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Q: well..im in love wit my best friend and i have been for ever man,BUT i dont wanna ruin the frendship,bc i love him so much.the thing is he juss got hit by a car and i dont rle wanna bring up the fact that i like/love him.i mean its completly wrong timin,but the fact that he got hit by a car and is BADLY hurt,im tlkin bout he broke his skull..literally..juss da fact i may lose him scares me and he wont kno how i feel..wut shud i do:-\

hmm...if i were you id juss b there for him n show him that you love him...you dont exactly have to tell him yet,juss wait till the timing is right...i mean actions speak louder than words...

Q: ok thats not a good subject...but o well lol. OK heres the deal...i got this friend and she flirts..ALOT...LIKE CRAZY!! even when she says she supposdly "likes someone"! she flirts w/ other guys EVEN othen pppls crushes and boyfriends..and tends 2 lead on this one boy AUSTIN TUELL cough cough.mayb its unintentional but.. iunno its very frustrating.. but im nervous 2 confront her. and besides, i doubt she would care because my other friends have already tried talking to her. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?! PLEASE HELP ME...

mayb you should just talk to her.. if it bothers you that much then you shouldnt just sit back and watch.. shes ur friend tho so dont come on to strong.. juss b like .. 'we need to talk" and try not to confont her with a lot of ppl around or with a strong tone, that will just push her away...if you do that and that still doesnt work..there is sum things that you havta learn on your own...mayb thats tha case now...so be patient with her...i hope i helped..

Q: ok....well my love life has pretty much gone down hill!!!i like had a great love life(kinda 2 me)and now its gone down hill.....and i think its pretty much gonna kepp goin....especially since we are goin into high skool and der are soooo many pretty gurls goin and i unno im not da prettiest one of muh bunch... and i think none of da guys r gonna wanna rele flirt or go out wit me....cuz i mean seriously... wat would a guy rather have a kinda pretty gurl... or a rele rele pretty gurl i mean seriously i unno...help....please!!!

i kno how u feel...but dont worry about it...first off..if a guy only likes you cuz of ur looks den u prolley dun want him n e wayz...since i know you tho n i kno that you are pretty n if i were u...i wouldnt worry bout it too much..i kno plenty of guys will want u...n if they dont u always got me;-) haha wow...i lu gurl n if u eva need n e thin..like 2 talk 1 on 1 juss call me...u got tha digits

Q: i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o

i kno this is none of muh buisness.. but PLZ dont kill a innocent life.. is there any other thing you could do?

Q: im having a sleepover and i need a theme.there will be 3 girls there and we r 14 so plz help wiv sum good themes i rate well

mayb liek a day at da spa? n u can do manicures n pedicures n makeovers..

Q: OK, well I've gone out with a guy multiple times, and he broke up with me one time. The last time we broke up we both decided to try to get a little comfortable around eachother..but the thing is..i really love him..and i mean REALLY love him. He is pretty much obsessed with me, it's just the communication when we're face to face that has a little problem. And that's it. But I really love him, and do you think it would be wrong to go out with him another time? Don't say "omg you went out with him a lot don't go out with him anymore" cuz that's not what I want to here. If it's what you're going to say, don't bother saying it. You can IM me on pinkxbaby 09 if you wanna talk about this more too..

i say give it a try.. whats the worse that could happen.. theres obviosly sumthin that keeps bringin yall together again.. mayb yall will learn frum ur mistakes n make it last longer this tyme.. wont kno till ya try....

Q: ok well.. there's this guy n we've had a relationship before.. well actually MANY relationships together.. n ya see he's really not tha best guy to be in a relationship with.. not the hottest guy, not tha funniest guy, not tha smartest guy, but he jus seems like tha perfect guy for me.. after everything he's put me thru=/ n no matter how much my friends tell me he's an asshole or how i deserve s0o much better.. i can't seem to get him outta my head.. much less my heart =[ and i KNOW i can do better and i KNOW i deserve better. but for some reason i dont want better.. i want HIM. and i know he's broken my heart too many times.. but i keep going back. and there's guys that say they like me, but i have hard times trusting guys n people in general now.. but NO MATTER WUT i do.. i always find myself falling for him.. over n over n over again. yea maybe i love him. who knows. but w/e it is. it feels good, but hurts at tha same time.. and i think that if he wants 2 be with me, i'm going to let him, i think i need "closure" on our relationship if he breaks mii heart one more time. but i'm just scared mii friends will hate me. hmm. i wonder who this is about.. haha.. well.. help me please =D.. i love yall!! «3..oh yea.. tha tips at tha bottom say to leave mii age n gender.. haha.. well.. 14 and FEMALE! wut wut... yea ok.. im done now =]

if i were you.. id just keep an open mind and not just think hes the only guy for you.. ur going to high school.. just think of how many sweeter, nicer, sexier guys r gunne b there.. im not saying that ur guaranteed a man.. im just saying to keep an open mind.. but after u go to highschool and u styll think that hes da guy for you, then go for it,if u think the getting hurt is worth it. and even if ur friends dont like or agree with your decision, im shure they'll suport it.. most of them are probably just afraid of seeing u get hurt again... i hope we helped..

Q: there is dis grl i lik n i tlk to her alot n wut not but shes goin into a higher grade den me so i think she dosent lik wana go out wit me n i still lik her tho so i unno wut to do so can u help me

I know its not much...but I think the best thing would be to wait till next year when you guys are going to the same school...i mean if u still wanna go out this year it could happen...but u know im a strong believer in fate....whatever was meant to happen, will happen

Q: ok well theres this guy i like..but hes kind of a player. his away messages r always like ohh kayla call me or fone w/ sum1 special. nd my friend has told me that he likes me...and he calls me nd everything. but sometines it just dusnt seem like it. shuld i tell him i like him?-how do u come about the topic if so?