guy. he is one of my friends and we do talk and hang out. he doesnt know how i feel and he has a girlfriend. i convinced myself that i would tell him how i feel but i just found out that hes moving. should i still let him know how i feel or just let it go? please help its driving me crazy! (link)
Hey... i think you should still go ahead and tell him how u feel... you guys can still keep in touch....who knows he might even come back to visit you more offten then he would have if you didnt tell him...so i personally think you should tell him...


i feel like i am depressed. every time someone tries to make me laugh or even smile, i can't b/c i have so much angry and stress built up inside of me. i have no one to talk to about everything, b/c no one would understand what i am going through. i tend to keep things bottled up inside me and i don't want to bother anyone with my problems... but people always want to help. should i talk to people or just keep everything to myself? (link)
hey... i have a couple of friends that have the same problem as you do.. but they tend to feel better once they can find someone to talk to .. if you can find someone that will talk to u.. (that u can trust)....take them up on their offer...if you cant find n e one to talk to ... u can talk to me.. i hope i helped....ttyl


i like this guy. and we used to date before. but i am stupid and i kissed another guy and he got mad. this was like 2 years ago. but i really like him now. and i think he has feelings for me? but im not sure. but what do i do? should i go for him again? he is possibly the nicest guy ever. thank you. (link)
Well everyone makes mistakes... yea i think you should go for him again if you like him... and you would just have to gain his trust back.. if you already havent but yea i would go back for him.. if he dont then you will just have to deal with being friends.... but somestimes people just need second chances hope i helped... and good luck.. keep me posted on how things go...


Im 17 and my boyfriend is 19, we have been dating for 11 months now. For the most part our relationship is great, but the fact that his ex girl lives in the house with him and his family eats at me everyday, i suspect he still has feelings for her and he has told me that she asks him if they could be frends with benifits and he "said no" but i honestly dont belive him for a second. She is tall, blonde, and beautiful. She claims to be a lesbian but has recently had a boyfrend. How can i find out the truth on wether or not they are fooling around with each other? (link)
Well that might be a little hard.. but have you tried sitting them both down and talking to them?... and you just look at him and tell him that you want the truth right then and there.. and if you have to tell him its either you or this other chick.... and see what he says... cuz when it comes to a relastionship... trust is a big part.. and it seems like yours dont have a lot right now... well hoped i helped... if not... you can IM me on AIM if you want.... keep me posed with how things go...


Welp ....here it is...I am kinda losing the person that I have really started to fall for and it is basically my fault and he doesn't believe anyone when they say that I do like him... and someone whores are trying to make my life a living hell and I want everything to be the way it used to... I just want someoneto call my own that I wont throw away...and I thought it was gonna be like that with this one then I threw it all away... once again.... PLEASE HELP!!!! haha.... P.S. I HATE WHORES!!!!! (link)
Hey... well yea one thing is i hate whores too... but my best bet would be to right to sit down with him and let him know your exact fellings... and if he just wants you be friends.. you would have to accept that..i mean itz better then nothing... or mayb he dont wanna hear that you like him from your friends he wants to hear it from you ... well hope i helped.... IM me on AIM if you need more advice... you can find it on my xanga... xXxHaHaxXx07


In March, I lost my virginity to who I found out was just a complete asshole and just wanted to use me. I haven't had a visit from my "feminine enemy" since February. I think I might be pregnant and I don't know what to do!! Oh Corey, will you help me??? I'm so lost!!!! (link)
Hey well the first thing I would do is try to get a hold of this "guy" since he wasn't man enough to stay.. and let him know the sisuation...and see if hes man enought to accept what might happen... if you need more adive you can im me on my AIM - xXFelker07... hope i helped.... keep me updated on your sisuation....


ok so heres the deal.... i think i like this guy but he is younger than me and i am afraid of what my friends will think. i am also not sure if he even likes me, i mean we talk, but most times he just picks on me. i am not sure if he talks to me because i am someone who he can pick on or not. Should i tell him how i feel or just keep it to myself? (link)
Hey...I think you should just do what you feel whats right. If he really "likes" you he will care and listen to your feelings. Dont worry about your friends... your real friends wont pick on your for your taste in guys.. so i cant tell you when the right time will be.. i think you have to find that inside your self... if you need more advice my AIM is xXFelker07.. you can talk to me there... hope i helped....


