Member Since: July 13, 2005 Answers: 1 Last Update: July 13, 2005 Visitors: 334
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Well, my bestfriend and i have been best friends for 8 years *I'm going to be a junior* and we've been tennis doubles partners since 8th grade. This summer she's been slacking off and I've been working out everyday. I play tennis atleast 3x a week but i'm starting to play more, and the days i'm not playing i'm reading a book on it or running! I really want to get better and I'm working really hard. But she really isn't. She's played tennis 3x this entire summer! Sometimes she skips tennis practice for work *understandable but she's just afraid to ask to get off an hour early even though she's done it once before and they were fine with it*, but tomorrow she's missing it for a party for some girl she just met! And practice are over at 7- and i doubt the party is even started by then. My friend, who's a year younger then me but also is working hard this year has asked me to be her doubles partner for a tournament coming up. I was like heck yes! I really would rather play with her because I know we'd do really well and my other friend isn't even trying! What to do? (link)
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talk to your best friend. she deserves to know how you feel. but, she really shouldnt be blowing you off.but you also have to understand there are other things in her life other then you and tennis. still,talk to her about it. also,if ur really aimed to win in the tournament go with the partner that asked you to work with her. your best friend should also understand why you have to do this. so,next time you see her pull her over and say we need to talk....then sort things out. hope i can help. tell me how things work out.
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