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Hey yall its me jordan!! :)...if u need any advice dont be shy to ask me im always here to help!! LoVe Ya -Jo Jo-
Gender: Female
Location: texas
Occupation: student
Age: 15
AIM: curlyqt7272
Member Since: August 2, 2004
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Last Update: October 18, 2004
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hey jordan!
how ya been? well i have a BIG problem! i've been going out with this guy for almost 2 months and hes literally obsessive!!! hes always callin me and checking up on me and i'm tired of it! so a couple days ago i started talking to this new guy and he's really cool and i like him hes the opposite of my boyfriend. well last night we were talking on the phone and he told me that if i brake up wit him or play him hes gonna kill the other guy, me and himself! and i dont know what to do i dont wanna be with him but if i break up with him i dont know what he'll do. and hes always saying hes gonna kill himself if i leave him so what do i do jordan i need help! (link)
maybe trying to talk to him will work.. but it dosnt sound like it from what you told me. If that dostn work then i think maybe taking to someone like a counselor or psychatrist wuld help. This is not a blow off matter this is really serious and if you are scared to talk to someone think about how much worse things could get! if you need anything else u can im me at curlyqt7272


ok...so i hav this friend that ive been really close to since elementary school but now she doesnt really talk to me and its kinda pissin me off...wut should i do? (link)
confromt her about it. If you dont say ne thing then you have no reason to be upset! i meen if yall used to be that close then it should be easy for you to talk to her about it. im sure she will be verry sympathetic,, she probably dosnt even know shes hurting you. but good luck i hope everythign gets better


Hey Big booty! 15/m, Well i have a question I'm really attracted to this girl, i mean a had a dream about her that must mean somethin, i think shes attracted to me too ,but she keeps giving me mixed signals when i start to make conversation with her sometimes she smiles at me sometimes she nods like in get away nod im not interested and other small things, maybe its a sign to ask her out already what am i waitin for, i dunno. SOmetimes girls are just complicated. What does that mean? Is she playing hard to get? Should I just ask her out, I mean i don't have anything to loose right. Get back to me! (link)
ASK HER OUT! girls are very hard to understand but let me tell u we feel the same way about yall! but dont wait around to read her signals becasue before you know it shes going to move on! i meen whats the worst she could say no?? im sure she will be thrilled though good luck and wrote4 me back and let me know what happens!!jordan


hi jordan im a 15/f and i have a little problem. ive been sexually active with this older guy. and well all i can say is hes been having alot more fun than me when were together. but ive gotten these wierd bumps on my clitorous. i dont know what to do but im scared to ask him if he has them because if he doesnt then he wont want to be with me anymore. but they itch really bad and i wake up at night because theyre bleeding. can you help me? (link)
well i would say that you need to ask him emideatly!!! I meen hes gonna find out one way or the other and you should think of yourself first! After yout talk to him go to the doctor right away!!!! I hope you get better soon


Hey Jordan, sup? Im 16/m Well i have a problem i guess u can say... well ive been wanting to tell u this for a long time, but i didnt know how to say it, so imma just tell it to you this way and see what you say. see i really like you alot and i wanna ask u out, but i hear u likin some1 else... and i just want to know if i should confront u about it... thanks. (link)
awww that is soo sweet, you shouldnt be shy! well i would love to talk to you butit would be easier if i knew who you are. Im not in a realtionship right now if thats what you were wonderin:) You can IM me at curlyqt7272 and we can chat!ttyl


I havn't seen a family member in a REALLY REALLY long time and I'm afraid that they might be...dying. It's really scary especailly with everything else that is going on with life right now. I can't go see them because i don't have a way to get there and when i talk to them they sound like they are getting worse and worse. Should i keep telling myself this is dumb...or should i realize what is going on around me??? (link)
well i dont think you should forget about it at all! you need to realize that this is the perfect chance to make a differemce in your life and this sick family member. Do whatever you can to let them know you care and that you are there for them, even if you cant go and vist them the thought means alot! This is a hard thing to deal with , but im sure you can do it! the most importnat thing i can say is dotn do anything you will regret!