What is your take on having sex before marriage? Or just plain old unprotected sex. IF you were faced with having to deal with an unexpected pregancy, how what/how would you go about this? (link)
Hey.. thats a really good question. I dont think you should "have" to wait till your married..but if you think you "love" this person.. they i think it's ok as long as your man or women enough to also deal with the consequences. I know if i had gotten my girfriend pregnent the last thing i would do is run.. i would stay with her and help raise my kid. But i dont think you have to wait till marrage.. but if you dont wait... put a lot of thought into what your about to do before you accually do it...


im not the skinniest person and summer is comming up and im afraid that if i wear a bathing suit that people will think im fat and make fun of me...i am big but i like to go to the pool and stuff too but whenever people see me in a bathing suit they laugh and stare and say look at her celulite is gross...this hurts but should i just stay home all summer or not listen to them...and get hurt?
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Hey don't worry about what other people say... people say stuff about me all the time.. and thats when you find out who your real friends are. Your true friends wont make fun of you...they might joke around but thats a different story...just try not to let them get to you.. i know its hard.. i have to deal with it too...but just be yourself and have fun... dont let other people choice for you how to have your summer vacation... hope i helped...


well umm theres this guy that i really like. but sometimes i worry that im not pretty enough for him. I also worry that he doesnt like me because of that. And i wanna tell him how i feel but im worried that ill scare him away. Im 15 and obviously a girl. What should i do?? (link)
Hey... i think you should just tell him... and if he dont like u more then a friend...at least you 2 can still be friends if hes mature enough....so just tell him how ya feel...and you might date him.. u might just be friends....but at least it will b off your back.... hope i helped..


so..I am really shy when it comes to being around people I don't know, especially at school. A lot of times people mistake my shyness for being snobby and stuck up. They think the reason I am not talking to them is because I think that I am too good for them, but that's not it at all, I just get nervous when I meet new people. There have been so many rumors spread about me and how stuck up I am, but I'm not like that at all. I really am a nice person. I try not to care what some people think about me, but it really hurts when they say things like that, especially when it's not true and they don't even know me. What do you think I should do? (link)
I think you should try to avoid your shyness... if people make fun of you for being "stuck up" because "you don't talk to them" they shouldn't have a problem when you do start talking to them... if they do their just hypocrites... if you need more advice.. IM me on AIM... my screen name is on my xanga site.. xXxHaHaxXx07... hope i helped


I been with this guy like a forever and we just broke up.I am pretty and i am getting so many guys asking me out?How do i know if they are nice guys or just another losser like my ex??
shortiiee (link)
Ha Ha.. I think you should go out with the guy that has been there for you the longest... or which ever guy you trust me most... just follow your heart and everything just might turn out perfect


i like this guy who is kinda fat and ugly but im afraid that if i make a move that my friends with think im gross for liking him....they know he likes me and everytime they see us together they make fun and say mean things...what should i do? (link)
I always say never loose friends over boyfriends/girlfriends... but i also dont think it's right if your friends dont accept your feelings.... soo.. my advice is to follow your heart.. and if your friends are true friends.. they wont care about ur feelings toward this guy... hope i helped if you need more advice IM me on AIM ...


me and my dad dont get along most of the time and he doesnt seem to trust me and i never did anything for him not to trust me how can i make my relationship wit my dad better thanx (link)
Hey ... sry it took soo long to answer I have been bussy.. I think you should try to sit down with your dad and talk to him... i know this is going to b hard cuz my dad wants me to do the same with my mom... it will b hard but it is the only way i can think of that will help you can your dad get along better.. because you guys have to tell each oter how you feel... and ask him why he doesnt trust you... and if he gives you a good reason... then you just have to earn it back... it will take time... but its all worth it in the end... hope i helped .. you can talk to me personally on my screen name... xXFelker07 if you need a lil more advice...


im serious now...they wont go away...they are telling me to do bad things like take over the world and cause precipitation so my teacher wont have to say "yesterdays precipitation was zeroo" help me now now NOW!! (link)
Well... i never had to deal with talking apples or any type of fruit talking to me... but i think you should just try to ignore them.. or try to find the fruit that the apples dont like and listen to them... hope i helped...


ok..so I have liked this guy since around december. He "supposively" liked me too in the beginning..but then he chose another girl over me. When they broke up...he came back to flirting with me...as well as my best friend...which really bothered me. It's like he enjoys toying with my heart. I know that he's using me, but I just can't seem to let him go (if you understand what I'm saying). He claims he cares about me..but if he cares then why has he hurt me so many times...I would just like to know what you would do if you were in my situation.

oh and I am a 15 year old girl

thanks (link)
hey... yea i know how you feel. i have been in that situation too... well...i think you should find the right time to tell him that you like him and tell him everything thats on ur mind.... if you want more answeres you can im me and we can talk.... xXxHaHaxXx07... my sn is on that xanga site... hope i helped


So like oh my gosh.

I like this guy. but i don't know how to tell him that im interested, you know?

hes so amazing and hot.

what do i do?

ps im 15 and a girl..duh (link)
Well i think you should just come out and tell him... because i know I like it when people come right out and tell me... and if he reacts dumb and stuff then hes just imature.... so just tell him when u think your ready to.. and get back to me and let me know how it went... u can find my screen name on my xanga for AIM... xXxHaHaxXx07... Hope i helped ...Good Luck..

Corey


what do you do if you feel like you have become a whore because youve done some bad things in your past? (link)
Hey... I dont think you should call yourself a whore... a lot of people do things that they wish they had not done.. or think they do it too often. As long as you can think that your not a whore thats all that matters... dont worry about what other people think.. trust me i have been called a manwhore b4.. but if you know that it's not true.. then dont worry about it.. I didnt and not people now know the truth...hope this answered your question




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