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how does a girl masterbate and what does it do? (link)
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How does one masterbate:
It's simple. Allow yourself to do all of this, WHEN YOU ARE READY. if you don't feel comfortable with touching yourself anywhere near you clit, or vagina, then don't do it.
Now:
Allow yourself to become within the mood, allow your body to feel the urge of wanting this. When your ready you can ither use you fingers, to both play witht eh clit or insert it into you vagina for both stimulation or fun purposes, OR you can use toys. Theres no real trick to it. If your massageing the clit you can go fast or slow in a circular motion, allowing the sensation to be quick or lustful. If you are fingering yourself, which is inserting your fingers into you vagina, then you can go fast or slow, ither way you haveing a good time. Masterbation is basically all about self satisfaction, if you enjoy it im sure you'll continue to do it.
Warning:
If you do decide to do this alone, then be aware of who's around. Control the volume of your voice and your actions. If your with a partner/lover then why not get them to do a thing for you, instead of you playing with yourself allow him to sitimulate you by licking and eating you out.
Just be aware that if you don't feel comfortable, don't pressure yourself into it. Don't allow others to pressure you into it, because it might feel good but afterwards you'll feel very insecure about things. Masterbation AND sex are both about feeling ready, nothing should be forced upon you when you feel insecure about it.
I'm 18 and I still haven't done both, because i don't feel ready to. You could be 20 or 40 and still have not done both. Take you time with your decisions, because forcing the body to do things makes you feel worse about yourself.
Safe sex! keep it in mind.
The pill is a good way to be 99% protected, but not against STD'S, so use the condom to help that AND keep you more protect. Sex is something that should be enjoyed, so if your forced into it then walk away from it, sex is more about the woman being ready.
Remember sex is somethin that is passionate and full of emotions, allow yourself to do this with someone you love, IT MAY FEEL GOOD BUT! if your being used for it then escape it. No one should be used for such a thing.
Be safe. Take Care. And Please Don't Rush Yourself.
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