i married and i think my husband is cheating on me.He did it before but he was really sorry. i think he is still cheating, but i slept with his brother last night, which is really bad i know and my son came in and he is 13 ? what should i do? (link)
WELL.. that sounds liek a big mess. I think that if he is cheating on you and you slept withhis brother the marriage is over. It is very clear that neither one of you are happy in it so why stay? Your son im sur eahs lots of questions, make sure you tal to him about everything! also group therapy or counelsing sounds lieka good plan. Good luck with everyhitng hope it works out.


sup jordan!! its ya boy jaime!! i jus got back from my trip n i see u on but u gots yo away message so i just looked at yo profile n ended up here sumhow... but ne way!! my question is what should i wear da first day of scoo?? (like what colors n what kinna clothin) haha thanx ;) if i can get a respnce befo aug 16 that would be great. THANX!! BYE!! (link)
hey babe! whats goin on?? im glad your back from your trip i hope you had fun!! i missed ya. WELLLL i dunno bout what to wear maybe jeans and a polo! that always sounds good to me.. i cant wait to see you call me so we can meet before school starts. LOVE YA


Jordan-what do you do when there is this one EXTREMELY annoying person that follows you and your friends everywhere and thinks you're their friend and you try to be nice to them but they just get even more clingy and annoying? (link)
well maybe you are giving the person hints that you want to hang out with them even if you dont know you are.. maybe try to introduce them to someone that they would get along with better, and are more welcome with. If this dosnt work then i suggest telling them how you fell... honesty always wins.Besides if you dont then they aree gonan find out sooner or later from soeone else.GOOD LUCK


Hi im 15/m and im having problems with my lawn mower. It keeps breaking down on me in the middle of the job, and im leaving lawns half-cut because of this. I was wondering if u could give me some instructions on fixing my lawn mower or give me some other ideas on how i could get a new one. Thanks a lot (link)
well if your lawnmower is breaking down i would suggest you buy a new one... you could do other things around the nebighborhood to make money until you have eough to fix yours or buy a new one. Or maybe you could work out a deal with the peoples lawns you cut that you use their lawnmowers if they have one! good luck


Hey im 15/m and the other day i was walking home and this space ship landed right infront of my way and this alien came out and invited me in. I went in and he was having a party and there was some other humans he had invited and we were all jsut getting high. But now im stuck in this space ship and in outer space, and i need help getting back home. I was wondering if u could some how tell the police that im stuck in space and ask them to tell NASA to send an emergency astronaut up here to save me and the other humans from these pot head aliens. Thanks a lot. (link)
lol the onlything i can say is that maybe you are doing some pot up there yourself... you know drugs are bad for you and can make you se things! thats all i can tell you i hope you get hom safe.


Hey Jordie okie dokie i have a BIg problem!! Well yah see i have this guy that i have been liking forr a longgg time buti think he knows i like him but i dont know i have his friends say he is just using you and then his other friends say he really likes you bur he wants you to ask him out but see know when i see him all we ever do is make out but now i have meant a guy that is older than me and he really likes me cause he told me and he said that he wants us to bf and gf soon now the thing is i dont what to do i am soo confused?! i am a female /15 (link)
well babe... u dont wanna try and get with the first guys if u dont know for sure if he likes u unless he tells u himself ..otherwise him liking u or not liking u culd be just rumors...now the older guy tells u he likes u and wants to be with u so personally i wuld go for him...but the thing is im not u and u need to follow ur heart on who u like the most and just stick with that person because u dont wanna be with someone if ur still thinking about that other person..just see who u like most and stick with that..dont lead ne of them on because that culd make situations worse...hope i helped :)..rate plz!


hi i know what im about to say is reallly wrong!!! but i have to tell someone!!...well im a 13/f and i had sex with my step brother when our parents werent home...i mean they just got married so i didnt think it mattered....is this wrong and what shuld i do about it??? thanks (link)
well... i meen it is wrong if you think about it and i dont know if i would continue this behavior with someone who is now apart of your family.. it could make things harder on people around you and probably isnt good for you as a person! im sure you are great girl and can get other guys that arnt apart of your family... if you felt presurred into doing this and you feel like this might turn in to a repeated thing that you cant get out of even if you wanted to then you should let someone know emediatly who can help you!! good luck!!




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