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Hey guys. I'm 14 years old and I am here to help those of you in need. I enjoy giving out advice. I've been through a lot, and I made it through pretty well with minor problems. I'm a straight A student..so far, and at least in middle school..and in 6th grade I got straight A+'s. I can be "lupi" so my nickname is Lupi, also considering my last name starts with it.
Well, people. What are you waiting for? Give me some questions!

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hey !! heres the deali-0. one of my really good friends (( 8th grade one year younger ))likes my brother (( 9TH GRADE BUT ONE YEAR OLDER )) and always wants to come over to sEe him. then she asked to play truth or dare with him, so we did. she asked me to dare her to make out with him =x of course ... he didnt like her but he knows she has done stuff with guys before like (( sex, blows ect. )) so he goes for it ... just as they begin i run out and they do it anyways .. now shes UBSESSED with him and wont let anyone else have him and idk how im feeling about this whole situation ... should i be mad or happy ??
Signed,
*s-p-l-i-t*

Well, if i was in your place, i'd feel used. Your friend wants to see your brother. You shouyld offer to stay at her house for a while, and tell your brother if your closer to him, how you're feeling. Tell him anyway. Most of my friends like my brother, so when they come over, i make sure he's not home., That might work too. And if she makes up an excuse to go home, maybe she wasnt as good a friend as you thought.

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hey lupi so my friend, she always likes to blame stuff on other ppl and its getting really anoying and its pissing me off

what do i dooooooo? :(

You gotta step up to her. If you saw what happened, tell your side of the story. If others know she blames stuff on other people, then they will most likely believe you.

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ok i like rocco n i told my frend that but she still went off and and went to seabreeze with him and my friend saw them holding hands! and this is like my good friend here and now i thin kthe y are going out!! it stinks cuz irele liek him alot!so what should i do about this?

Hey
Ok, like..
You shouldn't be mad at rocco, cause if you are, it's not his fault. You shouldn't really be mad at your friend, but i would be if she did that. But what i would do, is tell rocco your feelings for him. Tell yer friend how bad you got hurt when she did that to you. I really hope i helped

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hi im frum cali and i found YOUR site wen i serched nd im just gona ask a questin

k i hav dis friend nd she thinks were relly good friedns but i dont relly lyk her da way she lyks me BECAUSE she thinks we bffz and i onli lyk her as barly a friend nd she thinks i lyk luv her but i dont nd we go 2 dif skools so we dont c eachotha very much nemore nd she exskepts me 2 always talk 2 her online nd stuff nd sumtimes she gits relly annoyin but i dont want 2 make her fell bad by bein meen so i just put up wit it but its so annoyin now wut i meen nd i just feel lyk blockin her but she haz lyk 723487298 sns nd she wud feel sooo bad if i wuz meen to her nd neways our fams think we lyk so tight but i dun think so
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE hlp me bc she iz getin sooo annoiyn thx

Hey.
Ok, like, you don't wanna crush the girl's feelings so be like "hey, can we talk? i think it'd be best if we had a break from each other. I'm really sorry, but i have to get new friends, and i'm sure you'd agree with me when i say we should"

I haven't really been in the siguation, so sorry if i didnt help much.

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Hello Stacey. im rele bored. so i got si,thing for ya. (oh this it Paige.) ok well theres these 2 guys n they both rele lik me n i lik them to. but im rele good friends wit both of um n i dont wanna hurt either of there feelins by goin out wit one of them. n this has been goin on for a rele long time well to me it seam lik for ever lol. but its been all summer. GODD so wut shall i do?

Hey Hun.
You should tell them you need a break from them. Tell them you want to meet new people. You don't want people fighting over. It sucks when that happens and it makes matters worse. Therefore, you shoudl tell 'em both you just want to be friends with them, and if something changes over the next year, then tell them. Like I said, having guys fight over you isn't good at all. Hope I helped

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I am going out with Someone and sometymes I am not sure if i like hym but other tymes i am juss so in luv with hym. I know i would regret breking up with hym b cuz i already did once.. and i hated it! But i feel like i am hateing this relationship and sometymes. What do I do?

--Helplessley Devoted

You should maybe talk to him. Maybe you should get a little time off with him, try seeing other people. Tell him you're not sure if you're up to a relationship with him. You can still be good friends with him.
I hope I helped.
I've been in that siguation before. I hate how it feels. You don't know what to do. But I talked to him about it. Talking things out really helped and we stayed friends.

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ok i told mi bf i was only gonna have a bf when skool starts but i lied and if he finds out i'm gettin a bf i'd be dead wut do i do stacey help me!!!! haha


from the koolest person u'll ever meet

nicole ur cousin kinda

Ok, hey. You should talk to your boyfriend. say you've changed your mind. i've never been in that kind of a siguation, so i'd say just talk to him.

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