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Website: Penguins Rock
Gender: Female
Location: SOUTH FLORIDA BABii!!!
Occupation: student
Age: 14
Member Since: July 17, 2007
Answers: 14
Last Update: September 16, 2007
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How do you prounonce Aeropostale? Everyone says it differently...

Thanks (14/f) (link)
say it AIR-ROh-PAW-STULL ..but your rite because its the same but like other ppl pronounce it AIR-ROh-PAW-STAL
first one is rite..i asked someone that worked there


i have only kissed 1 boy, and im scared im a bad kisser. how do i know if im a bad kisser? how can i get better? (link)
well..you could ask one of ur guy friends to be more than friends aka friends with benifits..and he could give you honest feedback..i mean you guys still are friends right..?
plus heres a webiste
http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Out

or just google tips on how to kiss


to get tapeworm from a cat? (link)
i dont believe so unless you eat the cat..and ur body is digesting it


I'm turning 16 and I don't know what to ask for for my birthday presents!
Ah help, nothing too expensive, but tell me what you all want. I dont know what I want, I already have a cell phone, digital camera & laptop btw. (link)
shopping spree at a nice store like coach or juicy...but not over the top like $1000...maybe like $150...or you could ask for..

*tickets to a concert
*a nice party with your friends at a resteraunt or something
*jewelry...tifanny maybe?
*a tv
*this is sorta lame but a game system like the Wii
*go into a store like The Sharper Image or Brookstones and look around to see if you like a particular item
*or go in the mall one day and just look around and see if you like anything in a certain store then ask your parents to buy it for your birthday


Okay well me and this guy have macs so we flashed each other online three times now. and i dont no if he is just using me because i think i like him now....we have talked about having sex...but i dont no. what should i do? (link)
okay well..first off if you've never met this guy before and you just met him online...then i know you heard this 1000 times..but you're gonna hear it 1001 times now...IT'S DANGEROUS TO MEET UP WITH A GUY YOU MET ONLINE!!!!
NOw...if you met him before and you guys talk online to k.i.t. thats a different story... You got to ask yourself questions like

*Do i like him just becuase im getting attention from him?
*Would i really want to risk the chance of becoming pregnant with this dude's baby?
*Can i trust him enough..? [with guys these days...a lot of them are just interested in sex & a lot of guys are retards and video tape your little "session" and put it online and that will ruin your life, and other girls have had this happened to them]
*WHy do you like him, personality...?Looks? If he was ugly...would i still like him?
*What are some reasons he would use you?
*PUt yourself in his position

Just think of pros and cons...In my personal opinion..i dont think you should..because the risks are high..this all leads back to AIDS and STDs...sorry that i sound like the commercials but its true... However, if you strongly feel that you are attracted this guy and wish to pursue things to go futher...i cant hold you back
Hope i helped!


new music please onlyy new songs (link)
stronger-kanye west
nD baby bash feat. t-pain-cylcone


what happenes if you finger yourself in the pool? (link)
this was in cosmopolitan a while back. Nothing is gonna happen. Pretty sure you wont get chlorine washeup up in there..i mean people have sex in oceans and pools...and the women end up fine and okay. You're not the only person whose done it or thought of doing it. And trust me...nothing on CNN has popped up about a person dying from fingering themselves in pool mkay? =]


if i keep on puttin in a tampon and takin them out will anthin happen to the vagina wall

will it scrape the vagina wall when im takin it out if im using a light or regular tampon

ill rate high (link)
no, becuase in the little pamphlet thing that is included in the box, it goes "if you have problems putting it on, take it out and try again" or something like that..I'm sure that the tampon maker people would think of a situation like yours before manufacturing millions of these things and sending them out. They're made so that they wont damage anything


does anyone know a song about a girl who loves this guy but they live far away from eachother? (link)
the song by Nickelback its called "Far Away" it goes somthing like "Far away. far away for far too long. i miss you..i miss you all along..." its supposed to be about liking ur ex again but it can go for your situation too i guess


well, i got my braces off the other day :]]], ive had them on for like 6 years. and my teeth are pretty discolored. to fix it, should i use teeth whitener? because ive heard it ruins the enemal in your teeth and such. so is it worth it? and dont say things like, "do lazer whitening" cause i think thats expensive isnt it? and if i do use teeth whitener, should i buy it in strips? or by a tube? THANKSS (link)
okay..well i bought oral-b teeth whitining strips when i was like 12..and they worked..but it made my teeth sensitive a bit. Look on labels to see how the tooth whitner works..it should say in the instructions that it doesnt strip away your enamel..but some tooth whitners do. As long as you dont use it for a long period of time like a month you should be okay. If i were you i would buy strips which are about $20-$30, and they're easy to use and you see results in about 2 weeks. Follow up by using a whitning tooth paste. The ZOOM whitning at your dentist is about $500..which is not worth it unless your smile is the color of mud. Try swishing ur mouth out with the pre-whitning rinse from listerine its about 5 dollars. for a big container. and this doesnt do much but eating strawberries activiates something in your mout and it helps whiten teeth i heard.


i dunno if im in the right catagory or not, but im turning 13 in october and we kinda wanna do something big for it, but i don tknow what to do!

anyone please help i wanna have a lot of fun there, and i dont know what to do!!

i like a lot of things, so im open to any sugestions :]


thankss =] (link)
i've been there done that...i have soo many party ideas that turned out awesome when i threw them:

for my 13th party i went to this ice-cream parlor and ordered the "kitchen sink" for me & my friends which is like this HUGE thing of ice-cream...google and see if they have anything like that near you.....for my other party i had a luau which is like a hawaiin themed thing and it was on the beach...i had tiki torhces and all this tropical decor

or you could hire a dj for a few hours and rent a venue and have a dance party like a mini "super-sweet-16" or....


you could do a murder mystery party...

hope i helped a bit!


13/f

I used to date a guy, Jeremy, he broke up with me three days after we dated. He said it hurt him too much cuz we went to different skools and it hurt him to stay away from me. Well, I kinda got mad at him. My friend, Alex, is his step sister and she called me the other day. Jeremy asked to talk to me. He asked if I were mad at him. I almost cried when I heard his voice. I miss him so much, but he probably won't date me anymore, especially since he moved to Indiana. I need advice on how to handle this and if I should ask him out again. Plz reply ASAP! (link)
Just imagine for a second if you could handle a long distance relationship. You won't be able to talk to him 24/7..and you maybe even for long periods of time. IF you think you are ready to take on this, then consider it.
Obviously he still cares about you if he wanted to know if you were mad at him.

I don't understand why you're so attached after 3 days though. However, before you think about even going out again, talk to him and see his perspective on your old relationship before pursuing deeper questions such as "do you still have feelings for me"

It would be tough though on annverseries, not being able to see him if you live far from Indiana.

If it's a deffinate no then i would try to move on though i know it would be hard for you. But k.i.t with him everyday deffinately will make you miss him more


ok my guy friend had the yankees hat that he adored. then he lost it. he was sad and i want to find him the same yankees hat to make him feel better. it was white and had a red N and a blue Y. it wasn't one of those little flimsy ones either. i dont know where to find it, i have check every hat store in my area. any help would be appreciated.
x0x0 E (link)
Okay well in malls and some special stores, you could buy a white baseball cap, and have it customed made with the NY symbol and in any color(s) that you want. They have it at the mall i go to and it costs about $12-$18 to have it custom done.


i mean like tons of years ago, when God made people, he made Adam and Eve. Then they had children, who had children with their.. siblings (is that right? i mean nobody else was around.. or was incest okay then?) who had children with THEIR siblings, and so on. so then after tons of years it comes to today.. does that mean that Adam and Eve our are like great great great (etc) grandparents? cause then like everyone in the entire world is related, am i correct? but that confuses me.. because some people say that we all evolved from monkeys. i kinda believe it but i kinda dont, since i am a christian and i believe that God and Jesus are real. I mean the entire universe must have started from something.. however i dont understand where God came from. Who made God? can you put the answers in simpler forms, too? i am a 13 year old girl.. i read like some children bibles, but the big bible confuses me.. and i dont go to church very often cause we barely have time to in my family with a little baby, my mom who works at night, my dad whos starting a business in a different state.. so yeah. i really want to though, and i pray and thank god when i can. (usually before i go to bed) anyways thanks for answering my kinda long question.

PS. i have one more question. where did Satan come from? did god create satan? can you explain to me all that happened with that? and i know that jesus like was born in bethlehem to mary, then later was put on the cross, then went to heaven then came back. so doesnt anyone like know what heaven is like? why didnt they ask jesus what it was like and stuff like that? and how did jesus die the second time? and where exactly is heaven and hell? i hear its on earth according to my mom, like they are the spirits living among us. its just kinda hard to grasp (link)
Ok the person below me is a little crazy..

I'm Chrstian, and I go try to go to church every Sunday which i normally do.
WE ARE NOT EVOLVED FROM APES!!!
Adam & Eve DID exist..Don't call the Bible a liar!! thank you very much =]]

Satan aka Lucifer [in the bible] used to be the highest angel, but vanity and greed took him over and he got cast out of heaven with 1/3 of all angels who followed him.

So God did create Satan but he used to be good.
ANd of course people ask what heaven is like.wouldn't you?

Anywho, so i forgot the man's name but he had 13 sons..only one was good and his name was John I believe. One of the sons was the person who began to build Babyl. WHen God made the workers builidng Babyly speak different languages they went they're own seperate ways and...anywho basically YES WE ARE ALL RELATED!!!!!!

Everything i'm saying is true...I read the Bible and teen versions of it. I wouldn't lie to you.
and Jesus is going to come again in the future. Just as long as you believe he's the son of God, died for your sins, and repent. you'll be saved! =] Then you won't have to ask what Heaven is like because you'll be living in it! God Bless
and by the way, i'm 14
peace yo x0x




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